Female Orgasm – How To Arouse A Woman In Romantic Ways

 

 

 

 

 

How to arouse a woman? How to make her wet? How to get women horny? What are the ways and things you can make a woman sexually aroused? Read below for answers to these questions.

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In order to arouse a woman, you have to make an effort in your foreplay for her. What I mean foreplay here is not just the things you should do in the bedroom before sex. In facts, there are lots of things or preparations you should do. In my definition, foreplay has two aspects. One is the emotional part and the other is the physical aspect.

 

What is emotional foreplay? It is a series of things outside the bedroom that you have to do as a great lover or partner in making her feel totally comfortable with you. It plays an important role in building up sexual intimacy. To be good in your emotional foreplay, you will have to make her feel loved and appreciated.

 

You will treat her as a person you are deeply in love and not just an object or outlet to vent your sex needs. You have to be romantic by giving her pleasant surprises which can be some small gifts (which she has always wants) or in the form of gestures. When you are not with her, you can romance her with sms text messaging.

 

Communication and emotional connection are both very important foundation for a strong relationship. You need to be patient and listen to her without interruptions her needs, wishes, concerns and problems.

 

You must first resolve any underlying issues outside the bedroom if you want to have a great sex life. If she is not so keen in sex, you have to find out the reasons. Sometimes, she may be troubled by certain conditions such as vaginismus (painful intercourse) or excessive and colored vaginal discharge. Besides getting her to seek medical treatment, you can search online for some self-help guides on vaginismus cure and how to treat yeast infection.

 

Once you have taken care of the emotional aspect of the foreplay, you can now work on physical aspect of the foreplay. In order to be effective in pleasing and teasing your woman, you will have to take things slowly. The longer you build anticipation, the more pleasure she feels when you reach her hot spots. You do this by deliberately leaving out her most obvious erogenous zones (nipples, clitoris) initially and instead spending more time on her less obvious ones which can be more sensitive to stimulation during the early stage of foreplay.

 

To make it sensationally intense for her, you can practice some light bondage by way of blindfolding her. As she is not going to know where you will be touching her next, this can be very arousing to her. In touching her, you can impress her with your creativity. There are many things in your house that can be used as sex tools. For example, you can use lightly stroke her with light feather that can be very ticklish and arousing. While touching her, you can either sweet talk or dirty talk to her.

 

At this point, your main aim is to give her pleasure and make it mutually enjoyable. Though it is best to give her an orgasm, you should not make having an orgasm the main goal for every intercourse session. This will put undue pressure on your woman, making it difficult for her to achieve orgasm.

 

There is no one-size-fit-all way in arousing a woman. You have to customize or make special adjustments to the sexual techniques you master, in order to be effective in helping her to have the best orgasm she ever gets. You have to pay attention and observe how her body reacts to your move and touch.

 

Does she put her arms around you or caress you when you touch or penetrate her? If this happens, this means you are doing the right thing. Does she push you back or cover herself up? If this is so, you will have to make changes in your moves. Does she synchronize her movement with yours such as moving her hips in time with your thrust? If this is so, this means she is enjoying what you are doing to her. Does her breathing get more rapid? This is often a sign of she is quite close to orgasm.

 

How do you know if she is aroused enough? When she is wet down there, does this mean you can stop your foreplay? Many guys have this wrong assumption that when a woman is wet, this means she is ready for sex. Well, this is not so. When she is lubricated, it means her mind is starting to get sexual but still far away from the stage when she is about to orgasm. A clear sign of her been highly-aroused is when you see her vagina swollen or bulging due to increased blood flow to this region. You will see her clitoral hood covering her clitoris in contrast to the beginning when the clitoris is partially-exposed.

 

Though every woman is different, but for most women, the most effective way to arousing them is by way of clit stimulation, which is the easiest and best way to female orgasm. You can stimulate her clitoris by your hands, your mouth and tongue, your sex organ and sex toys. The best way is to let her have her first orgasm through clitoral stimulation before you enter her. She will then be very sensitive to your subsequent moves and will be able to achieve multiple orgasms.

 

What I suggest is 60% of your effort will be what you should do to please her when outside the bedroom. Once you do this well, you can be very sure, she will be very receptive to what you are going to do her in bed.  This is 60% emotional (laying the foundation) and 40% physical action in the bedroom.

 

For more ideas to make a woman want you, read on more to discover the Secrets of Female Orgasm and to find out What She Wants.

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How To Turn A Girl On – Give Her Pussy-Vibrating Orgasms

 

 

 

 

 

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What can you do if your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary? Have no worries! There are plenty of ways you can do to spice things up by making her melt under your tender loving care and giving her the best sex ever. Here are some ideas you can use to turn the heat up in the bedroom.

 

(1)   Warm her up first

 

To a woman, sex is more than just penetration. Men can get hard on very fast if they come into contact with sexy women. For a woman, emotions play a greater part in turning her on. A woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ. It is the starting point for female orgasm. This means you should never grope her right down there. Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level.

 

A good way to get her into the mood is to explore and act out her fantasies. So, why not, and have some dirty talk with her? If she is too shy to open up, you can tickle her fantasy by reading to her some pages from those erotic adult literature. Or, you can watch an erotic film together. Some of the scenes in the suggestive videos can give both of you a few fantasy ideas to start with.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

If you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do, focus sometime on foreplay to make sure she is adequately aroused first. This will actually intensify her orgasms later. Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Play some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood.

 

For a start, do not undress her completely. You let the rough texture of her clothes work a little magic on her bare skin. There are thousands of tiny nerve endings on her soft, sweet lips. You will be pleasantly surprised by how she can get so easily turned on by just kissing her. The trick is to start with slow and gentle kisses and tease her playfully. When you kiss her, do look into her eyes as you run your fingers down the back of her spine. At this stage, you refrain from heading straight for her genitals. You use your tongue to work its magic on her erogenous zones, from her ears, her neck, her navel and move down to her inner thighs and toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, purposely avoid them. This will escalate her sexual tension so that when you finally decide to reach those erotic zones, her chances of achieving a powerful and squirting orgasm will increase tenfold.

 

When she is sufficiently aroused and stimulated, you can move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity and see what gives her the most pleasure. If you are not sure what works best for her, you can observe how she stimulates herself by way of masturbation – the motions, the angles and the intensity she uses on herself. Then you replicate these movements on her.

 

(3)   Get naughty

 

Nothing gets a woman more aroused than the risk of getting caught in the act. After she enters into the fitting room of a retail store to try on some dresses, you slip in unnoticed, watch her undress, caress her and get in the act, in the midst of other shoppers in the background. You can have some wild sex in the balcony, on the hood of your car in a deserted gravel road, in a quiet park, or on the beach. Have intercourse in a standing position near to the window.

 

Sometimes you may need a little help to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along a sex toy? Sex toys are great ways to learn about a woman’s body and what turns her on the most. If she has a vibrator, ask her to show you how to use it.

 

Use these tips for a start to spice up sex and give your wife or lover the best sex that will blow her mind. If you need more ideas to please her, check out Hot Sex and/or Make Her Cum.

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Sex Tips For Women – How To Orgasm Through Intercourse

 

 

 

 

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According to a Year 2000 Orgasm Survey, 72% of women disclosed that they faked an orgasm at least once. Do you feel that at times, in order to make your partner feel good about himself, you have to appear as if you are enjoying a lot in bed? You may feel a little inadequate or thinking that something is wrong about yourself ? You should not throw up your hands and accept this as something that cannot be changed. Here are some ways to help you get out of this situation and have the sex life you want.

(1)   Stimulate yourself first

 

The fastest and most effective way to get yourself into the mood is to stimulate yourself. Both you and your partner have to shoulder equal responsibility in improving your sex life. When comes to sex, you should not act in a passive way thinking that it is solely your partner’s responsibility to make you orgasm.

 

You can increase your chances of having orgasm during intercourse by making yourself orgasm first. You can do this by stimulating yourself mentally and physically. Every desire originates from the brain. Therefore work on your mind first by occupying your mind with sexy thoughts. You can read an erotic novel, view porn or indulge in your own fantasies to get your mind into the sexy mode.

 

Once your mind is ready, you can start to stimulate yourself physically. The easiest and most relaxed way is by means of masturbation. Take a deep breath, relax, close your eyes if you want and start stroking your clitoris in ways that you find most comfortable and enjoyable. For a start, you can do this by yourself to find out what you really like best. Later on you can masturbate just before and during sex. You can show your partner how you like to be touched by using his fingers to touch your clitoris during foreplay and/or penetration.

 

(2)   Do not give undue pressure on yourself

 

Once in a while, you may not be able to reach orgasm. This is not your fault and not your partner’s. This is okay and normal. Perhaps at a particular moment, your mind is preoccupied with something else. If you can think in this way, your mind will be able to relax. This is of utmost important because if you are not able to relax your mind, orgasm will be impossible for you. Also, you need to ask your partner to stop mentioning about orgasm while having sex.

 

You can distract yourself from negative thoughts by fantasizing or having some soothing background music. The main thing here is to get yourself at ease and focus on pleasuring yourself. You can guide your partner on where and how you want to be touched. Give him positive feedback if he does the right thing which can be moaning or tightening your grip in his shoulders or telling him that it feels so good and to keep it this way.

 

(3)   Get into sex positions that can help you to orgasm easily

 

When he is on top of you, get him to align to you in such a way his penis is constantly grinding on your clitoris and nearby area. The key to this position is to ‘rock together’ with him. As he bears the weight of his genitals on you, you coordinate with his downward movement by moving your hips upwards to receive him. He will be moving forward and backward in rocking motion while you will be moving upwards, which will increase the pressure as well as pleasure on your clitoris.

 

You can also get into the woman-on-top position. In this position, you can rub your clitoris against his pubic region to induce powerful clitoral orgasm. Alternatively, you can use your hand or ask your partner to stimulate the clitoris while you are in your action.

 

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Sex Tips For Women – How To Orgasm

 

 

 

 

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It is estimated that more than half of women have never experienced orgasm and do not know what it is. What is orgasm? How to have orgasms? What are the ways to achieve orgasm? Read on below.

 

Orgasm is an intense sensation that occurs at the climax of sexual excitement that is accompanied by rhythmic muscle contractions and intense pleasure. This is followed by the release of sexual tension.

 

Some women are not able to achieve orgasm because of the lack of sex hormones and related medical problems. Low hormone levels and poor blood circulation to the sexual organ can prevent women from reaching orgasm. Certain medical conditions, medications or surgeries can cause reduced blood circulation to the clitoris. If you are not able to reach orgasm, the first step is to have a physical evaluation to make sure that there is no medical problem.

 

Many women do not achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse. This occurs because the location of the clitoris is not conducive to orgasm during the sexual act. For women who are in this situation, it can be quite pressurizing if their partners are disappointed with this.

 

The best way for a woman to reach orgasm is to make her have it on her own. If you can have orgasm by yourself, you will be able to reach orgasm during sex. Here are a few ways you can reach orgasm by yourself.

 

(1)   Strengthen your vaginal muscles

 

One of the main reasons why women are having a hard time in reaching orgasm is because of weak pubococcygeal (PC, or pelvic floor muscles). These are the muscles surrounding the vaginal opening and are the same muscles a woman uses to hold in her urine.

 

Why do stronger muscles give you more sensations during sex? The answer lies in the deeply buried nerve endings in the vagina. It takes strong pressure to stimulate these nerves. If the muscle is lax, the penis will have limited contact with your vaginal walls. But if the muscles are taut, the penis will be able to rub strongly against the walls, stimulating the surrounding tissues and giving the highly sensitive clitoris another boost.

 

Stronger PC muscles will allow more blood to flow to the pelvic region during arousal, making it easier to have an orgasm. A woman with strong PC muscles can clamp down on the penis by contracting them, which will result in greater sexual pleasure for herself and her partner, and probably increase her ability to ejaculate. A woman can strengthen her PC muscles by doing pelvic floor exercises also known as Kegel exercises. These exercises will help to increase the tightness of your vaginal walls. Exercising your PC muscles can take as little as five minutes and doing it three times a day.

 

To work the PC muscles, try to stop and then release your urine a few times. Put one finger inside your vagina and squeeze on it as if you are trying to stop urine from flowing out. If you don’t feel tightness on your finger, you are squeezing the right pelvic muscle. Kegel exercises sometimes involve inserting small weights inside the vagina. By using heavier weights, over time, the pelvic muscles can become stronger and tighter, giving you more control over the amount of pressure with which you can squeeze.

 

(2)   Self pleasure

 

This is a good way to discover for yourself what pleasures you. You can do this by rubbing or stroking the clitoris and other areas of the vulva with your hands and fingers and steadily increasing the pace of manual stimulation. Besides your hands, you can run or spray water (from the shower or faucet) on your genitals.

 

To get more intense and prolonged stimulation, you can use a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris and nearby area. Some improvised toys such as cucumbers, brush handles, mirror handles, bananas work great too. Also consider trying a penis-shaped sex toy as some women are more sensitive to vaginal stimulation, or need a combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulations. Other women enjoy anal stimulation so you can consider experimenting with anal toys. If your nipples are sensitive, you may want to try nipple clamps.

 

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How Female Orgasm Works

 

 

 

 

 

How can I make a girl orgasm? Why she can’t orgasm when we are having intercourse? What is wrong? There is nothing wrong with you and your girl at all. Around 75% of women do not reach orgasm from penis-in-vagina intercourse alone. This does not mean that 75% of women do not experience a sexual climax. The truth is that sex is more than just intercourse and orgasm. In order to help put your woman into the 25% who enjoy sex and make her like you a lot, you have to understand the process of sexual response. Any sexual experience will involve some or all of the 5 stages which are desire, arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution.

 

(1)   Desire

 

Desire is simply the wish or urge to participate in any sexual activity or some kind of sex. This desire works in the same way as feeling hungry which makes you want to eat.In a sexual context, desire is a matter of having an appetite to have sex at a given time which is sometimes described as being “hungry” or “horny”. Without this feeling of sexual desire, sex in any form is not going to be enjoyable. This feeling of desire can happen when all or any of the 5 senses of sight, sound, smell, touch and taste are being stimulated. This can also occur when we are talking about sex with someone else. In order to get aroused, we need to have desire first.

 

(2)   Arousal

 

What happens when you or someone is aroused? When we are aroused, blood pressure will go up, making our face red hot, breathing and heartbeat gets faster. Our body becomes very sensitive and responsive to touch. There will be an increase in the flow of blood to the genital issues. Your penis will get hard. Her nipples become erect or swollen and the breasts get slightly fuller. Her clitoris and vaginal lips become puffed up. She will start to get wet (vaginal lubrication). The deeper end of the vaginal also expands and pulls back a bit, making her feel emptier inside the vagina. Though a guy can get aroused very quickly, but for a woman, this usually can happen if you are patient in giving her a good foreplay.

 

(3)   Plateau

 

When sexual stimulation continues, our arousal may then progress to the plateau phase. We get this “high” feeling or a feeling of being “on the edge”. Your body will feel increasingly sensitive, face, lips or chest get flushed, or the heart beat gets even stronger. The same thing also happens to her.

 

(4)   Orgasm

 

This is the peak of sexual excitement which happens after the plateau stage. The muscles especially around the pelvis region will expand and contract and the body will secrete more good-feeling hormones such as endorphins. For a guy, he will reach the point of no return and ejaculate. For a woman, she must be stimulated all the way (without stopping) in order to reach orgasm.

 

(5)   Resolution

 

The pressure that builds up in the body to reach orgasm is finally released just like the popping of an inflated balloon. Both you and your girl will feel physically and psychologically relaxed. Blood that fills up the genitals and other sensitive body parts will drain out causing them to return to their normal state. This resolution stage can also happen without orgasm when all forms of sexual stimulation are stopped abruptly.

 

Now that you understand how orgasm can happen to you and your woman, you can start applying this knowledge in your sex life now. In order to get her to enjoy sex and experience full arousal, plateau and climax, you need to stimulate more than just her genitals. Her state of mind is of utmost importance. Her mind needs to be stimulated as well to get in the mood.

 

Do you want to be the special guy who can make orgasm easily happen to a girl? Do you want to give her the best experience she ever had? If you want to, you can read on further from Hot Sex and Make Her Cum.

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