Sex Tips – What She Wants

 

 

 

 

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As guys, we always like to assume that we know everything about our women that have been sharing the same bed with us for many years. You believe you know what she is thinking by the way she looks at you, just like the way she seems to always know what you want before you do. However, there are things like hidden fantasies, unshared longings, fetishes and other matters that she may be too shy to talk about.

 

Here is a list of some of women’s secret wishes based on the feedback from over 700 women.

 

(1)   A caring partner is more sexy

 

Women appreciate a guy who is supportive and sensitive especially when they are upset. Putting your arm around her, handing her a tissue and listening to her – these are small but powerful ways to connect to her and help a lot in deepening the relationship. At times, when a woman is distracted by certain libido-killing matters (such as stressful work or lack of sleep) it will be a big turn-on if you can be as supportive as you can in some ways such as running some small house-related errands, helping in the dish-washing.

 

(2)   She expects you to be a good lover

 

Women like a man who knows what he is doing, who can take charge and who will make an effort to find out what she likes and dislikes. A lot of women lose interest in sex because their husbands are, or become lousy lovers soon after marriage.  Women read sex advice, but men seldom. If you want to please a woman, it helps a lot if you can do some reading on your own about sexuality-related matters. Better still, if you can read this together with her so that you can at the same time share with each other the things both of you will like to do to spice up sex. These readings can give both of you ideas and get you physically and mentally excited before you enter the bedroom.

 

(3)   She does not like to be hurried

 

Unless she is already highly aroused, most women prefer their lovers to be a bit more patient with them in bed. Women want to feel connected, understood and to be romanced before they can get turned on. This means spending time talking and touching her long before you reach the bedroom. Women like to be told they look nice and they like a man who notices this without being told. If she is looking particularly attractive in a sexy new dress, or in a new haircut, do let her hear about it before she mentions it. Most women also appreciate some simple romantic gestures (intimate dinner, pampering her with erotic massages, taking a bath together) and will often reciprocate these after the lights are off.

 

(4)   Simpler can be better

 

I am all for experimenting with sex positions which can be fun and in the process you discover what works for her. When you read about some of the sex guides, they may introduce you to some sex positions that seem more fitting on a gym class field day than for you. There is no need to be overly fancy during sex. Whatever position you choose, make it a point to adopt those that offer lots of opportunities to stimulate the clitoris by using your fingers or hers, with sex toys, or by pressing herself against your body. In almost all cultures and throughout time, there are 3 basic sex positions that have ruled and probably highly underrated.

 

(a)   Missionary

 

This will be a simple modification of the normal missionary position which is merely in-and-out thrusting. You place two or three pillows under her buttocks to lift her lower body off the bed at an angle. This position will allow you to rub against her clitoris and at the same time hit her g-spot when thrusting.

 

Another way is when you penetrate her, you keep as much of the base of your penis in contact with her outer vaginal lips as possible and have her grind against you in circles.

 

This modified missionary position is also quite good for her too. When she is lying on her back, you pull her knees up to her shoulders, lifting her pelvis so that her vagina points up almost to the ceiling. This position allows deeper penetration and chances to contact the g-spot.

 

(b)   Woman-on-top

 

You place two fingers so that each finger will rest on either side of your penis. When she rides on you, the area between the two knuckles will be in direct contact with her clitoris. This position will offer stimulation to her clitoris and inner vaginal lips.

 

(c) Guy-behind-girl

 

When you enter her from behind, you can use your fingers or a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. This position will also give you higher chances of hitting her g-spot.

 

The lists here are by no means exhaustive. You can read the rest of them from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm if you want to lead her to easier orgasm, higher arousal and better lubrication

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