Hello ladies, if you are looking for ways to improve your oral skills to give pleasure to your man, the following oral sex tips will be of great help for you to work on.
(1) Maintaining visual contact
Keeping eye contact helps to maintain connection with your partner. If through your eyes you can show him how much you like what you are doing in pleasing him orally, this can arouse him a great deal.
(2) Getting creative with your tongue
You can change the shape of your tongue in stimulating him in order to give him different sensations. A tongue that is wide and flat feels very different as compared to one that is curled up, or rolled into a tube. The side edge of your tongue, the tip, the flat part in the middle of your tongue, each of these parts gives different kinds of sensation to him. He will especially feel the difference when your tongue is in contact with his frenulum, scrotum or certain spots on the shaft of his genitals.
(3) Do not neglect his scrotum
The scrotum is a highly sensitive spot you should not leave out when giving him oral sex. You can either gently tap or massage his scrotum with the pads of your fingers. You can also make a circle with your thumb and index finger and grab the scrotum at the point where it meets the penis and gently pull at it.
(4) Pressing on his perineum
The perineum is the area between the scrotum and anus. Depending on some men’s preference, some of them find it very enjoyable when you use your fingers to apply a bit of pressure in the middle of this area.
(5) Giving him pleasure through sucking
Sucking the male organ with just the tip of it or when the tip and some part of the shaft is in your mouth can be a very highly pleasurable experience to your partner. This is because the sucking action can draw even more blood into his genitals.
(6) Working on his anus
The anus is filled with nerve endings and is therefore very sensitive to your stimulation. When giving him oral sex, you can increase the level of pleasure by using your finger to gently massage the outside of the anus. The sensation on him will be unforgettable if you can combine this with the sucking action as mentioned in the previous point.
(7) Getting feedback on his preference
Some men may like a bit of rough handling of his “little brother” such as using your teeth on certain areas of it. Both the tip and shaft of the penis, when properly lubricated can take in a fair amount of friction and squeezing. When it comes to scrotum, it is best not to apply direct pressure on his testicles. You have to get his feedback to find out how much rough handling he can take it when giving him oral sex.
(8) The use of sex toys
When you are busily masturbating him with your mouth, you can use a vibrator to provide some external stimulation on the middle part of the perineum and/or the outside of the anus.
(9) Spicing things up
What if you are feeling a bit lazy at times but do not want to disappoint your man? In this case, you can choose to lie on your back. You then ask your partner to adopt the doggie position and he positions his genitals directly over your mouth. With this position, you can still give your man a good blowjob even if you are lack of energy.
To make having sex mutually fun, you can adopt the 69 position, whereby both of you face each other’s genitals. With this position, both of you can give oral sex to each other.