How To Arouse A Woman In Bed

 

 

 

 

In order to please a woman and make her want you more, getting her turned on is the single most important aspect of every sexual encounter. Luckily, there are many ways to go about achieving this. Following are just a few of those various techniques that can ensure your woman gets in the mood as often as you wish.

 

(1)   Make her feel good

 

A woman’s main sexual organ is her brain. The best and most effective way to turn her on is to make her feel good, relaxed and sexy. No matter how busy you can be, this step is not to be skipped. Going straight for the lower part of her body when her brain or mind is not yet ready can only turn her off.

 

For many women, getting in the mood requires being both emotionally and physically ready. Do not rush. Instead, you take the time to stroke her hair, rub her shoulders and basically just hold and touch her. When you are out in public, you hold her hand. Make sure you tell her that you find her to be beautiful and sexy.

 

Also do take the time to kiss her neck. Just press the tip of your tongue against her skin and kiss her softly. Kissing any part of the neck will get a woman in the mood. Do not miss her ear lobes, the back of her ears. Lightly nibble and kiss on these areas can also arouse her a lot.

 

(2)   Seduce her with dirty talking

 

This is another good way to seduce her brain and make a woman turned on. Do not be creepy about it and try not to be too vulgar unless you know that it gets her in the mood. Lean in close and whisper into her ear all of the things that you have thought about doing to her. For example, if you and your partner both enjoy it when you perform oral sex on her, try describing it from your point of view. Talk about how much you love touching her body and how it feels like to touch her with your tongue. The more descriptive you can get, the better dirty talk will be.

 

Once your partner is aroused, you can start complimenting her body. For the best dirty talk, do not say general things. Instead, you focus on one particular area of her body and describe it in detail, including what you like about it. For example, you can sit between her legs and talk about how you like to watch her open and close them.

 

Another dirty talk technique you can use is simply telling your partner all those naughty sexual thoughts you have, such as watching her perform oral sex on another woman. Because this is pure fantasy, you know this is something that is unlikely to happen in real life and neither do you want it to happen. Encourage your partner to share her sexual fantasies. The more open you are, the easier it will be for her to let loose. Lightly kiss her on the ear from time to time while telling her all these. Do not spoil the mood by sticking your tongue in her ear in a rough way.

 

(3)   Tease her with aphrodisiacs

 

Confucius once said over 5,000 years ago, “Food and sex are part of human nature.” Therefore when it comes to making a woman horny, one of the most effective ways is to play around with aphrodisiac. Obviously, the most common is chocolate; however, there are numerous others less obvious options to choose from that can help bring out that dormant sexual desire that you are looking to release from your partner. Incorporate these aphrodisiacs into snacks, deserts and meals.

 

(4)   Pamper her with a seductive massage

 

No woman in her right mind is going to turn down a massage. As such, you offer your woman a massage; just incorporate some seemingly innocent and subtle actions into the massage that can get her attention and/or raise her desire to have sex. Whether you let your hands ‘do the walking’ on her body or you gently put the print of your lips on her neck as you rub the tension out of her shoulders, adding a seductive element to a massage is a sure bet to get her love juices flowing.

 

The above 4 ways to turn a girl on can be done inside and/or outside of the bedroom, with clothes or without clothes. But if you take the time to practice on her properly, for sure, it will be very hard for you to stay fully clothed because she will not allow you to and more than that she may start grabbing the lower part of your body. If you want to find out more ways to arouse a girl, you can click on Hot Sex and Best Lover

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2 Replies to “How To Arouse A Woman In Bed”

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