Do you want to know how you can please a woman effectively so much so that she keeps looking forward to the next sexual encounter with you? Do you want to learn to be one of the rare men who can satisfy her with your lovemaking skills? Here are some tips to increase the chances she will get an orgasm and probably multiple orgasms
(1) Give her the best foreplay ever
If you want to get her in the mood, foreplay is absolutely necessary. Foreplay is one of the things that women usually cannot get enough. You will never hear her complaining about you hugging, cuddling, kissing and whispering naughty thoughts in her ear. The more you tease her the more you will be able to please her.
To gradually build up the mood, it is best to start foreplay before you reach the bedroom. You can try doing some fun things or give her pleasant surprises to make her feel good. Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures do turn women on because love and sex are interconnected in a woman’s brain. By connecting to her emotionally as early as you can, she will be so aroused by the time you really start to pleasure her in bed.
(2) Do not forget her lips
Do you know that women’s lips are their number one erogenous zone? The art of tongue kissing will pleasure her more than you know and leave her with a lasting, eroticized impression. When you kiss her, you hold her face firmly but gently while you slip your tongue inside her mouth and suck on her lips one at a time. Do not confine to kissing just her lips. You can also use your lips for giving sweet arousing kisses all over her body.
The easiest way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms is by giving her oral sex. Any licking or gentle sucking on the vaginal entrance and lips or the clitoris will surely make you popular with any woman. Try licking her with the skill of an experienced painter by experimenting with broad and varied strokes using your tongue to ‘write’ the alphabets A to Z or figure of 8. Ask her what she likes and mix it up with different movements such as vertical and diagonal strokes.
You begin by licking up and down the entire area along the vaginal opening before you move to her clitoris. Then you start by giving her short quick flick of your tongue on her clitoris. At this stage when she is not fully aroused yet, do not spend too much time on her clitoris. You use your tongue to pleasure the surrounding area especially the clitoral hood (just above the clitoris). You place her clitoral hood between your lips to allow both sides of the hood to rub against each other.
Your woman will let you know when she is ready for all-out clitoral stimulation when you see the following signs – her breathing gets more rapid, the visible part of the clitoris will swell slightly and she will press your head down towards her harder than ever. At this point, you gently retract the hood to expose the clitoris and dart your tongue across it. You repeat your tongue movement gently and quickly, varying the direction each time and pausing between each flick of the tongue. When she starts begging for more attention, release the hood and increase the degree of applied pressure until she reaches orgasm.
(4) Use your fingers too
While kissing her clitoris, you can use your fingers to caress her breast and run them down to the middle of her stomach. You can also use your fingers to rub on her clitoris in circular motions. When she is fully aroused, you can insert one finger about 2 inches inside her. You press this finger against the frontal wall of her vagina. You use this finger to rub on a location that feels rough to your touch, which is the g-spot.
(5) Use the best sex positions
You can learn about the various lovemaking positions by reading about them from self-help guides. But this alone is still not enough. This is because not all love positions are made equal. It will be better to read this together with your partner and discuss with her which positions both of you can try.
There you have it the 5 tips you can start using right away to give a woman the most earth-shattering experience of her life. These tips covered here are by no means exhaustive. You can read the rest of the tips from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm