For Her – How To Have Best Orgasm

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Just can’t seem to quite get there? Or would you like her ending moment to be even better and not just stop at one? Many women will love to want more: more frequent orgasms, stronger orgasms, and yes, orgasms in a row! Use these tips to give her what she wants – the best orgasm she ever had.

 

(1)   Hit her hot spots

 

To give her the best orgasm, you have to devote enough time for foreplay and this requires you to know where to press her ‘hot buttons’.  Here are some areas you should pay attention to.

 

Her ear – You kiss, lick or stroke the folds of her ears, nibble on her lobes and gently stroke/kiss behind her ears and to the back of the neck down to her shoulders.

 

Her navel – Most women fantasize about being held in a firm manly grip. While holding her from behind as you kiss the back of her neck, you run your hands from her ribs to her pelvic bones, kneading and massaging the area in between. Let your hands roam over this erogenous zone – the triangular area from her hip bones to the top of her genitals. At this stage, you hold off on grabbing her genitals for the time being.

 

Her lower torso – There is this crease or line across a woman’s lower abdomen from one hip bone to the other, passing right over the top of the region covered with pubic hair. Make sure your kisses and fingers explore this area before you go further down.

 

Her buttock folding – One of the more erotic zones in a woman’s body is the crease between the curve of her buttocks and the top of her thighs, known as the sacral crease. Stroking or kissing along that crease usually produces a strong erotic response. If your lover is on all fours or on her stomach, and you are pleasuring her from behind, it is good to tease that area by kissing or licking, bringing your lips closer and closer to her vaginal area with each pass.

 

Her buttocks – The buttocks themselves are a strong erogenous zone, but they need to be approached slowly, after her other hot spots have been stimulated. Light stroking or a teasingly little squeeze while you are stimulating other areas is fine, but save the firm squeezing or light spanking later until she is well aroused.

 

Her knees behind – The skin behind the knees is thin and soft and very responsive to touch because the nerves are close to the surface. Most women find that kissing and licking the crease directly behind the knees is very pleasurable.

 

Her inner thighs – This is the last area to be stimulated before moving to her genitals. Soft kisses and light fingertip stroking from her knees right up, but not including her vulva and clitoris may send her moaning helplessly, indicating her readiness for genital stimulation. The teasing nature of such touches will be the spark that lights her fire, as anticipation is the spice that is the key to feminine arousal.

 

(2)   Prolong her pleasure

 

The way to give her the best orgasm is to push her to the edge of orgasm and then hold back. The key to making her orgasm longer is to delay her reaching her peak. Just because you know how to get her to come, does not mean you have to give it to her right away. Anticipation can add to the power of the orgasm after you’ve finally decided to let her come. Yes, let her. You are in control of her orgasm, therefore, just slow it down. Get her close to reaching her peak using your hands and mouth during foreplay, and then switch up your techniques. Get her close again, and then switch it up again. This will keep her in a suspense state of orgasmic pleasure.

 

Teasing penetration can also work to get her near to the edge. After you have done oral sex, kissing and touching and you are ready for sex – but not quite ready to give in to her anticipation yet – teasing penetration will keep the fires burning but satisfy your need to be closer to each other. During teasing penetration, you will enter her, but only a little at a time. Short, light thrusts that only put the head in are incredible for both of you. After a while you simply pull out and resume the kissing or teasing of her hot spots (or erogenous zones), until you are both cooled off enough to continue without reaching orgasm immediately. Not only will this be fun to watch her reactions, you will notice her getting hotter and hotter. When you finally decide to let her come, it will be an explosion of pleasure.

 

(3)   Bring her to orgasm

 

If you have been doing a good job in touching and teasing her, by now, she should be ready for more direct stimulation down there. For most women, the easiest way to reach orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris using either your hands and/or mouth. However, you should not neglect the surrounding areas too, which is the region around her vaginal opening, the linings (or lips) of her vagina, the perineum (the area between the vagina and anus) and the anus itself.

 

During the initial stage of clitoral stimulation, you alternate the touching between these surrounding areas and the clitoris, with more than half of the time on the surrounding areas. It is only when she is quite close to orgasm, that you pay sole attention on stimulating her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

 

When you get to the intercourse stage, you can get into sex positions that offer some friction to help her reach orgasm during penetration. You ask her to get on top so that she can rub her clitoris against your pubic bone.  Or, when you are on top, you put a pillow or a wedge under her buttocks to elevate her pelvic region to give you higher chances of her hitting her g-spot. You may even want to try using a vibrator during intercourse to stimulate her clitoris.

 

Start with these tips to give her the best you can offer. But if you need more, you can take a look at here and/or this place.

 

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How To Have Fast Orgasm

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It is one of those things men like to experience when having sex – to make women orgasm faster! Do you want this to happen to you too? How to help a woman reach orgasm easily? Read below for tips on how to have an orgasm fast or better still a squirting orgasm.

 

(1)   Calm mind

 

Orgasms can sometimes happen quickly when you least expect them. At other times, they seem to take forever to reach it. If you want your girl to have a fast orgasm, you must keep her comfortable and relaxed. If she is too tensed up during and just before sex, you are going to have a hard time trying to make her cum.

 

For a start, it will be good to take a bath together with her to gradually get her into the mood. This gives you a good excuse to touch her whole body as you prepare her for intercourse. Ask her to do some deep breathing exercises. To keep her relaxed, you can give her a full body massage, but don’t touch her pubic area first.

 

As you massage her, there are two things you can do to loosen her up. What can be the best way to turn a woman on? Of course, this is best done by seducing/arousing her brain by talking dirty. This can increase the sexual anticipation inside her mind and increase her desire for sex.

 

The other thing you can do is to pay attention and observe her reactions (moans and groans) as you touch the various parts of her body. This should give you a very good idea about her unique hot spots. Once you are able to pinpoint these areas, you can later spend more time and effort to stimulate these erogenous zones to make her orgasm faster.

 

(2)   Stimulate clitoris

 

Assuming you have been doing the above first step well enough to relax her, by now, she should be getting more aroused. Therefore you should move to her more private areas and spend more time on them. This means you have to start stimulating her clitoris. This is the step you cannot miss. The clitoris solely exists for women pleasure. Most women can reach orgasm by themselves by just stroking their own clitoris (masturbating).

 

Because every woman is different; some like it gentle, some like it a bit rough, some like direct stimulation while others prefer indirect stimulation. The best way to find out what works well for her is to get her to show you how she masturbates or let her hand hold yours to guide you to where and how she likes to be touched.

 

Besides using your fingers, use your mouth to lick on her clitoris too, because most women love oral sex. For a start, press your tongue tip to her clitoris lightly and quickly and then you move on to the surrounding areas. As she gets highly aroused, you can spend more time on licking the clitoris and you can begin to lick faster and maintain this pace until she reaches orgasm. You can even speed up the process by bringing in sex toys such as a clitoris vibrator and/or g-spot vibrator.

 

(3)   Get into positions that can help her to orgasm faster

 

(a)   Reverse cow girl

 

She is on top of you and faces the other way. She gradually lowers herself to allow your penis to get inside her. This position makes it very easy to hit her g-spot and also allows you or her to stroke the clitoris at the same time.

 

(b)   She sits and you stand

 

To get into this sex position, you lift her up onto the counter top and let her assume the spread-eagle position. You should be standing in front of her to enter; the angle and thrust force provided by this sex position should get her excited in a minimal amount of time through g-spot stimulation.

 

     (c) Up and down banging

 

In this position, you need to move two to four inches forward from the usual missionary position. The next is to align yourself in such a way that the base of your penis is rubbing against her clitoris. Both of you will coordinate the movement – while she pushes her pelvis upward by two niches, you will push down gently to give a slight counter-resistance.

 

(d)   Rear penetration

 

The doggy style is effective in hitting her g-spot and you can double her sensation by massaging her clitoris at the same time.

 

Another way to do this is both of you will lie by your side with you behind her. You pull her bottom backwards against your groin and slip her top leg over your hip. With her thighs spread in this way, you will enter her from behind. This is one of those favorite sex positions for women because they love the feeling of a man’s arm wrapping around them or playing with their breasts and clitoris.

 

Do you want to have some more ideas to please a girl and at the same time make sex fun for you? If you do, click on here and/or this place.

From : luv2sex.info

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