If Your Guy Loses Erection During Intercourse, What Can You Do To Help Him




Find Out From Here About How To Rekindle His Interest In Sex


As a guy, I enjoy receiving oral sex. Another reason, I love to get oral pleasure is I am getting old and at times, I can take a bit longer to achieve erection or even have difficulty in getting an erection. A good blowjob is therefore a good foreplay for me, helping it to stand up so that I can penetrate her. I like to share my ideas or thoughts with ladies here on how to give a blowjob if their guys have low sex drive.


Before I begin, there are some things to take note –


(1)   Start with a shower together


This is a great way to get things started for both to ease into sex. This also helps to overcome her concern of smell and make her more comfortable in giving oral later.


(2)   To do with or without condom


There are some suggestions about putting on a condom for safer oral sex. I cannot speak for other guys on this matter. Personally I prefer receiving oral sex without condom because I like the greater sensation and intimacy from her lips squeezing against my male hood. Also some condoms really taste terrible for a girl doing oral.


(3)   To swallow or not to swallow the sperm


For me, I am not a demanding person. I need oral sex as foreplay to help me get erected because I do not like the idea of resorting to drugs such as Viagra. At times, a good blowjob can get it to stand up again after it loses erection. Therefore, getting my girl to swallow my sperm is not the top priority because my preference is to release everything inside her. When I am about to let go, I will tell her to stop and we switch position for penetration.


Therefore, I leave this decision of whether to swallow or not to swallow up to you. Though some guys would love their women to swallow, but there is nothing wrong if you do not want to and your guy should love you enough not to force you to. If you do not want to swallow, do let him know you want a warning. You can then continue hand stroking until he ejaculates.


(4)   Careful not to get choked


Everyone is different with some having a more sensitive gag reflex than others. If you are not so sure or not so experienced in giving oral sex, do not try to take the whole penis in your mouth (deep throat) because this can trigger the gag reflex. You can make up for this by using your hands. Whatever part of the penis you cannot take into your mouth, you can wrap your hand(s) around it and simultaneously with your mouth, you move up and down along the shaft of the male hood. This way it will feel to a guy as though you are taking in the whole penis, even though you are not.


You can do this gradually (inch by inch) by taking in the penis as far as you can without choking. Just do not take in more than what you can cope with for the first time, because you will most definitely gag. With practice, you can learn to relax your gag reflex and take in more of the penis.


(5)   Do not use your teeth


Though look as hard as a steel rod, the male sexual organ actually resembles more like glass and can only handle up to a certain level of rough force. When giving your man oral pleasure, make sure your lips cover your teeth as your mouth slide gently down his shaft.


You can give him the sensation of a firm teeth grip only if you do it with caution as well as his consent. Do not assume that he likes it rough during oral sex unless he clearly tells you so. Even then, give your man a warm up before you carry on to rougher play.


Now, for the real action –


(1)   Tease him with your touch


Give your guy a cat bath, kissing or licking more on those areas that he likes best. When you move to the lower part of his body, you can use your hands to gently caress his inner thighs, penis, testicles (balls) and perineum (the area between the anus and the male hood) paying attention to his verbal and facial reactions as you touch certain spots. You can also apply pressure to his perineum with one or two fingers because this can feel good.


(2)   First contact


If he is not totally hard, just start to lick on his male hood and take it gently in your mouth. Breathe on it and blow gently with your hot breath. The most sensitive spot is the frenulum area, which is near to the tip on the underside of the penis. Therefore you spend extra time licking this area.


After this, you take it into your mouth while your hand reaches the bottom of the shaft, your lips pressing firmly and gently so that it feels like his penis is entering a tight vagina. You coordinate your movements so that your hand and mouth are going up and down along his shaft in unison.


(3)   Do not neglect other areas


The testicles are particularly sensitive and most men like them to be stimulated. Try licking or touching his testicles during oral sex but do not squeeze or bite them. Another area that I think is good is the external opening of the anus. There was once that my girl did such a good job in licking this area that I just lost control and let go.


So, these are my ideas/tips on how to give a blowjob. As you get gradually adept in what you are doing, you should use different techniques to spice things up. For more amazing ideas on how to improve your sex life, you can click on Drive Him Wild and Turn Him On.

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