Are you the one who usually initiate sex? Have you ever wondered why your woman does not enjoy sex as much as you do? According to the Durex Global Sex Survey, only 17% of women are likely to have an orgasm during sex. So, why aren’t women enjoying sex? If you want more sex from your women, you have got to learn how to please her, so that she can have orgasms. Now, relax, take a deep breathe and let these tips help you to explore the ways to turn her on.

 

(1)   It starts with a kiss

 

Unless she is already highly aroused, there is no way you can just plunge right into sex without kissing her. Kissing is one of the most sensual acts and every woman loves to be kissed. It is central to pleasuring women. Without kissing, sex is just sex.

 

You start by taking her upper lip in between both of your lips and gently suck and squeeze it. You can give her a playful and passionate kiss by pressing your lips against hers or against her cheek and then breath in and out quickly through your nose.

 

You can also give her a neck kiss. To make this kiss perfect, you go light on the tongue and wetness, keeping the movements slow but try not to stay in the same place for too long. Light sucking can also be used and you could try going further down. Have you ever tried kissing her earlobes? You put her earlobe in between your lips and softly tug and pull on it. You may use a little tongue flicking or nibbling on her earlobe if you want to go a step further.

 

(2)   Appreciate the whole body of your partner

 

You have to be sensual with every inch of her body which is covered in sensitive nerve endings. This will arouse her more since this is what a woman wants. Women need to be touched all over first. Do not go for the sexual parts of her body first because there is a good chance that she will get turned off by it. Sexual parts also include breasts. Many women feel quite vulnerable when it comes to their breasts, so you should give your lover some time to settle into the sense of arousal in her body first.

 

Before going to her hot spots, you can go to those often neglected erogenous zones. The beauty of targeting these regularly avoided areas is that it can feel amazing to a woman when these areas suddenly get some attention. Tenderly kissing and licking the wrist and stopping for a gentle nibble on the meaty part between her wrist and thumb will be a sensation she is unlikely to have encountered. Other areas to target are the underside of her arm where the forearm meets the upper arm and the sensitive skin on the underside of the arm, just down from her armpit.

 

You can use the heel of your hand to press underneath her belly button. This is a good way to externally target her g-spot as you thrust inside her. You trace your fingers from the top of her butt along the line where the small of the back curves into the buttocks (known as the sacral crease) and follow up your movement with kisses. The buttocks themselves are a strong erogenous zone. You give this area a mixture of light and firm kisses or can even finish the kissing of each buttock cheek with a naughty bite. You start with a light stroking or caressing massage and save the hard stuff, like firm squeezing or light spanking only when she is fully aroused.

 

The skin behind the knees is thin and soft. Therefore, it is very responsive to touch because the nerves are close to the surface. So, lightly kissing and licking in this area can be very highly sensual for her.

 

The inner thighs are incredibly erogenous zones because of the psychological tease of anticipating where you may head next. Since they are quite highly sensitive area, just the lightest touch will have her aroused. Besides using your hands, you can lick up and down the inner thighs. You can also use a small vibrating sex toy on this area to entice a different sensation.

 

(3)   Get into some women-friendly sex positions

 

(a)    Get your girl to slowly lower her body onto your pelvis, sliding your penis inside her as she goes. Rather than sitting in a straddle position, she will raise herself up in a squatting position and resting her hands on your thighs, stomach, or upper chest for support. Rather than going forward and backward like the usual woman-on-top position, she will slide herself up and down your member by lifting her lower body up and down. This position can both provide enough stimulation to her clitoris and g-spot.

 

(b)   Both of you will face each other on your sides. She will raise one of her legs to let you slide inside her, after which she will drape her leg over yours and tightly around it. Some women require a form of strong muscular contraction to get to that next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm. This side-by-side position allows her to have that firm, full-body contraction while staying in motion. When she presses her leg against yours, this can help to stimulate the inner walls of her vagina and by relaxing her legs and opening them somewhat; this can offer you a bigger range of motion which can help her to get intense clitoral titillation on the way to orgasm.

 

(c)    You get her into a doggie position. But instead of staying on her hands and knees, ask her to tilt her shoulders downwards with her forearms flat on the bed. Put a pillow under her pelvis. Then you enter her from behind. This position will allow deeper and more intense thrusting and can easily hit her g-spot.

 

(d)   You get into the normal missionary position with her legs apart. Once inside her, ask her to bring her legs close together. You hook your ankles around her calves and raise yourself up slightly on your hands with a small arch in your back. By closing her legs, this will get you feel tight and big as well as giving her sustained clitoral stimulation.

 

(e)    You put one or two pillows or a specially-designed love cushion under her pelvis so that her lower back and buttocks are raised off the bed at a 20 to 30 degrees angle. You enter her at this angle which will allow you to hit her g-spot easily.

 

If you want to know how to have incredibly great sex with your woman and to be the best lover she ever had, you can read further from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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