Oral Sex Tips For Men And Women

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There are lots of ways to pleasure a man or a woman. Oral sex (performing cunnilingus or fellatio) is one of them. Many couples engage in oral sex to increase the enjoyment of lovemaking and intimacy. If you are one of those who want to satisfy your partner through oral sex, read on to find how you can make his/her thighs quiver with pleasure.

 

Performing Cunnilingus

 

(1)   Brush up your knowledge of female sexual anatomy

 

It is always helpful if you know as much as you can her body parts. Most of the effort on oral sex is about stimulating her clitoris. However not every woman is the same. While some enjoy direct stimulation of the clitoris, others prefer indirect stimulation. There are other parts of her body near to the clitoris that can be equally sensitive to oral stimulation.

 

(2)   Take your time

 

Most women need time to warm up in order to prepare her body for sex. You kiss her all over from the neck down to her crotch. You spend time on her breasts, licking and sucking her nipples. The nerves in the nipples are connected to the nerves in her clitoris and vagina, so pinching or rubbing her nipples can drive her wild. You then move to her belly and kiss around her navel. Slowly you ease your way to her inner thighs. These can help to build up the sexual tension so that she can easily get into orgasm when you reach for her clitoris later.

 

(3)   Be consistent

 

Women like steady stimulation. Quick tongue flicks against the clitoris can be irritating. Get her to give you feedback while you experiment on the different kinds of tongue strokes. Does she like circular, side-to-side, or up and down movement of your tongue? Once you know her preference, continue doing it. You will see the signs when she is almost reaching orgasm – her moans, her thighs pressing against your head, her body arching, her hands tightening on your head. She will let you know when to stop the stimulation.

 

(4)   Go for her clitoris

 

The sensation that she gets when her clitoris is being stimulated can extend deep into her body. You use your tongue to make sweeping motions along the lips of her vagina. Once you feel that she is wet, you spread out her vaginal lips and take her clitoris in your mouth to gently suck on it.

 

(5)   Use your hands

 

When performing oral sex on her, you use your hands to caress her backside and thighs to intensify her sensation. You can also use your finger to rub on her clitoris.

 

Giving Him A Blowjob

 

(6)   Get him to trim a bit

 

If your guys is too bushy down there, get him to trim a bit. This is to prevent some of his hair from getting into your mouth when you perform oral sex on him.

 

(7)   Do not bare your teeth

 

When you perform oral sex on a man, make sure your teeth remain behind your lips. You should either be sucking or licking his penis and not biting it. What you should do is to press your lips firmly against his penis shaft to mimic the movement of penetration.

 

(8)   You talk dirty

 

This is applicable to both sexes. When he gets erected, you can talk dirty to him saying how much you like the hardness and tastes of his “ice cream stick”.

 

(9)   You coordinate the movement of your mouth with your hand

 

A good blow job makes use of both hand and mouth. You use your thumb and index finger to form the shape of a ring around his penis shaft while you glide your lips along the top half of his male hood. You coordinate your movement in a way so that your fingers and mouth are going up and down in unison. This can prevent his penis from going too far in your mouth if you are not comfortable with deep throat.

 

(10)   Do not forget other parts of his body

 

The scrotum (pouch of skin enclosing the testicles) and testicles are particularly sensitive to stimulation. You can lick on his testicles or gently pull his scrotum. You can also apply pressure to his perineum (the spot between his anus and his penis) with one or two fingers, as this can feel good. You can lick on his anus which can be a very enjoyable experience to your guy.

 

There you have it – some of the basics of performing oral sex. The main thing here is to take your time and be observant as you experiment. To find out more about how you can please him/her sexually, you can click on Lick Pussy and Blow Job. To improve your performance, you can take a look at the oral kit to be used on Him and Her.

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