How To Have A Sexually Satisfied Girlfriend

 

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What are the common characteristics of sexually satisfied women? What can you do to give her maximum sexual pleasure? Read on.

 

The Common Traits Of Women Who Have A Happy Sex Life

 

(1)   She has a high sexual appetite

 

The meaning of sex to a woman is more than just intercourse. When a woman craves for more sex, what she actually wants is to feel loved. One of the ways to make her feel wanted is to tell her she is hot, sexy, and gorgeous and that you cannot wait to be alone with her and mean it. Another way is to pay attention to her needs and work to satisfy most of her needs.

 

(2)   She feels she is a sexy woman

 

Satisfied women are sexually confident of themselves. They believe their partners find them extremely sexy. How to boost her confidence? The first thing to do is not to criticize her appearance. A woman will not feel sexy and comfortable enough to show you her body if she is worried that you think she is fat, ugly or plump. A woman can even get turn on without you touching her if she gets your sincere compliment.

 

(3)   She is honest about what she wants

 

A woman who is both confident and comfortable to ask for what she wants in bed has higher chances of having orgasm. Therefore you should encourage her to be open in talking about sex in non-sexual situations. In addition to this, watch out for her non-verbal cues. For example, if she keeps touching you gently, you can be sure she wants you to do the same to her.

 

(4)   Her main objective is pleasure

 

You may not believe this – a woman does not need to achieve orgasm in order for her to feel sexually satisfied. All she wants is pleasure from sex. Therefore you should not put too much pressure on her and yourself during your intimate moments with her. The more relaxed you are, the greater will be the chances of her having orgasm. The more you try to focus on orgasm, the more you are not likely to make a woman climax. Instead you just focus on deriving pleasure from the whole lovemaking process.

 

(5)   She does not care much about your size

 

Only 7% of sexually satisfied women believe penis size is critical to their pleasure. Indeed a woman can get orgasm even without penetration by stimulating her clitoris through oral sex and masturbation. She cares more about your passion and sexual chemistry with her.

How Do You Please Her Sexually

 

(1)   Be flexible

 

Predictability breeds boredom. If you keep doing the same thing on her she will be less sensitive to your stimulation as time goes on. Experiment and retrace your steps, so that instead of focusing on one particular spot, you can explore some nearby areas regularly. Ask her to give you some signals or get her hand to rest on your hand to guide you on where she wants to be touched. Or, you can get her to squeeze you. For example, if she wants you to apply greater pressure on a particular spot, she can squeeze you harder.

 

(2)   Let her fantasize

 

It is only when a woman’s mind is clear of any fears or worries that she can orgasm easily. Fantasy is a way to distract a woman from any fears. Therefore, encourage her mind to wander into fantasy before going into action. You can whisper provocative words to each other in turn, building an erotic fantasy she can get lost in.

 

(3)   Let her take charge

 

In order to have a better understanding of what is best for her, let her control the pace and intensity of action. Encourage her to be on top so that she can have more choices of positions (facing you, facing away, sitting cross-legged on you) to use at her free will.

 

(4)   Pay attention to her clitoris

 

The clitoris is where most of the stimulation should be applied in order to get her off. Most of the nerve endings that give her that awesome sensation of climax are located in this area. If it is being neglected, it will be difficult for her to achieve orgasm. Performing oral sex is one of the safest bets to get her reach orgasm.

 

(5)   Pleasure her u-spot

 

The u-spot is an erogenous zone located between the clitoris and the vaginal opening that can give a woman an unexpected and highly erotic response when stimulated correctly. When you are using fingers to stimulate the u-spot, simply slip your fingers (the 3rd and 4th fingers) gently above the clitoris, at the opening of the vagina. Massage the u-spot by varying your finger motion horizontally and vertically. The best way is to put saliva on your finger tips before stroking it. Saliva allows your fingers to glide on the u-spot and maximizes her chances of having orgasm.

 

(6)   On and off

 

When she is near climax, you stop stimulating her sensitive spot for about 5 to 10 minutes and during this lull period, you can kiss her and move to other parts of her body. Then you go back to pleasuring her hot spot again. You can repeat this a few times. This on and off motion can increase her sexual arousal a lot.

 

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