How To Create A Sexy Bedroom

 

 

 

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Besides being the place to rest, most people will usually have sex in the bedroom too. Regardless of whether it is the first time or the thousandth you are having intercourse in the bedroom, its atmosphere will either add to or distract from your sexual experience. Therefore, making your bedroom into a space that is comfortable, unique and inviting is one of the easiest and best things you can do to have a great sex life. Here are the ways you can make this happen.

 

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(1)   Make it clutter-free

 

If you want to have this romantic feel for your bedroom, you have to make it spacious. You have to remember that this is your bedroom and not a storeroom. Therefore you should avoid making it stuffy by placing only the things that you need. Keep unused stuff in the cabinet or in the closet. Also, you should not have any exercising equipment around because the bedroom is a place for lovemaking and relaxation and exercising equipment just do not fit in. By keeping your bedroom clutter-free, it will be more inviting, organized and welcoming.

 

(2)   Invest in good quality paint

 

Low quality paint tends to leave a smell in your bedroom which can be toxic and cancer-causing. Use white or warm colors paint so that it will not be too dark when the lights are off.

 

(3)   Get a comfortable bed

 

Make sure it is not too big for the room and preferably one that has built-in drawers underneath. Plush comforters and high-quality sheets will make you both feel comfortable in the bed. Depending on how much space you have, use a mixture of pillows: standard-sized, square or decorative ones with coordinated covers. Arrange them in such a way with the biggest ones at the back.

 

Use relaxing colors such as rich earth tones or calming blues and greens for your bed sheet. Using bed hangings and canopies can add another layer of mystery and privacy to your room. This will make your bed more romantic with those fabrics hanging at the sides. Make sure you choose a fabric that is light and gauzy to make it bear that softness feel.

 

(4)   Add rugs

 

Aside from having cushy beddings, give your floor a soft feel by placing a soft rug (that is the same length of your bed) on either side of the bed. This can add to the cozy and comfortable feeling, giving your room a romantic ambience with all those softness around you.

 

(5)   Use dim lighting

 

Lighting should be soft and filtered. Bright and glaring lights such as the overhead fluorescent lamp can detract from the ambience. Opt for those 40 watts lightings to add comfort and serenity. You can also use a table top lantern or a lamp at the side table. You may also make use of natural lights by having transparent curtains. Make sure the curtains compliment the bedding.

 

(6)   Add mirrors

 

They can also add depth and make your room looks more spacious. You can use as many as you like and they can be any size. But just do not over-do this because you don’t want this to be too overwhelming. Or, you can just use a floor-standing mirror that can be move around the room which certainly adds spice to both the atmosphere and the action.

 

(7)   Make it sexually functional

 

Everything that you could possibly want when you have sex should be within easy reach of your bed. Some sexual necessities that should be neatly stashed in one of the built-in drawers underneath the bed or near to the bed are: condoms, lubricant, breath mints, long silk scarves, sex toys, love cushion, and a roll of toilet paper or tissues for easy clean up. Have your favorite treats handy, maybe a box of chocolates that will be sure to tease. For a late-night indulgence, place strawberries and whipped cream on a small tray next to the bed.

 

(8)   Add a little music and noise

 

Keep your favorite love songs at your iPhone. Soft love music is one of the easiest ways to lift up your mood. You can also invest in a bedside sound system to play your favorite mood-inducing music.

 

If you have a TV in the bedroom, use this only for watching erotic videos. This can be porn, or some romantic or scary movies. There are wide choices of movies that are perfect for getting both of you in the mood. Do not limit yourselves to the obvious ones.

 

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Giving Her The Best Orgasm She Ever Had

 

 

 

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If you want to please a woman, you have to make sex better for her. If she is satisfied, she will have orgasms more often which means you will have better sex more often too. Follow these steps to help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm as often as she can.

 

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(1)   Start with kissing

 

Before you do anything, make sure the surrounding temperature is not too hot or too cold. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. Start kissing her slowly and deeply. Women love kissing because it helps them to feel physically and emotionally connected to their partners. Deep French kissing can be teaser to what you are going to do next when you are between her legs.

 

Kiss her sensitive spots (lips, neck, ear lobes). Move your lips slowly towards the side of her neck and kiss softly. Kiss those erogenous zones on either side of her throat. Gently scratch her back as you kiss her and softly but firmly slide your hand up under her hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. Move your way down her collarbone to the indent located below her neck. Kiss this nerve-dense region. Work your way towards the part of her neck, below her earlobes. This area is full of sensitive, pleasure-producing nerve endings.

 

Once you have been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt and circle back to her stomach. Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair.

 

(2)   Move to her breasts

 

Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing down to her breasts, kissing the upper area and still rubbing her lower body with your hands. While you are kissing her, reach behind and unhook her bra.

 

Do not just go direct to her nipples. Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck. Though nipple stimulation works, but it is much more effective to tease around them first as well as other part of her body before reaching for her breasts.

 

Lift her breasts when you caress them and touch them softly. With your thumb and index finger, you gently and directly massage her nipples in a rotating motion moving clockwise and anti-clockwise. Next, place your hands flat over her nipples and roll around them under your palms. Now, with your thumb and forefinger, you gently pull on her nipples but never pull down, Switch around the above movements to see which ones she likes and gets most excited over.

 

As she gets aroused, her nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for greater pleasure and pressure. You can start gently nibbling on her nipples or using a little more suction or pressure. A slightly firmer touch can be very pleasurable for a woman if she is already aroused. If you start out with intense pinching or firm sucking before she is fully and completely aroused, you are very likely to turn her off.

 

(3)   Heading downwards

 

As you move down to her stomach, you kiss every inch of the area below her breasts. Kiss her on the mouth again while you take off her pants. But not her panties yet! Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, you kiss every inch of it and working your way up to her inner thigh. While doing this, you can rub her clitoris. The friction caused by the brushing of the panties fabrics against her clitoris can start to make her feel the heat. Then go back to her left leg and do it all over again!

 

(4)   Clitoral stimulation

 

At this stage, she will be begging you to rip her panties off and give her more. Next, you pull apart the skin surrounding her clitoris and position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move your tongue in a sweeping motion from side to side. You can also lick her in either clockwise or anti-clockwise motion. In between licking of her clitoris, you lick the rest of her vulva as well. Her vaginal lips and opening have super sensitive nerves that feel extremely pleasuring to her when you run your tongue over them. As she gets more aroused, you can take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it. While licking her clitoris, you can at the same time pinch and rub her nipples gently.

 

(5)   Get into position

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be having at least one orgasm. At this stage, her body will be very responsive to further stimulation and she has the capability of getting multiple orgasms. By now, you can choose to enter her as deeply as you want in any of the 3 following sex positions.

 

(a)    Enter her from behind (doggy style)

(b)   Woman-on-top

(c)    Missionary with pillow support or with a wedge under her pelvis region with her legs resting on your shoulders

 

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes and will get her more turned on than she ever had before. Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have not only one intense orgasm, but lots of them as well. If you are with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make her be the one begging you to be inside her and not the other way round.

 

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Fun Things To Do Tonight As A Couple

 

 

 

 

 

After a while, sex can get boring and predictable. Knowing exactly how long the foreplay will last, what positions you are going to use and how long it is going to take for your partner to reach orgasm becomes all too familiar. To break out of the sex rut, couples should try new things in the bedroom. This can improve sex life and bring you closer together. If you are looking for some ideas to spice sex up, here are a few to get you started.

 

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(1)   Questions and answers

 

Your girl lies naked in bed and you stand at the doorway to the bedroom. She will test how well you know her by asking you questions about herself. These questions can range from sexy (what is her favorite sex position) to personal (name her dream vacation spot).

 

For each correct answer, you will get to move one step closer to her. If you give the wrong answer, you will take a step back. Once you correctly answer enough questions to reach the bed, the teasing, the sexual tension and expectation will drive up your lust. In the process, you will get to know your woman better.

 

(2)   Make sex tasty

 

You can use food to rub on another person, certain vegetables for inserting into sexy places. You have to make sure that the food will not irritate sensitive skin or cause any allergic reactions. Some of the best foods for sexual activities are strawberries, whip cream and chocolate syrup.

 

You can make a game out of this by applying different food to various parts of the body and get your blindfolded partner to seek out the whereabouts of the food using hands and mouth. The different sensations on the tongue and on the skin can be almost unbearable, in a good way. The objective is to stimulate as many senses as possible during sex.

 

(3)   Pamper her feet

 

Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and licked. At the end of the day, you offer to rub her feet. Few women can resist this. If you have foot fetish or you want to try something new, you can let her rub her feet on your face, or along your dick, or pinch your balls with her toes.

 

(4)   Orgasm competition

 

Lie side by side naked and start to pleasure yourselves. Whoever comes first gives the other person manual or oral stimulation until he/she reaches the finish line. The act of masturbating in front of each other can draw you closer together because it is normally something you do when you are alone. Allowing another person to watch you makes you feel vulnerable and increases the intimacy with your partner.

 

(5)   Hide-and-seek

Taking this childhood game to new levels can add plenty of spice to your sex life. One of you will hide and the other will search. To give a sexy twist to this game, you can offer favors if you are being found in a certain time. Or better yet, the sooner you are found, the better will be the favors.

 

(6)   Rape fantasy play

 

Though rape is a serious subject, some women get completely turned on by the thought of being overpowered. This kinky foreplay technique will make your love life fantastic. You “break in” to the house and intrude into the bedroom, which can be both frightening and arousing to her at the same time. As you “threaten” her and she begs for mercy, she will be getting more and more aroused.

 

(7)   Lover’s lane

 

You and your partner will find a place around your town where you can park and not be bothered. One of you will pretend to be a virgin and have no idea on how to please the other. After you have parked, the supposedly ignorant one will be told and show in explicit details in how to please him/her. This can help couples that are struggling with their sex lives to know each other’s desires better.

 

(8)   Let her dominate you

 

She will tie you up with scarves, belts or a silk tie. This is a good chance for her to touch you the way you like. If she is not sure, this is a great time for her to figure out by herself. Through asking questions, listening and observing your response, she will get to have a better understanding of what arouses you a lot.

 

Another way is she will blindfold you and then tease you all over using a series of sexy objects such as caressing your penis with a silky thong, drizzling chocolate sauce over your chest and then lick it up, rolling a beaded necklace over your upper thighs. You will guess what she is stroking you with, and she will stick to a particular item until you give the right answer.

 

So, what are you waiting for? Switch off your phones and use these tips to give you a long lustful night of teasing and pleasing. For more ideas to have great sex, you can read on more from Fun Sexy Games and Turn Your Household Items Into Love Props.

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Naughty Games To Spice Up Sex

 

 

 

 

 

Are you feeling that your sex life is a bit boring? Are you looking for ideas to make a hot sex life even more scorching? It is therefore very important to add some variety to your everyday sex life to make it enjoyable and spicy. Adding sex games to your sexual repertoire can really turn the heat up in the bedroom. At the same women also like creative things to make life interesting.

 

The main aim of playing bedroom games is to keep sex fun and therefore winning is not the priority. Avoid setting very tough rules to spoil the mood. Both of you should make some common rules which are equally applicable to both partners to avoid either party being hurt physically or mentally.

 

Here are lists of the sex games ideas you can try tonight.

 

(1)   Strip dice

 

One of you will roll the dice to start the game. On each player’s turn, the one who is not rolling the dice will guess whether the roll of the dice will be higher or lower than the previous one. If the guess is incorrect, then the person will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(2)   Strip ping pong

 

Arrange six 16-ounce plastic cups in a triangle shape at either end of the table and grab some ping pong balls. You stand at one end of the table, with your partner at the other. Both of you will take turns to throw a ping pong ball into the cups at the opposite end of the table. The one who scores will get the right to demand the other to remove that cup and a piece of clothing. The first person to land a ball in all six cups gets to request a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

(3)   Taste, touch and guess

 

Get some honey, syrup, yogurt or other food items of similar textures. Put some of it on part of his/her body or you can use more than one kind on different parts. The other partner is blindfolded and he/she has to explore the body, to seek out the food and identify it only by taste and touch. The blindfolded party can do this with his/her hands or mouth or both.

 

(4)   Guessing game

 

Get naked, blindfold your partner and then play with his/her body. Start the touching from the shoulders, arms, legs, head and feet. Then go for the erogenous zones like chest, belly, neck, lips, back, buttocks, inner thighs and genital region. Give him/her all sorts of sensations to the skin and let him/her make a guess what items you are using to touch his/her body. You can use things like your lips, breath, tongue, hand, fingers, genitals, breasts, feather, silk scarf, ice cubes, and fruits and so on. If the guess is correct, he/she can demand certain sexual favor from the “touching” partner.

 

(5)   Bondage teasing

 

One of you will tie the other one to the bed or a chair and then take full control. You can liven up the atmosphere with some sexy background music. The one who is in control can keep some clothes on for a little while to start with, and perform a sexy striptease or lap dance for some extra fun. This will be followed by some teasing and playful touch on the submissive party, using some props such as a soft scarf, a vibrator, ice cubes, etc.

 

(6)   Kinky cards

 

Get a deck of cards and assign each suit a different sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs are manual stimulation and spades mean oral. Take turns picking cards from the stack and treat each to the sexy move being drawn. The numbers on the cards represent how long you have to perform each act. If you get the nine of diamonds, he/she has to give you a sensual massage for nine seconds. If your partner picks the five of the spades, you will have to give him/her a five-second oral pleasure.

 

(7)   Hands off

 

You can try this creative sex game immediately tonight because it is simple, fun and you do not need to get anything or use sex prop. Start with some foreplay, like giving each other oral sex and move on the real deal when you are hot, wet and ready. The trick to this sex game is that both of you can never use your hands on each other when performing any sexual acts – no hand job, no fingering her, no grasping of her hips while you enter her, etc. The first person to accidentally use his/her hands loses and the other person can demand a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

If you really love your partner, then you should try to be creative in your sex life. Besides breathing new life into boring sex, playing sexy games can help to find a lot about your partner (even his/her darkest desires) without having to prod him/her for information. Therefore, use these sex games to bring you closer to your partner.

 

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The Sexy Things Women Love

 

 

 

 

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Do you know what turns a woman on? What makes her a bit of a cold fish in bed? How to bring sexy back into your bedroom? How to make her love sex again so that you can have as much as you want to? You can have the sex life you want and bring the pleasure back into lovemaking with these tips.

 

(1)   Make her feel at ease

 

One of the reasons she never initiates sex is because of her fear of rejection. For a woman, self-esteem is one of the most important things to have in order to feel at ease when she is in bed with a man. To reduce her anxieties you need to do what women do when they want sex.

 

You need to show her you are up for it by sending out subtle signals. This will mean creating an atmosphere where she is quite sure she will not be rejected. This can be as simple as lighting a couple of candles, or dimming the lights, playing her favorite sexy music, feeding her chocolate-flavored cream or strawberries and talking dirty to her. The key is in creating a relaxed but suggestive atmosphere conducive for a night of wild sex.

 

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(2)   Be creative

 

After a few years, it is easy to find the whole game of sex monotonous if you do not create new ways to enjoy each other in bed. When one of you get bored, you may have trouble getting an erection or she may have difficulty in reaching orgasm. The best way to overcome this is to be opened to each other’s new ideas about the things both of you like to try.

 

To prevent being knocked back, you can turn your requests into a game. You can alternate weeks of who is responsible for coming up with ideas, fantasies and new positions. This way your partner will not feel pressurized. If she gets stuck, there is wide choice of sex manuals, magazines and videos available for both of you to browse.

 

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(3)   Give her oral pleasure

 

If she does not orgasm often, this may be due to insignificant stimulation. No matter how much she wants it, she may be too shy to let you know just how hot it makes her to have your mouth down there. In order to get her off, head south. One study found women who experience multiple orgasms usually have the first orgasm after cunnilingus, rather than intercourse or manual pleasure.

 

The tongue is the perfect instrument for stimulating the clitoris. Instead of making her beg for oral sex, learn to be best in performing cunnilingus and give it to her without her ever having to ask. To spice things up, you can try different positions for oral sex, such as licking her from behind or letting her sit on your face. You can also get an oral kit to enhance your performance. This will add an element of variety to giving your lover a climax orally, making her want more and more.

 

(4)    Be romantic

 

It is easy to take your partner for granted if both of you are too busy with the daily routines. Make an arrangement to set aside some moments for some dirty romancing. Strike a deal with one of the many relatives you are always in contact with: one Saturday a month, they watch your kids for the night while you and your wife go on a date and you return the favor the next Saturday.

 

Romance her as you would during courtship days. Her identity is more than just wife or mother and she needs the assurance of your love as well. Intimacy is often more important to a woman than sex. Letting her feel important as a woman and person, and helping her feel emotionally close to you, is what that can fuel her drive to have more sex with you.

 

(5)   Getting fit together

 

Working out with your woman and treating this activity as fat-burning foreplay can raise her dopamine (good-feeling hormone) levels and ease her anxieties. Besides this, your post-exercise sweat will contain traces of androstadienone, a testerone derivative that spikes her arousal when she smells it.

 

Use these tips to tune in with each other’s needs and what follows next will be more explosive than both of you ever imagine.

 

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