How To Create A Sexy Bedroom

 

 

 

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Besides being the place to rest, most people will usually have sex in the bedroom too. Regardless of whether it is the first time or the thousandth you are having intercourse in the bedroom, its atmosphere will either add to or distract from your sexual experience. Therefore, making your bedroom into a space that is comfortable, unique and inviting is one of the easiest and best things you can do to have a great sex life. Here are the ways you can make this happen.

 

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(1)   Make it clutter-free

 

If you want to have this romantic feel for your bedroom, you have to make it spacious. You have to remember that this is your bedroom and not a storeroom. Therefore you should avoid making it stuffy by placing only the things that you need. Keep unused stuff in the cabinet or in the closet. Also, you should not have any exercising equipment around because the bedroom is a place for lovemaking and relaxation and exercising equipment just do not fit in. By keeping your bedroom clutter-free, it will be more inviting, organized and welcoming.

 

(2)   Invest in good quality paint

 

Low quality paint tends to leave a smell in your bedroom which can be toxic and cancer-causing. Use white or warm colors paint so that it will not be too dark when the lights are off.

 

(3)   Get a comfortable bed

 

Make sure it is not too big for the room and preferably one that has built-in drawers underneath. Plush comforters and high-quality sheets will make you both feel comfortable in the bed. Depending on how much space you have, use a mixture of pillows: standard-sized, square or decorative ones with coordinated covers. Arrange them in such a way with the biggest ones at the back.

 

Use relaxing colors such as rich earth tones or calming blues and greens for your bed sheet. Using bed hangings and canopies can add another layer of mystery and privacy to your room. This will make your bed more romantic with those fabrics hanging at the sides. Make sure you choose a fabric that is light and gauzy to make it bear that softness feel.

 

(4)   Add rugs

 

Aside from having cushy beddings, give your floor a soft feel by placing a soft rug (that is the same length of your bed) on either side of the bed. This can add to the cozy and comfortable feeling, giving your room a romantic ambience with all those softness around you.

 

(5)   Use dim lighting

 

Lighting should be soft and filtered. Bright and glaring lights such as the overhead fluorescent lamp can detract from the ambience. Opt for those 40 watts lightings to add comfort and serenity. You can also use a table top lantern or a lamp at the side table. You may also make use of natural lights by having transparent curtains. Make sure the curtains compliment the bedding.

 

(6)   Add mirrors

 

They can also add depth and make your room looks more spacious. You can use as many as you like and they can be any size. But just do not over-do this because you don’t want this to be too overwhelming. Or, you can just use a floor-standing mirror that can be move around the room which certainly adds spice to both the atmosphere and the action.

 

(7)   Make it sexually functional

 

Everything that you could possibly want when you have sex should be within easy reach of your bed. Some sexual necessities that should be neatly stashed in one of the built-in drawers underneath the bed or near to the bed are: condoms, lubricant, breath mints, long silk scarves, sex toys, love cushion, and a roll of toilet paper or tissues for easy clean up. Have your favorite treats handy, maybe a box of chocolates that will be sure to tease. For a late-night indulgence, place strawberries and whipped cream on a small tray next to the bed.

 

(8)   Add a little music and noise

 

Keep your favorite love songs at your iPhone. Soft love music is one of the easiest ways to lift up your mood. You can also invest in a bedside sound system to play your favorite mood-inducing music.

 

If you have a TV in the bedroom, use this only for watching erotic videos. This can be porn, or some romantic or scary movies. There are wide choices of movies that are perfect for getting both of you in the mood. Do not limit yourselves to the obvious ones.

 

Creating a romantic bedroom atmosphere is essential to enhancing romance in your life. Get artistic, be creative, and put the spark back into your sex life. For more ideas to spice up sex, you can read further from Gaming for Orgasm and Love House.

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Fun Things To Do Tonight As A Couple

 

 

 

 

 

After a while, sex can get boring and predictable. Knowing exactly how long the foreplay will last, what positions you are going to use and how long it is going to take for your partner to reach orgasm becomes all too familiar. To break out of the sex rut, couples should try new things in the bedroom. This can improve sex life and bring you closer together. If you are looking for some ideas to spice sex up, here are a few to get you started.

 

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(1)   Questions and answers

 

Your girl lies naked in bed and you stand at the doorway to the bedroom. She will test how well you know her by asking you questions about herself. These questions can range from sexy (what is her favorite sex position) to personal (name her dream vacation spot).

 

For each correct answer, you will get to move one step closer to her. If you give the wrong answer, you will take a step back. Once you correctly answer enough questions to reach the bed, the teasing, the sexual tension and expectation will drive up your lust. In the process, you will get to know your woman better.

 

(2)   Make sex tasty

 

You can use food to rub on another person, certain vegetables for inserting into sexy places. You have to make sure that the food will not irritate sensitive skin or cause any allergic reactions. Some of the best foods for sexual activities are strawberries, whip cream and chocolate syrup.

 

You can make a game out of this by applying different food to various parts of the body and get your blindfolded partner to seek out the whereabouts of the food using hands and mouth. The different sensations on the tongue and on the skin can be almost unbearable, in a good way. The objective is to stimulate as many senses as possible during sex.

 

(3)   Pamper her feet

 

Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and licked. At the end of the day, you offer to rub her feet. Few women can resist this. If you have foot fetish or you want to try something new, you can let her rub her feet on your face, or along your dick, or pinch your balls with her toes.

 

(4)   Orgasm competition

 

Lie side by side naked and start to pleasure yourselves. Whoever comes first gives the other person manual or oral stimulation until he/she reaches the finish line. The act of masturbating in front of each other can draw you closer together because it is normally something you do when you are alone. Allowing another person to watch you makes you feel vulnerable and increases the intimacy with your partner.

 

(5)   Hide-and-seek

Taking this childhood game to new levels can add plenty of spice to your sex life. One of you will hide and the other will search. To give a sexy twist to this game, you can offer favors if you are being found in a certain time. Or better yet, the sooner you are found, the better will be the favors.

 

(6)   Rape fantasy play

 

Though rape is a serious subject, some women get completely turned on by the thought of being overpowered. This kinky foreplay technique will make your love life fantastic. You “break in” to the house and intrude into the bedroom, which can be both frightening and arousing to her at the same time. As you “threaten” her and she begs for mercy, she will be getting more and more aroused.

 

(7)   Lover’s lane

 

You and your partner will find a place around your town where you can park and not be bothered. One of you will pretend to be a virgin and have no idea on how to please the other. After you have parked, the supposedly ignorant one will be told and show in explicit details in how to please him/her. This can help couples that are struggling with their sex lives to know each other’s desires better.

 

(8)   Let her dominate you

 

She will tie you up with scarves, belts or a silk tie. This is a good chance for her to touch you the way you like. If she is not sure, this is a great time for her to figure out by herself. Through asking questions, listening and observing your response, she will get to have a better understanding of what arouses you a lot.

 

Another way is she will blindfold you and then tease you all over using a series of sexy objects such as caressing your penis with a silky thong, drizzling chocolate sauce over your chest and then lick it up, rolling a beaded necklace over your upper thighs. You will guess what she is stroking you with, and she will stick to a particular item until you give the right answer.

 

So, what are you waiting for? Switch off your phones and use these tips to give you a long lustful night of teasing and pleasing. For more ideas to have great sex, you can read on more from Fun Sexy Games and Turn Your Household Items Into Love Props.

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Naughty Games To Spice Up Sex

 

 

 

 

 

Are you feeling that your sex life is a bit boring? Are you looking for ideas to make a hot sex life even more scorching? It is therefore very important to add some variety to your everyday sex life to make it enjoyable and spicy. Adding sex games to your sexual repertoire can really turn the heat up in the bedroom. At the same women also like creative things to make life interesting.

 

The main aim of playing bedroom games is to keep sex fun and therefore winning is not the priority. Avoid setting very tough rules to spoil the mood. Both of you should make some common rules which are equally applicable to both partners to avoid either party being hurt physically or mentally.

 

Here are lists of the sex games ideas you can try tonight.

 

(1)   Strip dice

 

One of you will roll the dice to start the game. On each player’s turn, the one who is not rolling the dice will guess whether the roll of the dice will be higher or lower than the previous one. If the guess is incorrect, then the person will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(2)   Strip ping pong

 

Arrange six 16-ounce plastic cups in a triangle shape at either end of the table and grab some ping pong balls. You stand at one end of the table, with your partner at the other. Both of you will take turns to throw a ping pong ball into the cups at the opposite end of the table. The one who scores will get the right to demand the other to remove that cup and a piece of clothing. The first person to land a ball in all six cups gets to request a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

(3)   Taste, touch and guess

 

Get some honey, syrup, yogurt or other food items of similar textures. Put some of it on part of his/her body or you can use more than one kind on different parts. The other partner is blindfolded and he/she has to explore the body, to seek out the food and identify it only by taste and touch. The blindfolded party can do this with his/her hands or mouth or both.

 

(4)   Guessing game

 

Get naked, blindfold your partner and then play with his/her body. Start the touching from the shoulders, arms, legs, head and feet. Then go for the erogenous zones like chest, belly, neck, lips, back, buttocks, inner thighs and genital region. Give him/her all sorts of sensations to the skin and let him/her make a guess what items you are using to touch his/her body. You can use things like your lips, breath, tongue, hand, fingers, genitals, breasts, feather, silk scarf, ice cubes, and fruits and so on. If the guess is correct, he/she can demand certain sexual favor from the “touching” partner.

 

(5)   Bondage teasing

 

One of you will tie the other one to the bed or a chair and then take full control. You can liven up the atmosphere with some sexy background music. The one who is in control can keep some clothes on for a little while to start with, and perform a sexy striptease or lap dance for some extra fun. This will be followed by some teasing and playful touch on the submissive party, using some props such as a soft scarf, a vibrator, ice cubes, etc.

 

(6)   Kinky cards

 

Get a deck of cards and assign each suit a different sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs are manual stimulation and spades mean oral. Take turns picking cards from the stack and treat each to the sexy move being drawn. The numbers on the cards represent how long you have to perform each act. If you get the nine of diamonds, he/she has to give you a sensual massage for nine seconds. If your partner picks the five of the spades, you will have to give him/her a five-second oral pleasure.

 

(7)   Hands off

 

You can try this creative sex game immediately tonight because it is simple, fun and you do not need to get anything or use sex prop. Start with some foreplay, like giving each other oral sex and move on the real deal when you are hot, wet and ready. The trick to this sex game is that both of you can never use your hands on each other when performing any sexual acts – no hand job, no fingering her, no grasping of her hips while you enter her, etc. The first person to accidentally use his/her hands loses and the other person can demand a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

If you really love your partner, then you should try to be creative in your sex life. Besides breathing new life into boring sex, playing sexy games can help to find a lot about your partner (even his/her darkest desires) without having to prod him/her for information. Therefore, use these sex games to bring you closer to your partner.

 

If you are keen for more ideas to spice up sex, you can read on further from Fun Games To Play In The Bedroom and Creative Plus Erotic.

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Does Circumcision Increase The Risk Of Erection Problems?

 

 

 

 

Could circumcision be having any significant impact on how to maintain an erection?

 

Circumcision is a very emotionally charged topic with some people feeling that this is unethical and should be outlawed. On the other hand, some are of the view that circumcision can help to lower the risks of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. Yet, till now, there are no national health authorities recommending that their citizens should practice circumcision.

 

According to some research studies, circumcision does indeed cause erectile dysfunction. The main reason cited in these studies is that the foreskin which protects the head of the penis has several kinds of specialized nerves that play an important role in sexual pleasure and sensitivity.

 

Without the foreskin to protect the glans (head of the penis), the surface of the glans will thicken due to its constant rubbing against the fabrics. As time goes on, this constant brushing against the fabrics can reduce the sensitivity of the glans to stimulation thus giving rise to problems in achieving erection.

 

Yet on the other hand, there are some people who claim that circumcision can never cause erection problems; though masturbation without a foreskin is quite different in the sense that some lubrication may be needed. They are of the view that the tip of the penis is still the most sensitive part and this will remain so, with or without foreskin.

 

What is my view?

 

Though I do not have a strong religious faith, I am of the view that there is a sort of a Creator up there and everything exists for a reason. Therefore we should not try to interfere too much with the way Nature sorts things out.

 

Following this logic, I am of the view that there must be some good reasons for the foreskin to exist. If not, the foreskin could have just degenerated or withered off long time ago. The view about the surface of the glans (head of the penis) being thicker due to constant rubbing against fabrics and leading to some decrease in sensation makes a lot of common sense to me. So, I do believe that there is still a possibility that this can lead to impotence or difficulty in getting an erection.

 

How to increase sensitivity of the penis?

 

(1)   Stroking and tickling

 

What I mean here is not masturbation. The purpose of doing this is to gradually restore the penile sensitivity. Instead of masturbating and having sex in the same way you usually do, you can try to stroke your penis gently and using feathers or soft brush to tickle, contact the glans. For a start, you can do this for five to ten minutes and gradually increase the time you do it. You will be pleasantly surprised how much the sensitivity of your penis has improved after a few months.

 

(2)   Touching your other erogenous areas

 

Rather than focusing on your penis, it will be better to touch other erogenous parts of your body. You will have to find out for yourself which other parts of your body are sensitive to touch. You can use your hands to feel for yourself, or you can use a vibrator or a massager to do it.

 

Commonly-known male erogenous zones (besides the penis) are the feet, ears, the back of the knees, the area of the abdomen between the navel and pelvis, the inner thighs, back of the neck, nipples, the area between scrotum (penis balls) and anus, the anus, and the inside part of the arms. Just make sure you touch your erogenous zones consistently.

 

(3)   Wear looser type of underwear that is made of soft materials

 

To reduce the friction between the glans (penis head) and the fabrics, you should change the type of underwear you are wearing. Get those looser ones that are made of soft materials such as cotton, rayon, silk-feel nylons.

 

(4)   Applying moisturizer on the glans

 

The main reason for the decrease in sensitivity of the penis is due to constant rubbing of the glans against the fabrics which causes its surface to become dry and thicken. In order to restore the penile sensitivity, you will have to regain the glans’ moisture and PH balance. A recommended way to achieve this is to use a moisturizing product, twice a day in the morning and evening, which is rich in essential natural vitamins, nutrients and amino acids.

 

(5)   Using a penis pump

 

A penis pump is a vacuum erection device consisting of a hollow tube with a hand-powered or battery-powered pump. It is used to achieve and maintain an erection that lasts long enough for sex.

 

To use this pump, the tube is placed over the penis and air is pumped out of the tube. Once you get an erection, you slip a cock ring around the base of the penis (behind the testicles) to keep blood from flowing out of this area so as to maintain the erection. After this, you will remove the tube. You have to be careful not to wear the cock ring for more than twenty minutes.

 

For more ideas to improve your sex life, you can read on further from Getting A Hard On and Stronger Erections.

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Sex Tips: How To Last Long

 

 

 

 

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It is one of those things that most men fear in bed. Before she cums, you come first. The disappointed look in her eyes is the last thing you want it to happen in her sexual experience. How to prevent premature ejaculation (PE) so that you can last long enough for her to reach orgasm before yours? Let’s find out below!

 

(1)   Pinpoint the underlying causes of your PE

 

The truth is while there are many causes of premature ejaculation which affects every guy differently, they can all be summarized by one main cause, which is the failure to take control of the pleasure you experience during sex.

 

The main reason that you are not lasting long enough is because you are allowing yourself to experience pleasure, or stimulation, with too high intensity. This high intensity of stimulation is what causes you to ejaculate earlier than you want.

 

To last longer in bed, you need to take control of your stimulation. You need to realize that what you are doing before and during sex can dramatically influence how long you can last. It is only when you understand that this has nothing to do with your age or penis size, it has to do with those every little action you take before and during sex which have some kind of impact on your stimulation, then it becomes easy to make a change.

 

(2)   Choose sex positions that can help you to last longer

 

Sex positions can have a dramatic effect on how long you last in bed. When it comes to choosing those last longer positions, it is more about having sex in those positions that will not stimulate you too soon or too strong.

 

One great position that makes this possible is the standing up. In this position, you make love either by standing in front or behind your woman and she can be standing or sitting at the edge of a table or bed. The reason this works so well is because when you are standing up, tension and pressure will be directed away from your penis. Part of this tension and pressure will be directed to your legs. This will relieve some of the pressure and stimulation on your penis, helping you to last longer.

 

Another position you can consider is the woman-on-top position. Why this position works? The main reason is because unlike most other positions, this position does not require you to move a lot other than using your fingers to stimulate her clitoris and other erogenous zones. Lesser movement will mean lesser stimulation on your part and you can get your woman to slow down her movements so that both of you will have higher chances of reaching orgasm at the same time.

 

Another way to help you last longer is when you sense you are quite close to orgasm, you switch into another less stimulating position.

 

(3)   Reduce the amount of friction to the penis tip

 

The tip of the penis (also known as the glans) is the most sensitive part. In the normal thrusting movement, it will be like pushing in as much as you can and pulling out in a way that cause the highly sensitive glans to rub against the entrance of her vagina, which offers you intense stimulation. To minimize the stimulation to your glans, after you push in, you do not pull out too much so that most of the time you are deep inside her. This will avoid getting your glans from being too strongly stimulated by your thrusting.

 

(4)   Focus on her pleasure

 

Instead of piling too much attention and pressure on yourself by trying to time yourself, you can distract from such stress by re-directing your attention on your woman. You slowly down and stimulate one by one her erogenous zones. This will increase the chances of your woman reaching orgasm faster and before you. After she have her first orgasm, her body will be highly sensitive to your stimulation. She will then reach orgasm again very soon and will be sexually satisfied. Under this circumstance, how much time you spend inside her will no longer be an issue. After all, she already gets her orgasm before yours.

 

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