Can Circumcision Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

 

 

 

You want your girl to have the best sex. You want her to experience intense orgasm. You can last long with hand job but when it comes to actual intercourse, you ejaculate under a minute. You find this so frustrating and embarrassing. You want to consider circumcision because you think the problem is due to your too sensitive foreskin which prevents you from lasting longer in bed? Is it true that circumcision can reduce or cure premature ejaculation?

 

It is true that an uncut penis is often more sensitive than that of a circumcised penis. The main reason is that as the glans, or the head of a circumcised penis gets used to constant rubbing against the fabrics, without the protection of the foreskin, it will become less sensitive to sexual stimulation. Due to this reason, a circumcised male is likely to take a longer time to ejaculate. To a certain extent, this happens to accidentally cure premature ejaculation.

 

However, there is still no convincing evidence to suggest that circumcision can make a significant difference to the time it takes for a man to ejaculate. A research done by the Journal of Sexual Medicine indicates that rates of premature ejaculation in the US (where over 70% of the males are circumcised) are similar to other parts of the world where circumcision rates are significantly lower. Though circumcision can to a certain extent reduce sensitivity (because a lot of nerve endings are removed with the foreskin), however it does not necessarily increase the time a guy takes to ejaculate.

 

How To Reduce Or Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

(1)   Choose sex positions to help you last longer

 

(a)   The woman-on-top position

 

You will lie down on the bed and she will sit on top of you. She can either face you or her back towards you. When she is on top, you can ask her to slow down to avoid stimulating you too much.

 

Instead of lying on your back, you can sit face-to-face with your partner sitting on your laps. She will adjust her lower body to facilitate penetration. This position improves intimacy with your partner because you can kiss her, rub her back and suck or fondle her breasts.

 

For a change, you can also sit with her back facing you so that you can fondle her breasts while you penetrate her.

 

(b)   The side-by-side position

 

Both of you will lie on your side facing each other. She will lift up her leg to facilitate penetration. In this position, penetration will tend to be shallower, increasing the likelihood of better clitoral stimulation. With shallower thrusting, the sensation will not become too overwhelming for you.

 

(2)   Focus on her pleasure

 

In my opinion, the best way to cope with premature ejaculation is not to think about how long you should last inside her. Instead you divert your attention to her. You focus on pleasuring her. You make sure she orgasms first before you ejaculate. For most women, the easiest and most effective way to make her orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris.

 

You can do this by using your hands to masturbate her. Since most women love oral sex, you can use your tongue to lick her clitoris. If your hand or tongue gets tired before she orgasms, you can continue to stimulate her by using a vibrator plus other fun aids.

 

These are just two of the many ways you can do to delay your ejaculation. For more ways to control premature ejaculation, read on more from Long Sex and/or Prolonged Pleasure.

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Oral Sex – How To Lick Pussy Properly

 

 

 

 

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Oral sex is in fact the greatest gift that a guy can give to a girl. This is because most women do not reach orgasm through intercourse. The easiest way for a girl to achieve orgasm is by way of stimulation of the clitoris. Due to this reason, most women love oral sex. But not everyone can do cunnilingus well. Here is how you can give your girl the best oral experience.

 

(1)   Be Enthusiastic

 

Most women want to be assured that you are totally comfortable with going down on her. Most important she must feel that you are enjoying it. A woman’s pleasure will be higher if she can see her man is enjoying it as well. Do compliment her about her genitalia. This will boost her sexual confidence. This will also help her to relax so that she can come more easily.

 

To be enthusiastic means you must have the patience to learn and observe in what ways your partner likes to be stimulated orally. Let her guide you. Every woman is different. What is good for other woman may not be so for your woman. Communication is the key here. You have to pay attention to your partner’s moans, movements as well as suggestions.

 

(2)   Be Gentle And Sensual

 

A lot of guys make the mistake of being too enthusiastic to the point of being too rough. You should not, because the clitoris is very sensitive and you cannot treat it the way you want your penis to be treated. At the beginning you have to be gentle and this can be the biggest turn on to a woman.

 

You also have to be patient and not to rush. This is because it normally takes a woman longer to come (or cum)  than a man, on average. It is only in porn movies that women can orgasm in one to two minutes, which is not a reflection of the reality. You have to understand that women need more time to get into the mood, to build the tension and finally to release that tension in the form of an orgasm.

 

(3)   Try Various Positions

 

Oral sex can get boring for a woman if she is always lying down to receive. You can actually spice things up with different oral sex positions. In fact, when you go down on your woman in different positions, the same moves and techniques can actually feel totally different to her.

 

You can have her sit on a counter top, a couch or chair and spread her legs as wide as she can. This will give you access to the whole genital area for you to pleasure her with your mouth and hands. This will also allow her to watch as you perform oral sex on her which can be quite arousing for her.

 

You can have your girl stand up either with her feet apart or one leg on a stool or chair. This position allows her to feel like she is dominating you as your mouth has to reach up to lick her.

 

You can also position your head in a perpendicular position to her body. You will kneel at one side of her body and give her oral in this position.

 

You can have her lie flat on the bed, lift her buttocks up, and bring her knees close to her chest. This will give you easy access to lick her.

 

You also can have her squat over your face. This can be incredibly erotic to a woman especially if she is into domination.

 

You can get your girl to lie on her side and lift up the leg that is not on the bed and hold it high either with your hand or some kind of restraint. You will rest your head and neck on the other leg and eat her out.

 

(4)   Try Various Techniques

 

There are few women in the world that can resist the temptation of a good oral sex. The stimulation is intense if done properly and will highly increase the chances of your girl coming back for more. You can put that magic on your tongue by trying out some of the following techniques.

 

You can suck a mint in your mouth (not too strong or weak flavor) for a few seconds and then you begin to lick/suck her clitoris. You can then do that to her nipples too. You can blow on those areas that you have licked on. This can produce a tingly effect on the clitoris and nipples.

 

You can give her hot and cold treatment. What you need for this technique is something cold such as a glass of ice water or some ice-cubes and something hot such as hot coffee. You make your mouth cold by taking in some ice water or ice-cubes and let it linger in your mouth for a while before you swallow it or let the ice melts in your mouth. Then you perform oral sex on her with your cold mouth. You can lick/suck for a minute or two before you do a switch by taking in hot coffee to make your mouth hot. You can then perform oral sex on her with your hot mouth. You can switch between hot and cold for a few times. These two different sensations will feel terrific to her.

 

You take a straw and blow light, concentrated air on her nipples, vaginal lips and clitoris after you wet these areas with your licking. The straw allows you to be very precise about where the air hits. It also condenses the air into a small space, thus giving you greater pressure with your precision. If you want an even better effect, then you can do the same technique with mint in your mouth. You get her real wet with your mint-flavored saliva and then lightly blow on her.

 

You can use one or two fingers of each hand to fence in her clitoris. In this way, her clitoris will be nested right in the middle of your fingers. This will allow you to lick on the clitoris without fail. This technique is especially applicable if you are giving her oral sex in the dark.

 

From these tips here, you can choose which is most comfortable to you to take your cunnilingus to the next level. You may not do it right for the first time. But it is okay because practice makes perfect.

 

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Sex Tips: How To Last Long

 

 

 

 

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It is one of those things that most men fear in bed. Before she cums, you come first. The disappointed look in her eyes is the last thing you want it to happen in her sexual experience. How to prevent premature ejaculation (PE) so that you can last long enough for her to reach orgasm before yours? Let’s find out below!

 

(1)   Pinpoint the underlying causes of your PE

 

The truth is while there are many causes of premature ejaculation which affects every guy differently, they can all be summarized by one main cause, which is the failure to take control of the pleasure you experience during sex.

 

The main reason that you are not lasting long enough is because you are allowing yourself to experience pleasure, or stimulation, with too high intensity. This high intensity of stimulation is what causes you to ejaculate earlier than you want.

 

To last longer in bed, you need to take control of your stimulation. You need to realize that what you are doing before and during sex can dramatically influence how long you can last. It is only when you understand that this has nothing to do with your age or penis size, it has to do with those every little action you take before and during sex which have some kind of impact on your stimulation, then it becomes easy to make a change.

 

(2)   Choose sex positions that can help you to last longer

 

Sex positions can have a dramatic effect on how long you last in bed. When it comes to choosing those last longer positions, it is more about having sex in those positions that will not stimulate you too soon or too strong.

 

One great position that makes this possible is the standing up. In this position, you make love either by standing in front or behind your woman and she can be standing or sitting at the edge of a table or bed. The reason this works so well is because when you are standing up, tension and pressure will be directed away from your penis. Part of this tension and pressure will be directed to your legs. This will relieve some of the pressure and stimulation on your penis, helping you to last longer.

 

Another position you can consider is the woman-on-top position. Why this position works? The main reason is because unlike most other positions, this position does not require you to move a lot other than using your fingers to stimulate her clitoris and other erogenous zones. Lesser movement will mean lesser stimulation on your part and you can get your woman to slow down her movements so that both of you will have higher chances of reaching orgasm at the same time.

 

Another way to help you last longer is when you sense you are quite close to orgasm, you switch into another less stimulating position.

 

(3)   Reduce the amount of friction to the penis tip

 

The tip of the penis (also known as the glans) is the most sensitive part. In the normal thrusting movement, it will be like pushing in as much as you can and pulling out in a way that cause the highly sensitive glans to rub against the entrance of her vagina, which offers you intense stimulation. To minimize the stimulation to your glans, after you push in, you do not pull out too much so that most of the time you are deep inside her. This will avoid getting your glans from being too strongly stimulated by your thrusting.

 

(4)   Focus on her pleasure

 

Instead of piling too much attention and pressure on yourself by trying to time yourself, you can distract from such stress by re-directing your attention on your woman. You slowly down and stimulate one by one her erogenous zones. This will increase the chances of your woman reaching orgasm faster and before you. After she have her first orgasm, her body will be highly sensitive to your stimulation. She will then reach orgasm again very soon and will be sexually satisfied. Under this circumstance, how much time you spend inside her will no longer be an issue. After all, she already gets her orgasm before yours.

 

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How Female Orgasm Works

 

 

 

 

 

How can I make a girl orgasm? Why she can’t orgasm when we are having intercourse? What is wrong? There is nothing wrong with you and your girl at all. Around 75% of women do not reach orgasm from penis-in-vagina intercourse alone. This does not mean that 75% of women do not experience a sexual climax. The truth is that sex is more than just intercourse and orgasm. In order to help put your woman into the 25% who enjoy sex and make her like you a lot, you have to understand the process of sexual response. Any sexual experience will involve some or all of the 5 stages which are desire, arousal, plateau, orgasm and resolution.

 

(1)   Desire

 

Desire is simply the wish or urge to participate in any sexual activity or some kind of sex. This desire works in the same way as feeling hungry which makes you want to eat.In a sexual context, desire is a matter of having an appetite to have sex at a given time which is sometimes described as being “hungry” or “horny”. Without this feeling of sexual desire, sex in any form is not going to be enjoyable. This feeling of desire can happen when all or any of the 5 senses of sight, sound, smell, touch and taste are being stimulated. This can also occur when we are talking about sex with someone else. In order to get aroused, we need to have desire first.

 

(2)   Arousal

 

What happens when you or someone is aroused? When we are aroused, blood pressure will go up, making our face red hot, breathing and heartbeat gets faster. Our body becomes very sensitive and responsive to touch. There will be an increase in the flow of blood to the genital issues. Your penis will get hard. Her nipples become erect or swollen and the breasts get slightly fuller. Her clitoris and vaginal lips become puffed up. She will start to get wet (vaginal lubrication). The deeper end of the vaginal also expands and pulls back a bit, making her feel emptier inside the vagina. Though a guy can get aroused very quickly, but for a woman, this usually can happen if you are patient in giving her a good foreplay.

 

(3)   Plateau

 

When sexual stimulation continues, our arousal may then progress to the plateau phase. We get this “high” feeling or a feeling of being “on the edge”. Your body will feel increasingly sensitive, face, lips or chest get flushed, or the heart beat gets even stronger. The same thing also happens to her.

 

(4)   Orgasm

 

This is the peak of sexual excitement which happens after the plateau stage. The muscles especially around the pelvis region will expand and contract and the body will secrete more good-feeling hormones such as endorphins. For a guy, he will reach the point of no return and ejaculate. For a woman, she must be stimulated all the way (without stopping) in order to reach orgasm.

 

(5)   Resolution

 

The pressure that builds up in the body to reach orgasm is finally released just like the popping of an inflated balloon. Both you and your girl will feel physically and psychologically relaxed. Blood that fills up the genitals and other sensitive body parts will drain out causing them to return to their normal state. This resolution stage can also happen without orgasm when all forms of sexual stimulation are stopped abruptly.

 

Now that you understand how orgasm can happen to you and your woman, you can start applying this knowledge in your sex life now. In order to get her to enjoy sex and experience full arousal, plateau and climax, you need to stimulate more than just her genitals. Her state of mind is of utmost importance. Her mind needs to be stimulated as well to get in the mood.

 

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How Female Ejaculation Happens

 

 

 

 

 

 

A guy once dated a woman who could orgasm so much that she sprayed like a fountain. He feels great about this experience and wants the same thing to happen to his current girlfriend. Can this happen to any woman or how does this happen?

 

What is just described here is female ejaculation. In layman terms, it is called squirting. This can be part of sexual response from some women. There are 2 types of female sexual response fluids. The most commonly known type is the vaginal ejaculate which lubricates the vaginal wall and protects her against infection due to its slightly acidic nature.

 

The less commonly known type of female sexual response fluid is the one that comes from the Skenes glands (the glands that make up the g-spot) and bladder. This is similar to the prostrate fluid in men but unlike the male ejaculate, this type of female ejaculate has nothing to do with reproduction. This type of female ejaculate is not commonly seen in large amount. Only a few women can experience this fountain-like phenomenon.

 

Not all women ejaculate. This is not because women are not capable of ejaculating; rather it is due to lack of understanding of women’s sexual health issues. Even for those women who can, most do not ejaculate all the time during every kind of sexual activity. For both male and female, ejaculation can happen with or without orgasm. For women who ejaculate, ejaculation usually happens before orgasm. No matter how men feel about it, not all women are comfortable with or enjoy ejaculating.

 

Female ejaculation fluid is not urine though it passes through the urethra, which is the same place we urinate. Some women are also confused by it because when they are about to ejaculate, the feeling is as if they are about to urinate. But this is not so. This is because the composition of contents in urine and female ejaculation fluid are grossly different. Upon testing the liquid, scientists discover that it contains sugar and an enzyme (prostrate acid phosphatase) which is a major component in semen. Urea and creatinine which are found in greater proportion in urine, are minor components in female ejaculation fluid.

 

If a woman ejaculates, it is mainly due to extensive and targeted g-spot stimulation and/or clitoral stimulation. The g-spot is located along the front wall (towards the belly)of the vaginal canal about 2 inches from the opening. For many women, the best stimulation of that area usually will happen with toys or fingers or choosing sexual positions that allow the penis to provide that stimulation as well.

 

When a woman is highly aroused due to clitoral and/or g-spot stimulation and feels like quite close to orgasm or having one and if she can just relax and push just like she does when urinating, ejaculation will happen if it is going to.

 

Till now there is still no definitive answer as to why some women cannot ejaculate. It is probably they do not get the kind of sexual stimulation they need to do so or they are not aroused enough to get there. Some women do not feel comfortable and try to hold back because they mistakenly think they are going to urinate.

 

When comes to ejaculation, a guy has to keep this in mind that sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t. You cannot force this on a woman and give her unnecessary pressure.

 

What matters most is not whether she orgasms or ejaculates. The best way to approach this is to focus on her pleasure and enjoy the whole process. What a woman needs is connection with her partner. If she can feel it, she can still be sexually satisfied even without orgasm or ejaculation. If you try to set goals like trying to make her orgasm or ejaculate during each sexual encounter, you can only make this even less likely to happen because you are putting too much stress on yourself and her.

 

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