For Couples – How To Better Sex

 

 

 

 

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You and your partner have a very active sex life. But you find it always the same and it is getting boring. Both of you are very open with each other and are willing to try new things. You want to make sex life more fun for both of you, but not sure how to do it.

 

Here are some fun ways you can do to turn the heat on in the bedroom

 

(1)   Share And Act Out Your Fantasies

 

One of the ways to spice up your sex life and have fun with it is to share with your partner in detail what you fantasize about. If you still have fond memories of one of your school teachers, you can ask your partner to dress like him or her. In order to cultivate the mood for acting out each other’s fantasies, you will have to do away with all the inhibitions and allow yourself to be crazy or even outrageous.

 

If you are not sure how to start with what character you like to act, you can get some ideas by watching erotic movies, books or black comedies. After you have chosen the character you want to play in, the next thing to do is to get the required costumes and the related accessories and props to make it look real and fun.

 

(2)   Indulge In Your Fetish

 

To spice things up, you can push the boundary of your fantasy by engaging in fetish play. It is not unusual to be a fetishist and it is not something you should be embarrassed about. Incorporating a fetish into your love life, if both of you are comfortable with it, is the best way to bring the spark back into the bedroom.

 

If the object of your fetish is foot, you can incorporate this by spending more time on touching, smelling, tasting, kissing or handling the feet, ankle or toes of your partner or have your partner do this to your feet. Or, instead of giving or receiving a hand job, you or your partner can do a ‘foot job’ by using his/her feet to stimulate the genitals to orgasm.

 

Are you sexually aroused when dress in, or seeing your partner dresses in tight fabrics, or fantasizing about such scenarios? Well, either of you can dress like an acrobat, dancer, athlete or swimmer.

 

You can also expand this further by re-enacting scenarios from comic books or movies where characters are portrayed wearing such skin-tight costumes. These scenarios usually involve a damsel in distress and a super hero (Batman, Spiderman, or Superman) that comes to the rescue.

 

If you are obsessed with high heels, get your partner to put them on during sex. If you are obsessed with armpit, you can do away with the normal procedure of taking shower before sex.

 

If you enjoy watching or being watched during lovemaking, you can have sex in public or watching your partner or letting your partner watch you masturbating or playing with a toy. You can also consider asking another couple to join you in a group lovemaking session so that you can at the same time watch and being watched.

 

(3)   Try Phone Sex

 

The best thing about phone sex is that your partner cannot see you. This will allow both of you to be more comfortable to talk about all your fantasies and tell each other all the things you wish to do.

 

You can engage in phone sex by doing sexting. If you are too shy to say out certain things or you feel silly doing it, you can send sexy photos during the workday or texting hints about what you want to do together in the evening. If you are not sure what to say, you can check out the smartphone apps which offer a wide range of ideas.

 

If you feel that talking and sexting are still not fun enough you can make use of webcam and Skype. This is especially applicable if you and your partner are in separate places. You can get her to dress sexy, do a strip tease or even masturbate together.

 

These are just some of the ways you can make your sex life interesting. There are no limits to what you can do to spice sex up as long as you understand that intercourse is not just penetration and ejaculation. You are only limited by your imaginations and inhibitions.

 

Read on further at Hot Sex and Bedroom Games for more inspiration, ideas and tools to rekindle the flame of passion.

 

 

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