Love Making – How To Make It Fun

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Want to satisfy a woman enough during sex to make her crave it? Want to make her cum more easily and preferably over and over again? Looking for tips on how to blow her mind, keep her coming back for more? These bedroom shortcuts will help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm in a jiffy. Try these tricks to get her dripping wet in bed.

 

(1)   The right temperature

 Make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature prior to engaging in sex. Use a fan during intercourse to keep from overheating. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. A room temperature of 27 degree Celsius is good for sex.

 (2)   Start sweet

Sweet treats on her tongue will ring her brain’s reward bells, making her ripe for arousal. Seduce her by hand-feeding her fruits with unusual textures such as pomegranates.

 Chocolate may work as well. Not only can chocolate add some color to your sex lives, it is also believed that chocolate stimulates the production of endorphins, which provide a sense of pleasure or pain. Apparently, chocolate contains a natural substance that allegedly stimulates the same reaction in the body as the feeling of falling in love.

 

If your lady absolutely loves chocolate, why not dip your stick in some and let her have a taste of Mr. Dick? You’d be surprised at how enjoyable fellatio can feel when a woman has the pleasure of devouring a chocolate-covered member.

 

            (3) Stimulate her breasts

 

Women tend to be very proud of their breasts. Not only are they showing them off more than ever before, but they want you to pay serious attention to them during foreplay and lovemaking.

 

Many guys do not know how to stimulate a woman’s breasts in a way that will be pleasing to her. Simply grabbing a breast as though it was cookie dough and chewing on the nipple is going to get you nowhere fast.

 

Just like with anything sexual, you want to start off slowly and softly. You do not want to grab your lover’s breasts too hard, and you do not want to start pinching her nipples right away. You want to lead up to more direct and aggressive stimulation only after you have sufficiently gotten your girl turned on.

 

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms and sides of her breasts first. Gradually move towards her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, her nipples will become flushed with blood and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You can then harden your tongue and flick it back and forth and slowly take it into your mouth, at which point you will begin to suck and nibble simultaneously. If her nipples are not hard, you can usually manipulate each one by sucking it and then releasing it from your mouth whilst inhaling so that it creates an icy sensation.  In this way, you will kick-start the blood flow and lubrication down below, starting her slow build-up.

 

        (4)  Head downwards

 

Go slow during manual stimulation. If she is not wet, don’t start playing with her clitoris before you have touched, kissed and sucked her in other places such as her lips, neck, earlobes, nipples, tummy, lower back, buttocks, inner thighs and toes.

 

When she is ready, lightly brace the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now, run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer vaginal lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons – the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone – and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

 

You can vary the motion, firmness of your touch, and the speed with which you touch her. Your main aim is you should be turning her on and you should feel the clitoris swelling and expanding. Ask her to tell you what she likes, when she wants it harder or softer, faster, slower, or differently, and when she wants you to keep doing what you are doing.

 

           (5)  Enter her deep

 

 Penetrating as deep as possible during sexual intercourse is a great way to connect emotionally and physically with your lover. Choosing sex positions that allow for deeper penetration can help her to cum faster and your sex life even better. Try these positions to go deeper inside her.

 

             (a)  Doggy style

 

This is probably the best sex position for going deeper to stimulate the g-spot. By entering her from behind as she bends over, your penis will stimulate her cervix. This sends pleasure signals to her brain through the vagus nerve. You can experiment with the way you position your pelvis to find out what feels best to you and your woman. By tilting your pelvis towards your stomach, your penetration will be shallower, or by arching your back and tilting your pelvis away from your stomach, you will be able to go deeper.

 

            (b) Ankles-on-shoulders missionary

 

You can modify the missionary position to create the deepest penetration possible, while still being able to be eye to eye with your girl. You get your girl to bring her legs back towards her stomach and hook her ankles on your shoulders. With you on top, you arch up a little so that your torso is away from her body. By adjusting the distance between your torso and her body, you will be able to experience the difference in penetration depth between this modified missionary sex position and traditional missionary.

 

            (c) Woman on top


This position allows your girl to control pretty much everything, the speed, depth and angle of thrusting. As a result, this often allows a woman to have an orgasm more easily than if the position is reversed and you are on top. To get deeper penetration when she is on top, you spread your legs with knees bend to allow her to push her pelvis down closer to yours and let her vagina to slide all the way down to the base of your penis. This is a great position for female orgasm, because the closer her pelvis is to yours, the more friction will be created during sex, offering stimulation to both the clitoris and vagina. You can experiment with different pelvic positions to find out which one feels the best to you and your woman and allows for the deepest penetration.

 

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Sex Tips – How To Be Creative In Your Love Life

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Is sex getting more or less the same each time when you have it? Are you looking for ways to bring passion back into sex? Do you miss those good old days when you both newly met and so crazy of each other whether in bed or out of bed? If you are keen to get back or have the sex life you want, read below.

 

(1)   Taking a break

 

This may sounds a bit illogical, but giving sex a “short holiday” should help to relieve some of the pressures if both of you are having a hard time to get in the mood. This does not mean both of you should stop being loving to each other. What you can do in the meantime is to strengthen the emotional intimacy with your partner.

 

Engage in joint activities with your partner such as doing exercises (workouts), cycling together in the park, enrolling in dance classes or yoga lessons, go clubbing, going out with other couples (double dating), watching porn together or reading an erotic story together. You can also give each other a sensual massage without focusing on sex. You can have fun instead of having sex by playing with each other’s bodies such as painting your partner’s body with those glow-in-the-dark paints or edible colors. All these activities should gradually help both of you to get into the mood.

 

(2)   Create the right atmosphere

 

Since most of the time you should be having sex in the bedroom, it is certainly helpful to give the place a more sexual feel. You can put full length mirrors alongside your bed to heighten your sexual experience. During intercourse, both of you can have a clear view of yourself in the mirror to give each other an additional visual stimulation.

 

Install soft lightings, play some sensual music, spray the room with some fragrance and the colors of the curtains and bed sheets should be those that are arousing to both of you. Always dress up in bed with seductive clothes to enhance the sexual aspects of you. You can bring food and drink into the bed. Aphrodisiacal food and drinks can make both of you horny. To add in some excitement, you can bring in some sex toys, lubricants and anything that helps to reinvigorate your senses.

 

(3)   Focus on pleasuring each other

 

One of the best ways to have great sex is to take turns giving each other pleasure. A good way to start is by taking a bath together. This gives you ample time to play with each other. Do spend at least fifteen minutes on caressing and complimenting each other’s bodies to make both of you horny before having sex. Take your time to explore and touch the erogenous zones on each other’s bodies.

 

You can talk dirty to each other. You can describe how and where you want to touch her using which of your body parts. At this stage, while you dirty talk to her, you only touch on the non-sexual areas such as her neck, wrists, inner thighs, lower back and ears but avoiding her breasts and vagina for the time being.

 

When she is getting more aroused, you can head downwards to her vaginal area. Using your fingertips you rub her outer vaginal lips by spreading them apart and bringing them back together. This should start to make her wet. You can move up along the vaginal opening to her clitoris, where you can rub it in a circular, up-and-down or side-to-side motion.

 

Some women like you to be gentle with the clitoris, while others like a little bit of vigorous treatment. You act according to her preference using her body language as a guide to what you should do. After a few minutes, you can gently suck on her clitoris to give her some oral pleasure while you continue to use your fingers to stimulate her g-spot.

 

(4)   Be creative

 

Pick up a copy of the self-help guide and try some unique sex positions that both of you may enjoy. There are many sexy places to get naughty besides the bed. Have you ever wondered places such as kitchen, car couches, bathroom, backyard or pool can be your “playground” too? If you are always the dominating one in bed, at times, make a switch to ask your partner to take charge.

 

Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex. You can talk about your fantasies with your partner and act out your kinky fetishes. You can consider introducing some adult board games to spice things up. Do a search through the Internet to get some games that can cater to all your fantasies or whims and have them delivered to your place at a minimal cost. The idea is to get both of you to open up and start trying things out.

 

As a starting, try these four tips to get back into the sexy mode and if you are keen for more, you can get hundreds of tips from here. To bring more pleasure and sensation into the bedroom, you can visit this place.       
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Sex Tips For Women: How To Orgasm If You Never Have One Before

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Why do some women have difficulties in reaching orgasm during intercourse?  How to increase the chances of having an orgasm if you never have one? No matter how much you want it, orgasm cannot be forced. The more pressure you put on yourself to cum, the less likely it is to happen. You have to take things slowly to find out what works for you. The most common reason for not been able to reach orgasm is due to the fact that women do not know their own bodies well.

 

The best way for a woman to understand her own sexuality is by way of masturbation. You may ask, “Why masturbate?”  Besides helping you to understand your own sexual response, it feels good. If you do not know how to sexually satisfy yourself, it will be almost impossible for you to have orgasm during intercourse. Learning about your own body and how it responds to your touching is the first step to guarantee yourself a satisfying sex life.

 

It is no secret that a lot of women own sex toys. It is because vibrators and other sex toys can enhance their sex lives by adding a little fun and variety. Many women choose to masturbate with vibrators and dildos and share their sex toys with their partners.

 

If you are curious about vibrators, particularly about buying your first one and wanting to know how to choose the perfect vibrator for you, read below.

 

What kind to choose?

 

To answer this question, you have to determine how you are going to use the sex toy. Do you want to use it by yourself? Do you want to use it with a partner, or both? What do you want the sex toy to do for you?

 

You can use a vibrator in two ways, either to use it just to massage your clitoris or to use it for insertion, or even both (stimulating your clitoris and g-spot) at the same time. G-spot and dual-action vibrators are mostly used for penetration, while the standard vibrators are usually used for clitoral stimulation. Deciding for yourself what are the most important aspects of owning a vibrator, is a critical step in finding the right vibrator for you.

 

What is the size and shape you want for your sex toy?

 

There are sex toys of various shapes, sizes, colors, materials and styles for you to choose from. Do you want something that is small and discreet so that it can be easily fit in your handbag so that you can use it at anywhere you want?

 

A lot of women prefer discreet vibrators, those sleek and simple looking ones that can be mistaken for a variety of different things. There are also a number of sex toys that are shaped like other things, such as lipstick tubes, candy bars and cucumbers, so that you do not have to worry about other people noticing it, allowing you to take your pleasure with you wherever you go.

 

Sex toys can be made from different materials such as plastic, silicone, steel, softer silicone or glass. It is important to know that different materials perform differently and each material has different characteristic and different cleaning requirements. You can check out on a sex toy website that will allow you to browse different materials available so you can find out what type of material that intrigues you the most.

 

Do you want a battery-operated one or a cordless, rechargeable one? This will be determined by how convenient you want it to be and how often you think you are going to use it.

 

How much you are prepared to pay?

 

If this is your first time and you are unsure of a particular type of toy, you can start with a lower price model to test the water and later on upgrade to a higher price one. Generally, the cheaper it is, the less features and power you will get for your vibrator. You do not have to spend a lot, but to get a reasonably good vibrator; you are going to spend more than five bucks.

 

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How To Have Sex As Often As You Want

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She doesn’t seem to be keen. When you touch her, she either pretends she is asleep or she tells you she is tired. Why does this happen? How to keep her interested again so that you can have sex as often as you want? Read on.

 

(1)   Getting wet is not all

 

When comes to sex, every woman is different. Some women can lubricate a lot while others do not. For this reason, you cannot rely on lubrication alone or how much she gets wet as the sole signal to judge whether she is ready for penetration. Being lubricated and being open for sex is not the same thing. The fact that she is getting wet is not a good excuse to skip foreplay.

 

How to recognize the signs that she is ready? When she is getting more and more aroused, her heart will beat faster and breathing get heavier causing her body to get tense up. More blood will flow to her genitals, ultimately triggering rhythmic muscle contractions in the vagina and other parts of her body. The skin on her face and chest may flush red. She may moan, pant or her face may take on a pained expression. Some women may emit a silky fluid (not the normal type of lubrication) often referred to as female ejaculation.

 

Before you see the above signs, you have to lay the groundwork and warm her up. You have to be patient. She needs a lot of kissing and tender loving care. She needs you to explore and tease her body to build up the tension and expectation. One of the sex tips you need to keep in mind is not to assume that just because she is wet that she is ready. Getting wet is only the beginning and not the end game.

 

(2)   It is not just about orgasm

 

Ideally it will be nice if she can have orgasm in every sexual encounter. In reality, sometimes she may not reach orgasm at all. This is not your fault and not hers. Lovemaking is, fundamentally, a present moment experience, with no pressure, free of any inhibitions and nagging thoughts. If you are too goal-oriented about achieving orgasm, you can only create unnecessary stress on yourself and her, diminishing the chances of actually reaching peak.

 

You cannot force a woman to reach orgasm. What a woman wants most is to be emotionally connected to her partner and the feeling of intimacy. What you can do, besides physically stimulating your woman, is to create a safe, comfortable and caring environment for her in which an orgasm may happen.

 

Each encounter does not have to be orgasmic. Sometimes it is nice to just relax and enjoy the sensations and emotions of being together. Intercourse is supposed to be about feeling good and there are plenty of good feelings that may not lead directly to orgasm.

 

Stop pestering her with words like “there yet?”. This can only turn her off. The pressure to perform for you can cause her to fake it just to stop you from asking. You can say words like “Do you like it? Here? There?” or “Harder?”.

 

(3)   Talk to her

 

This has to take place outside the bedroom. Those intimate moments are not the time to bring up any sexual issues. Be careful with what you have to say, no blaming, no accusing, just purely fact-finding. You can ask her some pointed questions such as “Are you tired or do I need some improvements?”  , “Do you need more foreplay?”  , or “Would a sensual massage help?”.

 

Great sex does not happen overnight. Bringing her to orgasm needs lot of patience and knowledge. You can get more ideas from here. Sometimes it can be as easy or simple as offering a little extra help, which you can find at this place.

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How To Have Fast Orgasm

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It is one of those things men like to experience when having sex – to make women orgasm faster! Do you want this to happen to you too? How to help a woman reach orgasm easily? Read below for tips on how to have an orgasm fast or better still a squirting orgasm.

 

(1)   Calm mind

 

Orgasms can sometimes happen quickly when you least expect them. At other times, they seem to take forever to reach it. If you want your girl to have a fast orgasm, you must keep her comfortable and relaxed. If she is too tensed up during and just before sex, you are going to have a hard time trying to make her cum.

 

For a start, it will be good to take a bath together with her to gradually get her into the mood. This gives you a good excuse to touch her whole body as you prepare her for intercourse. Ask her to do some deep breathing exercises. To keep her relaxed, you can give her a full body massage, but don’t touch her pubic area first.

 

As you massage her, there are two things you can do to loosen her up. What can be the best way to turn a woman on? Of course, this is best done by seducing/arousing her brain by talking dirty. This can increase the sexual anticipation inside her mind and increase her desire for sex.

 

The other thing you can do is to pay attention and observe her reactions (moans and groans) as you touch the various parts of her body. This should give you a very good idea about her unique hot spots. Once you are able to pinpoint these areas, you can later spend more time and effort to stimulate these erogenous zones to make her orgasm faster.

 

(2)   Stimulate clitoris

 

Assuming you have been doing the above first step well enough to relax her, by now, she should be getting more aroused. Therefore you should move to her more private areas and spend more time on them. This means you have to start stimulating her clitoris. This is the step you cannot miss. The clitoris solely exists for women pleasure. Most women can reach orgasm by themselves by just stroking their own clitoris (masturbating).

 

Because every woman is different; some like it gentle, some like it a bit rough, some like direct stimulation while others prefer indirect stimulation. The best way to find out what works well for her is to get her to show you how she masturbates or let her hand hold yours to guide you to where and how she likes to be touched.

 

Besides using your fingers, use your mouth to lick on her clitoris too, because most women love oral sex. For a start, press your tongue tip to her clitoris lightly and quickly and then you move on to the surrounding areas. As she gets highly aroused, you can spend more time on licking the clitoris and you can begin to lick faster and maintain this pace until she reaches orgasm. You can even speed up the process by bringing in sex toys such as a clitoris vibrator and/or g-spot vibrator.

 

(3)   Get into positions that can help her to orgasm faster

 

(a)   Reverse cow girl

 

She is on top of you and faces the other way. She gradually lowers herself to allow your penis to get inside her. This position makes it very easy to hit her g-spot and also allows you or her to stroke the clitoris at the same time.

 

(b)   She sits and you stand

 

To get into this sex position, you lift her up onto the counter top and let her assume the spread-eagle position. You should be standing in front of her to enter; the angle and thrust force provided by this sex position should get her excited in a minimal amount of time through g-spot stimulation.

 

     (c) Up and down banging

 

In this position, you need to move two to four inches forward from the usual missionary position. The next is to align yourself in such a way that the base of your penis is rubbing against her clitoris. Both of you will coordinate the movement – while she pushes her pelvis upward by two niches, you will push down gently to give a slight counter-resistance.

 

(d)   Rear penetration

 

The doggy style is effective in hitting her g-spot and you can double her sensation by massaging her clitoris at the same time.

 

Another way to do this is both of you will lie by your side with you behind her. You pull her bottom backwards against your groin and slip her top leg over your hip. With her thighs spread in this way, you will enter her from behind. This is one of those favorite sex positions for women because they love the feeling of a man’s arm wrapping around them or playing with their breasts and clitoris.

 

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