You probably have seen it in movies or heard some women talking about how they enjoy it. Erotic spanking is probably one of the most socially acceptable forms of sexual acts. Playful spanking (which involves sensually smacking, hitting or slapping a person’s buttocks or thighs) gives quick shocks of stimulation and increases arousal.
Here is how to spank to make your sex life fun for you and her:
(1) Tune yourself into the mood by reading or watching erotic stuff
(2) There is a need to have a constant feedback between the person doing the spanking and the one receiving it. Each person has different comfort level in wanting how hard to be spanked.
(3) You need to be careful in which areas of the body to spank. Choose only those parts of the body which is fleshy such as buttocks, thighs and backs of the calves. You should not spank those fragile body parts, bony areas, joints, organs, spine and kidneys.
(4) You can try different positions to see which one she is comfortable with. You can get her to lie down on your lap or to bend over a bed, chair or table.
(5) You should use what you have at your disposal or be creative in enriching the experience. You can press your tongue, lips against her body. Try running a feather on the entire back side or some light scratching in circles or straight line motion to create some ticklish sensation.
(6) You can start with gentle patting then slowly harder and after a while switch back to softer spanking and later harder again. After a hard slap, ease up a bit by licking on the places being spanked, lightly rubbing them, kissing them before you spank again. While doing this you can also whisper sweet things in her ears or talk dirty or even masturbate her.
(7) You can consider role playing. The “teacher” spanking his “naughty student”. The “doctor or nurse” spanking the “patient” for not taking her medicine.
End the spanking with a good rubdown using lotion or massage oil to soothe the areas that are being spanked. It will be better to cuddle her after this as most women likes to be hugged. Spanking is just one of the ways to enrich your sexual experience. If you want to know of other ways t make sex more fun, you can go to Hot Sex and Dirty Harry’s Secrets.