3 Things Every Man Must Know About G-Spot

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For ages, evidence about the existence of G-spot was not confirmed. But in 2008, an Italian research team managed to find physical differences between women who claimed to have G-spot orgasms and women who did not.

The G-spot is more a zone rather than just a particular spot that is located roughly 2 inches inside the front wall of the vagina. The G-spot feels rougher to your touch than the surrounding area of her vaginal wall and you can locate it by when thrusting your index or middle finger (with nails cut and lubricated and palm up) about 2 inches into her vagina. When she is being turned on, the G-spot will be filled with fluid causing it to swell and increase in size.


Not every woman finds the G-spot equally when being stimulated. While some enjoy very much pleasure from G-spot stimulation others feel uncomfortable because it may make them feel like urinating.


Here are the 3 most important things every guy needs to know about the G-spot:


(1)   Stimulate the clitoris first


The clitoris is located where the top of the inner vagina lips meet, which is the biological equivalent of the male sexual organ. Most women prefer to have the clitoris stimulate enough first before reaching for the G-spot. Going direct to the G-spot may make her feel dry and uncomfortable. Also do not skip foreplay since this is one of the best ways to prepare her for the G-spot stimulation. Foreplay can help you to locate the region easier since it will be swelled when she is being sexually aroused.


(2)   How best to stimulate the G-spot


The normal lovemaking position – missionary position – is unlikely to allow you to reach her G-spot by penetration unless your erected sexual organ can curve upwards. You can get better chances of hitting the G-spot by putting her legs over your shoulders or making her knees and shoulders meet when penetrating. The aim is to position her genitals higher than other parts of her body to increase the chances of your ‘little brother’ in contact with the G-spot. You can also do this by pulling her pelvis up onto your thighs and penetrate her from a kneeling position while grabbing her thighs from underneath.


Other positions that can easily get in touch with the G-spot are the woman-on-top position (she either faces you or her back facing you), rear entry position (she stretches one leg straight on edge of bed and keeps the other leg on the floor and you enter her from behind with your knees slightly bend) and the doggie style position.


(3)   Female ejaculation


You may be surprised actually many women (though not all) can ejaculate. Female ejaculation usually occurs as a result of prolonged stimulation of the G-spot. Though this looks like she is urinating however, it is different from actual urination. The fluid contains the same substance as that of the fluid produced by the male prostate. The amount of fluid releases during ejaculation varies from woman to woman. Some seem to be gushing while others only come in drips.


G-spot stimulation is only one of the many ways to get her reach orgasm. What you need to keep in mind is to know and understand what works for your woman, what makes her feel good and satisfying during the process which is the most important. You can get a better understanding of how female sexuality works by checking this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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4 Things Every Man Must Know About Clitoris

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For men, the sexually sensitive zone is quite concentrated on the area below his waist and above his thighs. For women, there is a very broad area which can be considered her pleasure zones. Her breasts, thighs, waist, back of her neck, vagina and even the curves of her body can provide her lots of sexual pleasure when stimulated.


However, if you want to be skilful in your bedroom techniques, there are 2 vital areas of her sexual organ that you need to be aware off: the clitoris and the G-spot. By aiming at these 2 pleasure zones, she will have higher chances of enjoying multiple orgasms. Of these 2 erogenous zones, the clitoris is the easiest to locate and stimulate to get her aroused.


Here are the 4 things every guy needs to know about the clitoris:


(1)   The clitoris is solely devoted for physical pleasure and is the physiological equivalent of the head of the male sexual organ. It is a small protrusion located at just above the opening of the vagina. It is very sensitive to touch because of the rich nerve endings surrounding it. Most women can easily get orgasm by just stimulating the clitoris even without penetration.


(2)   As this area is hypersensitive it is better not to apply too much direct pressure when you start to stimulate it. Focusing too much effort on the clitoris can be quite uncomfortable for some women, so you should aim at just below or just above her clitoris. You can start with a light touch on the clitoris and then move to the surrounding area.


(3)   Sexual stimulation is largely a mental exercise for women and turning her on requires you to stimulate her brain and not just her body. Whispering sweet things in her ear and talking dirty to her, telling her what you plan to do to her and letting her know how turned on you are can be very sexually stimulating to her. Of course, not to skip foreplay. The more she gets aroused, the easier it is for her to reach orgasm.


(4)   There are 4 ways for you to stimulate her clitoris:


(a)    Fingers


First cut your nails. You start by stroking her thighs and caressing the areas around her clitoris before you rub softly in circular motion on her clitoris.


(b)   Oral


Create a little bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she is about to reach orgasm and gently blowing on it to increase her sensation. You can also use your tongue to lightly lick on the clitoris just like you are licking the cone of the ice-cream.


(c) Sexual organ


You can rub the tip of your ‘little brother’ against her clitoris to get her high. Another way is to get her lay on her back with legs tightly clamp close to her stomach and you slide your ‘small brother’ between her legs right where they meet with her pelvis. When you move back and forth in this position, your ‘little brother’ will brush against the vaginal outer lips as well as her clitoris.


(d)   Vibrator


Besides using a battery-powered vibrator, you can wear some kind of stretch rings around your ‘little brother’ which can offer effective stimulation on her clitoris with each thrust.


Now you have the basic ideas to try straight away tonight. It is always desirable if you can be as knowledgeable as possible in pleasuring her. When you are ready to find out more, you can check this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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Why She Says No To Sex

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Ever wonder why she is no longer keen to have sex? There could be tons of reasons that affect a woman’s interest in sex. Some factors are obvious while others may not be so. It maybe difficult to pinpoint accurately what the problem is, so here is a list of the possible reasons that maybe affecting her sex drives.


(1)   Experimenting new sexual acts unexpectedly


Some people enjoy rough sex, violent role-playing and even a little bit of pain, while others can find this disgusting. For example, some women may not like the idea of anal sex. While it is fine in trying new things to spice up your sex life, it can be a turn off if you do not first try to find out how comfortable she is on your new suggestions. If you want to explore new sexual possibilities with her, it is a lot easier if you both agree that you can ask for anything as long as you ask nicely, you have enough knowledge (such as precautions and ways to avoid painful anal sex), you have clear reasons for trying something new and most important to take no for an answer.


(2)   Perverted dirty talk


Most of us can appreciate a little dirty talk. When you get high, all kinds of things can come out of your mouth. First you whisper a fantasy in her ear, then you get too carried away going into too much psycho detail and before you can go any further, she suddenly finds some excuses to turn down your sexual advances. If you want to avoid scaring her in bed, keep these psychopathic little tales to yourself.


(3)   Psychological issues


Confidence and stress are both major obstacles to a healthy sex life. She has bad self-image such as feeling her body is no longer as curvy as before especially after childbirth. The best thing you can do is to reassure her that she is desirable. Find something good about her and remind her how great she is as often as you can. If she is stressed, giving her a relaxing massage and a little bit of pampering will be a great help.


Besides confidence issues and stress, feeling anxious about sex due to various reasons (probably due to childhood abuse, rape or other fears) can hurt her sexual desires. She needs to find out the reasons for her anxiety and to overcome them and the best thing you can do is to be supportive. Of course, this will take time, but with patience and good communication, this can be dealt with and eventually resolved.


(4)   Emotional matters


She is very dissatisfied with you probably feeling that you neglect her. The only thing you can do is to find out the reasons and to think of some kind of adjustments you can make. She is trying to assert herself. She behaves in this way to compensate her sense of helplessness in other aspects of her life such as she has a nasty boss, a dominating close friend or an overprotective mother. The way to overcome this is to compliment on her sexual abilities and prowess. If you can acknowledge how much you appreciate her in bed, she may realize that trying to prove her status is not necessary.


She wants to manipulate you. There are a few options here: give her what she wants, give her something similar to what she wants, reason with her, wait it out (in the mean time, you gratify yourself) until she returns to her senses. She is bored. In this case, you can take her to a sex shop and get anything that is fun for both of you. Get a self-help book on how to spice things up. She is or maybe cheating. This is quite serious and after knowing the reasons for cheating on you, you have to decide for yourself if you want to forgive her or to move on.


(5)   Lack of exercise


Women who often exercise tend to have higher sex drives and their periods less painful and pre-menstruation syndrome less severe or obvious. This is because the small chemical and hormone changes as a result of regular exercise can deliver the desired effect (such as preparing her body for pregnancy) instead of disrupting the chemicals in the brain that do damage to her mind and body. What you can do here is to suggest some physical activities you can do together such as jogging, rollerblading, cycling, rowing boat, playing tennis or ballroom dancing.


(6)   Pre-menstruation syndrome


This can affect her for days before her period. Her stomach gets bloated, she experiences cramps and her mood swings as unexpectedly as the weather. The best thing to do is to pretend you are deaf and avoid arguing back and at the same time encourage her to do some exercise and any other stress-relieving activities, but not sex of course.


(7)   Unhealthy diet and lifestyle


Eating too much junk food can first cause overweight and the chances of contracting all kinds of chronic illness (such as diabetes, hypertension). Needless to say, this can affect sex drive. Unhealthy habits such as smoking and taking party drugs (such as ecstasy pills) can in the long run damage both health and sex drives. Some women can get irritated if you lecture them about proper diet and healthy lifestyle. The best way you can do in this case is to practice what you preach and let her learn by your example.


(8)   Medication



Birth control pills which can inhibit the production of estrogen and certain prescription drugs (such as those for high blood pressure) can curb sex desire. A way to handle this issue is she can talk to the doctor to prescribe alternative drugs.


(9)   Certain illness


Problems with the thyroid and adrenal glands and the removal of the uterus can lower her testosterone (sex hormone). In this case, she has to consult her doctor to come out with options that she can help to regain some of her sex drives.


Knowing what turns her off is the first step towards improving both you and her sex life. If you want to know what and how you can turn her on, you can check this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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10 Naughty Ideas To Give Women An Orgasm

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When talking about female orgasm, most guys are clueless. Many guys are not aware that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms. Partly due to this reason, many women can go for years without having an orgasm from their partner.


We all know how difficult it can be in working to improve a woman’s bedroom experience. Some guys may be trying too hard by applying indiscriminately the lovemaking techniques they have just read without understanding that not everyone woman is the same and each woman responds differently to those sexual trick(s). Complicating this matter is some women are not sure what can really satisfy them.


Here are the 10 ways you can work on to increase the possibilities of her reaching climax, including the secret to multiple orgasms:


(1)   Building intimacy outside of the bedroom


Women do not get automatically turn on during sex. The one indispensable element in getting women aroused is the existence of intimacy or closeness with their partners in the relationship. When was the last time you surprise her pleasantly by doing unexpected but appreciated things for her? This requires you to pay attention to her needs and communicating to understand what she needs in daily life. Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures do turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman’s brain.


(2)   Make her feel comfortable


If she is not able to feel relaxed she will not be able to have orgasm. Take the time to give her a back rub, massage her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.


(3)   Ignore the vagina


Do you know that extended foreplay can increase the possibilities of her coming? Spend time kissing, caressing and touching her will help to build up the sexual tension and usually the expectation will be very powerful.


(4)   Switch your focus


Stop worrying about what and how you can gratify her or concerning about you yourself may disappoint her. At the particular moment when you are with her, throw everything out of your mind and stay focus on her. If you are able to focus all your attention on her first, you will be able to make love to her much more passionately.


(5)   Take your own sweet time


Unlike men who can get aroused quickly and mechanically, women take a longer time to “heat up”, probably up to 20 minutes. The most effective way for a guy in helping her to reach orgasm is to delay his own orgasm first. The best way to do this is: penetrate as per normal and when you feel you are about to get high, simply move your hips in a circular motion as if you are swaying a hula hoop. When your “little brother” cools down again, continue stimulating her.


(6)   Avoid using lubricants


There is no need to use lubricants because women by themselves have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they are turned on. The use of lubricant can “distort the message” her body is trying to send you because you are not sure whether she is really in the mood yet. Of course for certain women especially those elderly ones who have problems of vagina dryness, the use of lubricants may be a necessity. But for most women, it is best not to resort to external aids.


(7)   Not too much attention on the clitoris


Once you have stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will inflate and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation. After the clitoris is fully stimulated, go and pleasure the G-spot.


(8)   Locate and stimulate the G-spot


The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and can be found about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. There are 2 basic methods to stimulate the G-spot which are by using your fingers and adopting a lovemaking position that can effectively reach the G-spot. When using your fingers, make sure you cut your nails and lubricate your fingers first. You then curl your fingers into a “come here” gesture with your palm facing upwards when entering her to locate the G-spot. 2 possible lovemaking positions you can use are the doggie position (penetration from behind) and the missionary position with support under her hips that can tilt the lower part of her body at an angle to facilitate G-spot stimulation.


(9)   Adopting the best position


Not all lovemaking positions are equally good due to individual women preferences. Generally, the easiest position for a woman to climax is the reverse missionary position (woman on top) because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.


(10)  Offer her oral sex


This is much more satisfying for women than the intercourse itself due to the over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris. Just be careful not to apply too much pressure on her clitoris right away because this area is very sensitive, which may irritate her and turn her off. Take turns to lick the surrounding area of her opening and the clitoris from time to time.


Now you can use these 10 tips right away to give women the most ground-shaking experiences of their lives. If you are eager for more ideas to please the special woman of yours, you can check this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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Understanding How Female Sexuality Works

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In contrast to the male orgasm which can occur mechanically, the female orgasm is a bit more complicated. There are different types of orgasms and stimulation that can be given in order to get her a ground-shaking orgasm.


What happens when a woman reaches orgasm?


For a woman, reaching orgasm involves a slow build-up of her excitement level up to a point that her vagina expands and contracts almost every second. The pleasure that a guy feels after he ejaculates is the same as when a woman reaches an orgasm minus the secretion of fluid. Some women are even capable of achieving multiple orgasms.


Though women react differently during orgasm, but in general, when she is having orgasm she feels:


(1)   The heart beats faster and breathing gets heavier

(2)   Rhythmic muscle contractions occur in the genitals and other parts of her body as blood is pumped to these areas

(3)   Muscle contractions may also occur elsewhere in her body. For example, the pelvic-floor muscles can contract between 5 and 15 times at 0.8-second intervals

(4)   She feels fun or euphoric (may moan, pant or scream) as hormones such as endorphins and oxytocin are pumped into her brain and body

(5)   The euphoria may cause her to release a silky fluid from her urethra which is often known as female ejaculation


There are 10 things every man needs to know about female orgasm:


(1)   A female needs an average of about 20 minutes of direct stimulation to reach orgasm and her partner has to be patient enough to give her at least 20 minutes of “warming up”

(2)   Like men, women also experience the “blue ball” syndrome which happens when the tension on her highly stimulated clitoris is not released by orgasm, the same discomfort as those experience by males on their genitals when sexual tension is not set free

(3)   Orgasm offers benefits such as relieving pain, stress and menstrual cramps, improving skin complexion, acting as natural tranquilizer helping women to sleep better and regulating appetite

(4)   There are broadly 3 types of female orgasm: clitoral, vaginal (G-spot) and blended (a combination of clitoral and vaginal orgasm)

(5)   Some women can experience multiple orgasms which are a series of orgasms occurring from 2 to 10 minutes apart or even one right after another

(6)   The easiest way for a woman to reach orgasm is to stimulate directly the clitoris either by her own hands (masturbation) which means orgasm for a woman can occur without penetration and without a man’s help; or her partner using his tongue, fingers and his genitals to rub/brush against it

(7)   Orgasm is not limited to genitals and stimulation of erogenous zones and a woman can also get sexually stimulated by massage, foreplay, talking and even a very small minority can will themselves to orgasm without being touched

(8)   Orgasm should not be the objective of sex and you cannot force a woman to have orgasm as some women (roughly 26%) though not the fault of their partners, have difficulty in reaching orgasm.

(9)   Sex can still be fulfilling and satisfying for her even without orgasm as long as she feels intimacy with her partner and the intensity of an orgasm is not an indication of sexual satisfaction

(10)                       A woman’s ability to reach orgasm is very dependent on her state of mind, how comfortable she feels about her body, how relaxed she is and her partner’s skill in creating a safe, comfortable and caring environment


There you have it – the 10 most important basic female orgasm facts that men need to know. If you are looking to sharpen your lovemaking techniques to give that special woman in your life an unforgettable orgasmic experience, do check this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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