How A Woman Can Turn A Man On When She Is On Top


Sex Can Always Get Better And Hotter With A Little Help From Here

You and your guy are always changing sex positions. He wants you to be on top. But each time when you try to ride on him, it sucks. Everyone tells you to just sit on him and ride it.


But riding a man isn’t just about sitting on top. There is a lot more to it than that. If you want to know how to ride your man and look sexy, here is a list of things for you to take note.


(1)   Practice First


Being a first timer or someone who hasn’t really been riding a man often enough, this position can be a bit tricky. But you can always get better by practicing it on your own. When alone in the bedroom, try rolling a pillow and sitting on top of it like you will, if you are on top of your guy. Roll your hips back and forth like what you are going to do if you are trying to balance on a mechanical ball.


(2)   Get Him Involved


When you are on top of him, grab his hands and have him support your balance. The more balance you have, the easier it will be for you to keep a steady rhythm when you are going back and forth.


If you want to try to bounce up and down, it is important for your guy to help you with the bouncing. It will help ease your sex workout and make him feel involved too. By doing that, both of you will be able to last longer and enjoy the girl-on-top position for a longer period of time.


(3)   Get His Feedback


Sex is all about being connected and having good communication. While you are on top of him, read his signs and ask him if he likes what you are doing and what he likes you to do to improve on it.


If he seems to be distracted or in pain, slow down to see if it is anything to do with your movement. Perhaps you are moving too aggressively. If he suddenly grabs you, stop moving for a while to find out if he is unable to hold on anymore.


If his member starts throbbing inside you when you are on top, he is probably having a hard time holding himself back from blowing out, so you have to slow down and help him get back his control.


(4)   Let Go Off Yourself


If you want to ride your guy, you have to make sure he is really turned on and you have to let go off your inhibitions and forget about your self-consciousness. Focus on how sexy you must look to him while on your knees hovering over him.


While he is on his back with his firm erection, swing one of your legs over him. As you grind your pelvis against his, lean back and stretch your body. You will be able to reveal all and look a lot sexier too.


Then you lick his nipples, nibble his ears, grab his butt as you straddle him and do anything else that makes you feel good. Your man may actually be surprised and get turned on by seeing this new side of yours. He is going to have a hard time keeping his hands off your body as you show yourself off.


(5)   Get Seductive


Use your fingers to play with your hair carelessly when he is looking at you. This will definitely be very arousing for him to see you enjoy yourself. As you bounce off him, cup your breasts with your hands and move them against the sides of your body. You can also take his hands and place them on your breasts as you grind him.


Get close to him, brush your breasts against him and whisper something dirty and sexy in his ears. What better way to turn him on than to tell him, “I’m coming.” So simple, so powerful, so ego-bossing for him because this proofs he is successfully satisfying you.


(6)   Start Slowly And Gently


Great sex is all about the rhythm and the motion. Both of you have to feel in synchronize with each other to actually enjoy sex. If you move too aggressively, he will not be able to keep up with you.


As a lot of your weight is resting around his member, you should avoid sitting on him hard or moving in quick, opposite directions all of a sudden, without any warning. This may fracture him down there.


You can move vertically up and down, or move around his member in slow circles, or go fast and quick or slow and deeper. Whatever motions you choose or switch to, give him enough time to adjust to your moves so that he can connect better with you, which will ensure that the sex is better.


(7)   Take Control


Getting on top takes the control away from your man, but your sexual confidence will end up turning him on a lot more. Push him onto the bed and let him know just how horny you are. Grab his hand and ride him harder.


To get kinkier, you can tie his hands to the bed post or even handcuff him or tie his hands together with a scarf. You can also stop halfway and give him oral. Or, you can take his member out while having sex and move your hip close towards his face so that he can lick your clitoris.


(8)   Choose Any Of These Positions

(a)   Chest To Chest


This position facilitates clitoral stimulation. If you find it difficult to reach orgasm in the missionary position, this position will help a lot. Because you are sitting on him, this position does not need much balancing. For him the benefits are that he can relax and just enjoy the fact that you are taking control.


(b)   Normal Cowgirl


This is a great position from a man’s point of view because you can really give him a good show. You need to lean backwards and support yourself with your arms. While doing so, he can play with your breasts or rub your clitoris. You have full control with this position and it is also one of the best for hitting your g-spot too.


     (c) Facing Away From Him


In this position, you sit on him with your buttocks facing him. If your guy is a butt guy who prefers to look at a sexy butt more than an eyeful of boobs, he will love this position.


Use these tips when you are on top of your man. Remember to feel and look sexy and confident so as to give him the wildest ride he ever had.


Are you keen for more tips to spice up sex? Come and take a look at Code Of Seduction and Viktoria’s Secrets.


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