For Her – How To Have Best Orgasm

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Just can’t seem to quite get there? Or would you like her ending moment to be even better and not just stop at one? Many women will love to want more: more frequent orgasms, stronger orgasms, and yes, orgasms in a row! Use these tips to give her what she wants – the best orgasm she ever had.

 

(1)   Hit her hot spots

 

To give her the best orgasm, you have to devote enough time for foreplay and this requires you to know where to press her ‘hot buttons’.  Here are some areas you should pay attention to.

 

Her ear – You kiss, lick or stroke the folds of her ears, nibble on her lobes and gently stroke/kiss behind her ears and to the back of the neck down to her shoulders.

 

Her navel – Most women fantasize about being held in a firm manly grip. While holding her from behind as you kiss the back of her neck, you run your hands from her ribs to her pelvic bones, kneading and massaging the area in between. Let your hands roam over this erogenous zone – the triangular area from her hip bones to the top of her genitals. At this stage, you hold off on grabbing her genitals for the time being.

 

Her lower torso – There is this crease or line across a woman’s lower abdomen from one hip bone to the other, passing right over the top of the region covered with pubic hair. Make sure your kisses and fingers explore this area before you go further down.

 

Her buttock folding – One of the more erotic zones in a woman’s body is the crease between the curve of her buttocks and the top of her thighs, known as the sacral crease. Stroking or kissing along that crease usually produces a strong erotic response. If your lover is on all fours or on her stomach, and you are pleasuring her from behind, it is good to tease that area by kissing or licking, bringing your lips closer and closer to her vaginal area with each pass.

 

Her buttocks – The buttocks themselves are a strong erogenous zone, but they need to be approached slowly, after her other hot spots have been stimulated. Light stroking or a teasingly little squeeze while you are stimulating other areas is fine, but save the firm squeezing or light spanking later until she is well aroused.

 

Her knees behind – The skin behind the knees is thin and soft and very responsive to touch because the nerves are close to the surface. Most women find that kissing and licking the crease directly behind the knees is very pleasurable.

 

Her inner thighs – This is the last area to be stimulated before moving to her genitals. Soft kisses and light fingertip stroking from her knees right up, but not including her vulva and clitoris may send her moaning helplessly, indicating her readiness for genital stimulation. The teasing nature of such touches will be the spark that lights her fire, as anticipation is the spice that is the key to feminine arousal.

 

(2)   Prolong her pleasure

 

The way to give her the best orgasm is to push her to the edge of orgasm and then hold back. The key to making her orgasm longer is to delay her reaching her peak. Just because you know how to get her to come, does not mean you have to give it to her right away. Anticipation can add to the power of the orgasm after you’ve finally decided to let her come. Yes, let her. You are in control of her orgasm, therefore, just slow it down. Get her close to reaching her peak using your hands and mouth during foreplay, and then switch up your techniques. Get her close again, and then switch it up again. This will keep her in a suspense state of orgasmic pleasure.

 

Teasing penetration can also work to get her near to the edge. After you have done oral sex, kissing and touching and you are ready for sex – but not quite ready to give in to her anticipation yet – teasing penetration will keep the fires burning but satisfy your need to be closer to each other. During teasing penetration, you will enter her, but only a little at a time. Short, light thrusts that only put the head in are incredible for both of you. After a while you simply pull out and resume the kissing or teasing of her hot spots (or erogenous zones), until you are both cooled off enough to continue without reaching orgasm immediately. Not only will this be fun to watch her reactions, you will notice her getting hotter and hotter. When you finally decide to let her come, it will be an explosion of pleasure.

 

(3)   Bring her to orgasm

 

If you have been doing a good job in touching and teasing her, by now, she should be ready for more direct stimulation down there. For most women, the easiest way to reach orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris using either your hands and/or mouth. However, you should not neglect the surrounding areas too, which is the region around her vaginal opening, the linings (or lips) of her vagina, the perineum (the area between the vagina and anus) and the anus itself.

 

During the initial stage of clitoral stimulation, you alternate the touching between these surrounding areas and the clitoris, with more than half of the time on the surrounding areas. It is only when she is quite close to orgasm, that you pay sole attention on stimulating her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

 

When you get to the intercourse stage, you can get into sex positions that offer some friction to help her reach orgasm during penetration. You ask her to get on top so that she can rub her clitoris against your pubic bone.  Or, when you are on top, you put a pillow or a wedge under her buttocks to elevate her pelvic region to give you higher chances of her hitting her g-spot. You may even want to try using a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate her clitoris.

 

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Love Making – How To Make It Fun

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Want to satisfy a woman enough during sex to make her crave it? Want to make her cum more easily and preferably over and over again? Looking for tips on how to blow her mind, keep her coming back for more? These bedroom shortcuts will help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm in a jiffy. Try these tricks to get her dripping wet in bed.

 

(1)   The right temperature

 Make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature prior to engaging in sex. Use a fan during intercourse to keep from overheating. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. A room temperature of 27 degree Celsius is good for sex.

 (2)   Start sweet

Sweet treats on her tongue will ring her brain’s reward bells, making her ripe for arousal. Seduce her by hand-feeding her fruits with unusual textures such as pomegranates.

 Chocolate may work as well. Not only can chocolate add some color to your sex lives, it is also believed that chocolate stimulates the production of endorphins, which provide a sense of pleasure or pain. Apparently, chocolate contains a natural substance that allegedly stimulates the same reaction in the body as the feeling of falling in love.

 

If your lady absolutely loves chocolate, why not dip your stick in some and let her have a taste of Mr. Dick? You’d be surprised at how enjoyable fellatio can feel when a woman has the pleasure of devouring a chocolate-covered member.

 

            (3) Stimulate her breasts

 

Women tend to be very proud of their breasts. Not only are they showing them off more than ever before, but they want you to pay serious attention to them during foreplay and lovemaking.

 

Many guys do not know how to stimulate a woman’s breasts in a way that will be pleasing to her. Simply grabbing a breast as though it was cookie dough and chewing on the nipple is going to get you nowhere fast.

 

Just like with anything sexual, you want to start off slowly and softly. You do not want to grab your lover’s breasts too hard, and you do not want to start pinching her nipples right away. You want to lead up to more direct and aggressive stimulation only after you have sufficiently gotten your girl turned on.

 

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms and sides of her breasts first. Gradually move towards her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, her nipples will become flushed with blood and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You can then harden your tongue and flick it back and forth and slowly take it into your mouth, at which point you will begin to suck and nibble simultaneously. If her nipples are not hard, you can usually manipulate each one by sucking it and then releasing it from your mouth whilst inhaling so that it creates an icy sensation.  In this way, you will kick-start the blood flow and lubrication down below, starting her slow build-up.

 

        (4)  Head downwards

 

Go slow during manual stimulation. If she is not wet, don’t start playing with her clitoris before you have touched, kissed and sucked her in other places such as her lips, neck, earlobes, nipples, tummy, lower back, buttocks, inner thighs and toes.

 

When she is ready, lightly brace the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now, run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer vaginal lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons – the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone – and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

 

You can vary the motion, firmness of your touch, and the speed with which you touch her. Your main aim is you should be turning her on and you should feel the clitoris swelling and expanding. Ask her to tell you what she likes, when she wants it harder or softer, faster, slower, or differently, and when she wants you to keep doing what you are doing.

 

           (5)  Enter her deep

 

 Penetrating as deep as possible during sexual intercourse is a great way to connect emotionally and physically with your lover. Choosing sex positions that allow for deeper penetration can help her to cum faster and your sex life even better. Try these positions to go deeper inside her.

 

             (a)  Doggy style

 

This is probably the best sex position for going deeper to stimulate the g-spot. By entering her from behind as she bends over, your penis will stimulate her cervix. This sends pleasure signals to her brain through the vagus nerve. You can experiment with the way you position your pelvis to find out what feels best to you and your woman. By tilting your pelvis towards your stomach, your penetration will be shallower, or by arching your back and tilting your pelvis away from your stomach, you will be able to go deeper.

 

            (b) Ankles-on-shoulders missionary

 

You can modify the missionary position to create the deepest penetration possible, while still being able to be eye to eye with your girl. You get your girl to bring her legs back towards her stomach and hook her ankles on your shoulders. With you on top, you arch up a little so that your torso is away from her body. By adjusting the distance between your torso and her body, you will be able to experience the difference in penetration depth between this modified missionary sex position and traditional missionary.

 

            (c) Woman on top


This position allows your girl to control pretty much everything, the speed, depth and angle of thrusting. As a result, this often allows a woman to have an orgasm more easily than if the position is reversed and you are on top. To get deeper penetration when she is on top, you spread your legs with knees bend to allow her to push her pelvis down closer to yours and let her vagina to slide all the way down to the base of your penis. This is a great position for female orgasm, because the closer her pelvis is to yours, the more friction will be created during sex, offering stimulation to both the clitoris and vagina. You can experiment with different pelvic positions to find out which one feels the best to you and your woman and allows for the deepest penetration.

 

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Enjoy Your Breasts – 6 Ways To Have Fun With Girls

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Your boobs are wily little seductresses. They poke proactively out of bikini tops, peek over lacy push-up bras, and flaunt their fabulousness naked in bed—turning any red-blooded heterosexual male into a panting pile of mush.

But what most women don’t realize is that their boobs can give them heaps of satisfaction too. “The majority of research is geared toward keeping breasts healthy, and not nearly enough is known about how women can enjoy their breasts during sex,” says Debby Herbenick, Ph. D., a sexual-health educator at the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University.

The truth is, your boobs play an important role in pleasing both of you. These six moves will help you double your pleasure and ensure they’re not left out of the fun.

Cuddle up

When your partner caresses your breasts, your brain releases a warm and fuzzy chemical into your bloodstream called oxytocin, says Beverly Whipple, Ph. D., professor emerita at Rutgers University. This powerful love hormone, also triggered by hugging and orgasm, fosters a strong bonding feeling between you and your partner.

 

To maximize its effect, while you’re on top, have your guy sit up and wrap your arms around his neck, pressing your breasts into his chest. Or, while in missionary, pull him toward you until your nipples graze his chest and focus on synchronizing your breathing. This touching and heaving at the same time will boost intimacy, and—because arousal increases blood flow—your breasts will feel warm, making your embrace feel even cozier.

Tease them

The same way a guy can become erect just like that, a woman’s breasts can stand at attention sans direct contact. In fact, the mere suggestion of sexual touch can fire off pleasurable sensations in your breasts. To make your hills come alive without actually touching them, “have your guy rest his fingertips lightly on your sternum (the middle of your chest), then move them toward either breast, drawing light circles over the entire area,” says Jaiya, co-author of Red Hot Touch. His barely there caress will stimulate the microscopic hairs on your boobs and the fine-touch nerves under the skin’s surface, creating bliss-inducing shivers.

 

Relish new sensations

Your man may be good with his hands, but encourage him to touch your chest with something less expected once in a while. The feel of soft jersey sheets, cool body lotion, or even silky fabric can make sex more thrilling. “Introducing various types of sensation adds a new feel to ordinary touch,” says Ian Kerner, Ph. D., author of She Comes First. During sex, have him rub your breasts with a pair of silk underwear, tickle your nipples with a feather, or smooth hand cream all over your girls. And don’t overlook the benefits his body can bring. Press your boobs into his smooth back, or dangle them over his face during girl on top, tracing them over his nose, cheekbones, and lips—or just glide his penis across your chest.

 

Focus above the areola

Those nipples, always hogging the spotlight. But they’re actually not the most sensitive region of the chest. The flesh directly above the areola (the colored skin surrounding the nipple) is the real star of the show. “We think of nipples as primary erogenous zones—which they are, to a degree—but that’s partially because they’re so visible,” Jaiya says. “However, studies have shown that women feel more pleasurable sensations above them.”

 

Have your guy rub the 10 o’clock to two o’clock zones with an ice cube, then blow hot air on the wet parts for head-to-toe chills. Or, while in missionary, he can use the tip of his tongue to lick circles around the area, slowly moving down to your nipple and areola (the second most sensitive zone on your breast). The pressure from his tongue will activate a tiny muscle just beneath the surface that flips on your headlights so he can then flick them ever so gently with his tongue.

 

Get wet

Mix things up by hopping in the shower with your guy and turning the faucet to hot (but not scorching). The heat brings blood to the skin’s surface and elevates body temperature, both of which make your skin more sensitive to the touch, says Sandor Gardos, Ph. D., founder of mypleasure.com, an online sex-toy store. Then have your guy soap up your breasts. The feeling of his hands slipping and sliding all over your boobs combined with the hot water will get both your libidos racing. Also consider experimenting with the settings on your shower head—the pulsate function will provide direct, massaging pressure, while a lighter one will feel more soothing. Not in the mood for a shower? Having your guy massage your breasts with a steamy wet towel will reap similar benefits.

 

Maximize your size

Your breasts may be his go-to spot on your bod, but how often do you luxuriate in the sensuality of your own curves? Never? Well, you’re missing out. “Some women don’t take the opportunity to relish their breasts during sex (or solo sex), especially if they’re self-conscious about their cup size,” Kerner says. But guess what—all women, regardless of bra size, have the same amount of nerve endings and feel an equal amount of pleasure–and experts say boobs can grow up to 25 percent bigger when aroused.

 

The trick is to tailor the type of touch to your size. In general, women with larger breasts can handle a slightly firmer grip because they have more fatty tissue. So when you’re on top, cup your boobs, lift them slightly, and squeeze. Feeling their full weight can be a huge turn-on. If you have a smaller set, push your breasts together with the sides of your arms to create eye-popping cleavage. Or, while you’re in the spoon position, reach up and feel them jiggle with every thrust.

 

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Sex Tips – How To Be Creative In Your Love Life

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Is sex getting more or less the same each time when you have it? Are you looking for ways to bring passion back into sex? Do you miss those good old days when you both newly met and so crazy of each other whether in bed or out of bed? If you are keen to get back or have the sex life you want, read below.

 

(1)   Taking a break

 

This may sounds a bit illogical, but giving sex a “short holiday” should help to relieve some of the pressures if both of you are having a hard time to get in the mood. This does not mean both of you should stop being loving to each other. What you can do in the meantime is to strengthen the emotional intimacy with your partner.

 

Engage in joint activities with your partner such as doing exercises (workouts), cycling together in the park, enrolling in dance classes or yoga lessons, go clubbing, going out with other couples (double dating), watching porn together or reading an erotic story together. You can also give each other a sensual massage without focusing on sex. You can have fun instead of having sex by playing with each other’s bodies such as painting your partner’s body with those glow-in-the-dark paints or edible colors. All these activities should gradually help both of you to get into the mood.

 

(2)   Create the right atmosphere

 

Since most of the time you should be having sex in the bedroom, it is certainly helpful to give the place a more sexual feel. You can put full length mirrors alongside your bed to heighten your sexual experience. During intercourse, both of you can have a clear view of yourself in the mirror to give each other an additional visual stimulation.

 

Install soft lightings, play some sensual music, spray the room with some fragrance and the colors of the curtains and bed sheets should be those that are arousing to both of you. Always dress up in bed with seductive clothes to enhance the sexual aspects of you. You can bring food and drink into the bed. Aphrodisiacal food and drinks can make both of you horny. To add in some excitement, you can bring in some sex toys, lubricants and anything that helps to reinvigorate your senses.

 

(3)   Focus on pleasuring each other

 

One of the best ways to have great sex is to take turns giving each other pleasure. A good way to start is by taking a bath together. This gives you ample time to play with each other. Do spend at least fifteen minutes on caressing and complimenting each other’s bodies to make both of you horny before having sex. Take your time to explore and touch the erogenous zones on each other’s bodies.

 

You can talk dirty to each other. You can describe how and where you want to touch her using which of your body parts. At this stage, while you dirty talk to her, you only touch on the non-sexual areas such as her neck, wrists, inner thighs, lower back and ears but avoiding her breasts and vagina for the time being.

 

When she is getting more aroused, you can head downwards to her vaginal area. Using your fingertips you rub her outer vaginal lips by spreading them apart and bringing them back together. This should start to make her wet. You can move up along the vaginal opening to her clitoris, where you can rub it in a circular, up-and-down or side-to-side motion.

 

Some women like you to be gentle with the clitoris, while others like a little bit of vigorous treatment. You act according to her preference using her body language as a guide to what you should do. After a few minutes, you can gently suck on her clitoris to give her some oral pleasure while you continue to use your fingers to stimulate her g-spot.

 

(4)   Be creative

 

Pick up a copy of the self-help guide and try some unique sex positions that both of you may enjoy. There are many sexy places to get naughty besides the bed. Have you ever wondered places such as kitchen, car couches, bathroom, backyard or pool can be your “playground” too? If you are always the dominating one in bed, at times, make a switch to ask your partner to take charge.

 

Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex. You can talk about your fantasies with your partner and act out your kinky fetishes. You can consider introducing some adult board games to spice things up. Do a search through the Internet to get some games that can cater to all your fantasies or whims and have them delivered to your place at a minimal cost. The idea is to get both of you to open up and start trying things out.

 

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Sex Positions: How To Get A Girl To Beg You For More

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What can you do if sex life is becoming more or less of the same? How to make sex life fun if she is a bit less interested of late? What are the ways you can try to bring her powerful orgasms? Read below for the sex positions you can use to help her orgasm faster and better.

 

(1)   Sideway penetration

 

You get her to lie on her left side. You lift up her right leg to allow it to rest on your right waist so that you can kneel and straddle on her left leg. This position allows deep penetration and gives you complete access to her clitoris for manual stimulation. Before penetration, you can use your penis head to rub against her clitoris and when she is about to come, you enter her.

 

(2)   Behind penetration in standing position

 

You get her in doggie position near to the edge of the bed, so that the lower half of her legs is in mid-air. She will arch her back so that her buttocks will be lifted upwards. You can then penetrate her from behind in a standing position. There are two ways to make you feel big inside her. After you enter her, you squeeze her buttocks cheeks close together so that her vaginal wall is pressing against your penis.

 

Another way is to position your legs outside her legs and after you enter her, you use your thighs to squeeze her knees together which will tighten her vagina around your penis. This position is ideal for g-spot stimulation.

 

(3)   Modified rear entry

 

(a)    You get her to lie face down on the bed with knees bend and hips slightly raised. To make her more comfortable and to increase the angle of her hips, you put a pillow under her belly. In this position, you enter her from behind, but make sure you keep your weight off her body by supporting yourself with your arms. This position can help you to last longer if you choose shallow trusting which will avoid stimulating yourself too much due to lesser friction.

 

(b)   Both of you standing and you are behind her. She stands with her hands resting on the edge of table for support. You will enter her from behind. This is good for targeting her g-spot.

 

(c)    She will bend forward so that her upper body will rest on a table or over the arm of a couch as you enter her from behind. After you penetrate her, you can ask her to cross her ankles. This will squeeze her vaginal muscles tightly around your penis.

 

(4)   Sitting rear entry

 

You will sit at the edge of the bed or a chair that is not too high with each of her legs by your side on the bed or chair. To support her upper body which is in mid-air, she will rest her palms on the floor (both hands straighten). This position allows deep penetration.

 

(5)   Modified reverse cowgirl

 

You will lie on your back and bend one of your legs, keeping the other straightens. She will straddle on the raised leg with her back facing you as she lowers herself onto your penis. In this position, she can hold onto your knee as a support as she rocks up and down.

 

(6)   Modified 69

 

This is quite similar to the 69 position with you on top. Your head will be positioned between her feet. She will have a pillow underneath to elevate her pelvis to facilitate penetration. She will grab your buttocks to help you to slide back and forth. This position is good for g-spot stimulation.

 

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