Penis Size: Does It Matter To Women and Is There Any Safe Way To Make It Bigger Naturally

 

 

 

 

 

 

What penis size is the right size? What is the minimal penis size for a woman to at least feel some pleasure? What is the perfect size that feels the best for a woman? Those are the questions that guys usually have in mind when they start dating girls.

Do women prefer big penis? Actually, it is both yes and no. The answer given will be very dependent on the size of the woman’s vagina when aroused and its tightness, how big she likes it (some women like to be stretched and feel “full”) and where she likes it to stimulate her (some women like their g-spot stimulated, some women like their cervix poked).

According to some research, a normal erect penis is between 5.5 and 6.2 inches long and 4.7 to 5.1 inches in circumference (or thickness). The ideal penis size for most women is 6.5” with a circumference of 5.5”, which statistically is a large penis. For size queens (approximately 15% of women) the ideal size penis would be 8.5” length and 6” circumference.

The problem with having a short penis (4.5” or less) is that it tends to slip out more frequently disrupting the flow of sex and reducing the back and forth friction. For approximately 50% of women, a short penis would be a problem in that it would interfere with their ability to orgasm, and a deal breaker for 20% of women.

However, this will not be a problem if this is compensated by having a thickness of over 5 inches.  This will be enough to fill her up more, to stimulate more nerve endings, and to pull on the outer portions of the vagina which stimulate the clitoris as well.

For some women, the benefit of a longer penis (6.5” or longer) is that it creates more friction and can reach alternative orgasmic zones in the deep regions of the vagina near the posterior fornix. Also a minority of women report pleasure from having their cervix caressed or in some cases pounded. Some even orgasm the moment their cervix is touched and in their case length is essential. But for a good portion of women, having anything near their cervix is a no no.

Suppose after reading these numbers here, you realize that you are about average or a little above, and you feel that it does no harm to add one to two inches. It is completely natural. Because how great would that be if you get to see your girl getting an instant orgasm after you get inside her. Suppose this is what you desire for and the next question will be how to achieve what you want safely.

The good news is, natural penis enlargement (that is, making your penis longer and thicker without surgery, without pills and without crazy suction devices) is completely possible. Right now, I am going to share with you a proven technique called ‘Dry Jelq’ which is commonly use to achieve a permanent growth in the thickness of your erect AND flaccid penis.

Here is how to use this technique:

Step 1. You stroke yourself until you get a 40-50% erection, no more, no less.

Step 2. Depending on whether you are right-handed or left-handed, and if you are left-handed, then you use your left hand. You form a circle or a ‘ring’ firmly around the base of your penis, using the thumb and forefinger of your right hand, which will look like an okay sign. Your other fingers (middle, ring and pinky) should be outstretched.

Step 3. You will move this just-mentioned ‘ring’ from the base of your penis upwards towards the head of your penis. Be careful not to slide over the skin. Instead, focus on keeping your fingers on top of the same area of flesh all the time, while still sliding up and along the shaft. The motion will be very similar to milking a cow. The blood in your penis will be forced towards and into the tip.

Step 4. After you move your ‘ring’ towards the tip, you will release your grip. This hand movement from the base to the tip will be counted as one time. You will do this for 20-30 times in your first session and increase it to 50 after a couple of weeks.

The Dry Jelq is just one of the dozens of techniques commonly used by men in the past if they want to increase the size of their penis. If you practice this dry jelqs for a few weeks you should notice that your penis hangs heavier and lower day-to-day and that it feels heavier and solid when you are hard. If you include this and the other fundamental techniques as part of your daily routine for a couple of times a week, you will then be able to get THE SIZE that can pleasure every woman in bed.

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The Sexy Things Women Love

 

 

 

 

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Do you know what turns a woman on? What makes her a bit of a cold fish in bed? How to bring sexy back into your bedroom? How to make her love sex again so that you can have as much as you want to? You can have the sex life you want and bring the pleasure back into lovemaking with these tips.

 

(1)   Make her feel at ease

 

One of the reasons she never initiates sex is because of her fear of rejection. For a woman, self-esteem is one of the most important things to have in order to feel at ease when she is in bed with a man. To reduce her anxieties you need to do what women do when they want sex.

 

You need to show her you are up for it by sending out subtle signals. This will mean creating an atmosphere where she is quite sure she will not be rejected. This can be as simple as lighting a couple of candles, or dimming the lights, playing her favorite sexy music, feeding her chocolate-flavored cream or strawberries and talking dirty to her. The key is in creating a relaxed but suggestive atmosphere conducive for a night of wild sex.

 

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(2)   Be creative

 

After a few years, it is easy to find the whole game of sex monotonous if you do not create new ways to enjoy each other in bed. When one of you get bored, you may have trouble getting an erection or she may have difficulty in reaching orgasm. The best way to overcome this is to be opened to each other’s new ideas about the things both of you like to try.

 

To prevent being knocked back, you can turn your requests into a game. You can alternate weeks of who is responsible for coming up with ideas, fantasies and new positions. This way your partner will not feel pressurized. If she gets stuck, there is wide choice of sex manuals, magazines and videos available for both of you to browse.

 

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(3)   Give her oral pleasure

 

If she does not orgasm often, this may be due to insignificant stimulation. No matter how much she wants it, she may be too shy to let you know just how hot it makes her to have your mouth down there. In order to get her off, head south. One study found women who experience multiple orgasms usually have the first orgasm after cunnilingus, rather than intercourse or manual pleasure.

 

The tongue is the perfect instrument for stimulating the clitoris. Instead of making her beg for oral sex, learn to be best in performing cunnilingus and give it to her without her ever having to ask. To spice things up, you can try different positions for oral sex, such as licking her from behind or letting her sit on your face. You can also get an oral kit to enhance your performance. This will add an element of variety to giving your lover a climax orally, making her want more and more.

 

(4)    Be romantic

 

It is easy to take your partner for granted if both of you are too busy with the daily routines. Make an arrangement to set aside some moments for some dirty romancing. Strike a deal with one of the many relatives you are always in contact with: one Saturday a month, they watch your kids for the night while you and your wife go on a date and you return the favor the next Saturday.

 

Romance her as you would during courtship days. Her identity is more than just wife or mother and she needs the assurance of your love as well. Intimacy is often more important to a woman than sex. Letting her feel important as a woman and person, and helping her feel emotionally close to you, is what that can fuel her drive to have more sex with you.

 

(5)   Getting fit together

 

Working out with your woman and treating this activity as fat-burning foreplay can raise her dopamine (good-feeling hormone) levels and ease her anxieties. Besides this, your post-exercise sweat will contain traces of androstadienone, a testerone derivative that spikes her arousal when she smells it.

 

Use these tips to tune in with each other’s needs and what follows next will be more explosive than both of you ever imagine.

 

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Female Orgasm – How To Arouse A Woman In Romantic Ways

 

 

 

 

 

How to arouse a woman? How to make her wet? How to get women horny? What are the ways and things you can make a woman sexually aroused? Read below for answers to these questions.

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In order to arouse a woman, you have to make an effort in your foreplay for her. What I mean foreplay here is not just the things you should do in the bedroom before sex. In facts, there are lots of things or preparations you should do. In my definition, foreplay has two aspects. One is the emotional part and the other is the physical aspect.

 

What is emotional foreplay? It is a series of things outside the bedroom that you have to do as a great lover or partner in making her feel totally comfortable with you. It plays an important role in building up sexual intimacy. To be good in your emotional foreplay, you will have to make her feel loved and appreciated.

 

You will treat her as a person you are deeply in love and not just an object or outlet to vent your sex needs. You have to be romantic by giving her pleasant surprises which can be some small gifts (which she has always wants) or in the form of gestures. When you are not with her, you can romance her with sms text messaging.

 

Communication and emotional connection are both very important foundation for a strong relationship. You need to be patient and listen to her without interruptions her needs, wishes, concerns and problems.

 

You must first resolve any underlying issues outside the bedroom if you want to have a great sex life. If she is not so keen in sex, you have to find out the reasons. Sometimes, she may be troubled by certain conditions such as vaginismus (painful intercourse) or excessive and colored vaginal discharge. Besides getting her to seek medical treatment, you can search online for some self-help guides on vaginismus cure and how to treat yeast infection.

 

Once you have taken care of the emotional aspect of the foreplay, you can now work on physical aspect of the foreplay. In order to be effective in pleasing and teasing your woman, you will have to take things slowly. The longer you build anticipation, the more pleasure she feels when you reach her hot spots. You do this by deliberately leaving out her most obvious erogenous zones (nipples, clitoris) initially and instead spending more time on her less obvious ones which can be more sensitive to stimulation during the early stage of foreplay.

 

To make it sensationally intense for her, you can practice some light bondage by way of blindfolding her. As she is not going to know where you will be touching her next, this can be very arousing to her. In touching her, you can impress her with your creativity. There are many things in your house that can be used as sex tools. For example, you can use lightly stroke her with light feather that can be very ticklish and arousing. While touching her, you can either sweet talk or dirty talk to her.

 

At this point, your main aim is to give her pleasure and make it mutually enjoyable. Though it is best to give her an orgasm, you should not make having an orgasm the main goal for every intercourse session. This will put undue pressure on your woman, making it difficult for her to achieve orgasm.

 

There is no one-size-fit-all way in arousing a woman. You have to customize or make special adjustments to the sexual techniques you master, in order to be effective in helping her to have the best orgasm she ever gets. You have to pay attention and observe how her body reacts to your move and touch.

 

Does she put her arms around you or caress you when you touch or penetrate her? If this happens, this means you are doing the right thing. Does she push you back or cover herself up? If this is so, you will have to make changes in your moves. Does she synchronize her movement with yours such as moving her hips in time with your thrust? If this is so, this means she is enjoying what you are doing to her. Does her breathing get more rapid? This is often a sign of she is quite close to orgasm.

 

How do you know if she is aroused enough? When she is wet down there, does this mean you can stop your foreplay? Many guys have this wrong assumption that when a woman is wet, this means she is ready for sex. Well, this is not so. When she is lubricated, it means her mind is starting to get sexual but still far away from the stage when she is about to orgasm. A clear sign of her been highly-aroused is when you see her vagina swollen or bulging due to increased blood flow to this region. You will see her clitoral hood covering her clitoris in contrast to the beginning when the clitoris is partially-exposed.

 

Though every woman is different, but for most women, the most effective way to arousing them is by way of clit stimulation, which is the easiest and best way to female orgasm. You can stimulate her clitoris by your hands, your mouth and tongue, your sex organ and sex toys. The best way is to let her have her first orgasm through clitoral stimulation before you enter her. She will then be very sensitive to your subsequent moves and will be able to achieve multiple orgasms.

 

What I suggest is 60% of your effort will be what you should do to please her when outside the bedroom. Once you do this well, you can be very sure, she will be very receptive to what you are going to do her in bed.  This is 60% emotional (laying the foundation) and 40% physical action in the bedroom.

 

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How To Turn A Woman On And Have Sex As Often As You Want

 

 

 

 

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What turns a woman the most in bed? What are the ways to turn a woman on? In bed, what do women like to do the most? Read on.

(1)   Be Romantic

Every woman craves romance, whether they are young or old. It is perhaps the best and simplest gift that a man can give to a woman. This maybe something physical such as pampering her with gifts or can be a thoughtful gesture. This means it may not cost much. You do not necessary spend a bomb to turn a woman on unless she is a gold-digger. Here are ways you can be a romantic partner.

(a)    Do spend time together and one of the ways is to learn something new together. You can consider signing up for golf, cooking or some other type of lessons. You can do workouts together at the gym or park.

(b)   Surprise her with gift and make sure you know what she wants

(c)    Every day you should make an effort to look for some good things to say about her

(d)   Good communication is also very important. There is a need to talk about expectations such as how do you want improve sex to be better, what kind of fantasizing in the bedroom is alright for her, what is your definition of a good foreplay, what kind of sex positions would you like to try, how do you like to be touched before, during and after sex. You should also make an effort to resolve any underlying grievances which may hurt romance as well as intimacy.

(e)    Do something special and out of ordinary (be unpredictable in a pleasant way), such as pamper her with an unsolicited back rub/foot rub or even a sensual massage.

(f)    You accompany her to her-type of movie, even if you are not a fan.

(g)   Do one of her chores and don’t point it out. Many wives are secretly turned on when their husbands offer to help do household chores.

(h)   Remember the important dates such as birthday, anniversary or Valentine

 

(2)   Build The Right Mood

In order to turn a woman on, you have to work on her mind which controls her sexual desire. Here are some ways you can do to create mentally arousing moments with her.

(a)    The first thing you need to do is to create a romantic environment. You will go about gathering what you will need to set the mood. The mood you want to create is up to you. Nature sounds, ambient music, and meditation music will all help to create an atmosphere of relaxation. You could also choose music designed to stimulate and arouse. Dim the lights as much as possible when preparing for a massage. Candlelight is a good choice as long as you take safety precautions. Keep all candles on a sturdy surface far from flammable objects. Lava lamps, lighted tabletop fountains, room lights on a dimmer switch, and night lights are all good lighting options.

 

Sensual massage can be very relaxing and help a lot in getting her in the mood. Lavender, patchouli, ylang ylang, and sandalwood are all good scents for your sensual arsenal. Choose a massage oil to use as a carrier for your essential oils and to use on your partner’s skin. Coconut oil, food-grade almond oil, and jojoba oil are all safe to use both outside and inside the body.

(b)   You also need to make an effort to get her feel comfortable in sex. This can be done by saying something that is comforting. The best way is you can say it in a way to make her feel sexy (such as complimenting her body). You can also put her at ease and help to distract any tension in her mind by engaging in dirty-talking

(c)    You can make the atmosphere more lively and fun by playing some sex games. Here are 3 bedroom game ideas you can consider.

 

(i)                 Both of you will write down about the 5 or more fantasies that can be acted out together at the time you are playing the game. If your fantasy requires props have them at hand. Take turns each by pulling out one at a time and then acting out the fantasy.

(ii)               Both of you will take turns picking an area of your body and letting your partner spend 60 seconds lavishing that spot with sensual attention: kisses, licking, nibbling, caressing. This will help you to learn what areas your partner is dying to have you pay more attention to and can let you know exactly what she wants, so there is no more excuses.

(iii)             You can try strip poker. In this game, the winner or loser will have to do perform some sexual acts. Of course you have to make sure that it is something that both of you would enjoy. That way, no matter who wins or loses, you will both really win.

 

(3)    Spice Things Up

Doing the same thing over and over again can kill the mood over the long run. This means at certain point in time, you have to do something different. Here are some ways to spice sex up.

(a)    You can add in lotions, oils, specially-designed love cushion and sex toys to heat things up a little.

(b)   You can get a copy of the Kama Sutra and experiment with some unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.

(c)    You can take turns in letting each other to take control during intercourse. Some women have this fantasy to be the dominating one during intercourse.

(d)   You can talk about your fantasies. For a start you can try some light bondage, and when both of your comfort level increases you can bring out some more of your kinky fetishes and lusty desires.

(e)    You can make a video together while having sex. You can delete it after the act if having a sex tape freaks her out, or make sure it is locked up in a safe place. Watching both of you having sex in the video and having sex at the same time can be a huge rush for anyone.

(f)    You can watch porn together. Porn can be enjoyable for both sexes. Get into bed together and watch a few porn movies with a decent storyline. It will keep both of you engrossed and wet. Stroke each other and have sex while watching the movie. If you like it, talk about the movie with each other while watching it and visualize sexy fantasies with each other

(g)   You can read an erotic story (such as 50 Shades Of Grey) together. The mind is the biggest sexual organ we have. Create fantasies and imagine it together. It will be a bigger turn on than you think.

(h)   Have sex in different places and different times of the day.

(i)     You can get better in your oral sex, probably by reading up on how you can improve your oral skill or by playing an oral sex game to warm things up, or by adding in some tools to improve your performance.

(j)     You can consider role playing. Here are some suggestions for sexy role-plays ideas.

 

(i)                 School Teacher and Student

(ii)                Flight Attendant and Passenger

(iii)               Homeowner and Plumber

(iv)               Police Officer and Burglar

(v)                Firefighter and Frightened Citizen

(vi)               Photographer and Model

(vii)              Lady Gaga and Her Little Devil

(viii)             Artist and model

(ix)               Master and domestic maid

(x)                Doctor and patient/nurse  or patient/nurse

(xi)               Stripper and client

 

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How To Give Oral Sex That Can Make Women Cum Fast

 

 

 

 

 

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She lays on her back feeling tired and disappointed. He just dived straight in to her clitoris; separating her vaginal lips and licking away furiously like a thirsty dog. If this is how you perform oral sex to your woman, you need to read on.

 

For sure, the arousal process for a woman can be hard to understand. But if you can master the basic requirements about what women want from oral sex, you can be sure she will keep coming back for you for more.

 

The best oral sex is not just dependent on how much time you spend vigorously and desperately licking and sucking on her clitoris. The best oral sex is a result of sequential events which start slowly and steadily and if properly done will create a lively build-up to the point where you choose to hand over control and let her explode in orgasmic pleasure.

 

Basic Requirements For The Best Oral Sex

 

(1)   Tease her

 

Do not go directly for the clitoris. If you can save the best act for the last moment, there will be greater chances of her coming harder than ever. You need to know where her erogenous zones are.

 

The commonly-known pleasure spots for a woman are scalp, lips, ear lobes, back of the neck, the folded area between the upper and lower arm, wrists, breasts, the belly, the area of the lower back just above the tailbone, buttocks, inner thighs, area behind the knees and feet.

 

If you want her to have the best orgasm from oral sex, you should gradually work her up to the point of climax by stimulating other erogenous zones that can become overly sensitive.

 

(2)   Be gentle

 

Even if you feel she is ready to be pleasured by your tongue, you should start off slowly. The clitoris is not a penis. You should not suck on it like a lollipop when you first approach it.

 

Female arousal is a process. As women get more aroused, the types of sensations desired will fluctuate. Most of the time, it is better to start off gentle and delicate. During the process, you should gradually apply more pressure and more stimulation. What can be uncomfortable for her at the starting may be very pleasuring for her towards the end.

 

The most serious mistake some guys made is to start rough or too intense. Therefore, you should stimulate her entire vulva first before concentrating on the clitoris. Once she is heated up, you can then proceed to stimulate her g-spot (which is located between one to two inches up from the vaginal opening) while licking her clitoris.

 

(3)   Be creative

Besides using your hands and tongue, you can try other ways to make oral sex even more fun. For example, you can get some tingling oral sex mints or mouthwash before performing oral sex can increase her pleasure. When your breathing is fresh and tingly, she will feel the prickling sensation along her vaginal lips and clitoris.

 

To enhance her excitement and intensify her pleasure, you can get some kissable, lickable strawberry arousal cream. You massage just a fingertip of this cream onto her clitoris for some warm and tingly arousal orgasms. You can also get her some totally edible thong undies which can get your girl go wild with you eating them off on her.

 

These are the basics you need to keep in mind when comes to pleasuring your woman. Spice it up and try new things. For more ideas to satisfy your girl in bed, read on further from Lick By Lick and Wholesome Fun

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