Sex Tips –How To Get What You Want

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One of the most common problems in a relationship is that men wish very much that their women would initiate sex more often, or at least they would be more responsive to their sexual overtures. The reality is that women want sex just as much, if not more than men. Women are sexual, sensual beasts waiting to be released by a man in just the right way and right condition.

 

When it comes to sex, men are easily stimulated visually and mostly genitally-focused, whereas for women, sex is more of a way in connecting her mind and body with her lover. Therefore in order to get your girl to like or enjoy making love with you, you have to work on making sex an exciting as well as rewarding experience for her. Here are some of the ways to do it.

 

(1)   Start from her mind

 

Though every woman is different, but all the desires and feelings start from the brain, which is the main sex organ. You have to work on her mind to get her hot first in order to make her wet down there. Make sure your girl is in the mood to make love. If she does not seem excited about the notion at the moment then her heart and emotions are not into it for one reason or the other.

 

If she is in a foul mood, ask what is on her mind, and give her time to vent. Showing sympathy will make her feel that you are on her side, which revs up her romantic feelings and increases her desire. Give her a tender kiss, so she feels cared for. Then take one finger and trace her waistline. Make eye contact and slip your finger further down, continuing to kiss as you go.  This sends a sexual signal and transforms your kisses from sweet to lusty.

 

If she is stressful, distract her from the stress by offering her chocolate (a sexual stimulant for her) and raspberries and strawberries or anything that she finds delicious. Once you sense her mood lightening, put your hand on her shoulder and stroke her upper arm in a soothing gesture. After a few seconds, pull her close and give her one more distraction: a sultry kiss that will lead to more.

 

If she is tired, prop her feet up on your lap and massage her.  This will warm her up to your touch. After a few minutes, slowly knead your way up her legs – first her calf, then her thigh, etc. If all goes well, by the time you reach her upper thigh (a super erotic spot on a woman), she will want more.

 

You can make the massage more interesting by spicing it up according to the prevailing weather condition. In hot weather, roll a cloth consisting of ice-cubes along the backs of her thighs. In cool weather, warm a towel in the microwave for 10 seconds and massage her with it. Turn winter gloves inside out, put them on, and massage her with the soft side.

 

If she is angry and you want action, you are better off just apologizing. If she senses your sincerity, she will probably feel bad for being so worked up. Coyly ask, “How can I make it up to you?” That should lighten the mood and pave the way for you to give her a hug and squeeze her tightly to you. While still holding her, gently lead her to the nearest couch or bed, lays her down on it, and starts kissing up her arm, working your way to her lips.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

To increase her sexual responsiveness, tell her between kisses and as you touch her body that you find her beautiful and sexy, that she turns you on, and that you want to enjoy every part of her body before making love to her.

 

Pay her some specific compliments — tell her you love her warm smile, or her soft skin, or the shape, size and feel of her breasts, or her silky hair, or her melodic voice. And don’t wait for sexual moments to trot out such verbal reinforcements. The more often you can convince her that you find her desirable and attractive, the more often she will desire sex. Some women can be tough to work around – particularly those who are suffering from low self-esteem – but it will be well-worth the effort. If you comment on your partner’s amazing body and she shuts you down by pointing out the extra weight she’s gained, don’t stop trying. Many men give up too easily out of sheer frustration, but sometimes your partner just needs to be validated. To shake it up a bit, try giving her a few compliments that you haven’t uttered before.

 

In public settings whisper into her ear naughty situations or things you want to do with her will get her engines going. Tell her something like, “I’ve been imagining myself undressing you all day.” Or better yet, drive her crazy by saying something like: “Tonight, I’m going to make you have as many orgasms as possible.” Send her 3-4 texts throughout the day telling her what you are going to do to her in the evening. She is bound to be turned on in anticipation with all the things you want to do with her body.

 

Buy her an outfit that will make her feel sexy and help you appreciate her more than you already do. Sneak into her lingerie drawer and check out the sizes of a few of her “garments.” That way, you can ensure that she will look good in it when you rip it off her body (after she’s done doing her little dance for you). Give it to her when you (seemingly) don’t expect sex right then and there. Pass it under the table at a restaurant and ask her to go to the ladies’ room and change into it. “It’s a little naughty, but she has a chance to play back. Not only will she appreciate the fact that you took the time to get her a gift, she will be thrilled that you want to sex her up.

 

(3)   Focus on pleasuring her

 

Once you have your girlfriend or wife in the bedroom, proceed slowly and show more emotion in your lovemaking than usual. Try to make her the center of attention and cater to her needs. Please her first and this will drive her wild and make her want to please you at all costs. Use your finger to gently massage the clitoris in a circular manor, watch how her body reacts to certain movements so you can tell what she likes and dislikes.


Many women who are insecure about their bodies stick to the missionary position because you can’t see their bodies that way. To make her feel comfortable, for a change, you can blindfold yourself, she will do a lot more with you, to you, and for you.

 

Get a liberator wedge or one to two pillows under her pelvis to tilt her lower body at an angle to allow maximum contact between your body and her clitoris. When you are on top, you can place her legs over your shoulders. This shortens her vaginal canal, so your penis feels bigger inside her. When you enter her from behind, you can have her kneel on the edge of the bed with her upper chest touching the mattress. This elongates the vaginal barrel, making it feel tighter. You get a fantastic view, and she will enjoy the nipple stimulation from rubbing the mattress.

 

After you finish, you are still not done. Show her affection after your lovemaking is over. If she likes to cuddle or talk after sex, fulfill her needs. If you do so, she will look forward to the next time, and you soon may find that she will be the one initiating the lovemaking.

 

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