Sex Tips – How To Please A Man

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Is your sex life getting monotonous? Do you want to you give your man the best intercourse ever in bed? Use these tips on how to please your man in bed and make him desire you and want you more than ever!


(1)   Look sexy


The art of seduction isn’t about revealing all, but knowing how to cover it all and yet make a man feel like he has seen it all. Wear something that will reveal all without showing anything. A thin tee or a plain white see-through shirt can be a great turn on for your guy. If you want to turn him on just a bit more, you can let your nipples stick out. Choose some really sexy lingerie in bold colors, like red or black. Bold lacy or satiny lingerie is an instant turn on for any man, just as long as you know how to bend and put when he is watching you.


(2)   Take control

Men do like taking control of sex, but at times, it’s more relaxing and exciting to be violated by a girl they desire!

Instead of the weekly routine of quietly getting on top of each other in turns, play the lead, and he’ll love that. It’s a secret fantasy for all men, and they absolutely love it when a girl takes control and has her way with him. Dominate him, tie his hands to the bed post or order him to do your bidding. While this may border on a fetish, it’s still exciting for any man.

Your man would find the whole idea of lying back in bed with his eyes closed while you play with him pretty tempting. He can relax and just enjoy your touch, with no pressure of performance or trying to satisfy you. Seriously, which guy wouldn’t like that?

After all, there’s a lot of psychological pressure on a man to perform well in bed and satisfy you. And when you take control of him, he can feel free to drift into pleasure land without a care about anything else.


(3)   Touch him


There is one way to guarantee that you can give your man satisfaction and that is to give him total body sex. Give him passionate kisses to send chills all throughout his body. Kissing on his ears, his neck, scratching his scalp, digging your nails into the back of his neck and scratching all the way down can contribute to pleasure.


Use your fingers and nails to trace along his forearms will give him a sensation he probably never knew he had. The skin is extra thin on his forearms so feeling your nails digging deep will definitely drive him wild.


Suck on his fingers to mimic oral sex. Feeling those warm and wet lips of your tracing along his fingers will make him desperately want to feel that warm mouth of yours on another part of his body.


Digging your nails deep into his thighs will drive him wild because not only is the skin sensitive there but it is also so close to his penis and the closer you are without touching it, the more you are going to drive him absolutely wild.


(4)   Give him a hand job


Have your man lie on his back, and then sit between his legs, facing him. Make two tight rings around his penis with the thumb and index finger of both of your hands, placing the rings one on top of the other in the middle of his shaft. Slide the rings in opposite directions, going back and forth from the base to the head simultaneously. This is a torrid twist on the usual one-handed up-and-down motion. He will feel incredible friction, especially if you start off torturously slow, building up speed as he gets more and more pumped and then slowly down to keep him in a holding pattern. To make this move even more mind-blowing, squirt some lubricant into your hand.


Do not forget his frenulum, which is that tiny knob of flesh underneath the crown of his penis, where the head connects to the shaft. A bundle of nerves meets at this point, so when you touch it, you set off an amazing chain reaction of rapture.


There is another area not to be missed as you move further down, which is the perineum (the area between the base of his penis and the anus). Beneath the perineum is his prostate gland – an organ with major orgasmic power. Therefore, a few strokes here will bring him to the brink.


(5)   Give him a blow job


With your man lying back and his penis stiffly pointing skyward, hold the base with your fingers to steady him. Brush your closed yet relaxed lips against his head, rubbing it across your wet mouth as if you are applying lipstick. You can heighten the sensation by opening your lips a bit, rubbing his head between them. Occasionally take the whole head in your mouth, and then go back to rubbing the tip against your lips. He will feel like he is getting a tighter, wetter version of the vagina.


When you are pleasuring your man in bed with fellatio, you can spice it up by trying out different positions. A particular favorite is if you sit on the edge of the bed while he stands in front of you, for some reason guys like fellatio more if they are standing up. Another great fellatio position that guarantees your man’s pleasure is if he lies on his back and you kneel at his side to suck him, this way he can fondle your breasts at the same time.

(6)   Bring him to orgasm


The ultimate way to pleasure your man in bed is to bring him to orgasm. This doesn’t mean you have to swallow. You can suck him until he is about to ejaculate and then let him finish off on your breasts.

Or you can ride on him. Getting on top takes the control away from your man, but your sexual confidence will end up turning him on a lot more. Push him onto the bed, let him know just how horny you are and sit on top of him. He will understand that you want to take the lead, and he will definitely be excited to see that he is turning you on so much that you want to control the sexual act.

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How To Make Love The Right Way And Have The Hot Sex You Want

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Learning how to turn a woman on is an essential part of the sexual experience. When done right, this will build trust and arousal, both of which are necessary for moving on to sexual intercourse and ultimately orgasm. It is therefore very important that you need to learn how to arouse a woman and turn her on, you can enjoy love making together and be in a healthy sexual relationship. Here are a few tips to learn about how to arouse a woman so that she can reach orgasm easily.


(1)   Be romantic.


Romance can sometimes seem like a cliché but it can really set the mood if you pay attention to details. If you are having dinner together put on some romantic music that you both like or use candles to light the room. If you plan to go out, make it a special night by taking a walk on the beach or somewhere equally romantic. Just the right mood alone can sometimes make the difference in how a woman reacts to your advances.


(2)   Have confidence


Women like men who know what they are doing, because this makes them feel good about themselves. Therefore, you should not show signs of nervous while having sex, and never tell woman things that make you look like you do not know what you are doing. This may turn her off. A good way to build confidence is to have knowledge. Therefore in your free time, go and read some books on sexuality, so that you can know about a woman’s erogenous zones, how and where to stimulate her, how to give her oral and about the various sex positions which can bring a woman to orgasm faster.


(3)   Find out what she wants.


Reading about self-help guides on sex alone is not enough. This is because every woman’s body is different, and requires a unique approach to make her scream. During sex, let her know that she can ask for the kind of stimulation she wants. If you really want to please your woman, you must pay attention to physical signals. If she is panting, moaning and arching her back, you are probably on the right track. Learning to interpret her body language will help you become that much better in bed.


(4)   Take a shower together


Having shower with your girl can lead both of you to some good clean fun in the naughtiest way. There is something sexy about lathering up together and getting slippery together in a steam filled room. Take turns to wash each other. If you are feeling particularly naughty, try a little landscaping in the nether region.


(5)   Give her a hot massage


In giving a very hot massage, start out as you would with any normal massage. Rub from her shoulders, lower back, buttocks, and thighs and down to her feet. At this point, avoid the sexy part of the massage and just focus on releasing the tension all over her body. Switch back and forth between your palms and fingers to help keep you from getting tired before you’ve massaged her full body.


Then you flick her over and start the same process again by rubbing her whole body right down to her feet. Focus on her hot spots, including her breasts, hips and inner thighs to make the full body massage sexier. Pay special attention to her inner thighs for a more sexy massage. As you rub her inner thighs, her vaginal lips will part slightly. This gives you a great view, and it will indirectly stimulate her clitoris. To make the massage even sexier, make eye contact with her regularly, compliment her body and describe what you’re seeing to her and why it arouses you.


(6)   Incorporate kissing and some massage-enhancing toys


While massaging her, you can start gently kissing parts of her body. If she is seated in front of you, gently kiss the back of her neck and move down; if she is lying down, there are plenty of options to get creative with. Ensure you continue massaging as the kissing begins; you want to keep the relaxation and pleasurable sensations going.


You don’t have to depend only on your hands to give a hot erotic massage. Incorporate the use of massage oils so your hands can glide easily across her body. Consider using a variety of massage-enhancing tools or sex toys like a vibrator.


(7)   Bring her to orgasm


Move back down to her thighs and move her legs apart. Spread her vaginal lips slightly and lightly move your finger from the base of the vagina up to just below her clit. If she feels wet, then you know she is ready for clitoral stimulation.


Use one or two fingers to make light circles around her clit. Use her physical cues to guide you. Continue the circular motions, periodically moving back to the base of her vagina for more lubrication. Eventually, switch up the movement to quick back and forth motions. Slowly gain speed until you are moving very quickly. The consistent, rhythmic movement will help her reach orgasm.

(8)   Get into position to make her orgasm again


Once a woman has had an orgasm her body is the most ready for a man to enter her. To help her have a vaginal orgasm, experiment with the position that feels the best. Typically this position is the one that puts the most pressure from the penis on the G-spot. You can consider any of the following positions.


Doggie with pillow under her belly – In this position, her buttocks will be raised higher by the pillow. Instead of staying even with her body, you move up as high as you can. The goal of this is so that as you thrust, you are hitting the top inside wall of her vagina (where her g-spot is located).


Missionary with pillow under her back – Start inside of her in missionary and rest her legs on your shoulders. Place your hands under her lower back and lift her up so that as you enter her, you are thrusting up and in and hitting the top of her vagina (g-spot). This is sure to trigger an amazing orgasm.


Girl on top with her leaning back – Have her get on top facing you. Have her put her feet forward on the outside of your body and ask her to lean backward. As she rides you, you thrust straight up which means you will be thrusting up and in. You can do this either on bed or on a chair or sofa.


Learning how to please a woman in bed can be a challenge for any man. Although every woman’s needs and preferences are different, these basic tips can help you please a woman in bed without spending ages deciphering the secrets. Now if you want to take your love life to the next level, you can read the rest of the tips on how to give her the best sex from here and/or this place.


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For Her – How To Have Best Orgasm

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Just can’t seem to quite get there? Or would you like her ending moment to be even better and not just stop at one? Many women will love to want more: more frequent orgasms, stronger orgasms, and yes, orgasms in a row! Use these tips to give her what she wants – the best orgasm she ever had.


(1)   Hit her hot spots


To give her the best orgasm, you have to devote enough time for foreplay and this requires you to know where to press her ‘hot buttons’.  Here are some areas you should pay attention to.


Her ear – You kiss, lick or stroke the folds of her ears, nibble on her lobes and gently stroke/kiss behind her ears and to the back of the neck down to her shoulders.


Her navel – Most women fantasize about being held in a firm manly grip. While holding her from behind as you kiss the back of her neck, you run your hands from her ribs to her pelvic bones, kneading and massaging the area in between. Let your hands roam over this erogenous zone – the triangular area from her hip bones to the top of her genitals. At this stage, you hold off on grabbing her genitals for the time being.


Her lower torso – There is this crease or line across a woman’s lower abdomen from one hip bone to the other, passing right over the top of the region covered with pubic hair. Make sure your kisses and fingers explore this area before you go further down.


Her buttock folding – One of the more erotic zones in a woman’s body is the crease between the curve of her buttocks and the top of her thighs, known as the sacral crease. Stroking or kissing along that crease usually produces a strong erotic response. If your lover is on all fours or on her stomach, and you are pleasuring her from behind, it is good to tease that area by kissing or licking, bringing your lips closer and closer to her vaginal area with each pass.


Her buttocks – The buttocks themselves are a strong erogenous zone, but they need to be approached slowly, after her other hot spots have been stimulated. Light stroking or a teasingly little squeeze while you are stimulating other areas is fine, but save the firm squeezing or light spanking later until she is well aroused.


Her knees behind – The skin behind the knees is thin and soft and very responsive to touch because the nerves are close to the surface. Most women find that kissing and licking the crease directly behind the knees is very pleasurable.


Her inner thighs – This is the last area to be stimulated before moving to her genitals. Soft kisses and light fingertip stroking from her knees right up, but not including her vulva and clitoris may send her moaning helplessly, indicating her readiness for genital stimulation. The teasing nature of such touches will be the spark that lights her fire, as anticipation is the spice that is the key to feminine arousal.


(2)   Prolong her pleasure


The way to give her the best orgasm is to push her to the edge of orgasm and then hold back. The key to making her orgasm longer is to delay her reaching her peak. Just because you know how to get her to come, does not mean you have to give it to her right away. Anticipation can add to the power of the orgasm after you’ve finally decided to let her come. Yes, let her. You are in control of her orgasm, therefore, just slow it down. Get her close to reaching her peak using your hands and mouth during foreplay, and then switch up your techniques. Get her close again, and then switch it up again. This will keep her in a suspense state of orgasmic pleasure.


Teasing penetration can also work to get her near to the edge. After you have done oral sex, kissing and touching and you are ready for sex – but not quite ready to give in to her anticipation yet – teasing penetration will keep the fires burning but satisfy your need to be closer to each other. During teasing penetration, you will enter her, but only a little at a time. Short, light thrusts that only put the head in are incredible for both of you. After a while you simply pull out and resume the kissing or teasing of her hot spots (or erogenous zones), until you are both cooled off enough to continue without reaching orgasm immediately. Not only will this be fun to watch her reactions, you will notice her getting hotter and hotter. When you finally decide to let her come, it will be an explosion of pleasure.


(3)   Bring her to orgasm


If you have been doing a good job in touching and teasing her, by now, she should be ready for more direct stimulation down there. For most women, the easiest way to reach orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris using either your hands and/or mouth. However, you should not neglect the surrounding areas too, which is the region around her vaginal opening, the linings (or lips) of her vagina, the perineum (the area between the vagina and anus) and the anus itself.


During the initial stage of clitoral stimulation, you alternate the touching between these surrounding areas and the clitoris, with more than half of the time on the surrounding areas. It is only when she is quite close to orgasm, that you pay sole attention on stimulating her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.


When you get to the intercourse stage, you can get into sex positions that offer some friction to help her reach orgasm during penetration. You ask her to get on top so that she can rub her clitoris against your pubic bone.  Or, when you are on top, you put a pillow or a wedge under her buttocks to elevate her pelvic region to give you higher chances of her hitting her g-spot. You may even want to try using a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate her clitoris.


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Love Making – How To Make It Fun

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Want to satisfy a woman enough during sex to make her crave it? Want to make her cum more easily and preferably over and over again? Looking for tips on how to blow her mind, keep her coming back for more? These bedroom shortcuts will help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm in a jiffy. Try these tricks to get her dripping wet in bed.


(1)   The right temperature

 Make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature prior to engaging in sex. Use a fan during intercourse to keep from overheating. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. A room temperature of 27 degree Celsius is good for sex.

 (2)   Start sweet

Sweet treats on her tongue will ring her brain’s reward bells, making her ripe for arousal. Seduce her by hand-feeding her fruits with unusual textures such as pomegranates.

 Chocolate may work as well. Not only can chocolate add some color to your sex lives, it is also believed that chocolate stimulates the production of endorphins, which provide a sense of pleasure or pain. Apparently, chocolate contains a natural substance that allegedly stimulates the same reaction in the body as the feeling of falling in love.


If your lady absolutely loves chocolate, why not dip your stick in some and let her have a taste of Mr. Dick? You’d be surprised at how enjoyable fellatio can feel when a woman has the pleasure of devouring a chocolate-covered member.


            (3) Stimulate her breasts


Women tend to be very proud of their breasts. Not only are they showing them off more than ever before, but they want you to pay serious attention to them during foreplay and lovemaking.


Many guys do not know how to stimulate a woman’s breasts in a way that will be pleasing to her. Simply grabbing a breast as though it was cookie dough and chewing on the nipple is going to get you nowhere fast.


Just like with anything sexual, you want to start off slowly and softly. You do not want to grab your lover’s breasts too hard, and you do not want to start pinching her nipples right away. You want to lead up to more direct and aggressive stimulation only after you have sufficiently gotten your girl turned on.


During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms and sides of her breasts first. Gradually move towards her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, her nipples will become flushed with blood and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You can then harden your tongue and flick it back and forth and slowly take it into your mouth, at which point you will begin to suck and nibble simultaneously. If her nipples are not hard, you can usually manipulate each one by sucking it and then releasing it from your mouth whilst inhaling so that it creates an icy sensation.  In this way, you will kick-start the blood flow and lubrication down below, starting her slow build-up.


        (4)  Head downwards


Go slow during manual stimulation. If she is not wet, don’t start playing with her clitoris before you have touched, kissed and sucked her in other places such as her lips, neck, earlobes, nipples, tummy, lower back, buttocks, inner thighs and toes.


When she is ready, lightly brace the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now, run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer vaginal lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons – the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone – and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.


You can vary the motion, firmness of your touch, and the speed with which you touch her. Your main aim is you should be turning her on and you should feel the clitoris swelling and expanding. Ask her to tell you what she likes, when she wants it harder or softer, faster, slower, or differently, and when she wants you to keep doing what you are doing.


           (5)  Enter her deep


 Penetrating as deep as possible during sexual intercourse is a great way to connect emotionally and physically with your lover. Choosing sex positions that allow for deeper penetration can help her to cum faster and your sex life even better. Try these positions to go deeper inside her.


             (a)  Doggy style


This is probably the best sex position for going deeper to stimulate the g-spot. By entering her from behind as she bends over, your penis will stimulate her cervix. This sends pleasure signals to her brain through the vagus nerve. You can experiment with the way you position your pelvis to find out what feels best to you and your woman. By tilting your pelvis towards your stomach, your penetration will be shallower, or by arching your back and tilting your pelvis away from your stomach, you will be able to go deeper.


            (b) Ankles-on-shoulders missionary


You can modify the missionary position to create the deepest penetration possible, while still being able to be eye to eye with your girl. You get your girl to bring her legs back towards her stomach and hook her ankles on your shoulders. With you on top, you arch up a little so that your torso is away from her body. By adjusting the distance between your torso and her body, you will be able to experience the difference in penetration depth between this modified missionary sex position and traditional missionary.


            (c) Woman on top

This position allows your girl to control pretty much everything, the speed, depth and angle of thrusting. As a result, this often allows a woman to have an orgasm more easily than if the position is reversed and you are on top. To get deeper penetration when she is on top, you spread your legs with knees bend to allow her to push her pelvis down closer to yours and let her vagina to slide all the way down to the base of your penis. This is a great position for female orgasm, because the closer her pelvis is to yours, the more friction will be created during sex, offering stimulation to both the clitoris and vagina. You can experiment with different pelvic positions to find out which one feels the best to you and your woman and allows for the deepest penetration.


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Enjoy Your Breasts – 6 Ways To Have Fun With Girls

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Your boobs are wily little seductresses. They poke proactively out of bikini tops, peek over lacy push-up bras, and flaunt their fabulousness naked in bed—turning any red-blooded heterosexual male into a panting pile of mush.

But what most women don’t realize is that their boobs can give them heaps of satisfaction too. “The majority of research is geared toward keeping breasts healthy, and not nearly enough is known about how women can enjoy their breasts during sex,” says Debby Herbenick, Ph. D., a sexual-health educator at the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University.

The truth is, your boobs play an important role in pleasing both of you. These six moves will help you double your pleasure and ensure they’re not left out of the fun.

Cuddle up

When your partner caresses your breasts, your brain releases a warm and fuzzy chemical into your bloodstream called oxytocin, says Beverly Whipple, Ph. D., professor emerita at Rutgers University. This powerful love hormone, also triggered by hugging and orgasm, fosters a strong bonding feeling between you and your partner.


To maximize its effect, while you’re on top, have your guy sit up and wrap your arms around his neck, pressing your breasts into his chest. Or, while in missionary, pull him toward you until your nipples graze his chest and focus on synchronizing your breathing. This touching and heaving at the same time will boost intimacy, and—because arousal increases blood flow—your breasts will feel warm, making your embrace feel even cozier.

Tease them

The same way a guy can become erect just like that, a woman’s breasts can stand at attention sans direct contact. In fact, the mere suggestion of sexual touch can fire off pleasurable sensations in your breasts. To make your hills come alive without actually touching them, “have your guy rest his fingertips lightly on your sternum (the middle of your chest), then move them toward either breast, drawing light circles over the entire area,” says Jaiya, co-author of Red Hot Touch. His barely there caress will stimulate the microscopic hairs on your boobs and the fine-touch nerves under the skin’s surface, creating bliss-inducing shivers.


Relish new sensations

Your man may be good with his hands, but encourage him to touch your chest with something less expected once in a while. The feel of soft jersey sheets, cool body lotion, or even silky fabric can make sex more thrilling. “Introducing various types of sensation adds a new feel to ordinary touch,” says Ian Kerner, Ph. D., author of She Comes First. During sex, have him rub your breasts with a pair of silk underwear, tickle your nipples with a feather, or smooth hand cream all over your girls. And don’t overlook the benefits his body can bring. Press your boobs into his smooth back, or dangle them over his face during girl on top, tracing them over his nose, cheekbones, and lips—or just glide his penis across your chest.


Focus above the areola

Those nipples, always hogging the spotlight. But they’re actually not the most sensitive region of the chest. The flesh directly above the areola (the colored skin surrounding the nipple) is the real star of the show. “We think of nipples as primary erogenous zones—which they are, to a degree—but that’s partially because they’re so visible,” Jaiya says. “However, studies have shown that women feel more pleasurable sensations above them.”


Have your guy rub the 10 o’clock to two o’clock zones with an ice cube, then blow hot air on the wet parts for head-to-toe chills. Or, while in missionary, he can use the tip of his tongue to lick circles around the area, slowly moving down to your nipple and areola (the second most sensitive zone on your breast). The pressure from his tongue will activate a tiny muscle just beneath the surface that flips on your headlights so he can then flick them ever so gently with his tongue.


Get wet

Mix things up by hopping in the shower with your guy and turning the faucet to hot (but not scorching). The heat brings blood to the skin’s surface and elevates body temperature, both of which make your skin more sensitive to the touch, says Sandor Gardos, Ph. D., founder of, an online sex-toy store. Then have your guy soap up your breasts. The feeling of his hands slipping and sliding all over your boobs combined with the hot water will get both your libidos racing. Also consider experimenting with the settings on your shower head—the pulsate function will provide direct, massaging pressure, while a lighter one will feel more soothing. Not in the mood for a shower? Having your guy massage your breasts with a steamy wet towel will reap similar benefits.


Maximize your size

Your breasts may be his go-to spot on your bod, but how often do you luxuriate in the sensuality of your own curves? Never? Well, you’re missing out. “Some women don’t take the opportunity to relish their breasts during sex (or solo sex), especially if they’re self-conscious about their cup size,” Kerner says. But guess what—all women, regardless of bra size, have the same amount of nerve endings and feel an equal amount of pleasure–and experts say boobs can grow up to 25 percent bigger when aroused.


The trick is to tailor the type of touch to your size. In general, women with larger breasts can handle a slightly firmer grip because they have more fatty tissue. So when you’re on top, cup your boobs, lift them slightly, and squeeze. Feeling their full weight can be a huge turn-on. If you have a smaller set, push your breasts together with the sides of your arms to create eye-popping cleavage. Or, while you’re in the spoon position, reach up and feel them jiggle with every thrust.


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