Sex Tips – How To Be Confident

 

 

 

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How to make a woman enjoy sex with you so that she will beg for more of you? Do you want her to love sex as much as you do? How to make her addicted to you sexually? How to be the special and rare guy who will give her the best sexual experience she ever had? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Be confident in sex

 

Women desire a man who always project dominant manly traits. Men who show sexual confidence are big turn on for women. Women desire a guy who knows what he is doing, how to please them enough to light the fire deep inside them. During sex, she wants you to lead the situation, to manhandle her, press your body against her and not to be afraid to take the upper hand.

 

The foundation of confidence is knowledge. This means requiring you to learn about sexuality and master it such as how to give oral sex, how to perform good foreplay, how to touch her sensually, understand a woman’s erogenous zones, how to kiss and where to kiss. So, when you are free, do make an effort to do some reading about sexuality matters.

 

This alone is not enough because when comes to sex, every woman is different and has her own likes and dislikes. Therefore, you need to pay attention, to find out what she wants by observation and through daily conversation. This is to avoid you from blindly applying everything that you read on her, without taking into consideration her unique needs. By paying attention, you will be able to tailor-made or customize your actions specifically for her.

 

(2)   Good foreplay

 

Women desire more foreplay. They are complex creatures, so one minute of kissing is not going to satisfy them. A woman wants you to touch her, grab her and play with her until she begs you. For many women, it is good to make sure she has an orgasm before intercourse, from either manual stimulation or oral sex. This is because after she has already climaxed, she will be aroused and able to enjoy sex more fully.

 

Foreplay should not be limited to the physical aspect. For women, sex is not just physical. It also includes the emotional aspect as well. For this reason, foreplay should start long before the act of intercourse. You need to learn her likes and dislikes, be attentive, notice and remember even the small little details that turn her on, learn most if not all of her erogenous areas and the things that put a twinkle in her eyes such as sweet smelling oil and an erotic massage.

 

To avoid sex from becoming boring, you need to be inventive and creative to give her something new to make her realize you enjoy and want to fulfill her needs and desires. Good foreplay is about knowing how and when to push the right emotional buttons to start the physical aspect of lovemaking. You need to pay attention to every part of her body as well as knowing how long to spend in one place, because not enough time equals frustration and too much time can cause soreness or numbness.

 

(3)   Choose those sex positions that women favor

 

(a)   Woman-on-top

 

She straddles your body on her knees (or squats over you), facing away from you. The advantage for her is deeper penetration as well as better control. This position also gives her better chances of reaching her g-spot. The benefit for you is that she can caress your thighs and scrotum and you can caress her buttocks and back. To take the pressure off your pelvis, she can lean forward on your thighs or backward on your chest.

 

(b)   Modified missionary

 

You enter her as you would in the standard missionary position. Instead of spreading her legs, you lift her knees to her chests and hook her ankles over your shoulders. You support your weight on your hands. This will give you deeper penetration and stimulation of the back wall of her vagina. If her legs are tired, she can rest them on the bed. To lift up her lower body so that it is easier for your penis to reach her g-spot, you can put one or two pillows or a specially-designed love cushion underneath her pelvis region.

 

To do something different, you can switch to enter her in the normal way, but lie across her pelvis, while still supporting your weight on your elbows. She will enjoy it because it stimulates the side of her vaginal wall, something she does not experience before.

 

(c) Modified rear entry

 

While you sit on a chair or edge of bed, she lowers her body to your penis. She controls the movement and penetration which can be pleasurable for both of you. You get to caress her breasts and clitoris to offer additional stimulation. This position is also good for g-spot stimulation.

 

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How To Be Better In Bed

 

 

 

 

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You know of this hot girl and both of you have chemistry for each other. What can you do to please her when the lights are off? You are happily married but sex life of late is getting monotonous. What can you do to spice up sex? Here are some tips to be better in bed.

 

(1)   Be a passionate lover

 

Real good sex is not just about the sexual techniques. It is also about making a woman feel connected to you. Women love to feel special. Go on and make her feel this way. Hold her hand a lot, put your arm around her waist and kiss her passionately on her cheeks, forehead as you hug her or when having sex. This shows affection that women love.

 

Look deep in her eyes when you are about to reach climax. Behave in the way that makes her feel you are more excited to get into bed with her. As much as women love sex, they do not want to have this thinking that they are hunger for sex. If you can condition her into thinking that you desire her more, she will be able to let go off her inhibitions knowing that she is not being viewed as “slutty”.

 

(2)   Good foreplay

 

Every good sexual encounter should start with great foreplay. Do not be hasty to stick it in and climax, like the way you usually do when you masturbate. She is a person. She is not a sex object. Let her get comfortable with you first.

 

To be effective, foreplay should start outside the bedroom. There are two aspects of foreplay – the emotional foreplay and the physical foreplay. When outside the bedroom, emotional foreplay is more important and this requires you to do everything or anything to make her feel good. This should be sincere so as not to make her feel you are doing this for the sole purpose of getting her to bed. To be good in emotional foreplay requires you to be romantic.

 

Romance is something that has to be built and maintained. It cannot happen overnight. You have to find out what is particular romantic for your woman. You can often find out what a woman likes through normal conversation. Pay attention to details. Simple things often matter a lot to women. Romance often means paying attention to the things that a woman really wants and making an effort to provide these things for her. Doing these things unsolicited and often will get more appreciation from her and open her heart in ways that you can never imagine possible. If you are doing the emotional foreplay well, more than half of the “battle” will have already been won by the time you step into the bedroom.

 

When in the bedroom, you can still continue with the emotional foreplay but physical foreplay should start to play a more important role. Turn her on by teasing her. Slide your hand to any part of her body and make her think you are going to touch her specifically somewhere, like her breasts. Then when you are just only a few inches away and she is anticipating it, you pull your hand away.

 

When you are kissing her, you slowly move to her shoulders and slide her clothes back so that you can kiss her shoulder blades. You adjust her bra strap a bit so that you can reach the skin beneath it. Kiss her on areas like her face, ears and behind, back of the neck, collar bone, nape, inside her elbows, wrists, underarm, hips, back of the knees, ankle and  anywhere that is specifically sensitive to her, will make her go crazy.

 

(3)   Be unpredictable and dominant

 

The moment when you feel that things are going in your favor, you proceed into action. When you are confident enough of what you are doing, your woman will find it hard to resist your further move. Be confident but do not forget to make her feel comfortable. Showing her you have the power will make her desire you more. For a change, you can even tie her up and/or blindfold her. Demand her to give you a blowjob or be on top and straddle you. She will most certainly give in if you build up the desire properly.

 

If you want to impress and satisfy her, do not be lazy, just sticking to the same usual positions. Go for variety. Do things differently. Be unpredictable. Vary your speed. Go passionately slow and then pick up the pace. Thrust quickly and then slow down immediately. Switch from gentle to rough; soft to hard; and passionate to plain horny. This will drive her wild and gets her love juice flowing.

 

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