Oral Sex – How To Lick Pussy Properly

 

 

 

 

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Oral sex is in fact the greatest gift that a guy can give to a girl. This is because most women do not reach orgasm through intercourse. The easiest way for a girl to achieve orgasm is by way of stimulation of the clitoris. Due to this reason, most women love oral sex. But not everyone can do cunnilingus well. Here is how you can give your girl the best oral experience.

 

(1)   Be Enthusiastic

 

Most women want to be assured that you are totally comfortable with going down on her. Most important she must feel that you are enjoying it. A woman’s pleasure will be higher if she can see her man is enjoying it as well. Do compliment her about her genitalia. This will boost her sexual confidence. This will also help her to relax so that she can come more easily.

 

To be enthusiastic means you must have the patience to learn and observe in what ways your partner likes to be stimulated orally. Let her guide you. Every woman is different. What is good for other woman may not be so for your woman. Communication is the key here. You have to pay attention to your partner’s moans, movements as well as suggestions.

 

(2)   Be Gentle And Sensual

 

A lot of guys make the mistake of being too enthusiastic to the point of being too rough. You should not, because the clitoris is very sensitive and you cannot treat it the way you want your penis to be treated. At the beginning you have to be gentle and this can be the biggest turn on to a woman.

 

You also have to be patient and not to rush. This is because it normally takes a woman longer to come (or cum)  than a man, on average. It is only in porn movies that women can orgasm in one to two minutes, which is not a reflection of the reality. You have to understand that women need more time to get into the mood, to build the tension and finally to release that tension in the form of an orgasm.

 

(3)   Try Various Positions

 

Oral sex can get boring for a woman if she is always lying down to receive. You can actually spice things up with different oral sex positions. In fact, when you go down on your woman in different positions, the same moves and techniques can actually feel totally different to her.

 

You can have her sit on a counter top, a couch or chair and spread her legs as wide as she can. This will give you access to the whole genital area for you to pleasure her with your mouth and hands. This will also allow her to watch as you perform oral sex on her which can be quite arousing for her.

 

You can have your girl stand up either with her feet apart or one leg on a stool or chair. This position allows her to feel like she is dominating you as your mouth has to reach up to lick her.

 

You can also position your head in a perpendicular position to her body. You will kneel at one side of her body and give her oral in this position.

 

You can have her lie flat on the bed, lift her buttocks up, and bring her knees close to her chest. This will give you easy access to lick her.

 

You also can have her squat over your face. This can be incredibly erotic to a woman especially if she is into domination.

 

You can get your girl to lie on her side and lift up the leg that is not on the bed and hold it high either with your hand or some kind of restraint. You will rest your head and neck on the other leg and eat her out.

 

(4)   Try Various Techniques

 

There are few women in the world that can resist the temptation of a good oral sex. The stimulation is intense if done properly and will highly increase the chances of your girl coming back for more. You can put that magic on your tongue by trying out some of the following techniques.

 

You can suck a mint in your mouth (not too strong or weak flavor) for a few seconds and then you begin to lick/suck her clitoris. You can then do that to her nipples too. You can blow on those areas that you have licked on. This can produce a tingly effect on the clitoris and nipples.

 

You can give her hot and cold treatment. What you need for this technique is something cold such as a glass of ice water or some ice-cubes and something hot such as hot coffee. You make your mouth cold by taking in some ice water or ice-cubes and let it linger in your mouth for a while before you swallow it or let the ice melts in your mouth. Then you perform oral sex on her with your cold mouth. You can lick/suck for a minute or two before you do a switch by taking in hot coffee to make your mouth hot. You can then perform oral sex on her with your hot mouth. You can switch between hot and cold for a few times. These two different sensations will feel terrific to her.

 

You take a straw and blow light, concentrated air on her nipples, vaginal lips and clitoris after you wet these areas with your licking. The straw allows you to be very precise about where the air hits. It also condenses the air into a small space, thus giving you greater pressure with your precision. If you want an even better effect, then you can do the same technique with mint in your mouth. You get her real wet with your mint-flavored saliva and then lightly blow on her.

 

You can use one or two fingers of each hand to fence in her clitoris. In this way, her clitoris will be nested right in the middle of your fingers. This will allow you to lick on the clitoris without fail. This technique is especially applicable if you are giving her oral sex in the dark.

 

From these tips here, you can choose which is most comfortable to you to take your cunnilingus to the next level. You may not do it right for the first time. But it is okay because practice makes perfect.

 

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Sex Tips: How To Last Long

 

 

 

 

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It is one of those things that most men fear in bed. Before she cums, you come first. The disappointed look in her eyes is the last thing you want it to happen in her sexual experience. How to prevent premature ejaculation (PE) so that you can last long enough for her to reach orgasm before yours? Let’s find out below!

 

(1)   Pinpoint the underlying causes of your PE

 

The truth is while there are many causes of premature ejaculation which affects every guy differently, they can all be summarized by one main cause, which is the failure to take control of the pleasure you experience during sex.

 

The main reason that you are not lasting long enough is because you are allowing yourself to experience pleasure, or stimulation, with too high intensity. This high intensity of stimulation is what causes you to ejaculate earlier than you want.

 

To last longer in bed, you need to take control of your stimulation. You need to realize that what you are doing before and during sex can dramatically influence how long you can last. It is only when you understand that this has nothing to do with your age or penis size, it has to do with those every little action you take before and during sex which have some kind of impact on your stimulation, then it becomes easy to make a change.

 

(2)   Choose sex positions that can help you to last longer

 

Sex positions can have a dramatic effect on how long you last in bed. When it comes to choosing those last longer positions, it is more about having sex in those positions that will not stimulate you too soon or too strong.

 

One great position that makes this possible is the standing up. In this position, you make love either by standing in front or behind your woman and she can be standing or sitting at the edge of a table or bed. The reason this works so well is because when you are standing up, tension and pressure will be directed away from your penis. Part of this tension and pressure will be directed to your legs. This will relieve some of the pressure and stimulation on your penis, helping you to last longer.

 

Another position you can consider is the woman-on-top position. Why this position works? The main reason is because unlike most other positions, this position does not require you to move a lot other than using your fingers to stimulate her clitoris and other erogenous zones. Lesser movement will mean lesser stimulation on your part and you can get your woman to slow down her movements so that both of you will have higher chances of reaching orgasm at the same time.

 

Another way to help you last longer is when you sense you are quite close to orgasm, you switch into another less stimulating position.

 

(3)   Reduce the amount of friction to the penis tip

 

The tip of the penis (also known as the glans) is the most sensitive part. In the normal thrusting movement, it will be like pushing in as much as you can and pulling out in a way that cause the highly sensitive glans to rub against the entrance of her vagina, which offers you intense stimulation. To minimize the stimulation to your glans, after you push in, you do not pull out too much so that most of the time you are deep inside her. This will avoid getting your glans from being too strongly stimulated by your thrusting.

 

(4)   Focus on her pleasure

 

Instead of piling too much attention and pressure on yourself by trying to time yourself, you can distract from such stress by re-directing your attention on your woman. You slowly down and stimulate one by one her erogenous zones. This will increase the chances of your woman reaching orgasm faster and before you. After she have her first orgasm, her body will be highly sensitive to your stimulation. She will then reach orgasm again very soon and will be sexually satisfied. Under this circumstance, how much time you spend inside her will no longer be an issue. After all, she already gets her orgasm before yours.

 

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How Female Orgasm Works

 

 

 

 

 

How can I make a girl orgasm? Why she can’t orgasm when we are having intercourse? What is wrong? There is nothing wrong with you and your girl at all. Around 75% of women do not reach orgasm from penis-in-vagina intercourse alone. This does not mean that 75% of women do not experience a sexual climax. The truth is that sex is more than just intercourse and orgasm. In order to help put your woman into the 25% who enjoy sex and make her like you a lot, you have to understand the process of sexual response. Any sexual experience will involve some or all of the 5 stages which are desire, arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution.

 

(1)   Desire

 

Desire is simply the wish or urge to participate in any sexual activity or some kind of sex. This desire works in the same way as feeling hungry which makes you want to eat.In a sexual context, desire is a matter of having an appetite to have sex at a given time which is sometimes described as being “hungry” or “horny”. Without this feeling of sexual desire, sex in any form is not going to be enjoyable. This feeling of desire can happen when all or any of the 5 senses of sight, sound, smell, touch and taste are being stimulated. This can also occur when we are talking about sex with someone else. In order to get aroused, we need to have desire first.

 

(2)   Arousal

 

What happens when you or someone is aroused? When we are aroused, blood pressure will go up, making our face red hot, breathing and heartbeat gets faster. Our body becomes very sensitive and responsive to touch. There will be an increase in the flow of blood to the genital issues. Your penis will get hard. Her nipples become erect or swollen and the breasts get slightly fuller. Her clitoris and vaginal lips become puffed up. She will start to get wet (vaginal lubrication). The deeper end of the vaginal also expands and pulls back a bit, making her feel emptier inside the vagina. Though a guy can get aroused very quickly, but for a woman, this usually can happen if you are patient in giving her a good foreplay.

 

(3)   Plateau

 

When sexual stimulation continues, our arousal may then progress to the plateau phase. We get this “high” feeling or a feeling of being “on the edge”. Your body will feel increasingly sensitive, face, lips or chest get flushed, or the heart beat gets even stronger. The same thing also happens to her.

 

(4)   Orgasm

 

This is the peak of sexual excitement which happens after the plateau stage. The muscles especially around the pelvis region will expand and contract and the body will secrete more good-feeling hormones such as endorphins. For a guy, he will reach the point of no return and ejaculate. For a woman, she must be stimulated all the way (without stopping) in order to reach orgasm.

 

(5)   Resolution

 

The pressure that builds up in the body to reach orgasm is finally released just like the popping of an inflated balloon. Both you and your girl will feel physically and psychologically relaxed. Blood that fills up the genitals and other sensitive body parts will drain out causing them to return to their normal state. This resolution stage can also happen without orgasm when all forms of sexual stimulation are stopped abruptly.

 

Now that you understand how orgasm can happen to you and your woman, you can start applying this knowledge in your sex life now. In order to get her to enjoy sex and experience full arousal, plateau and climax, you need to stimulate more than just her genitals. Her state of mind is of utmost importance. Her mind needs to be stimulated as well to get in the mood.

 

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How Do I make A Girl Orgasm

 

 

 

 

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According to some studies, 15% of women never experience an orgasm and 50% to 75% of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse. Therefore the chances of you being able to make a girl orgasm are quite low. Do you want to increase the chances of women reaching orgasms when they have sex with you? Here are some ideas that you can help a woman to get there.

 

(1)   She has to be comfortable first

 

All our desires originate from our minds. Therefore a woman has to be completely relaxed in order to have an orgasm. If she is stressful, very concerned about how her body looks in front of the mirror and wondering if she is abnormal because she seldom or can’t orgasm, for sure she will not be able to orgasm.

 

To keep her mind at ease so that she can get in the mood, reassure her that she is adorable and praising the positive aspects of her at every opportunity. When the moment arrives, you can start by taking a shower together which will give you lots of chances to touch each other. After this, you can pamper her with an erotic massage. This should be a perfect foreplay to start with.

 

(2)   Give her lip service

 

Almost every woman loves oral sex. Most women can easily reach orgasms through clitoral stimulation rather than during sexual intercourse. You can tease her clitoris by using your tongue to draw circles around it. When she is getting more aroused, you can mix up your tongue movements with left-to-right and up-and-down.

 

During the process, she can give you feedback about her preference by verbal or non-verbal means such as squeezing your hand twice if she is uncomfortable. To give her extra pleasure, you can pucker your lips around her clitoral tip and gently apply suction. This can increase blood flow to the clitoris and make it even more sensitive.

 

(3)   Use your fingers

 

You can enhance the effects of oral sex by using your fingers to rub on her g-spot. This should only be done when she is highly aroused. This is because under normal condition,  it can be quite difficult to reach for her g-spot, which is located about 2 inches deep from her vaginal opening. Make sure you trim your fingernails and preferably you lubricate your fingers for easier entry.

 

When you finger your girl, find a position you feel comfortable with. You may like to position either by facing her, perpendicular to her or side-by-side with her. Whatever position you choose, when your fingers are inside her, they should be pressing against her belly. While fingering her, you should continue with clitoral stimulation either using your tongue or your thumb to rub on the clitoris. This combined action if done properly will give your girl not only one orgasm but multiple orgasms. When she orgasms, her vaginal muscles will contract and squeeze against your fingers and you should only pull out your fingers after her muscles relax.

 

(4)   Get into position

 

At this stage, it will be best to get into those positions that will continue to stimulate either the clitoris or the g-spot.

 

(a)   Penetration with support

 

She is lying on her back. You can either place a pillow or a wedge under her buttocks to elevate her hips so that they are almost at right angle to the bed. To keep the position stable, press her knees against her chest as you penetrate her. This position allows you to reach her g-spot easily.

 

(b)   Legs on shoulder

 

She will place her ankles on your shoulders. You will push her knees towards her chest in order to raise up her hips. You will penetrate her in this position. The advantage of this position is that it allows double stimulation. Your penis will stimulate her g-spot. You can use your fingers to rub her clitoris.

 

(c)    Enter from behind

 

This is the doggie position that many women like because it also offers easy stimulation of the g-spot during penetration. Same as the above position, you can also use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris.

 

These tips here should increase the chances of your girl at least having an orgasm. Most important, just be patient and do not pressure her. She may or may not orgasm sometimes ( not your fault or hers). But be patient. Practise these tips will definitely make her orgasm most of the time.

 

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How To Improve A Woman’s Chances Of Having An Orgasm

 

 

 

 

 

I came across this at a sexuality forum. A guy and his girlfriend have been having sex for over 5 months and she never had an orgasm. She never seems to be in the mood to do it. She only said that if the environment was right maybe it would be possible for her to achieve orgasm. She claimed to love her boyfriend and sex didn’t really bother her. The guy would like to know how to make a girl orgasm and how to increase her sex drive.

 

If you are facing the same situation, the following ideas should help to start the ball rolling.

 

(1)   Create the right conditions

 

To get a girl to desire you and want to have sex, you have to put her at ease. This will need more time, the right atmosphere, some romance, and lots of other nice sweet little things you do to make her feel good. If she is stressed and is occupied with other problems, sex will not work. She needs to get in the right mood. Therefore you should be helpful as well as supportive and give her a lot of care and appreciation.

 

Making love is a slow process for a woman. You may have to start many hours in advance in order to turn her on effectively. This will require fondness and attention from the man she loves.

 

Women need a much longer foreplay than men. You start by whispering sweet words in her ears. Give her a very specific reason why you find her irresistible such as the curve of her neck or the way she walks. You may also take a long hot shower or bath together which will give you both the chance to touch and rub each other. The lightings in the room should not be glaring. Candles and soft music can help too.

 

Do not fondle the genital area until she is ready. You need to be patient. She may not get an orgasm until after 20 minutes or more. Sometimes it may not work, even if you do everything right. With practice, she will eventually be more responsive to your stimulation.

 

Another good way to get her relaxed is to let her mind wander into fantasy. To reach orgasm, she needs to clear her head and turn off her brain’s fear center. Fantasy is a great way for her to deactivate her fear center. You can help her to relax by constructing an erotic fantasy before things heat up. This can be done by whispering provocative sentences to each other in turn, building a story she can get lost in.

 

(2)   Make her orgasm first

 

Most women will not achieve orgasm through an ordinary genital sexual intercourse. Men are often very tired after their orgasm. Due to this reason, it is best to ensure your woman has an orgasm before you. She will still be excited afterwards and will enjoy your orgasm.

 

Women can easily reach orgasm by proper stimulation of the clitoris, a small lap of skin just over the vagina. You can stimulate her clitoris using your fingers and your tongue. One study found women who experience multiple orgasms usually have the first orgasm after cunnilingus, rather than intercourse or manual pleasures. The tongue is therefore the perfect instrument for stimulating the clitoris. The way to do is to start with cunnilingus and move on to intercourse.

 

There is also a place inside the vagina, which can be stimulated to give her an orgasm, which is the g-spot. It can be a bit difficult to find this region and stimulate it in the right way. This can only be effectively done when she is highly aroused after clitoral stimulation. Women who succeed in getting orgasm this way will usually use the woman-on-top intercourse position. This position gives her lots of options to control the movements to facilitate g-spot stimulation.

 

These are the 2 key things you can do for a woman who never had an orgasm. Her chances of getting an orgasm or even multiple orgasms will be higher if she has a partner who is attentive to her needs.

 

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