How To Make Love The Right Way And Have The Hot Sex You Want

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Learning how to turn a woman on is an essential part of the sexual experience. When done right, this will build trust and arousal, both of which are necessary for moving on to sexual intercourse and ultimately orgasm. It is therefore very important that you need to learn how to arouse a woman and turn her on, you can enjoy love making together and be in a healthy sexual relationship. Here are a few tips to learn about how to arouse a woman so that she can reach orgasm easily.


(1)   Be romantic.


Romance can sometimes seem like a cliché but it can really set the mood if you pay attention to details. If you are having dinner together put on some romantic music that you both like or use candles to light the room. If you plan to go out, make it a special night by taking a walk on the beach or somewhere equally romantic. Just the right mood alone can sometimes make the difference in how a woman reacts to your advances.


(2)   Have confidence


Women like men who know what they are doing, because this makes them feel good about themselves. Therefore, you should not show signs of nervous while having sex, and never tell woman things that make you look like you do not know what you are doing. This may turn her off. A good way to build confidence is to have knowledge. Therefore in your free time, go and read some books on sexuality, so that you can know about a woman’s erogenous zones, how and where to stimulate her, how to give her oral and about the various sex positions which can bring a woman to orgasm faster.


(3)   Find out what she wants.


Reading about self-help guides on sex alone is not enough. This is because every woman’s body is different, and requires a unique approach to make her scream. During sex, let her know that she can ask for the kind of stimulation she wants. If you really want to please your woman, you must pay attention to physical signals. If she is panting, moaning and arching her back, you are probably on the right track. Learning to interpret her body language will help you become that much better in bed.


(4)   Take a shower together


Having shower with your girl can lead both of you to some good clean fun in the naughtiest way. There is something sexy about lathering up together and getting slippery together in a steam filled room. Take turns to wash each other. If you are feeling particularly naughty, try a little landscaping in the nether region.


(5)   Give her a hot massage


In giving a very hot massage, start out as you would with any normal massage. Rub from her shoulders, lower back, buttocks, and thighs and down to her feet. At this point, avoid the sexy part of the massage and just focus on releasing the tension all over her body. Switch back and forth between your palms and fingers to help keep you from getting tired before you’ve massaged her full body.


Then you flick her over and start the same process again by rubbing her whole body right down to her feet. Focus on her hot spots, including her breasts, hips and inner thighs to make the full body massage sexier. Pay special attention to her inner thighs for a more sexy massage. As you rub her inner thighs, her vaginal lips will part slightly. This gives you a great view, and it will indirectly stimulate her clitoris. To make the massage even sexier, make eye contact with her regularly, compliment her body and describe what you’re seeing to her and why it arouses you.


(6)   Incorporate kissing and some massage-enhancing toys


While massaging her, you can start gently kissing parts of her body. If she is seated in front of you, gently kiss the back of her neck and move down; if she is lying down, there are plenty of options to get creative with. Ensure you continue massaging as the kissing begins; you want to keep the relaxation and pleasurable sensations going.


You don’t have to depend only on your hands to give a hot erotic massage. Incorporate the use of massage oils so your hands can glide easily across her body. Consider using a variety of massage-enhancing tools or sex toys like a vibrator.


(7)   Bring her to orgasm


Move back down to her thighs and move her legs apart. Spread her vaginal lips slightly and lightly move your finger from the base of the vagina up to just below her clit. If she feels wet, then you know she is ready for clitoral stimulation.


Use one or two fingers to make light circles around her clit. Use her physical cues to guide you. Continue the circular motions, periodically moving back to the base of her vagina for more lubrication. Eventually, switch up the movement to quick back and forth motions. Slowly gain speed until you are moving very quickly. The consistent, rhythmic movement will help her reach orgasm.

(8)   Get into position to make her orgasm again


Once a woman has had an orgasm her body is the most ready for a man to enter her. To help her have a vaginal orgasm, experiment with the position that feels the best. Typically this position is the one that puts the most pressure from the penis on the G-spot. You can consider any of the following positions.


Doggie with pillow under her belly – In this position, her buttocks will be raised higher by the pillow. Instead of staying even with her body, you move up as high as you can. The goal of this is so that as you thrust, you are hitting the top inside wall of her vagina (where her g-spot is located).


Missionary with pillow under her back – Start inside of her in missionary and rest her legs on your shoulders. Place your hands under her lower back and lift her up so that as you enter her, you are thrusting up and in and hitting the top of her vagina (g-spot). This is sure to trigger an amazing orgasm.


Girl on top with her leaning back – Have her get on top facing you. Have her put her feet forward on the outside of your body and ask her to lean backward. As she rides you, you thrust straight up which means you will be thrusting up and in. You can do this either on bed or on a chair or sofa.


Learning how to please a woman in bed can be a challenge for any man. Although every woman’s needs and preferences are different, these basic tips can help you please a woman in bed without spending ages deciphering the secrets. Now if you want to take your love life to the next level, you can read the rest of the tips on how to give her the best sex from here and/or this place.


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