8 Reasons Why Sex Toys Are A Healthy Option



More Fun For Your Sex Life Is Just Only A Click Away From HERE!


Sex toys are something that more and more women and couples are using, and while no one can deny that they’re fun, did you know that they could also be good for your health?


Here, we take a look at eight reasons why sex toys are a healthy option.


There’s no risk of STIs


When you’re using a sex toy on you own, there’s no chance of catching any sexually transmitted infections. In this respect, it’s the safest sexually activity that you can ever engage in. Of course, if you plan to use items such as vibrators with a partner, you should always take suitable precautions to protect yourself from infections.


There’s no risk of unwanted pregnancy


If you aren’t wishing to start a family any time soon but still want to experiment sexually, a sex toy is the most effective solution that you could possible find. You can have as much fun as you like, without having to worry about any unplanned pregnancies.


There are plenty of cleaning accessories available


It’s wise to clean your sex toys after each use for obvious reasons, but with the amount of products available on the market, this is a quick and easy process. Invest in some of the handy wipes that are available, or just use hot soapy water.


They allow you to explore your own boundaries


It takes a lot of confidence to express exactly what you want in a relationship, but when you’re using sex toys, you can explore your own boundaries without any pressure or fear.


More orgasms = a happier you


If you aren’t in a relationship at the moment, it doesn’t mean that you have to go without orgasms. In fact, using sex toys can improve your mood and lead to an overall improvement in your wellbeing.


You can use them as often as you like


There are no limits to how often you can use your sex toys, and they’re suitable for use at any age throughout adulthood. If you have a high sex drive, this can be a great way to ensure that you’re satisfied.


They can boost your confidence


Getting to know your own body and what you enjoy in the bedroom by using sex toys can vastly improve your confidence when it comes to finding a sexual partner. After all, if you don’t know your own body, how can you expect someone else to? Sex toy users are likely to be much more confident when it comes to relations with other people.


They can add spark to your relationship


If your relationship is starting to lack spark, why not introduce sex toys? Many couples use them to add variety, and there are different options that will suit all tastes and levels of experimentation.



As you can see, there are many benefits of using sex toys. If you haven’t already given them a go, it’s well worth considering it. What have you got to lose? With many retailers offering a discrete online service that delivers directly to your day, there has never been an easier way to buy.



This article was brought to you by Ruth Richards on behalf of The Romance Shop. As Australia’s number one online sex store, it sells a wide range of high quality products for spicing up your sex life.  


How to Use a G Spot Vibrator

Enhanced by Zemanta



Tried and Tested Ways to Liven Up Your Sex Life


When people participate in a team sport but maybe don’t get the desired result, it is often said that ‘it’s the taking part the counts’ and this can also be true of sex too.  It is sometimes not the fireworks and explosions you want it to be but you are never going to achieve this unless you put in the groundwork with your partner and yourself.


Be the ultimate horizontal hustler with these easy tips to liven up your sex life and ensure you achieve that ground shaking, all-consuming orgasm you rightfully deserve.



First things first, whilst it’s a given that most men masturbate and know what turns them on, self-pleasure is a much more taboo when it comes to us ladies.  Maybe it’s because it is a lot more intimate (literally!) seeing as our sexual parts are inside our body so it really means stripping back the boundaries, letting go and getting to know yourself.  In order to have a loving and sexually fulfilling relationship, you need to know how to turn yourself on first.  How can anyone satisfy your needs if you don’t know what it is your enjoy first.


Forget about any stigma that you think is attached to masturbation.  The sex industry is a buzzing industry (excuse the pun!). Think of all the sex toys, lingerie, condoms, lubricants…I could go on.  If no one was ‘doing it’ so much, there would not be all of these products available on the market and the world’s population would not be at such a record high.


Designer Sex Toy

For many females, the thought of touching yourself so intimately seems unhygienic whilst for those of you with long nails, there is the fear of lacerating your labia – definitely not a turn on! Designer sex toys do away with any of those hesitancies.  If touching yourself doesn’t appeal, the best advice I would give here for anyone having doubts is to go for it, it’s your body, it’s your life so take charge of your own sexual destiny and invest in a designer sex toy.



There is such a wide range of products with stunning designs, made from high quality materials which are safe to be inserted inside the body.  There are ergonomically and aesthetically pleasing toys, eco-friendly options among others – there really is something for everyone.


With so many rechargeable varieties available, you can make your designer sex toy a wise investment as you will be saving the pennies on not having to buy batteries, which has definitely discouraged me from purchasing certain toys.


It’s always nice to feel good about how you look and everyone likes to feel sexy so invest in some nice lingerie and no, that doesn’t mean nipping down to Primark.  Invest in yourself.  Buy something beautiful, of superior quality which won’t break the bank but with a pricetag which reflects its excellence.


If you are looking for lingerie which is tasteful, elegant and oozes luxury but is not mainstream, then the Baci Lingerie Collection from Madame Liberty features a number of stunning, sexy designs including bikini styles, brassieres, catsuits, negligees, panties, sexy dresses and much more.  Inject some fun into your bedroom antics with this effortlessly provocative range which comes in a wide assortment of colours.











If you want to go a step further, then you could always play dress up with your man and fulfill each other’s fantasies that way…take comfort in the fact that all is not lost and if you need a boost in the bedroom, there are ample ways to liven up your sexual antics.


All images in this article are copyright and courtesy of Madame Liberty

It was ‘an honour to be nominated by such a legendary organization in the adult industry’.


Author Bio: Rebecca is a frisky, modern lady who oozes sexual prowess.  She frequently writes about fun and exciting ways to liven up our sex lives.

Enhanced by Zemanta

How To Get And Use Sex Toys For Beginners




If you have never used sex toys you may find them intimidating. This is especially so for people with little or no sexual experience. You can use sex toys to explore your body before choosing to become sexually active. What are the good sex toy choices for beginners or people who have little or no sexual experience?


Penis sleevePenis sleeve

Penis sleeve

This is a male sex toy. It is a tube made of cyber skin or other soft material that slides over the penis shaft and is supposed to mimic the feeling of a vagina or mouth. If you haven’t discovered how really great masturbating with a sex toy is, a penis sleeve is a good choice. Rub a little water-based lubricant on the shaft before you slip your penis through the sleeve and glide it up and down manually. You can get all kinds of sleeves to satisfy whatever desires you have. Some have textured lining for extra stimulation.


Penis ring

Penis ring



The ring works by constricting the flow of blood out of the penis to help the user achieves a firmer or harder and longer lasting erection. For beginners, it is advisable to use adjustable and simple rings. Some rings come with buckles and snaps. If you are using them, just be careful not to let your pubic hair get caught in the snaps.


If you are using an adjustable ring, open it up all the way, slip it over the penis and behind the scrotum and then tighten it. Once you have gotten the ring on, you can masturbate all the way to orgasm and ejaculation. If you feel any discomfort, remove the ring. Whichever type of penis ring you choose to use, do not leave it on for more than 20 minutes. Once you are comfortable with using the penis ring on your own, you can let your partner put the ring on you as part of the sex play.


Clitoral vibrator

Clitoral vibrator


This is the best option for a girl if she does not want to have any insertion at all or does not want to stretch her vagina too much. Women can reach orgasm most often through clitoral stimulation. This is because the clitoris which is packed with numerous sensitive nerve endings is responsible for most female orgasms. In fact, many women prefer clitoral vibrator than other kinds of sex toys because it can provide some of the best orgasms.


Small vibrator

Small vibrator


This is a good choice for women who are using a vibrator for the first time to insert into themselves. This kind of vibrator is even thinner than a tampon so that it does not hurt when a woman push it into herself. A good thing about small vibrator is that it can fit in the purse so that she can take it with her wherever she goes.


Bullet vibrator attaches to penis ring

A more versatile type of small vibrator is the bullet style vibrator which can be placed on the clitoris or in the vagina. Some bullet style vibrators can be attached on penis rings and used for couple’s pleasure.







Anal plug

Anal plug


This is a good choice if you are new to anal sex. Whether you are enjoying anal stimulation during sex or during masturbation, this toy can give you just enough stimulation without being painful. Make sure you apply water-based lubricant on this toy before inserting it into the anus.



Special toy cleaner

Toy maintenance


To keep your toys in proper condition, it is better to clean them with a mild soap or special sex toy cleaner before and after use. Avoid using strong detergents because they can breakdown the toy material. For battery-operated toys, take out the batteries after using them. Rinse water-proof toys with hot water. For those that are electrical or not water-proof, clean them with a soapy wet cloth. Dry them thoroughly after cleaning. Most germs cannot live on a dry surface.


Read this a few times before you make any decision about the usage of sex toys. When you are ready for action, you can take a look at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Naughty Jane’s Treasure.

Enhanced by Zemanta

How To Create A Sexy Bedroom




Click Here For More Ideas To Get In The Mood For Sex


Besides being the place to rest, most people will usually have sex in the bedroom too. Regardless of whether it is the first time or the thousandth you are having intercourse in the bedroom, its atmosphere will either add to or distract from your sexual experience. Therefore, making your bedroom into a space that is comfortable, unique and inviting is one of the easiest and best things you can do to have a great sex life. Here are the ways you can make this happen.


Click On This Video to Find Out About the 6 Steps to a Sexy Bedroom


(1)   Make it clutter-free


If you want to have this romantic feel for your bedroom, you have to make it spacious. You have to remember that this is your bedroom and not a storeroom. Therefore you should avoid making it stuffy by placing only the things that you need. Keep unused stuff in the cabinet or in the closet. Also, you should not have any exercising equipment around because the bedroom is a place for lovemaking and relaxation and exercising equipment just do not fit in. By keeping your bedroom clutter-free, it will be more inviting, organized and welcoming.


(2)   Invest in good quality paint


Low quality paint tends to leave a smell in your bedroom which can be toxic and cancer-causing. Use white or warm colors paint so that it will not be too dark when the lights are off.


(3)   Get a comfortable bed


Make sure it is not too big for the room and preferably one that has built-in drawers underneath. Plush comforters and high-quality sheets will make you both feel comfortable in the bed. Depending on how much space you have, use a mixture of pillows: standard-sized, square or decorative ones with coordinated covers. Arrange them in such a way with the biggest ones at the back.


Use relaxing colors such as rich earth tones or calming blues and greens for your bed sheet. Using bed hangings and canopies can add another layer of mystery and privacy to your room. This will make your bed more romantic with those fabrics hanging at the sides. Make sure you choose a fabric that is light and gauzy to make it bear that softness feel.


(4)   Add rugs


Aside from having cushy beddings, give your floor a soft feel by placing a soft rug (that is the same length of your bed) on either side of the bed. This can add to the cozy and comfortable feeling, giving your room a romantic ambience with all those softness around you.


(5)   Use dim lighting


Lighting should be soft and filtered. Bright and glaring lights such as the overhead fluorescent lamp can detract from the ambience. Opt for those 40 watts lightings to add comfort and serenity. You can also use a table top lantern or a lamp at the side table. You may also make use of natural lights by having transparent curtains. Make sure the curtains compliment the bedding.


(6)   Add mirrors


They can also add depth and make your room looks more spacious. You can use as many as you like and they can be any size. But just do not over-do this because you don’t want this to be too overwhelming. Or, you can just use a floor-standing mirror that can be move around the room which certainly adds spice to both the atmosphere and the action.


(7)   Make it sexually functional


Everything that you could possibly want when you have sex should be within easy reach of your bed. Some sexual necessities that should be neatly stashed in one of the built-in drawers underneath the bed or near to the bed are: condoms, lubricant, breath mints, long silk scarves, sex toys, love cushion, and a roll of toilet paper or tissues for easy clean up. Have your favorite treats handy, maybe a box of chocolates that will be sure to tease. For a late-night indulgence, place strawberries and whipped cream on a small tray next to the bed.


(8)   Add a little music and noise


Keep your favorite love songs at your iPhone. Soft love music is one of the easiest ways to lift up your mood. You can also invest in a bedside sound system to play your favorite mood-inducing music.


If you have a TV in the bedroom, use this only for watching erotic videos. This can be porn, or some romantic or scary movies. There are wide choices of movies that are perfect for getting both of you in the mood. Do not limit yourselves to the obvious ones.


Creating a romantic bedroom atmosphere is essential to enhancing romance in your life. Get artistic, be creative, and put the spark back into your sex life. For more ideas to spice up sex, you can read further from Gaming for Orgasm and Love House.

Enhanced by Zemanta

How To Keep It Hot In Bed





Click On Above To Find Out More


Are you tired of doing the same old thing in bed? Are you getting bored with just having the normal sex and want to spice it up a bit? If you are looking for ways to reignite that spark in the bedroom, here are some tips you can consider.


(1)   Fantasize sex


It can be quite stressful to behave yourself in a way that everyone expects you for 365 days in a year. How about shedding your everyday self and be someone different, exciting, crazy or naughty? This is a way for you to add some excitement to any bedroom activity you undertake.


Role-playing or game-like fantasies are great tools to help couples to awake their creativity and imagination. The beauty of role-playing is that you can be anyone you want to be, or anyone your partner has always desired. Have a nurse and doctor story, a school girl and teacher story, or play out any fantasy you can think of. Start out with something simple and work your way into more complex role-playing as you and your partner become more comfortable.


As your comfort level increases, you can experiment with some light bondage or S&M (sadomasochism).It is a fantasy-based type of role-play in which leather and restraints are often used. The idea of leather, bondage and control can be erotic for many people. However, it is important to make sure both parties enjoy these type of sex games and that each person in the relationship is comfortable with bondage or S&M role-playing.


(2)   Do something different


There are many things you can explore in the bedroom. One of which is romantic body painting. Lay out some plastic sheets on the floor or bed and get a variety of colors of washable paints. Crayola makes the best washable paints. Then you treat each other’s body like a canvas.


Another way to stretch the body paint idea is to fill each cup with the flavors of the pudding both of you like. Then you use the pudding to finger-paint each other’s body. When both of you are finished with the painting, you take turns to lick off his/her artwork.


You can also play with some strip games or poker games. You get your partner to pick a number between one and ten. Just ask him or her to do it without any explanation. When he or she picks a number, you just tell him or her that he/she loses and orders him/her to take off the clothes. Another way is to play strip dice game. One of you will roll the dice to start the game. When comes to each player’s turn to roll the die, he or she will guess whether the outcome or score is higher or lower than the previous one. If he/she guesses wrongly, then he/she will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.


(3)   Add in some sex props


Variety is the spice of life. How about adding in some sex toys into your bedroom so that sex is no longer boring and mundane, but exciting and something you want more often? Toys are a great way to focus on your partner and prolong the foreplay time, which is something that may be missing in your bedroom time.


You can also improvise by using things you can find in your house. Stack up the pillows in a way to provide support as well as better access or entry. Another way to use a pillow or a specially-designed love cushion is to support her pelvis for rear entry positions. To enhance the sensation, you can use a vibrating pillow in this position which gives the added bonus of stimulating her clitoral area.


How about standing on a stair, a stool or a couch to get into the perfect position? Get creative with what you have! This kind of variety in your sex life is a healthy and fun way to keep things hot in your relationship.


So, if nothing interesting is happening any more in the bedroom, take matters in your hands. Rekindle the spark that first brought the two of you together by finding or exploring the things that both of you can try and do. Just be careful if the new activity may lead to injuries. Therefore you need to have a pre-agreed code word to stop any action when the receiving partner feels uncomfortable with it.


Communication with your partner is the sure way to make sex more exciting. You can find more ideas at Hot Sex and Eternal Flame

Enhanced by Zemanta