She is always in your mind. Thoughts of her make you get hard down there. It takes more than just penetrating and ejaculating when it comes to arousing a woman and making her love the things you do in bed. You need to keep her needs in mind.
The only thing that makes a great difference to a woman on how she gets the best sex is to focus on her pleasures. When she is turned on in the right way, her body will be more responsive sexually and her orgasm stronger.
Here is a checklist of what you can do to make the special lady of yours to get hot and wet and ensure that she has a real great time too.
(1) Do Your Homework
If you want to have wild, passionate sex with a girl and make her love the things you do in bed, you need to make an effort to know what she likes. There are three ways you can go about doing this.
The easiest way is to ask. Have a sex debrief with her after the session and ask which part of her body is especially sensitive. If she is too shy to tell you, ask her to hold your hands to guide you to the parts of her body she wants you to pay more attention to.
Another way is to observe her. If you can, get her to masturbate in front of you and watch where and how she likes to be touched.
When you are on top of her, read her signs. If she seems to be distracted or in pain, slow down and see if it is something you are doing. Perhaps you are moving too aggressively. If her breathing begins to speed up, or she starts to arch herself into you, then you may have already found her personal hot spot.
If you can do any of the above three ways, you will feel more proud at accomplishing a good finish and keeping her satisfied.
(2) Give Equal Attention To Other Areas
For guys, there are just two parts of a woman’s body that occupies their attention in bed. But if you really want your girl to have a wild time in bed, you should not restrict yourself to just a place or two on her body.
The key to giving a woman powerful orgasm is not to neglect the other areas. Make sure you spend enough time (90 to 120 seconds) on every part of her body. Focus on all over her – the back of her neck, kiss her hands, lick her navel, and kiss her inner thighs, her toes and everywhere else.
When you are moving towards her breasts, do not just grab and squeeze. Tease her by slowly circling your fingertips around the base of each nipple, then gently pushing down the tip and letting it spring back. Like just about everything, women prefer the indirect and gradual approach to build towards the center of interest and that certainly includes the nipples.
(3) Maintain Your Pace
Most women need to focus on the sensations you are providing to achieve the most powerful orgasms. Unexpected interruptions can set you back a step, risk having her to start again and lessening the intensity of her orgasm. Your hands may get tired or you need to catch your breath. If this happens to you, get the help of sex toys to maintain the pace of stimulation.
Rather than frantically thrusting her down there, try slowly tracing the outer edges of her vaginal lips with your fingertips while gently parting the lips. Stretched skin tends to have greater sensitivity, so this should send waves of pleasure to her.
In the normal missionary position, it is quite difficult to stimulate the clitoris. To overcome this problem, put pillows or a wedge under her pelvis to prop her up at an angle that can allow you to aim more effectively to hit her g-spot.
Getting more sex can be as simple as doing more of what she enjoys in bed and less of what she does not. Remember to focus more on her pleasure and she will reward you by keeping you hard for a long time.