Female Orgasm – How To Turn A Girl On

 

 

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If you want to know how to make a girl orgasm, you need to know how to turn her on, arouse her mind and excite her all at once. Great sex is more than just sexual techniques.  Everything starts from the brain. There are many ways to arouse a woman, but there is no doubt that arousing her mind will get her body going. A girl’s arousal starts from within, and as long as you know just how to excite her mind, you’ll definitely be able to get her tingly and wet in no time. Here are some ways you can arouse a woman and make her orgasm easily and quickly.

 

(1)   Stimulate her mentally

 

Women like their mind stimulated as well as their sex drive so it is important to say and do things that stimulate her mind as well as her body. You can start by paying her sincere compliments. When you are outside of the bedroom in a quiet, safe zone (e.g. a quite night in front of the TV), tell her how much you enjoy when she does certain things to you. Even if you haven’t had sex yet, you can tell her how much pleasure she’s given you when kissing or playing around. Compliment how she looks and let her know that she turns you on. You might think she already knows this but even if so, she’ll love hearing it. You will boost her sexual self-esteem with you, which is critical to her psychological ability to reach an orgasm.

 

You can also stimulate her by giving her pleasant surprises.Surprise her with a small gift. Erotic gifts are BEST for this.By buying a gift you are triggering a sexual response not because you are giving her a gift, but because the spontaneous thought you are showing her is that you are thinking of her which makes her “feel” important. By giving an erotic gift you are setting the tone for her mind to wander and it won’t be long before she is begging to try her new toy.

 

(2)   Start slowly

 

Take your time to make her feel good. Spend as much time as she needs teasing all over her body to drive her crazy. Start slow, and then gradually build up the intensity. Don’t head straight for the bulls eye. You love her kitty and her breasts, but they aren’t the only places with lots of nice nerve endings.

 

Begin kissing her slowly at first, keeping your desire to devour her in check.  Women are particularly stimulated when their many erogenous zones are kissed, nibbled, and suckled.  Before removing her clothes you can kiss her mouth without tongue, and then with tongue.  Kiss her neck, ear lobes, shoulders, and upper chest.  The long process of kissing her before removing clothes will continue increasing her arousal.

 

When you begin undressing a woman, it should be slow and enticing.  Remove her clothes one article at a time.  Keep in mind that sometimes leaving something on can also be erotic.  Begin by teasing her. Remove her blouse but not her bra.  Continue kissing and caressing her through her bra, until she is ready for you to touch her breasts directly.  Use slow, rhythmic back and forth movements to stimulate her breasts.  You can circle the breast with your hands or your mouth.  Slowly her nipples will become erect, indicating her arousal.

 

After stimulating both breasts like this, you can remove her bra.  Removing a woman’s bra can be quite tricky. If you are not sure how to do this it can be an awkward moment.  The best way to learn how to do this is to practice when you partner is not at home.  Practice fastening and unfastening the clasp so the next time you have the chance the movement is smooth and fluid.

 

(3)   Tease her down there

 

As you sense her longing increase, begin to slowly move your hands toward the lower half of her body.  She’s almost naked now but keeps her underwear on for another minute or so. It can be very exciting for a woman if you do not suddenly pull down her panties but instead explores with them on for a while. Instead of taking them off, you can begin touching the inside edge of her panties from front to back.  Exploring her buttocks and then moving back to touch and feel for her wetness before exploring further.  The key is to focus on building anticipation rather than going straight for direct stimulation. This will get her excited, and make her more sensitive.

 

(4)   Get down to business

 

Eventually you can remove her panties and explore her inner thighs, circling her whole vulva and eventually touching her clitoris.  Often the clitoris is the most important missed part of a woman’s body. Failing to stimulate the clitoris is like trying to help a man have an orgasm without touching his penis! This is because up to 98% of the orgasms women experience come from direct stimulation to the clitoris. 

 

Most women reach orgasm after having their clitoris stimulated for 5-20 minutes. Stimulating a woman’s clitoris can happen orally or using your hands; both are effective. Oral and hand stimulation can often provide her with an even greater chance of success of reaching orgasm. Since the clitoris is the most sensitive spot on a woman’s body, it is much better to go with a light touch that isn’t too prolonged and then go back to it sporadically. When touching her clitoris, always make sure that your finger is lubricated by her juices or your saliva. A dry finger on her clit hurts like hell and is a big turn off. Combine light flicks of your finger or tongue on her clit and long strokes in and out with your fingers. Then, alternate by putting your penis back in and then going back to finger and oral stimulation. You’ll both have an explosive sexual experience.

 

One trick to helping a woman achieve maximum pleasure is to bring her close to orgasm and resist the urge to push her over the edge.  Women experience more intense orgasms when they are stimulated and brought to the edge of orgasm and allowed to relax.  Once this happens one or two times, when she finally does have her orgasm it is much more powerful. Each time she gets close her longing and desire increase, and when she is finally able to release that energy, the built-up desire makes the orgasm even more powerful.

 

(5)   Go for it and make her come in any position

 

Due to the position of her clitoris, it is extremely difficult for most women to achieve an orgasm from the standard missionary (man on top) position alone. If you are on top and pumping inside of her, try lightly stimulating her clitoris with a moistened finger at the same time (find out if she prefers to have you play with her clit directly, or from the outside of the hood of her clitoris. Some women are too sensitive down there and it hurts, while others love it) or get her to play with it while you penetrate her with your penis.

 

One of the easiest ways to make her orgasm is to get her on top, because it will allow her to stimulate her clitoris against your body and control the speed, penetration and length of the strokes to her satisfaction. Her on top is the easiest way for her to orgasm by far, but you need to work out the right rhythm and technique for each woman – not all women are the same.

 

Some women prefer sex lying side-by-side facing each other (push her head down sometimes to allow her to see you pumping her), doggy style or back to front. Have fun experimenting. Observe how she responds to, but don’t change positions too often and too quickly. She will lose her concentration and that is a big part of how a woman reaches an orgasm. Let her get caught up in the emotion and delve into the feelings, thoughts and sensations that will drive her to orgasm. Help her along by groaning with enjoyment at times, breathing heavily to express your enjoyment and using your masculine facial expressions to show her how into it you are.

 

Just use these tips on how to turn a girl on and you will definitely be able to arouse her and give her some of the best orgasms she’s ever had! Do you want to make sex more sexy and exciting? Check it out at Hot Sex and /or Dirty Harry’s Secrets.

 


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For Her – How To Have Best Orgasm

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Just can’t seem to quite get there? Or would you like her ending moment to be even better and not just stop at one? Many women will love to want more: more frequent orgasms, stronger orgasms, and yes, orgasms in a row! Use these tips to give her what she wants – the best orgasm she ever had.

 

(1)   Hit her hot spots

 

To give her the best orgasm, you have to devote enough time for foreplay and this requires you to know where to press her ‘hot buttons’.  Here are some areas you should pay attention to.

 

Her ear – You kiss, lick or stroke the folds of her ears, nibble on her lobes and gently stroke/kiss behind her ears and to the back of the neck down to her shoulders.

 

Her navel – Most women fantasize about being held in a firm manly grip. While holding her from behind as you kiss the back of her neck, you run your hands from her ribs to her pelvic bones, kneading and massaging the area in between. Let your hands roam over this erogenous zone – the triangular area from her hip bones to the top of her genitals. At this stage, you hold off on grabbing her genitals for the time being.

 

Her lower torso – There is this crease or line across a woman’s lower abdomen from one hip bone to the other, passing right over the top of the region covered with pubic hair. Make sure your kisses and fingers explore this area before you go further down.

 

Her buttock folding – One of the more erotic zones in a woman’s body is the crease between the curve of her buttocks and the top of her thighs, known as the sacral crease. Stroking or kissing along that crease usually produces a strong erotic response. If your lover is on all fours or on her stomach, and you are pleasuring her from behind, it is good to tease that area by kissing or licking, bringing your lips closer and closer to her vaginal area with each pass.

 

Her buttocks – The buttocks themselves are a strong erogenous zone, but they need to be approached slowly, after her other hot spots have been stimulated. Light stroking or a teasingly little squeeze while you are stimulating other areas is fine, but save the firm squeezing or light spanking later until she is well aroused.

 

Her knees behind – The skin behind the knees is thin and soft and very responsive to touch because the nerves are close to the surface. Most women find that kissing and licking the crease directly behind the knees is very pleasurable.

 

Her inner thighs – This is the last area to be stimulated before moving to her genitals. Soft kisses and light fingertip stroking from her knees right up, but not including her vulva and clitoris may send her moaning helplessly, indicating her readiness for genital stimulation. The teasing nature of such touches will be the spark that lights her fire, as anticipation is the spice that is the key to feminine arousal.

 

(2)   Prolong her pleasure

 

The way to give her the best orgasm is to push her to the edge of orgasm and then hold back. The key to making her orgasm longer is to delay her reaching her peak. Just because you know how to get her to come, does not mean you have to give it to her right away. Anticipation can add to the power of the orgasm after you’ve finally decided to let her come. Yes, let her. You are in control of her orgasm, therefore, just slow it down. Get her close to reaching her peak using your hands and mouth during foreplay, and then switch up your techniques. Get her close again, and then switch it up again. This will keep her in a suspense state of orgasmic pleasure.

 

Teasing penetration can also work to get her near to the edge. After you have done oral sex, kissing and touching and you are ready for sex – but not quite ready to give in to her anticipation yet – teasing penetration will keep the fires burning but satisfy your need to be closer to each other. During teasing penetration, you will enter her, but only a little at a time. Short, light thrusts that only put the head in are incredible for both of you. After a while you simply pull out and resume the kissing or teasing of her hot spots (or erogenous zones), until you are both cooled off enough to continue without reaching orgasm immediately. Not only will this be fun to watch her reactions, you will notice her getting hotter and hotter. When you finally decide to let her come, it will be an explosion of pleasure.

 

(3)   Bring her to orgasm

 

If you have been doing a good job in touching and teasing her, by now, she should be ready for more direct stimulation down there. For most women, the easiest way to reach orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris using either your hands and/or mouth. However, you should not neglect the surrounding areas too, which is the region around her vaginal opening, the linings (or lips) of her vagina, the perineum (the area between the vagina and anus) and the anus itself.

 

During the initial stage of clitoral stimulation, you alternate the touching between these surrounding areas and the clitoris, with more than half of the time on the surrounding areas. It is only when she is quite close to orgasm, that you pay sole attention on stimulating her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

 

When you get to the intercourse stage, you can get into sex positions that offer some friction to help her reach orgasm during penetration. You ask her to get on top so that she can rub her clitoris against your pubic bone.  Or, when you are on top, you put a pillow or a wedge under her buttocks to elevate her pelvic region to give you higher chances of her hitting her g-spot. You may even want to try using a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate her clitoris.

 

Start with these tips to give her the best you can offer. But if you need more, you can take a look at here and/or this place.

 

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