Female Orgasm – How To Turn A Girl On

 

 

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If you want to know how to make a girl orgasm, you need to know how to turn her on, arouse her mind and excite her all at once. Great sex is more than just sexual techniques.  Everything starts from the brain. There are many ways to arouse a woman, but there is no doubt that arousing her mind will get her body going. A girl’s arousal starts from within, and as long as you know just how to excite her mind, you’ll definitely be able to get her tingly and wet in no time. Here are some ways you can arouse a woman and make her orgasm easily and quickly.

 

(1)   Stimulate her mentally

 

Women like their mind stimulated as well as their sex drive so it is important to say and do things that stimulate her mind as well as her body. You can start by paying her sincere compliments. When you are outside of the bedroom in a quiet, safe zone (e.g. a quite night in front of the TV), tell her how much you enjoy when she does certain things to you. Even if you haven’t had sex yet, you can tell her how much pleasure she’s given you when kissing or playing around. Compliment how she looks and let her know that she turns you on. You might think she already knows this but even if so, she’ll love hearing it. You will boost her sexual self-esteem with you, which is critical to her psychological ability to reach an orgasm.

 

You can also stimulate her by giving her pleasant surprises.Surprise her with a small gift. Erotic gifts are BEST for this.By buying a gift you are triggering a sexual response not because you are giving her a gift, but because the spontaneous thought you are showing her is that you are thinking of her which makes her “feel” important. By giving an erotic gift you are setting the tone for her mind to wander and it won’t be long before she is begging to try her new toy.

 

(2)   Start slowly

 

Take your time to make her feel good. Spend as much time as she needs teasing all over her body to drive her crazy. Start slow, and then gradually build up the intensity. Don’t head straight for the bulls eye. You love her kitty and her breasts, but they aren’t the only places with lots of nice nerve endings.

 

Begin kissing her slowly at first, keeping your desire to devour her in check.  Women are particularly stimulated when their many erogenous zones are kissed, nibbled, and suckled.  Before removing her clothes you can kiss her mouth without tongue, and then with tongue.  Kiss her neck, ear lobes, shoulders, and upper chest.  The long process of kissing her before removing clothes will continue increasing her arousal.

 

When you begin undressing a woman, it should be slow and enticing.  Remove her clothes one article at a time.  Keep in mind that sometimes leaving something on can also be erotic.  Begin by teasing her. Remove her blouse but not her bra.  Continue kissing and caressing her through her bra, until she is ready for you to touch her breasts directly.  Use slow, rhythmic back and forth movements to stimulate her breasts.  You can circle the breast with your hands or your mouth.  Slowly her nipples will become erect, indicating her arousal.

 

After stimulating both breasts like this, you can remove her bra.  Removing a woman’s bra can be quite tricky. If you are not sure how to do this it can be an awkward moment.  The best way to learn how to do this is to practice when you partner is not at home.  Practice fastening and unfastening the clasp so the next time you have the chance the movement is smooth and fluid.

 

(3)   Tease her down there

 

As you sense her longing increase, begin to slowly move your hands toward the lower half of her body.  She’s almost naked now but keeps her underwear on for another minute or so. It can be very exciting for a woman if you do not suddenly pull down her panties but instead explores with them on for a while. Instead of taking them off, you can begin touching the inside edge of her panties from front to back.  Exploring her buttocks and then moving back to touch and feel for her wetness before exploring further.  The key is to focus on building anticipation rather than going straight for direct stimulation. This will get her excited, and make her more sensitive.

 

(4)   Get down to business

 

Eventually you can remove her panties and explore her inner thighs, circling her whole vulva and eventually touching her clitoris.  Often the clitoris is the most important missed part of a woman’s body. Failing to stimulate the clitoris is like trying to help a man have an orgasm without touching his penis! This is because up to 98% of the orgasms women experience come from direct stimulation to the clitoris. 

 

Most women reach orgasm after having their clitoris stimulated for 5-20 minutes. Stimulating a woman’s clitoris can happen orally or using your hands; both are effective. Oral and hand stimulation can often provide her with an even greater chance of success of reaching orgasm. Since the clitoris is the most sensitive spot on a woman’s body, it is much better to go with a light touch that isn’t too prolonged and then go back to it sporadically. When touching her clitoris, always make sure that your finger is lubricated by her juices or your saliva. A dry finger on her clit hurts like hell and is a big turn off. Combine light flicks of your finger or tongue on her clit and long strokes in and out with your fingers. Then, alternate by putting your penis back in and then going back to finger and oral stimulation. You’ll both have an explosive sexual experience.

 

One trick to helping a woman achieve maximum pleasure is to bring her close to orgasm and resist the urge to push her over the edge.  Women experience more intense orgasms when they are stimulated and brought to the edge of orgasm and allowed to relax.  Once this happens one or two times, when she finally does have her orgasm it is much more powerful. Each time she gets close her longing and desire increase, and when she is finally able to release that energy, the built-up desire makes the orgasm even more powerful.

 

(5)   Go for it and make her come in any position

 

Due to the position of her clitoris, it is extremely difficult for most women to achieve an orgasm from the standard missionary (man on top) position alone. If you are on top and pumping inside of her, try lightly stimulating her clitoris with a moistened finger at the same time (find out if she prefers to have you play with her clit directly, or from the outside of the hood of her clitoris. Some women are too sensitive down there and it hurts, while others love it) or get her to play with it while you penetrate her with your penis.

 

One of the easiest ways to make her orgasm is to get her on top, because it will allow her to stimulate her clitoris against your body and control the speed, penetration and length of the strokes to her satisfaction. Her on top is the easiest way for her to orgasm by far, but you need to work out the right rhythm and technique for each woman – not all women are the same.

 

Some women prefer sex lying side-by-side facing each other (push her head down sometimes to allow her to see you pumping her), doggy style or back to front. Have fun experimenting. Observe how she responds to, but don’t change positions too often and too quickly. She will lose her concentration and that is a big part of how a woman reaches an orgasm. Let her get caught up in the emotion and delve into the feelings, thoughts and sensations that will drive her to orgasm. Help her along by groaning with enjoyment at times, breathing heavily to express your enjoyment and using your masculine facial expressions to show her how into it you are.

 

Just use these tips on how to turn a girl on and you will definitely be able to arouse her and give her some of the best orgasms she’s ever had! Do you want to make sex more sexy and exciting? Check it out at Hot Sex and /or Dirty Harry’s Secrets.

 


Source: luv2sex.info

 

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