Fun Things To Do To Spice Sex Up

 

 

 

 

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Do you miss those days when it was so exciting and romantic to be together? Do you want to turn back the clock to those sexy, curious, early days when both of you started becoming a couple? Sometimes it helps to go back to the sexual basics when you need to break out of a routine or have a fresh start. If you are worried that sex is becoming stale and predictable, it is time to try something new. Here are some spicy ways to help you break out of a sex rut.

 

(1)   Explore and act out each other’s fantasies

 

You can invite your partner to slowly reveal aspects of his/her sexuality. Perhaps you can start in a less intimidating way with both of you writing down each of your secret and craziest desires on a small piece of paper and put it in a box. Think about what turns you on and what you like to have your partner do to you (or you to him). If you are not sure how to get started, you can read about some erotic stories or watch some erotic videos. After doing this, both of you will exchange your “fantasy box” with each other. Both of you will take turn to pick out a fantasy idea from the box and act it out.

 

(2)   Play with props

 

Props are a great way to fire up a sexual relationship that has gotten stale and help you get inside an alternative reality while in the bedroom. Honey, peanut butter, whipped cream, ice-cream and hot fudge can be very sensual when eaten or licked off each other’s bodies. You can try things like massage oil or lotion, plastic sheet, blindfold, feather, furry handcuffs, vibrator, edible body paint, edible panties or tattoos, or dress up as someone from a fantasy. If you have fancy over people in uniform, you can get your partner a suit from the second hand store and tell him/her your wildest desires.

 

(3)   Be romantic

 

Make an “I love you” coupon book that each of you can use when you feel like it. Some coupon ideas include: Kiss me here. Wear my favorite ______. Call your partner in the middle of the day and explain what you want to do to him/her later that night.

 

Create an intimate mood by lighting some candles and filling the tub with bubble bath or scented oil, such as lavender oil. Take turns to rub each other all over with your hands or a sponge. Include a water-proof vibrating toy or sponge to enhance sensations.

 

Surprise her with a meal you have cooked. It need not be something elaborate – just her favorite dessert will do. Or, you can pick up her favorite dessert on your way back home. Surprise her with small gifts at times.

 

Being too critical to your loved ones can hurt libido. Therefore find things to compliment each other. All of us like being praised from time to time, but more so, when the compliment comes from someone you love. However, be genuine in your appreciation, as false praise can hurt feelings.

 

Try kissing each other as often as you can. Kiss her the first thing in the morning. Women love simple displays of love and waking up your wife with a kiss, are sure to set her humming for the rest of the day. Spend at least five minutes kissing. This is the only thing that will help you to rediscover the passion and sexuality that your kisses hold.

 

(4)   Explore new activities as a couple

 

Try something different or enjoyable outside the bedroom. The chemical reaction produced by new activities is similar to the feelings you experience at the beginning of a new relationship. You could try dance lessons, tennis lessons, yoga or massage classes, or take cooking or language class together. Choose anything that engages you and teaches you something new that you can share.

 

Sex is more than just penetration. At least to a woman, it is a total engagement both emotionally and physically. Everything starts from our mind. Work on her mind is the first thing to make sex fun again.

 

For more ideas to spice up sex, read on further from Hot Sex and Eternal Flame

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