Fun Things To Do Tonight As A Couple

 

 

 

 

 

After a while, sex can get boring and predictable. Knowing exactly how long the foreplay will last, what positions you are going to use and how long it is going to take for your partner to reach orgasm becomes all too familiar. To break out of the sex rut, couples should try new things in the bedroom. This can improve sex life and bring you closer together. If you are looking for some ideas to spice sex up, here are a few to get you started.

 

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(1)   Questions and answers

 

Your girl lies naked in bed and you stand at the doorway to the bedroom. She will test how well you know her by asking you questions about herself. These questions can range from sexy (what is her favorite sex position) to personal (name her dream vacation spot).

 

For each correct answer, you will get to move one step closer to her. If you give the wrong answer, you will take a step back. Once you correctly answer enough questions to reach the bed, the teasing, the sexual tension and expectation will drive up your lust. In the process, you will get to know your woman better.

 

(2)   Make sex tasty

 

You can use food to rub on another person, certain vegetables for inserting into sexy places. You have to make sure that the food will not irritate sensitive skin or cause any allergic reactions. Some of the best foods for sexual activities are strawberries, whip cream and chocolate syrup.

 

You can make a game out of this by applying different food to various parts of the body and get your blindfolded partner to seek out the whereabouts of the food using hands and mouth. The different sensations on the tongue and on the skin can be almost unbearable, in a good way. The objective is to stimulate as many senses as possible during sex.

 

(3)   Pamper her feet

 

Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and licked. At the end of the day, you offer to rub her feet. Few women can resist this. If you have foot fetish or you want to try something new, you can let her rub her feet on your face, or along your dick, or pinch your balls with her toes.

 

(4)   Orgasm competition

 

Lie side by side naked and start to pleasure yourselves. Whoever comes first gives the other person manual or oral stimulation until he/she reaches the finish line. The act of masturbating in front of each other can draw you closer together because it is normally something you do when you are alone. Allowing another person to watch you makes you feel vulnerable and increases the intimacy with your partner.

 

(5)   Hide-and-seek

Taking this childhood game to new levels can add plenty of spice to your sex life. One of you will hide and the other will search. To give a sexy twist to this game, you can offer favors if you are being found in a certain time. Or better yet, the sooner you are found, the better will be the favors.

 

(6)   Rape fantasy play

 

Though rape is a serious subject, some women get completely turned on by the thought of being overpowered. This kinky foreplay technique will make your love life fantastic. You “break in” to the house and intrude into the bedroom, which can be both frightening and arousing to her at the same time. As you “threaten” her and she begs for mercy, she will be getting more and more aroused.

 

(7)   Lover’s lane

 

You and your partner will find a place around your town where you can park and not be bothered. One of you will pretend to be a virgin and have no idea on how to please the other. After you have parked, the supposedly ignorant one will be told and show in explicit details in how to please him/her. This can help couples that are struggling with their sex lives to know each other’s desires better.

 

(8)   Let her dominate you

 

She will tie you up with scarves, belts or a silk tie. This is a good chance for her to touch you the way you like. If she is not sure, this is a great time for her to figure out by herself. Through asking questions, listening and observing your response, she will get to have a better understanding of what arouses you a lot.

 

Another way is she will blindfold you and then tease you all over using a series of sexy objects such as caressing your penis with a silky thong, drizzling chocolate sauce over your chest and then lick it up, rolling a beaded necklace over your upper thighs. You will guess what she is stroking you with, and she will stick to a particular item until you give the right answer.

 

So, what are you waiting for? Switch off your phones and use these tips to give you a long lustful night of teasing and pleasing. For more ideas to have great sex, you can read on more from Fun Sexy Games and Turn Your Household Items Into Love Props.

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Sex Tips For Women – How To Orgasm Through Intercourse

 

 

 

 

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According to a Year 2000 Orgasm Survey, 72% of women disclosed that they faked an orgasm at least once. Do you feel that at times, in order to make your partner feel good about himself, you have to appear as if you are enjoying a lot in bed? You may feel a little inadequate or thinking that something is wrong about yourself ? You should not throw up your hands and accept this as something that cannot be changed. Here are some ways to help you get out of this situation and have the sex life you want.

(1)   Stimulate yourself first

 

The fastest and most effective way to get yourself into the mood is to stimulate yourself. Both you and your partner have to shoulder equal responsibility in improving your sex life. When comes to sex, you should not act in a passive way thinking that it is solely your partner’s responsibility to make you orgasm.

 

You can increase your chances of having orgasm during intercourse by making yourself orgasm first. You can do this by stimulating yourself mentally and physically. Every desire originates from the brain. Therefore work on your mind first by occupying your mind with sexy thoughts. You can read an erotic novel, view porn or indulge in your own fantasies to get your mind into the sexy mode.

 

Once your mind is ready, you can start to stimulate yourself physically. The easiest and most relaxed way is by means of masturbation. Take a deep breath, relax, close your eyes if you want and start stroking your clitoris in ways that you find most comfortable and enjoyable. For a start, you can do this by yourself to find out what you really like best. Later on you can masturbate just before and during sex. You can show your partner how you like to be touched by using his fingers to touch your clitoris during foreplay and/or penetration.

 

(2)   Do not give undue pressure on yourself

 

Once in a while, you may not be able to reach orgasm. This is not your fault and not your partner’s. This is okay and normal. Perhaps at a particular moment, your mind is preoccupied with something else. If you can think in this way, your mind will be able to relax. This is of utmost important because if you are not able to relax your mind, orgasm will be impossible for you. Also, you need to ask your partner to stop mentioning about orgasm while having sex.

 

You can distract yourself from negative thoughts by fantasizing or having some soothing background music. The main thing here is to get yourself at ease and focus on pleasuring yourself. You can guide your partner on where and how you want to be touched. Give him positive feedback if he does the right thing which can be moaning or tightening your grip in his shoulders or telling him that it feels so good and to keep it this way.

 

(3)   Get into sex positions that can help you to orgasm easily

 

When he is on top of you, get him to align to you in such a way his penis is constantly grinding on your clitoris and nearby area. The key to this position is to ‘rock together’ with him. As he bears the weight of his genitals on you, you coordinate with his downward movement by moving your hips upwards to receive him. He will be moving forward and backward in rocking motion while you will be moving upwards, which will increase the pressure as well as pleasure on your clitoris.

 

You can also get into the woman-on-top position. In this position, you can rub your clitoris against his pubic region to induce powerful clitoral orgasm. Alternatively, you can use your hand or ask your partner to stimulate the clitoris while you are in your action.

 

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How To Have The Sex Life You Want

 

 

 

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How to have better sex? How to get in the mood? How to become orgasmic? A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It is often due to our busy lives which often leave us tired and devoid of the imagination and motivation required to keep up the pace. If sex with your partner isn’t what it used to be, here are some ways that you can put the spark back in your bedroom.

 

(1)   Communicate your needs to each other

 

Communication is very important in a relationship. This may be uncomfortable to you. But if you do not take this first important step, both of you will have to face with a non-ending unsatisfactory sex life. Do not wait for him or her to ask you what feels good. Tell him or her, what you like most about your sex life. Do not be shy to ask for something new or different. Just be sure that you only bring up such topics when outside of the bedroom, such as during a quiet walk on an evening. In this way, you can talk freely without spoiling an intimate moment.

 

(2)   Add in fantasies and share them with each other

 

Remember that you are a sexual being. Admit it; everyone has at least one major sexual fantasy. Whether you are a naughty doctor or a submissive nurse, it is time to indulge and go wild. One of the biggest factors in a great sex life is being comfortable with your partner. Role-playing offers an excellent way to do so and also to allow you to explore the boundaries of your relationship. It is a harmless way to ease any anxieties both of you may have and keep the mood light.

 

If you are shy to share your erotic fantasies with your partner, afraid of what he or she will think of you, suggest writing an erotic story together one night. Once he or she sees what you have dreamed up for your ‘character’, your partner will definitely know what you have in mind for yourself.

 

(3)   All-day-long foreplay

 

Start foreplay as early as possible before you reach the bedroom because women normally take a bit longer to get hot. Just doing the foreplay a short while before sex may not be enough to get her in the mood.  During the day, do those sweet little things for each other.

 

You can make a date at a restaurant at the end of the day for some fine wining and dining or take a walk at the park. When at home, take a bath together to give you and your partner the chance to touch, rub and scrub each other. After bathing, you can take turns to massage each other for a couple of minutes. By increasing your emotional connection, you can gradually build up the arousal level and increase it right till to the night.

 

(4) Set aside time for sex

 

Better sex will lead to more sex and one of the ways to have it is to make an appointment that neither of you is allowed to cancel. When both of you lead busy lives, sometimes the only way to leave time for sex is to literally put it on your schedule. Lie in bed together for an hour on a weekend morning. You may just chat, or you may engage in ‘bedroom wrestling’. Either way, you are connecting to each other. Though it is just once a week, but an hour or two of sexual activity can be energizing and pleasurable for both of you.

 

(5)   Make it fun

 

Sex is supposed to be fun. The more fun you make it, the more enjoyable it will be. Bring an item into the bedroom, like a board game, which can force you to think about how you are going to use this item to make the experience different. Or, it can be those innocent games, such as truth or dare and spin the bottle. Use these games to reignite the passion. You can trade game points for a 3-minute sexual favors which can be a massage, kissing, oral sex, talking dirty, a dance, a striptease and anything you want. The game is all about teasing which gives you the structure to add in anything that you want sexually. Besides games, you can add in toys and experiment with sexy lingerie, or anything that creates a special mood for you.

 

(6)   Increase her chances of having an orgasm

 

Many women do not have orgasm during intercourse because they do not get sufficient clitoral stimulation in the normal missionary position. What you can do is to get into those positions that can allow greater clitoral contact, such as woman-on-top position. When she is on top, you can stroke her clitoris which is what she needs to have an orgasm. At all times, observe how she reacts when a particular body part is being touched and spend more time on those areas which are highly sensitive for her.

 

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Sex Tips – How To Make Her Want You

 

 

 

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Do you want to have a good time in bed? Do you want your partner to need you so much that she becomes the one who is initiating sex most of the time?

 

How to have great sex? To certain people, great sex is about rehearsing some sex positions that they read from a self-help book. But it is more than that. You have to arouse your partner and yourself every time when you jump into the bed. You have to be comfortable with what you are doing, your partner has to be aroused by you and you also need to be turned on by your partner. In other words, great sex should be mutually satisfying.

 

Here are a few things you can do that can help her to reach orgasm easily and make your ego feel a lot better.

 

(1)   Sensual touch

 

Touching is very important and is also one of the easiest ways to please her. Women respond very strongly to touch. Make sure you combine every of your touch with eye contact. Keeping eye contact with her will add an amazing amount of emotional intensity to your touch.

 

Take the time to caress her ears, nape and hair will be fantastic in heating things up. You kiss her softly on her back, chests or breasts, down to her tummy and inner thighs. You treat every area of the body as an erogenous zone, even touching and kissing those off-neglected areas such as the neck, throat, inner arms and eyelids. During touching, you pay attention to how she reacts to your various ways of stroking and adjust according to her preferences. All these moves will definitely turn her on.

 

(2)   Setting the mood

 

Setting a comfortable environment is the key to preparing for sex and ensuring a satisfying experience. Ambiance is very important for the proper sexual mood. Accentuate your room by getting some candles. It will be better to use scented candles such as chamomile which can help to relax the body and make the atmosphere more conducive.

 

Make sure the room temperature is not as hot as a furnace or as freezing cold as a refrigerator. Playing some instrumental music (or depending on what arouses your partner) is good for keeping her in the mood. Make the room smell sweet, relaxing and enticing.

 

(3)   Oral stimulation

 

Oral sex is a great gate-way to intercourse. Lick her slowly all around. It is only when her clitoris is swollen and her breath is getting short and rapid that you start to lick on it firmly. You explore the entire area around the clitoris with your tongue and lips. As she gets more aroused, you can spend more time directly stimulating her clitoris.

 

Try alternating between slow and fast, up and down, side-to-side tongue flicks when you are on her clitoris. Use your hand to supplement your tongue action by caressing the insides of her thighs, rubbing her breasts and squeezing her nipples. When you sense she is getting close, from her physical and vocal responses, you maintain a rhythm that suits her, providing consistent pressure on her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

 

(4)   Be creative

 

You get a self-help book which tells about the various lovemaking positions. You read this together with your partner. After this both of you can discuss and decide the new positions that will be more intimate in lovemaking. Both of you can also experiment with role-playing by dressing (or even cross-dressing) and acting as someone you always desire to be. You can also use adult toys to help you last longer when you are stimulating your partner. You can consider light bondage such as blind-folding and hand-cuffing to sharpen the sexual response when one of the senses is being blocked out.

 

Lovemaking should always be comfortable and done in a way that satisfies both of you. Learning how to have great sex is essential to keep the relationship with your partner stronger.

 

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Why She Never Initiates Sex

 

 

 

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Why she is not quite turned on recently? How to make her comfortable and slowly get her in the mood? How to push the right buttons to rid her off her insecurity and bring out her wild side?

 

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How To Make Her Feel Comfortable Outside The Bedroom?

 

Get her in a light and happy mood before you get intimate with her. I believe the best way to do is to start outside the bedroom because women tend to take a bit longer than men to get into the mood.

 

A great way to get her ease up is to plan a night out with your girl and her friends and their boyfriends and head to a night spot where booze and loud music abound. Encourage them to dance together and have fun. The pumping music and the free flow of alcohol will gradually let her ease up and get wild. On reaching home, you keep the vibe going with your girl and she may later show you how crazy she can be in private.

 

If your girl is not the party-type, and if you can be a bit romantic, how about cooking her a meal? To a woman, the sight of a man cooking competently is its own aphrodisiac. Offer her a glass of wine. As the evening progresses, both of you will begin to lower your guards. It is at this point that things should take a sexual turn. While she is helping you to clean up after the meal, you slide up against her, brush up behind her, plant kisses on her neck and cultivate the ultimate in anticipation.

 

If you can’t cook, you can treat her to a dinner in her favorite eating outlet. You set up a hot dinner date. Buy her a sexy outfit and ask her to wear it when she is having dinner with you. When she dresses sexy, she is likely to feel sexy. She doesn’t need to dress like Lady Gaga, probably just a short black dress and lacy lingerie will do, or anything that is sexy with good taste.

 

You can get each other in the mood by watching porn together or by reading some stimulating erotic fiction. Even if she is not normally into watching porn, when you are trying to get dirty with each other, she may be open to add in a video or two. You can also find quality sexy stories available all over the Internet and in bookstores.

 

Playing sexy games is also a great way to help both of you to get started before getting dirtier in bed together. You can find these kinds of games online and in adult stores. These are usually aimed at couples that want to add some excitement to their love life and they should give you some ideas. You can also use your imagination to create your own game together with her at home. The idea is to get both of you to open up and start trying things out. If all else fails, you can always fall back on the classic strip poker or the old standard of Truth or Dare.

 

To spice things up, you can show her your artistic side by getting temporary tattoos, body paints and crayons which you can apply directly on you and her body. The beauty of this activity is that both of you need to shed some clothes and touch each other to do it. It is a unique way to get things started with both of you almost naked running your hands up and down on each other’s body and applying your own brand of creative art.

 

As you progress further into the night, you can pique her interest by joining her in the shower or bath. Lather her up and linger over her curves, tracing patterns along her skin and touching her all over. After the shower is over, offer to massage her using her favorite massage oil to get her relaxed into your touch as you gradually shift your movements into sensual caresses. She will be begging more for it after all that pampering.

 

How To Make Her Feel Comfortable Inside The Bedroom?

 

A self-confident woman who is at peace with her body is going to be a good lover. So praise her often, praise her well with sincerity. Do tell her she is sexy when she is coming back from the gym, or rolling out of bed, or anytime she least expects it.

 

Give her a very specific reason why you find her irresistible such as the curve of her neck or the way she walks, or about something she is particularly good at doing. Women like to hear they are doing a good job and the best way to let her know is by saying so. This can boost her sexual confidence so that she is more inclined to let loose as and when she wants. Whatever you say, do not compare her against another woman.

 

If she is very insecure about her buttocks, what you can do is to tell her how beautiful she is. Coax her into lying on her stomach so that you can rub it and get a good feel of it. If she refuses, tell her that you adore everything about her and her buttocks. If she is insecure about the shape of her belly, you get her into a comfortable position so that you can rub and kiss her tummy, making her feel like a queen.

 

Perhaps the single most effective way to make her feel better about her own body is to point out your own flaws. If you show her that you have a little beer belly or flat buttocks, maybe she will feel better about her own imperfections.

 

If you want a woman to become more liberated in bed, you have to make her feel beautiful and embrace her flaws. Avoid comparing her against anyone else and neither should you hint about her imperfections by suggesting that she ought to start going to the gym. The best sex happens when both of you feel comfortable with each other. If she does not need to worry about whether or not you notice the mole under her armpit, then chances are she will be able to concentrate and reach orgasm easily and getting you turn on as well.

 

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