How To Help A Girl To Get Wet




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She used to get very wet when you have sex with her. But lately, she seems to have problems in getting wet. What can you do to get her juices flowing again?


Why do women experience a lessening of lubrication? There are many factors that can affect female sex drive. Some factors are obvious, while others are definitely not. Age, life, energy level, hormones or certain conditions such as vaginismus all play a part in affecting female libido and if one or more of those factors are not functioning well, her libido could take a nose dive.


How To Make Her Wet And How Can You Help


(1)   Make her feel comfortable


A big part of a woman’s sexual satisfaction is very dependent on her state of mind. She must feel sexy in order to feel sexual.  If she is not in the mood, find out what is on her mind. It is good to open the door of communication to allow her to vent some frustrations of the day to you which will allow her to relax and let it go. Besides you may realize that she is actually upset with you and keeping your ears open and maintaining your calm will warrant a much more favorable response from her.


Instead of reacting to what she is not doing for you, think of what you can do for her. Something as simple as giving her your shoulder to cry on is good enough. You can also get her a bottle of her favorite wine to allow her to unwind during dinner. Well, getting a woman tipsy can always make her get horny and want to have sex. After dinner, you can either give her a back or feet massage. When she is physically and mentally relaxed, you can start touching her. This will show her that you are a considerate lover who is more concerned about including her in sex, rather than using her to get yours.


(2)   Be patient during foreplay


Female lubrication starts with hormones sending signals to the brain causing her to get sexually aroused which will in turn ’wake up’ her clitoris and vagina to be ready for sex. The inner and outer lips of the vagina swell and the vaginal walls and lips which have those little glands called vulvovaginal will secrete liquid to allow for penetration.


Female arousal normally takes more time than male arousal, therefore foreplay is very crucial. Her brain needs to feel sexy in order for her body to feel sexy. Keep things slow and steady to allow for more non-sexual touching, kissing and fondling to enable her to become more fully aroused.


Go and kiss all over her body. Kissing and stroking two places at one time make for a lot of wonderful stimulation. When touching her, do not forget that a woman has a lot of erogenous zones all over her body that crave for attention too. Feel free to rub, kiss and even nibble on those neglected sexually sensitive areas which can be found on her cheeks, ears, back of her neck, the inside of her elbows and knees and buttocks. Remember to take your time and read her body language. Certain areas can be more sensitive or responsive to stimulation for her and you should spend more time and effort on them.


(3)   Give her manual and oral stimulation before intercourse


Start out by getting her aroused with manual and/or oral clitoral stimulation. Make sure that the clitoral shaft, clitoris and vaginal lips get lots of hand and tongue action. One good move is to grab the skin around the clitoris and rub it together.


Continue the clitoral stimulation while you reach for her g-spot. If you have problems in doing two things at a time, you can hold a vibrator at the lower end of the vaginal opening which is very responsive to stimulation. If the vibrations are too strong, you can put a towel or washcloth between the vibrator and vaginal opening to lessen the intensity.


How to stimulate the g-spot? Curl two fingers slightly with the palms facing upwards then insert about two inches inward/upward from her vaginal opening. If you are not sure, ask her if there is a specific spot or area that produces intense or enjoyable sensations when you massage it, which is her g-spot. When you sense she is getting closer to orgasm, apply a firmer touch, if she enjoys it. Maintain a constant and steady rhythm until she reaches orgasm. Then switch to a very light caressing touch as she comes down from her orgasm. If she experiences multiple orgasms, her orgasms and ejaculations (lubrications) may become more intense and she will lubricate a lot. If she orgasms with your fingers inside her vagina, the vaginal muscles may squeeze them very tightly and when this happens, do not pull out, but rather press in gently.


(4)   Have sex regularly


Frequent caressing of the clitoris and vulva will activate the nerve pathways that carry sexual stimulation to the brain. These nerves which are responsible for sexual arousal will be weakened if there is low or lack of usage for some time. Do not just wait for the desire to come to have sex. If we always wait for this to happen, some of us would never have sex again. It is sometimes important to just do it even if you are not in the mood. Once you start the ball rolling, desire and arousal often follow. Therefore having sex regularly will naturally keep her juices flowing.


Sex can always be fun if you are willing to try something new and different. By doing so, you can enrich the experience and sensations in your lovemaking sessions. Do you want to know how and what you can do to have the sex life you want? Click on Hot Sex and Give Her Mind-Blowing Orgasm

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