Men Health – Hard Facts Of Penis

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Here are some things you might have wondered about your penis, but were afraid to ask.


Appearance And Sensitivity Can Change With Age


There are two major changes to the appearance of a penis as a man ages. The head of the penis (glans) gradually loses its purplish color, the result of reduced blood flow. There is also a slow loss of pubic hair. As testosterone wanes, the penis gradually reverts to its pre-pubertal, mostly hairless, state.


It is normal for a penis to curve slightly to the left or right when it is erect. It is only when you have a more significant bend in your penis which may cause you pain or difficulty having sex, that you need to see a doctor. This condition, known as Peyronie’s disease, occurs most commonly in middle age. This is due to the accumulation of penile scar tissue which cause the penis to become curved


Studies have shown that the penis becomes less sensitive as men age. From age 25 on, sensitivity starts to decline. The sharpest decline in sensitivity is seen between age 65 and 75. This can make it hard to achieve an erection and to have an orgasm. Whether this will render orgasm less pleasurable remains an open question?


It Can Shrink With Less Usage


You need to have erections regularly to keep your penis in shape. It has to be essentially exercised. To maintain a healthy tone, the smooth muscle of the penis must be periodically enriched with oxygen by the rush of blood that engorges the penis and makes it erect.


If you do not do anything to maintain normal erection, the penis can get shorter. Without regular erections, penile tissue can become less elastic and shrink, making the penis 1-2 centimeters shorter. A device like a vacuum pump, which forces the penis to swell with blood, can help men with physical erection problems maintain a healthy penis.


Is Masturbation Healthy?


Due to the above reason, it is okay to masturbate. Apart from the pleasure it gives, masturbating can help you learn what you like and don’t like sexually. Men can also use masturbation to learn how to control their orgasms.


Some guys are worried that if they masturbate too often they will run out of sperm. Men will not run out of sperm, as they produce it continuously. After a man has ejaculated, it will take some time before he can ejaculate again. This is normal and doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with his sperm.


Masturbation is harmless, but if you do it too often your genitals may feel sore. If men do it a lot in a short space of time, they can get a slightly alarming looking swelling of the penis, called oedema, caused by fluid in the tissues. However, the swelling disappears within a day or two.


Another thing to take note is vigorous masturbation can rupture your penis.


No Relation Between Size And Erection


There are two types of penises. A penis that doesn’t gain much length with an erection has become known as a “shower,” and a penis that gains a lot is said to be a “grower.” However, most penises aren’t extreme showers or growers. About 12% of penises gained one-third or less of their total length with an erection, and about 7% doubled in length when erect. Generally, shorter penises increase more in length when they become erect than longer ones.


Researchers also found that the difference in length between a short penis and a longer one was a lot less obvious when erect than when flaccid. For example, the flaccid penises varied in length by 3.1cm (1.2 inches), whereas the average erect lengths differed by only 1.7cm (0.67 inches).


The Tip Is The Most Sensitive Part


Many men consider the underside of the glans (head) of the penis and the underside of the shaft to be most sensitive to sexual pleasure. The implication from this is, when a woman performs oral sex on a guy, it is not necessary for her to take it all in, which can trigger a gag reflex. What is needed is a woman should spend more time on the tip and the underside using her fingers, lips and tongue.


Circumcision And HIV


While there is not significance difference in sexual pleasure between circumcised and uncircumcised, circumcision can cut down the risk of getting HIV and passing sexually transmitted diseases to your partner. This is because certain anaerobic bacteria (which do not need oxygen to grow) thrive in the inner fold of the foreskin which is moist most of the time.


After circumcision, there are fewer kinds of bacteria on the men’s penises. This also explains why circumcision has been linked to a lower risk of getting HIV. One theory is the anaerobic bacteria may prompt the immune system to respond in a way that makes cells more vulnerable to HIV infection.  


Vibrators Can Help Men With Ejaculation Problems


Vibrators aren’t only for women. They work on the penis, too. In fact, vibration is so effective on the penis that often men with spinal cord injuries can ejaculate with the aid of a special medical vibrator. For this kind of treatment, the vibrator is usually held against the underside of the head of the penis.


Although vibrators often help men with ejaculation problems, you don’t have to have any kind of medical condition to use one. You could do it just for fun by using a vibrating personal massager.


A happy sex life is very important for every relationship and your overall life. Though sex can get boring and less satisfying at times, you should never resign to this state of affairs. There are ways to spice things up. When there is a will, there will always be a way. For this you can turn to Hot Sex and Endless Pleasure for inspiration, ideas and tools to get back the sex life you want.


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Do Females Really Care About Penis Size

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What is the average size of penis? Can you enlarge your penis? Can penis size affect sexual performance? What women think about penis size? Read below to get answers to these questions.


Penis Size Changes With Age And Weight


When men grow older they tend to gain weight and fat will accumulate on the lower abdomen which causes the penis to look smaller.


In addition to this apparent shrinkage (which is reversible) the penis tends to undergo an actual (and irreversible) reduction in size. The reduction — in both length and thickness — typically isn’t dramatic but may be noticeable. If a man’s erect penis is 6 inches long when he is in his 30s, it might be 5 or 5-and-a-half inches when he reaches his 60s or 70s.


What causes the penis to shrink? There are two factors involved here. One is the slow deposition of fatty substances (plaques) inside tiny arteries in the penis, which impairs blood flow to the organ. The other factor is the gradual buildup of relatively inelastic collagen (scar tissue) within the stretchy fibrous sheath that surrounds the erection chambers. Erections occur when these chambers fill with blood. Blockages within the penile arteries — and increasingly inelastic chambers — mean smaller erections.


As penis size changes, so do the testicles. Starting around age 40, the testicles definitely begin to shrink. The testicles of a 30-year-old man might measure 3 centimeters in diameter; those of a 60-year-old, perhaps only 2 centimeters.


What Is The Average Size Of The Penis?


For adults, the average penis size is about 14-16cm (5.5-6.3 inches) when erect. The average girth for an erect penis is 12-13cm (4.7-5.1 inches). A penis would only be considered unusually small if it is less than 3 inches (7.6cm) long when erect.


In one study of 80 men, researchers found that increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged widely, from less than a quarter-inch to 3.5 inches longer. Therefore there is no consistent relationship between the size of the flaccid penis and its full erect length. Penises that are smaller when they are limp tend to grow more when they are erect, so your penis’ size when limp does not necessarily predict its size when erect.


Many men worry that their penis is too small. However, when you look at your penis from above, it seems smaller than it is because you’re looking down on it. If you are overweight, your penis may look smaller as some of its base will be hidden by fat around your stomach.  The size of your penis can also be affected by other things. For example, if you’re feeling cold or anxious, it can make your penis temporarily smaller.


People tend to think that taller men have longer penises, but this is not true. Some short men are known to have more than an average penis size and in the same way, some tall and well-built men have a smaller than average penis. You should also know that penis size has nothing to do with racial background.


Penis Size And Sexual Performance And Satisfaction


Some people believe that men with larger penises are more capable of satisfying their partners sexually. However, this is not true. Many factors such as understanding and responding to your partner’s needs and wishes are more important for a fulfilling sex life than the size of any body part.


Though men care very much about penis size, most women have little interest about its size. According to a sexuality research, a much higher percentage of women (85%) were satisfied with their partner’s penis size than the percentage of men (55%) who were satisfied with their own penis size.


Most research studies suggest that penis size is much lower down the list of priorities for women than such issues as a man’s personality and grooming. An unusually long penis can actually be uncomfortable for some. Girth matters to some women, but not to all.  When it comes to sex, women are much more interested in whether you are romantic, tender and sensitive to their needs and desires than your penis size.


The chief reason why the penis size is of little importance is that the vagina is a flexible organ which will expand or contract according to the size of the penis. This means that any man’s penis will fill any woman’s vagina completely, except in very rare cases where the erect penile length is less than four inches. This also means that a somewhat larger penis can be accommodated in a woman’s vagina, because it will expand accordingly.


Can Penis Size Be Increased?


Surgery can be done to increase the length of the penis involves cutting the suspensory ligament. This ligament joins the penis to the pelvic area and supports the penis in an upright position when it’s erect.


When the ligament is cut, the penis hangs lower, which can make it look longer. However, cutting the ligament may also cause the penis to point downwards when erect. A study in 2006 found that cutting the suspensory ligament led to an average increase of 1.3cm in penis length. However, only 35% of men who had the operation were happy with the results.


Surgery is also possible for increasing the girth of the penis by injecting fat taken from elsewhere in the body into the penis. However, there is a risk that the penis may look uneven or lumpy, and there may be scarring. Also, the injected fat can disappear over time.


The non-surgical ways to increase penis size are vacuum pumps, penis extenders or stretching devices and pills, supplements and creams. But (with the exception of penis extenders) they can only increase the size temporarily.


If you are overweight, losing weight will make your penis look larger. This is because the fat around your stomach may hide some of the base of your penis.


What Women Want


Though size may matter to some women, but the good news is you can outsmart your size even if you come up short—leaving you both satisfied. What can be done? Be passionate; spend enough time on real foreplay, and variety.


What keeps women coming back for more is not your penis size – it’s your passion and your effort in pleasuring her. Women want to feel appreciated, and sometimes nonsexual touching is more of a turn-on than going straight for her butt or breasts. Be affectionate to her by putting a little more effort in your foreplay. You take time to caress and kiss her all over. It is this type of little affection that wakes up her senses.


During lovemaking you can enhance your erection by either entering her from behind with pillow support under her belly or by letting her get on top of you. The doggie position can intensify her pleasure by making you feel larger inside her. The woman-on-top position can give her a lot of freedom in choosing the amount of friction against her clitoris and the angle of penetration that can hit her g-spot.


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What Is Fetish And How To Use It To Spice Sex Up

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Wonder how you can spice sex up by getting your girl to perform your fetishes? How to bring up the idea so that she will be comfortable and find it enjoying and sexy?


A fetish is a personal obsession on certain object or situation. There is nothing right or wrong about this because every one of us has certain degree of fetish. But talking to your partner about trying some new sexual activity can feel risky, because you are both pushing the envelope of your current sexual relationship and at the same time revealing a sexual desire or interest that you may have never raised before. This is especially so in telling a partner about a fetish. We all feel some shame or embarrassment in exposing some of our unusual desires.


But having curiosity about other sex acts and desires to try new things is also completely healthy and can lead a relationship to grow in new directions. If you are thinking you do like to tell your partner about your fetish and not sure how to broach the subject with her, these tips may help.


Talk To Your Partner


The first step is to talk to her about sex in general. This is especially so if you and your partner never talk about sex. Just out of the blue asking her to satisfy your fetish needs may freak her out.  You can start with some less contentious topics to establish some trust and safety first. Discuss with each other the turn-offs and turn-ons and assure her that you in no way are turned on by little girls. You might start intellectually talking about the meaning of fetish.


Before you have the first conversation you may want to imagine what you will say, and try different ways of starting the conversation to see which feels most comfortable (or least uncomfortable). To put your partner at ease with the topic, make sure to align it with aspects of her sexual self. For example, if she sees herself as “adventurous” in bed, then praise her adventurousness and suggest your kink as an adventure. 


If you are not sure where to start a conversation you may want to turn to magazines, movies, or books that tackle the subject. There are many documentaries and even a few first run feature films where fetishes play a role. You might suggest watching a movie, or use a magazine article to start a conversation.


You can start by talking about how thinking about your fetish feels, or how it makes you feel if/when you include it in sex.  You can casually introduce into the conversation that you enjoy role playing during sex. Or, you can also bring up a certain scenario and ask how she feels about it or mention it in an offhand way just to tread the water.


Pick The Right Time To Talk

Timing can make a huge difference in how a conversation goes about sex. If your girl is in the mood she will be more open to your suggestions rather than just hearing about them in any other environment. What is important is that you pick a time when you have some privacy and are not rushed, so you can both think about what is being said and how it feels before you respond. It is generally not a good idea to wait until you’re in bed or having sex before suggesting a significant sexual departure.


Reassure Your Partner


Sometimes partners are put off or threatened by trying something new because they think it “means” something about your relationship (that you are bored, that you are having an affair, that you aren’t interested in them anymore, etc.) Be sure to remind your partner before, during, and after you suggest something new that it is not just that you want to try this new thing with anyone, you want to try it with them. Highlight the fact that your partner is unique, special, and you desire to share the behavior as an intimate experience with her. That the reason you think it will be fun or hot is because it is something you will only be doing together with her.


Give Your Partner Time To Reflect

Your partner might find your fetish strange at first. They might not understand it. They might even be disgusted. This doesn’t mean that they will never come around. They may need some time to process not only what you have said but how they feel about it. Just as you are asking for understanding from them, you need to offer understanding and patience as they work through their thoughts and feelings. They may feel as if they need to respond in some definitive way to what you are telling them, but you can reassure them that this is a longer conversation, and they can take time to think about it and respond when they are ready.


Set Up Another Time To Talk


Putting pressure on your partner to try something new pretty much never works. You can’t force someone to want to do something, and even if they do it just to please you (or shut you up), the chances they’ll enjoy it are less than if they were doing it for their own interest or fun.


Therefore, before you end the conversation make some agreement about what happens next. This might mean setting a time to talk again, or agreeing that either of you can ask for a second conversation, or even agreeing to some set time when you don’t talk about it. What is important is that you give some thought to what you both need and respect that those needs might differ, but even so, it’s possible to compromise.


Take Initiative


If you are the one suggesting the fetish, don’t expect your partner to make the first move. This mean you will have to get the appropriate accessories to ensure you carry things out properly. You may need costumes, restraints, paddles, rubber gloves, etc. so that your desires and requirements for sexual engagement are satisfied. You can either get these items at everyday stores or some online sex toys stores.  


Start Small And Work Up


Most people do not typically jump into what is considered weird behavior. It is better to start with something a little taboo and then move on to other things that are even more taboo. For instance, if you are into foot fetish, perhaps you can start by buying her some stylish shoes and stockings and ask her to put them on, and then at the end of the night, help her take them off and offer to rub her tired feet. Few women can resist this. As you both become more comfortable with foot play, she can rub her feet in your face, or along your cock, or pinch your balls with her toes. Depend on her future level of comfort; you may proceed to licking her toes.


If you are a medical fetish fan, you ease your partner into it gently with the purchase of a seriously sexy nurse outfit which can be on the other hand, seen as an innocent game, that age-old cliché of doctors and nurses.  And judge by their reactions how far they will be willing to go; you can proceed to progressively add in more props later.  You never know, they may surprise you!


Sharing your fetish or fantasy with a partner can be a positive (and persuasive) experience. You don’t have to keep quiet. Just pick the right time to talk. Make your partner feel special and unique to share your desires. Align the request with her self-image. Do not pressure her to accept your suggestions immediately. Give her some time to reflect. Do flow up with further discussion to allow both of you to make room for compromise. Finally, start small and work your way up. Follow those steps and you both will reach kinky bliss in no time.


Come and take a look at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Fetish Seduction Games to get more inspirations and ideas to spice sex up.


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Women Health – How To Increase Desire For Sex

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Your partner makes you feel like you are an overly horny person for wanting it a few times a week. This makes you feel very unneeded.


For men, figuring out how to deal with a female’s lack of sexual desire can be difficult and frustrating. Men who want to know how to help their wives with their sex drive should understand there are many possible reasons for this problem.


To help your woman with her sex drive, treatment must be aimed at the proper underlying issues. Here are some ways you can go about approaching this issue.


Causes Of Low Female Libido And Solutions


Factors causing her low libido may be physical, psychological or based in the relationship itself.


Physical causes of low libido are painful intercourse or an inability to orgasm, medical conditions (diabetes, high blood pressure), medication (such as antidepressants, blood pressure medications, and anti-allergy medication), and exhaustion from responsibilities as a wife and mum.


If your wife has pain or trouble achieving orgasm, these medical problems will likely discourage her from having sex. A medical examination will rule out other possible conditions and provide the opportunity for your wife to speak frankly with her doctor regarding her sex drive. With proper diagnosis and treatment, both her health and your sex life will be back on track. 


Illnesses need to be treated by medical professionals who may be able to alleviate her lack of libido. Available treatments include compounded testosterone cream applied locally to the vagina, testosterone taken orally, estrogens applied locally to the vagina, suction vibrators and erectile dysfunction drugs such as Viagra.


If your wife needs help with the day-to-day tasks of child rearing or housekeeping, do offer your help in whatever way you can. Studies show that couples who split the housework evenly have a lot more sex than those who don’t. Equal participation in chores means less resentment. It also means that she is less fatigued. Resentment and fatigue are pretty serious libido killers. So, make sure that those are not big factors in your relationship.


Hormonal changes due to menopause, pregnancy and breast-feeding can also contribute to her lack of desire for sex. In this case, you can best help wife with sex drive by simply waiting this period out patiently. These are temporary situations and will generally resolve themselves with a little time and patience.


Communication is needed to work through this problem. Being as courteous and understanding as possible, try working out an understanding with each other. When you present it in the proper way, she will appreciate your understanding and thus be more willing to make an effort to keep you sexually satisfied.


Psychological causes can be due to anxiety, depression or mood disorders, and poor self-esteem related to past or current situations. Working through these problems and feelings with a qualified professional may be the best way for your wife to move on and find sexual fulfillment in her relationship with you. Help your wife by supporting her if she feels she could benefit from this type of intervention.


A decreased interest in sex can be caused by poor communication between a woman and her husband. Not only does she need to be able to communicate her emotional needs, she also needs to be able to communicate her sexual needs and inclinations.


So talk with one another more! This conversation can be mutually beneficial. She may just need to tell you about something simple like physical condition that is making sex more difficult for her or maybe she has changed medications and this has affected the amount of sexual desire that she has.


Share with one another your sexual desires. Talk with one another about your expectations concerning lovemaking. False or unmet expectations can hurt your marriage. Sexual intimacy is a continuing process of discovery. True intimacy through communication is what makes sex great.


A lack of emotional connection with a husband causes some women to withdraw sexually. You will need to work with your partner to find ways to reconnect both verbally and non-verbally outside the bedroom by doing things that help to build intimacy.


Spending time together, talking, holding hands, snuggling, giving her verbal encouragement and even letting her know how special she is to you are all easy and natural ways to help your wife with her sex drive, regardless of underlying issues.


You can also pump up the level of intimacy by giving one another sensual massages. When you massage her, you use her favorite lotion or an edible lotion for added pleasure. You will massage every inch of her body from head to toe. When giving those sensual massages, stay away from the genitals and when kissing don’t go straight for the breasts. When she is ready and her desire for sex returns, she will let you know.


If sex is less frequent than you would prefer, be patient and understanding. When you act upset or impatient because of her decreased female libido, this starts a vicious cycle where her level of desire becomes even lower as she reacts to your attitude.  Give her the time she needs, within reason.


No one expects you to wait the rest of your life before having sex with your partner. But bullying and pressuring her to have sex when if she isn’t into it won’t accomplish anything but bringing your relationship to a quick end. Let her know that you are willing to give her time if she is willing to do her part and attempt to work out her issues.


If none of the above works, both of you will have to visit a trained professional, who can help her unlock the cause and get the two of you back on track.


A low female sex drive doesn’t mean an end to romance. In many cases, her libido can be restored to a normal and healthy level. Your efforts in helping your partner to cope with her low libido will be handsomely rewarded.


For more tips to spice things up and keep the spark in the relationship, you can turn towards Get Her To Have More Sex and Her Savior for inspiration, ideas and tools. When there is a will, there will always be a way!

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A Quick Way To Turn A Girl On And Make Her Orgasm

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Is your gal having difficulty in reaching orgasm lately? Are you looking for ways to spice sex up?


Have you ever considered using sex toys to add more fun into your bedroom? You may ask why there is the need to use sex toys.


Well, if properly used, sex toys can provide consistent and intense stimulation which sometimes our fingers, tongue may not be able to. Sex toys can also help to reach certain parts of the body that fingers or tongue may not be able to, such as those anal toys.


For women, a clitoral vibrator can help reach an orgasm much more effortlessly and quicker than manual or oral stimulation. For men, cock rings help facilitate and enhance erections and many men also enjoy the feeling of a vibrator used on them while with a partner.


If you are aiming to please your woman or to help her reach orgasm easily, a vibrator will be a good start to achieve this. The first thing to do is to find out which kind of vibrator is suitable for her.


The right shape, size, speed, or other variation can make a huge difference from woman to woman. Some like the small bullet style vibrators that have speed variations while others may like the slim g-spot vibrators that get straight to the point.


Other factors to consider are whether she wants a vibrator that offers an intense stimulation or one that offers slow stimulation. Some vibrators are made of metal, plastic and jelly. Metal vibrators tend to be the most intense; jelly tends to be the least intense; and plastic falls somewhere in the middle.


Ease of cleaning should be an important factor when choosing a vibrator for your woman. Cleanliness for sex toys is a must. Any germs on the sex toy can easily enter her body if it is used vaginally or anally.


I should mention that all rubber and jelly sex toys are impossible to sterilize. You can clean them with bleach but proper sterilization is impossible because of their physical makeup. Both hot water and bleach will actually break them down, so that they can become unusable with time.


This means that if you plan to use jelly or rubber sex toys on more than one partner, or if there is both anal and vaginal use in play, you will be putting your partner at risk without using a condom on the sex toys.


Though the vibrator can be designed to stimulate a specific part of a body, this does not mean you should go direct to her clitoris or g-spot. You still have to start out with some normal foreplay. Kiss her and play with her nipples. Spend enough time to make sure she is really wet.


You can also use the vibrator as a foreplay tool to tease your girl. Use it on her nipples, between the thighs but just above and around her vagina. This will drive her nuts with sexual desire and make subsequent intimate events a lot better.


The circumstances and stimulation under which orgasm will occur differs between women. Some can easily have g-spot orgasm while others require very specific placement, speed and pressure to orgasm.


Therefore when you want to please your woman with a vibrator, hitting the right spots is important. Try different areas on your woman with the vibrator. The nipples, the thighs and the vaginal lips are great places to start with until you figure out what spots work for her.


If possible, ask her what she likes or even to demonstrate how and where she likes to be stimulated. Once her hot spots are located, use the vibrator on them will send her into euphoria and give her pleasure beyond her wildest fantasies. Nothing turns a woman on more than her man pleasing her like she would do herself.


Once she gets used to the vibrator being pressed against the non-sexual parts of her body, you can place it directly over her clitoris. It is best to start very slowly and on the lowest vibration and work it up to the highest speed.


You can slide the vibrator into her vagina, starting with slow in-and-out movement and then to do this movement at a faster pace. Turn the vibration up so that it is vibrating harder as you are thrusting into her deeper and faster. This could mean a mind-blowing orgasm for her, along with the possibility of more than one orgasm.


However, this does not mean you should use the vibrator as the only tool to pleasure her during the whole session. You can alternate stimulating her clitoris with your mouth, fingers and the vibrator. The change in sensations will drive her wild. Once she has had enough, you can get in there and finish her off.


During intercourse, you still can continue to use the vibrator to make her orgasm again. When she is on top of you, slide the vibrator between your pelvis and hers. The vibrator will hit her clitoris just right while she grinds on top of you. When you enter her from behind, you can get her to use one of her hands to place the vibrator on her clitoris. If you have an extra vibrator, you can place it over her anal opening.


To get more ideas and help to please your woman sexually, do come and take a look at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Uncle Ben’s Arsenal to see what they have prepared for you.


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