How To Get And Use Sex Toys For Beginners

 

 

 

If you have never used sex toys you may find them intimidating. This is especially so for people with little or no sexual experience. You can use sex toys to explore your body before choosing to become sexually active. What are the good sex toy choices for beginners or people who have little or no sexual experience?

 

Penis sleevePenis sleeve

Penis sleeve

This is a male sex toy. It is a tube made of cyber skin or other soft material that slides over the penis shaft and is supposed to mimic the feeling of a vagina or mouth. If you haven’t discovered how really great masturbating with a sex toy is, a penis sleeve is a good choice. Rub a little water-based lubricant on the shaft before you slip your penis through the sleeve and glide it up and down manually. You can get all kinds of sleeves to satisfy whatever desires you have. Some have textured lining for extra stimulation.

 

Penis ring

Penis ring

 

 

The ring works by constricting the flow of blood out of the penis to help the user achieves a firmer or harder and longer lasting erection. For beginners, it is advisable to use adjustable and simple rings. Some rings come with buckles and snaps. If you are using them, just be careful not to let your pubic hair get caught in the snaps.

 

If you are using an adjustable ring, open it up all the way, slip it over the penis and behind the scrotum and then tighten it. Once you have gotten the ring on, you can masturbate all the way to orgasm and ejaculation. If you feel any discomfort, remove the ring. Whichever type of penis ring you choose to use, do not leave it on for more than 20 minutes. Once you are comfortable with using the penis ring on your own, you can let your partner put the ring on you as part of the sex play.

 

Clitoral vibrator

Clitoral vibrator

 

This is the best option for a girl if she does not want to have any insertion at all or does not want to stretch her vagina too much. Women can reach orgasm most often through clitoral stimulation. This is because the clitoris which is packed with numerous sensitive nerve endings is responsible for most female orgasms. In fact, many women prefer clitoral vibrator than other kinds of sex toys because it can provide some of the best orgasms.

 

Small vibrator

Small vibrator

 

This is a good choice for women who are using a vibrator for the first time to insert into themselves. This kind of vibrator is even thinner than a tampon so that it does not hurt when a woman push it into herself. A good thing about small vibrator is that it can fit in the purse so that she can take it with her wherever she goes.

 

Bullet vibrator attaches to penis ring

A more versatile type of small vibrator is the bullet style vibrator which can be placed on the clitoris or in the vagina. Some bullet style vibrators can be attached on penis rings and used for couple’s pleasure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anal plug

Anal plug

 

This is a good choice if you are new to anal sex. Whether you are enjoying anal stimulation during sex or during masturbation, this toy can give you just enough stimulation without being painful. Make sure you apply water-based lubricant on this toy before inserting it into the anus.

 

 

Special toy cleaner

Toy maintenance

 

To keep your toys in proper condition, it is better to clean them with a mild soap or special sex toy cleaner before and after use. Avoid using strong detergents because they can breakdown the toy material. For battery-operated toys, take out the batteries after using them. Rinse water-proof toys with hot water. For those that are electrical or not water-proof, clean them with a soapy wet cloth. Dry them thoroughly after cleaning. Most germs cannot live on a dry surface.

 

Read this a few times before you make any decision about the usage of sex toys. When you are ready for action, you can take a look at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Naughty Jane’s Treasure.

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Pussy Licking – How To Turn A Girl On

 

 

 

 

 

Find Out More From Here On How To Make Her Cum Hard And Fast

 

Almost every woman loves oral sex. But the problem is most women do not get enough of oral sex from their lovers. A sure bet way to make a girl horny and rock her world is to give her oral sex. Giving her the most intense sensation and pleasure that correlates with oral sex will no doubt make her want you more and make her orgasm fast. Who knows this may even cause her to initiate it the next time she sees you. Read on to find out how you can make your lady’s thighs quiver with pleasure.

 

(1)   Get her to relax

 

The less insecurity there is for her, the better she will response during oral sex. If either of you are worried about unpleasant odors or tastes, take a shower together beforehand. Do reassure her that you think she is sexy. When you are down between her legs, she may feel uneasy about the way she looks, whether it is the size of her thighs or the appearance of her vagina. Say and do things that compliment the way she looks, smells and tastes, while rubbing and kissing the pubic region.

 

(2)   Get her warm up

 

Before you tongue a girl, you need to make sure she is relaxed and ready for you. Do not skip foreplay. You stimulate all of her other erogenous zones with your mouth or hand. You take time to cuddle, kiss, suck and nibble and let her know you are so excited to be with her. When you finally get to her vagina, tease her by kissing, sucking, licking and nibbling all around the area. This technique will keep her in anticipation and get blood flowing to her ‘love canal’ making her nether region more sensitive to stimulation.

 

(3)   Get wet

 

When using your hands and fingers, use your saliva to get them wet before you use your mouth on her. Once she gets turned on enough, her vagina will create lubrication of its own. Show her how much you enjoy eating her out by rubbing your cheeks against her vagina or taking some of her love juice with your fingers and spread it on your lips and face. You will turn her on with this dirty gesture. You may also use flavored lubricant, but either way, keeping her wet down there is an incredible sensation, making it one of the best oral sex techniques to use.

 

(4)   Pay attention to her signals

 

Your partner will let you know what is working for her and what she does not like. To tongue a girl you have to respond properly to her movements. If she is grinding her hips and grabbing the back of your head while arching her back, you are probably on to something. Sometimes wetting a finger or two and slipping it inside her vagina can also drive her wild. You can gauge her response by testing with one finger first and if she enjoys it, you may slip another finger in, making it to two. This will give her the dual sensation of your mouth on her clitoris and penetration at the same time.

 

Carefully watch her physical response and make adjustments accordingly. When you notice she is getting more and more aroused, you speed up your act, and increase the intensity of your stimulation. Finally, when she is reaching her peak, you keep up with a steady and firm pace until she comes.

 

(5)   Talk to her

 

If she is not very vocal in bed, or you are unable to decipher the noises she makes, ask her what she likes. It may seem like an amateur move to ask for help, but it will be of greatest pleasure to her by having her guide your hand, or your tongue to her ‘hot buttons’. By talking to your partner and finding out what she likes will help you to know how to give her the best orgasm in the shortest amount of time.

 

(6)   Gently lick and suck the clitoris

 

A lot of guys make the mistake of driving straight for her clitoris, though clitoral stimulation is an important part of oral sex. This is because the clitoris is a very highly sensitive region with lots of nerve endings (more than at the penis tip). Hard licking and sucking initially on the clitoris can make her feel uncomfortable.

 

For a start, you gently flick it with your tongue and move onto the area around the clitoris. Come back to the clitoris every once in a while, but do not concentrate all your efforts on it. It is only when you sense she is quite close to orgasm that you can suck and lick harder on her clitoris.

 

(7)   Venture to other areas

 

Not every woman is not anal stimulation, but you may be surprised what this gesture could do for your sex life. Some women like to have their anus licked, or even have a finger inserted into it. If she is into it, you can lick her anus while you are eating her out. While you are there you will be able to lick the lower part of her vagina at the same time or you can lick back and forth between the vagina and the anus. This oral sex technique can provide extra stimulation and gratifying results. Ask her if she likes it, or allow you to try it.

 

Just because you are going down on her does not mean that the rest of her body should be ignored. Use your hands to rub her breasts, stomach, neck and inner thigh. This will load up her senses and make her completely and utterly involved with what you are doing down there.

 

(8)   Vary your moves

 

Use different patterns, pressure and motions while sucking or using your tongue. For those who are a little nervous about going down on a girl, it sometimes helps to spell out each letter with your tongue. It may sound a little odd, but this helps in two ways. First, this will increase the dexterity of your tongue. Second, this will help you to get more used to licking her for a longer period of time.

 

She may be partial to certain moves such as the rapid flicking of your tongue over her clitoris, long and short licks, a flat or rigid tongue, or sucking. Take your time and pay attention to the way she responds so you will be able to know which oral sex techniques work best for her. When you figure it out, keep doing it unless she seems to get bored with it, then you can try tweaking your technique or find a new one to use. You can also take oral sex to a whole new level by trying it in different positions, like with her straddling your face, from behind, or standing up. To spice things up, you can also introduce sex toys or stimulating lubricants.

 

You can also use food creatively to enhance her oral sex experience. Rub strawberries covered in whipped cream or honey around her private parts. You can also insert a banana and use it to stimulate her as you pull it out with your mouth.

 

Using these oral sex tips can increase the chances of giving her the best orgasm she ever had. Most important, make sure you listen to her and try to read her body language as well. Do you need some more tips to get her wild and make her addicted to you sexually? Click on Make Her Pussy Wet and Good Head Kit For Her

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Oral Sex – How To Give A Guy The Best Blow Job

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Do You Want To Make A Guy Addicted To You?

Oral sex is something every guy loves. Watching a woman licking and sucking his penis is every guy’s idea of heaven on earth, because this ‘little banana’ represents about 80% of his ego. Many women are aware of this fact and want very much to know how to give him a mind-blowing mouth job. While some women can adequately please their partners orally, others try to imitate what they see in adult films, which is not the best way to give a guy a blow job. Below here are some tips on how to give your man an amazing blow job that he will never forget.

 

(1)   Be Enthusiastic

 

The most important thing about performing oral on your man is to show him you are enjoying doing it and you want nothing more than to pleasure him with your mouth and tongue. Show some passion and enthusiasm when you are giving him head. Let him know how much you enjoy it by giving him a moan or groan and making some sucking noises. This can turn him on even more.

 

(2)   Be Confident

 

The most important thing about giving your man a blowjob is to be confident when doing so. One of the ways to build confidence is to be knowledgeable about the possible hot spots on his penis. There are specific areas on a man’s penis which can increase the likelihood of orgasm, but a lot of women miss these completely.

 

Most girls assume that they have to work on the whole shaft but it is usually the tip that is super sensitive. You can drive your guy crazy by just spending a bit more time on the tip. Pressure is also very important. Consistent pressure and evenly squeezing with your hand and lips is what will make him cum.

 

(3)   Take Your Time

 

Many girls just want to pop it and get it over with. But if you want to make your man’s toes curl, you have to pretend that his penis is an ice-cream cone and do the same thing you will if it is. Make your tongue as flat as possible, because this can help to cover more territory. Then slowly run your tongue along his penis from tip to base, leaving no spot unlicks. Slowly suck and squeeze his soft penis with your lips to let his erection build in your mouth. He will love the feeling of having his entire penis in your mouth as he is getting more aroused.

 

(4)   Maintain Eye Contact

 

Make sure you glance up and hold his gaze every once in a while when you are sucking him. Add a devilish gleam in your eye as this is going to drive him absolutely crazy. To make it easier to maintain eye contact you can prop his head up on a few pillows so he can look down and see you in action.

 

(5)   Hide Your Teeth

Keep your teeth out of the way by wrapping your lips over them when giving oral sex, so as not to accidentally scrape or bite him. His penis though looks hard but is actually quite delicate. Once in a while, a guy will enjoy your teeth gently scraping against his penis, but most of the time, he will not want your teeth to sink on his shaft.

 

(6)   Use Your Hands

 

The best oral sex usually incorporates some hands-on action to help you to reach the areas that your mouth is not able to reach due to the possibility of getting a gag-reflex. As you put the penis tip in your mouth, use your hand to stroke the shaft of the penis up and down, clockwise and then anti-clockwise in a fluid motion.

 

Or, you can make a figure of O with two fingers around his shaft, forming a ring. As your mouth moves down his shaft, this ‘ring’ will slide upwards to meet your lips. When your mouth retreats towards the penis tip, the ‘ring’ will move down to the base of his shaft. This will create the illusion that you are taking him all in while in reality it is more like three-fifths.

 

(7)   Give Him Oral Anal Stimulation

 

Licking, flicking or inserting a stiff tongue into the anal passage and thrusting feels great for both sexes. This is because the area is highly sensitive with many nerve endings. Lots of guys love this, but many are too shy to tell you.

 

If you are ready to take the plunge and want to learn about how to really turn your partner on, you can read on further from Blow By Blow and/or Good Head Kit.

 

 

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