Her Pleasure – How To Orgasm During Sex

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During sexual intercourse, your girl claimed that she never feel any sensation or tingling feelings, or feeling nothing. She can feel your penis, but that is all. She loves you, but during sex, she feels nothing.  Though you can turn her on, and she can get aroused, but when it comes to actually having sex, she just can’t reach orgasm. This is no surprise considering only 30 percent of women experience orgasms from sex alone. This is because many sex positions do not stimulate the main female hot spots, such as the clitoris and the G-spot. How to help her to reach orgasm during intercourse?

 

(1)   Focus on emotional intimacy with her

 

As counterintuitive as it may seem, focus on the idea that you can have ecstatic sex even without orgasm. That means both of you! Sometimes reaching that big “O” can be frustrating, but ironically, the best way to achieve orgasm is often to simply stop trying so hard. Reaching the big finish does take some effort, but if you keep thinking “orgasm, orgasm, orgasm” throughout sex, this will just make you (and your partner) completely stressed out. You will both be left feeling inadequate and disconnected if the big moment does not pan out.

 

You also have to recognize that women are not all the same when it comes to what can get them aroused. Most guys think that foreplay is kissing and touching a woman’s genitals. But for some women, foreplay is having a nice intimate dinner or connecting emotionally through various situations. Instead, you enjoy the intimacy of being close to your partner, to pay more attention to your partner’s needs and try figuring out what works best for her, and most important you should not assume she wants what you want.

 

(2)   Experiment and try new ways to please herself

 

If your girl is not able to orgasm during intercourse, it could be that she has not explored enough of her body and therefore have not found her way of reaching an orgasm via intercourse or internal stimulation. In order to see what works for her, you can get her to try in her own privacy to stimulate herself internally, inside the vagina, with a dildo or vibrator, to find the most sensitive spot for her inside the vagina. This is a form of self-sexual therapy to get your girl comfortable with her genitals and sexual response which can help to increase the chances of having orgasms during intercourse.

 

Many women find that the most sensitive spot is located on the belly side of the vagina, which is commonly known as the g-spot. It is believed that the reason why the g-spot is sensitive is because there are little ducts hanging off the urinary tract, which have the same make-up as the prostate in males. If a man’s prostate is stimulated, he can orgasm.  It is believed that therefore if she stimulates these little ducts via the vagina she is able to orgasm internally.

 

In the process of self-discovery, she can also get the help of a sex toy. A battery-operated vibrator can help to “break through” an obstacle to climaxing. Once she has had the experience several times on her own, it will give her the confidence that she “works just fine”. She can then replicate that stimulation on her own or with you.

 

Once she has found her sensitive spot, try to stimulate it and see what happens. Afterwards both of you can explore various sexual positions and see if it is possible to be able to stimulate that area with the penis. However, if she finds that there is no specific sensitive spot for her, then she should try to masturbate while having sexual intercourse.

 

(3)   Focus on her pleasure

 

Ask your girl to guide you by placing her fingers over your fingers or hand, pressing the spots she likes and showing you the motion and frequency that makes her go wild. You cannot count on intercourse alone to provide enough stimulation. Oral sex can be highly pleasurable to many women because of its direct focus on the clitoris. Women experience intense orgasms through oral sex. Manually, orally or with a vibrator, you may need to stimulate her clitoris more directly.

 

(4)   Try a variety of sex positions where her clitoris and g-spot can be further stimulated.

 

The woman-on-top position has more potential for clitoral stimulation than the normal missionary position. When she is on top, she can have more control over the amount of stimulation, rhythm, and pacing as she rubs her clitoris against the penis. She can adjust the angle of her hips to reach your pubic bone. This position also allows deep thrusting into the vagina, which can stimulate the g-spot and trigger an orgasm. The technique can be carried out with you lying down on your back or sitting. Either you or your partner can also press a vibrator into the clitoris for a more intense stimulation.

 

The rear entry position will need her to stand and bend at the waist or kneels on all fours or leaning forward on her elbows and you stand or kneel behind her. Either you or her can caress the clitoris or to press a vibrator against it. After you enter her, get her to squeeze her legs closed while you place your legs outside hers. You can then squeeze her legs further closed with your thighs. It may help if you can shift your pelvis forward to cause pressure and friction on her clitoris.

 

The missionary position with a full pelvic tilt position enables the penis to reach the G-spot, the part of the clitoris that extends into the vaginal wall. Get her to lie on her back, put one or more pillows beneath her buttocks to tilt her pelvis upward. To achieve a better angle for you to hit her g-spot, you raise her buttocks with your hands. For deeper penetration to hit her g-spot, you can get her to hug her knees to her chest or to rest her legs on your shoulders.

 

To increase the chances of having a female orgasm during intercourse, these tips and simple variations of the sex positions can help to allow your girl to enjoy a new erotic pleasure. Like with anything else in life, doing the same old thing can get boring and boring does not go well together with orgasm. So mix it up and try new things to increase her arousal.

 

If you need more fresh ideas and tips on how to be good in bed so that both of you can have a great sex life, you can click on Hot Sex and/or Dirty Harry’s Secrets.

 

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