How To Make Her Have An Orgasm Fast




Every woman is different in how she gets turned on. What makes one reach orgasm may not work for another one. However, there are ways to increase her chances of having orgasm. Read on to find out how you can do this.


(1)   Work on her brain first


Great sex is not just the mechanical aspects of sexual techniques. Women are emotional beings and unlike men, they do not get easily aroused by visual stimulation alone or get turn on fast. In contrary to what most men think, a woman’s major sexual organ is not located in between her legs, but in her head – her brain.


This means in order to make a girl turned on, you have to seduce her brain. In other words, you have to make her feel relaxed and good about herself in order for her to feel sexy and more receptive to lovemaking. Your preparation work on stimulating her brain should be ongoing and long before you enter the bedroom. Every little word, the small touch, glance, kiss and other sweet gestures can gradually cause some magical effect on her brain, making her more connected and responsive to you sexually.


What I want to emphasize is this preparation work should be about 60-80% of your total effort. If you do this well, your bedroom life should be smooth sailing. Like having a meal, the preparation work should be the main course leaving those techniques to act as the side dishes or appetizers to spice things up. It will be very unrealistic to expect a woman to enjoy sex with you if outside of the bedroom, both of you have communication problems and the intimacy level is low. The next few paragraphs, I will talk about the mechanics and techniques for you to complete the unfinished mission.


(2)   Relax her body


Women love to be touched because they enjoy the feeling of comfort it provides. If you want to please a girl, you should never under-estimate the power of sensual massage. First you need to create a conducive and romantic environment to get her in the mood.

Dim lights, soft music, clean and comfortable environment are the essentials to start with.


You take a few minutes to give her a light massage by rubbing her shoulders, her back, her thighs and her feet. Do not press too hard. Get some massage oil. Slow and steady strokes are the key. Another way to put her mind at ease is to encourage her to indulge in fantasies. You can ease her into wonder land by getting her to read or watch erotic stuff.


(3)   Do not go straight down on her


When helping a woman to reach orgasm, the indirect approach is always the best. You should give her some time to warm up first to let her body get ready for penetration. This means you should not neglect other parts of her body. This is because her erogenous zones can be found throughout her whole body. You touch her from the head to toes by kissing or rubbing on the various parts of her body.


When working on her breasts, you spend some time on the surrounding areas first, kissing, rubbing, and using your fingers to draw circles around her nipples before you actually place your mouth over her nipples.


This is the same when you stimulate her clitoris. Before she is properly turned on, direct clitoral contact can be very uncomfortable to her. Instead, more time should be spent on the area around her clitoris and extending to her inner thighs. You either use your fingers or tongue to stimulate on either side of the clitoral hood. Once her breathing starts getting heavy, you can then move directly on her clitoris.


(4)   Use everything at your disposal


When you give her oral, your action should not be limited to your mouth. You can also use your hands to caress her nipples, inner thighs, buttocks (or tickle the outskirts of her anus) and pubic area, or use 2 fingers or a sex toy to massage her g-spot as you lick and suck her clitoris. After a while, you can switch to sucking her nipples while you finger her clitoral area.


The multiple sensations that come from this alternate stimulating of her erogenous zones using your mouth and hands for a few times, is a great way to enhance intensity and increase her chances of having orgasm.


When your hands are tired, you can use sex toys to help you to continue with your stimulation effort. You can start with a battery-operated vibrator and if she likes it, you can add other toys such as a dildo. Many women find hard plastic or glass dildos work best. Others find that makeshift dildos work great such as cucumbers, brush handles, mirror handles, etc.


Now that we know every woman is different and there is no surefire method to make her orgasm. It is up to you and her to keep the communication lines open to find out what she likes and you customize or tailor-made your sexual techniques on her.


Once you know how to push her buttons, you will be tempted to do the same routine every time. Throw in a new position, location, or technique every now and then to keep it exciting. Want to know more? Click on Hot Sex and Great Lover.

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