Problem-Solving Sex Positions For Couples

 

 

 

 

Want to have a baby? How to build confidence in bed for her? How to increase pleasure for her? How to last long? What to do if she complains of pain during intercourse? Is it due to your big size penis? If it is so, how do you overcome this? Or, if you feel you are small down there, how to make it feel big for you and her? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Sex Positions To Get Pregnant

 

(a)    The man-on-top position works well in getting her pregnant. During intercourse, deep penetration will help to minimize the amount of ejaculate leaking out. After withdrawing the penis, press her vaginal lips together to prevent further leakage. She should remain lying on her back for an additional 20 to 30 minutes preferably with her lower back supported by a small pillow so her pelvis is tilted slightly upwards. This will allow the sperms enough time to easily swim up through the cervix.

 

(b)   Lying side-by-side is a more relaxed position and is easier for a partner who is overweight or has a back problem. You can do this either face-to-face or in the spoon position with you entering her from behind.

 

(c)    Doggie position (entering her from behind) will allow you to enter with deeper thrusts and deposit the sperms close to the cervix.

 

(d)   On edge position is when she positions herself at the edge of the bed or couch and you enter her from either a standing or kneeling position.

 

(2)   Sex Position To Build Confidence For Her

 

If she is lacking confidence in bed, the best way to overcome this is to let her take control. This will mean allowing her to be on top of you. This can be done by kneeling, squatting, facing you or her back facing you.

 

(3)   Sex Positions To Increase Pleasure For Her

 

(a)    She will be squatting on top of you with her hands on your body for support. Instead of her rocking backward and forward, she will slide herself up and down with the penis inside her. This position lets her vary the pace and depth of thrusts which helps put her in control of her orgasm. Squatting will help her to feel the entire length of your shaft as she encircles it, and the muscle tension created by holding herself above you can add to the intensity of her pleasure. The friction from this up-and-down movement will give her amazing sensations all along the edge of her vaginal opening when she pumps shallow and on her g-spot when she pumps deep. If she chooses to lean backward and rest her hands on your thigh and knees the sensation will even spread to her clitoris.

 

(b)   In this lying on the side face-to-face position, she will raise her leg and allow you to slide inside her, and then drape her leg over yours. Try to arrange it in such a way that her feet are braced against a wall or footboard. In this way, she can use the strength in her legs to give her the action she wants. This side-by-side position allows her to have a firm, full-body contraction in order to reach the next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm. She can choose the type and level of stimulation she wants by resting her thigh on you or lifting her thigh. She will enjoy greater stimulation on the inner walls of her entire vagina by resting her thigh on you. If she lifts her leg and opens up, she allows you a bigger range of motion, which can help her to get intense clitoral stimulation while on her way to orgasm.

 

(c)    She will lie down on the table with buttocks near the edge. You will enter her while standing between her legs, holding on to her hips for leverage. She can either rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of table. This position allows you to stimulate her clitoris easily. To increase the chances of her getting an orgasm, get her to lift up her buttocks or slip a pillow or a love cushion which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to her genitals.

 

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(4)   Sex Positions To Last Longer

 

(a)    Penetration in standing position can help you to last longer. This is because by standing up you are drawing blood away from the genitals and into your legs which makes lasting longer easier.

 

(b)   If you let her get on top of you, you can last longer. This is because when she is on top, you can fully relax all your muscles, which can help to delay your orgasm. Put your hands on her hips to guide her in how she moves to prevent her from giving you too much sexual excitement.

 

(c)    Missionary with her ankles on your shoulders. In this position, you will be on your knees and after you enter her, you spread your knees as wide apart as possible until you can feel the groin muscles stretching. This will put pressure on your groins which will cause energy and blood to flow there and away from your genitals, making lasting longer much easier.

 

(5)   Sex Positions To Avoid Painful Intercourse For Her

 

(a)    The woman-on-top position allows a woman to control the depth of penetration if deep penetration hurts. This position allows you to add more pleasure to intercourse by caressing her breasts or clitoris

 

(b)   Another good position for her to avoid painful intercourse is for both of you to lie on your sides, either with you behind her (spooning), or face-to-face

 

(6)   Sex Positions For Small Penis

 

(a)    She will sit on top of you, grinding herself forward and backward instead of up-and-down, to prevent your penis from slipping out.

 

(b)   Missionary with her ankles crossing behind your neck. This position will tighten her vaginal canal which is a great way to squeeze you and making you feel big inside her

 

(c)     She will lie face down with legs stretched out and open slightly. Her buttocks will be raised a little allowing you to enter her from behind. You can prop yourself up with your arms for more range of motion.

 

(7)   Sex Positions For Big Penis

 

(a)    When she is on top of you, she will move her hips in circular motions as she glides up and down, only going as deep as she can handle. Or, you can sit on a chair without arms and just let her straddle on your laps either facing you or away from you, using your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.

 

(b)   She will lie on her back, lifting her legs so that they are pointing at the ceiling. You will kneel in front of her with your back straight, wrapping your arms around her thighs as you enter her. This is a shallow penetration position giving a lot of chance for the tip of the penis to rub against the area around the vaginal opening. This means your most sensitive part (penis tip) will be in contact with her highly sensitive area near the vaginal entrance which has a lot of nerve endings there.

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Giving Her The Best Orgasm She Ever Had

 

 

 

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If you want to please a woman, you have to make sex better for her. If she is satisfied, she will have orgasms more often which means you will have better sex more often too. Follow these steps to help your wife or girlfriend reach orgasm as often as she can.

 

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(1)   Start with kissing

 

Before you do anything, make sure the surrounding temperature is not too hot or too cold. Even a slight chill can hold off an orgasm. Start kissing her slowly and deeply. Women love kissing because it helps them to feel physically and emotionally connected to their partners. Deep French kissing can be teaser to what you are going to do next when you are between her legs.

 

Kiss her sensitive spots (lips, neck, ear lobes). Move your lips slowly towards the side of her neck and kiss softly. Kiss those erogenous zones on either side of her throat. Gently scratch her back as you kiss her and softly but firmly slide your hand up under her hair at the nape of her neck and give a nice squeeze. Move your way down her collarbone to the indent located below her neck. Kiss this nerve-dense region. Work your way towards the part of her neck, below her earlobes. This area is full of sensitive, pleasure-producing nerve endings.

 

Once you have been kissing for several minutes, work your fingers under the bottom of her shirt and circle back to her stomach. Lift up her shirt and take it off in the smoothest way possible, being careful not to pull her hair.

 

(2)   Move to her breasts

 

Now that her shirt is off, slowly progress your kissing down to her breasts, kissing the upper area and still rubbing her lower body with your hands. While you are kissing her, reach behind and unhook her bra.

 

Do not just go direct to her nipples. Go back to kissing her on the lips and neck. Though nipple stimulation works, but it is much more effective to tease around them first as well as other part of her body before reaching for her breasts.

 

Lift her breasts when you caress them and touch them softly. With your thumb and index finger, you gently and directly massage her nipples in a rotating motion moving clockwise and anti-clockwise. Next, place your hands flat over her nipples and roll around them under your palms. Now, with your thumb and forefinger, you gently pull on her nipples but never pull down, Switch around the above movements to see which ones she likes and gets most excited over.

 

As she gets aroused, her nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for greater pleasure and pressure. You can start gently nibbling on her nipples or using a little more suction or pressure. A slightly firmer touch can be very pleasurable for a woman if she is already aroused. If you start out with intense pinching or firm sucking before she is fully and completely aroused, you are very likely to turn her off.

 

(3)   Heading downwards

 

As you move down to her stomach, you kiss every inch of the area below her breasts. Kiss her on the mouth again while you take off her pants. But not her panties yet! Take her right leg, and starting at her foot, you kiss every inch of it and working your way up to her inner thigh. While doing this, you can rub her clitoris. The friction caused by the brushing of the panties fabrics against her clitoris can start to make her feel the heat. Then go back to her left leg and do it all over again!

 

(4)   Clitoral stimulation

 

At this stage, she will be begging you to rip her panties off and give her more. Next, you pull apart the skin surrounding her clitoris and position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move your tongue in a sweeping motion from side to side. You can also lick her in either clockwise or anti-clockwise motion. In between licking of her clitoris, you lick the rest of her vulva as well. Her vaginal lips and opening have super sensitive nerves that feel extremely pleasuring to her when you run your tongue over them. As she gets more aroused, you can take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it. While licking her clitoris, you can at the same time pinch and rub her nipples gently.

 

(5)   Get into position

 

If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be having at least one orgasm. At this stage, her body will be very responsive to further stimulation and she has the capability of getting multiple orgasms. By now, you can choose to enter her as deeply as you want in any of the 3 following sex positions.

 

(a)    Enter her from behind (doggy style)

(b)   Woman-on-top

(c)    Missionary with pillow support or with a wedge under her pelvis region with her legs resting on your shoulders

 

So there you have it! This entire process should take around 30 minutes and will get her more turned on than she ever had before. Building anticipation like this paves the way for her to have not only one intense orgasm, but lots of them as well. If you are with a woman for the very first time, this is a pretty good way to make her be the one begging you to be inside her and not the other way round.

 

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Can Circumcision Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

 

 

 

You want your girl to have the best sex. You want her to experience intense orgasm. You can last long with hand job but when it comes to actual intercourse, you ejaculate under a minute. You find this so frustrating and embarrassing. You want to consider circumcision because you think the problem is due to your too sensitive foreskin which prevents you from lasting longer in bed? Is it true that circumcision can reduce or cure premature ejaculation?

 

It is true that an uncut penis is often more sensitive than that of a circumcised penis. The main reason is that as the glans, or the head of a circumcised penis gets used to constant rubbing against the fabrics, without the protection of the foreskin, it will become less sensitive to sexual stimulation. Due to this reason, a circumcised male is likely to take a longer time to ejaculate. To a certain extent, this happens to accidentally cure premature ejaculation.

 

However, there is still no convincing evidence to suggest that circumcision can make a significant difference to the time it takes for a man to ejaculate. A research done by the Journal of Sexual Medicine indicates that rates of premature ejaculation in the US (where over 70% of the males are circumcised) are similar to other parts of the world where circumcision rates are significantly lower. Though circumcision can to a certain extent reduce sensitivity (because a lot of nerve endings are removed with the foreskin), however it does not necessarily increase the time a guy takes to ejaculate.

 

How To Reduce Or Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

(1)   Choose sex positions to help you last longer

 

(a)   The woman-on-top position

 

You will lie down on the bed and she will sit on top of you. She can either face you or her back towards you. When she is on top, you can ask her to slow down to avoid stimulating you too much.

 

Instead of lying on your back, you can sit face-to-face with your partner sitting on your laps. She will adjust her lower body to facilitate penetration. This position improves intimacy with your partner because you can kiss her, rub her back and suck or fondle her breasts.

 

For a change, you can also sit with her back facing you so that you can fondle her breasts while you penetrate her.

 

(b)   The side-by-side position

 

Both of you will lie on your side facing each other. She will lift up her leg to facilitate penetration. In this position, penetration will tend to be shallower, increasing the likelihood of better clitoral stimulation. With shallower thrusting, the sensation will not become too overwhelming for you.

 

(2)   Focus on her pleasure

 

In my opinion, the best way to cope with premature ejaculation is not to think about how long you should last inside her. Instead you divert your attention to her. You focus on pleasuring her. You make sure she orgasms first before you ejaculate. For most women, the easiest and most effective way to make her orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris.

 

You can do this by using your hands to masturbate her. Since most women love oral sex, you can use your tongue to lick her clitoris. If your hand or tongue gets tired before she orgasms, you can continue to stimulate her by using a vibrator plus other fun aids.

 

These are just two of the many ways you can do to delay your ejaculation. For more ways to control premature ejaculation, read on more from Long Sex and/or Prolonged Pleasure.

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Is Circumcision Good For Sex

 

 

 

 

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What are the effects of circumcision on your sex life? Does foreskin matter when it comes to sex?

 

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The function of foreskin

 

To answer the above questions, first, we need to know what role the foreskin plays in your sex life.

 

The foreskin acts as a shield for the sensitive glans (head) of the penis. It keeps the glans moist and prevents it from brushing against your underwear. Frequent rubbing of the glans against fabrics can gradually cut down the sensitivity of the glans. This can also cause the skin over the glans to get thicker and drier and less sensitive.

 

The foreskin is an area rich with nerve endings and is very responsive to stimulation. Inner foreskin and frenulum (an elastic band of tissue under the glans that connects to the foreskin) are the most sensitive areas of the foreskin.

 

During intercourse and masturbation, the foreskin slides along the head of the penis. This sliding motion stimulates both the foreskin and the head of the penis. Also the existence of natural lubricants on the foreskin means there is no need to use any lubricants for sexual intercourse and masturbation. Actually, this can cut down the possibility of painful intercourse for the female partner.

 

It is widely believed that painful intercourse is due to the lack of lubrication from the female partner. But it can also be due to the lack of natural lubrication as a result of the removal of the foreskin. To compensate for the decreased sensitivity, there is a tendency to thrust vigorously, which is another reason for dyspareunia (painful intercourse).

 

The foreskin cuts down the friction between the penis head and vaginal wall. Without the foreskin, there will be a lot of constant direct rubbing of the head against the mucous membrane on the vaginal wall. This also explains the pain and the tendency towards dryness that some women experience when having sex with a circumcised male.

 

How to have greater mutual sexual pleasure for a circumcised male

 

(1)   Choose the best sex positions that are mutually pleasuring

 

(a)    The woman-on-top position is a good choice because it allows a woman to adjust the speed and depth of penetration. To make this position more pleasurable, she can move her lower body up and down instead of the normal back and forward motion. She can alternate between deep and shallow thrust to both stimulate the clitoris and the g-spot. When she leans backward and rests her hands on your legs, the sensation will spread to her clitoris and at the same time her lower part of the body will be opened up for you to fondle.

 

(b)   Another position to consider is the side-to-side position. Both of you will face with each other, with the female partner raising one of her legs up to facilitate penetration. This position will prevent vigorous thrusting. The female partner can choose to rest her leg over your body to offer greater stimulation of the inner vaginal walls. She can also choose to keep her leg raised to offer you a bigger range of motion which can help her to get intense clitoral stimulation.

 

(c)    The modified doggie position with the female partner resting her arms flat on the bed with a pillow under her belly. She can arch her back upper or lower to control the depth of penetration. This is the perfect position to hit her g-spot. You can use a circular motion to offer more stimulation to the highly sensitive parts near to the vaginal opening.

 

(d)   The modified missionary with support where she positions her buttocks near to the edge of the bed. You will put one or two pillows or a wedge under her pelvis region. After you enter her in a standing position, you bring her legs together to create this tightness feeling on the penis for greater sexual pleasure. This position offers both stimulation to the clitoris (during shallow thrust) and the g-spot (during deep thrust). This position is also great for guys with premature ejaculation problems. When you stand, part of the blood flow to the penis will be diverted to your legs which will prevent extra sensitivity.

 

(e)    The penetration in kneeling position is quite similar to the above position with only two differences. Her buttocks will not be near to the edge of the bed and you will enter her in a kneeling position. You will still put one or two pillow or a wedge under her pelvic region and hold her legs together.

 

(2)   Use lubricants

 

The best is to use water-based lubricant which can be applicable to all situations. Oil- and petroleum-based lubricants are not suitable if you use condom. Before you enter her, apply some lubricant on your palm and rub your hands together to warm it up. Then spread it over the tip of the penis and down to the shaft before you enter her.

 

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How To Turn A Woman On And Have Sex As Often As You Want

 

 

 

 

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What turns a woman the most in bed? What are the ways to turn a woman on? In bed, what do women like to do the most? Read on.

(1)   Be Romantic

Every woman craves romance, whether they are young or old. It is perhaps the best and simplest gift that a man can give to a woman. This maybe something physical such as pampering her with gifts or can be a thoughtful gesture. This means it may not cost much. You do not necessary spend a bomb to turn a woman on unless she is a gold-digger. Here are ways you can be a romantic partner.

(a)    Do spend time together and one of the ways is to learn something new together. You can consider signing up for golf, cooking or some other type of lessons. You can do workouts together at the gym or park.

(b)   Surprise her with gift and make sure you know what she wants

(c)    Every day you should make an effort to look for some good things to say about her

(d)   Good communication is also very important. There is a need to talk about expectations such as how do you want improve sex to be better, what kind of fantasizing in the bedroom is alright for her, what is your definition of a good foreplay, what kind of sex positions would you like to try, how do you like to be touched before, during and after sex. You should also make an effort to resolve any underlying grievances which may hurt romance as well as intimacy.

(e)    Do something special and out of ordinary (be unpredictable in a pleasant way), such as pamper her with an unsolicited back rub/foot rub or even a sensual massage.

(f)    You accompany her to her-type of movie, even if you are not a fan.

(g)   Do one of her chores and don’t point it out. Many wives are secretly turned on when their husbands offer to help do household chores.

(h)   Remember the important dates such as birthday, anniversary or Valentine

 

(2)   Build The Right Mood

In order to turn a woman on, you have to work on her mind which controls her sexual desire. Here are some ways you can do to create mentally arousing moments with her.

(a)    The first thing you need to do is to create a romantic environment. You will go about gathering what you will need to set the mood. The mood you want to create is up to you. Nature sounds, ambient music, and meditation music will all help to create an atmosphere of relaxation. You could also choose music designed to stimulate and arouse. Dim the lights as much as possible when preparing for a massage. Candlelight is a good choice as long as you take safety precautions. Keep all candles on a sturdy surface far from flammable objects. Lava lamps, lighted tabletop fountains, room lights on a dimmer switch, and night lights are all good lighting options.

 

Sensual massage can be very relaxing and help a lot in getting her in the mood. Lavender, patchouli, ylang ylang, and sandalwood are all good scents for your sensual arsenal. Choose a massage oil to use as a carrier for your essential oils and to use on your partner’s skin. Coconut oil, food-grade almond oil, and jojoba oil are all safe to use both outside and inside the body.

(b)   You also need to make an effort to get her feel comfortable in sex. This can be done by saying something that is comforting. The best way is you can say it in a way to make her feel sexy (such as complimenting her body). You can also put her at ease and help to distract any tension in her mind by engaging in dirty-talking

(c)    You can make the atmosphere more lively and fun by playing some sex games. Here are 3 bedroom game ideas you can consider.

 

(i)                 Both of you will write down about the 5 or more fantasies that can be acted out together at the time you are playing the game. If your fantasy requires props have them at hand. Take turns each by pulling out one at a time and then acting out the fantasy.

(ii)               Both of you will take turns picking an area of your body and letting your partner spend 60 seconds lavishing that spot with sensual attention: kisses, licking, nibbling, caressing. This will help you to learn what areas your partner is dying to have you pay more attention to and can let you know exactly what she wants, so there is no more excuses.

(iii)             You can try strip poker. In this game, the winner or loser will have to do perform some sexual acts. Of course you have to make sure that it is something that both of you would enjoy. That way, no matter who wins or loses, you will both really win.

 

(3)    Spice Things Up

Doing the same thing over and over again can kill the mood over the long run. This means at certain point in time, you have to do something different. Here are some ways to spice sex up.

(a)    You can add in lotions, oils, specially-designed love cushion and sex toys to heat things up a little.

(b)   You can get a copy of the Kama Sutra and experiment with some unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.

(c)    You can take turns in letting each other to take control during intercourse. Some women have this fantasy to be the dominating one during intercourse.

(d)   You can talk about your fantasies. For a start you can try some light bondage, and when both of your comfort level increases you can bring out some more of your kinky fetishes and lusty desires.

(e)    You can make a video together while having sex. You can delete it after the act if having a sex tape freaks her out, or make sure it is locked up in a safe place. Watching both of you having sex in the video and having sex at the same time can be a huge rush for anyone.

(f)    You can watch porn together. Porn can be enjoyable for both sexes. Get into bed together and watch a few porn movies with a decent storyline. It will keep both of you engrossed and wet. Stroke each other and have sex while watching the movie. If you like it, talk about the movie with each other while watching it and visualize sexy fantasies with each other

(g)   You can read an erotic story (such as 50 Shades Of Grey) together. The mind is the biggest sexual organ we have. Create fantasies and imagine it together. It will be a bigger turn on than you think.

(h)   Have sex in different places and different times of the day.

(i)     You can get better in your oral sex, probably by reading up on how you can improve your oral skill or by playing an oral sex game to warm things up, or by adding in some tools to improve your performance.

(j)     You can consider role playing. Here are some suggestions for sexy role-plays ideas.

 

(i)                 School Teacher and Student

(ii)                Flight Attendant and Passenger

(iii)               Homeowner and Plumber

(iv)               Police Officer and Burglar

(v)                Firefighter and Frightened Citizen

(vi)               Photographer and Model

(vii)              Lady Gaga and Her Little Devil

(viii)             Artist and model

(ix)               Master and domestic maid

(x)                Doctor and patient/nurse  or patient/nurse

(xi)               Stripper and client

 

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