Fun Things To Do Tonight As A Couple

 

 

 

 

 

After a while, sex can get boring and predictable. Knowing exactly how long the foreplay will last, what positions you are going to use and how long it is going to take for your partner to reach orgasm becomes all too familiar. To break out of the sex rut, couples should try new things in the bedroom. This can improve sex life and bring you closer together. If you are looking for some ideas to spice sex up, here are a few to get you started.

 

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(1)   Questions and answers

 

Your girl lies naked in bed and you stand at the doorway to the bedroom. She will test how well you know her by asking you questions about herself. These questions can range from sexy (what is her favorite sex position) to personal (name her dream vacation spot).

 

For each correct answer, you will get to move one step closer to her. If you give the wrong answer, you will take a step back. Once you correctly answer enough questions to reach the bed, the teasing, the sexual tension and expectation will drive up your lust. In the process, you will get to know your woman better.

 

(2)   Make sex tasty

 

You can use food to rub on another person, certain vegetables for inserting into sexy places. You have to make sure that the food will not irritate sensitive skin or cause any allergic reactions. Some of the best foods for sexual activities are strawberries, whip cream and chocolate syrup.

 

You can make a game out of this by applying different food to various parts of the body and get your blindfolded partner to seek out the whereabouts of the food using hands and mouth. The different sensations on the tongue and on the skin can be almost unbearable, in a good way. The objective is to stimulate as many senses as possible during sex.

 

(3)   Pamper her feet

 

Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and licked. At the end of the day, you offer to rub her feet. Few women can resist this. If you have foot fetish or you want to try something new, you can let her rub her feet on your face, or along your dick, or pinch your balls with her toes.

 

(4)   Orgasm competition

 

Lie side by side naked and start to pleasure yourselves. Whoever comes first gives the other person manual or oral stimulation until he/she reaches the finish line. The act of masturbating in front of each other can draw you closer together because it is normally something you do when you are alone. Allowing another person to watch you makes you feel vulnerable and increases the intimacy with your partner.

 

(5)   Hide-and-seek

Taking this childhood game to new levels can add plenty of spice to your sex life. One of you will hide and the other will search. To give a sexy twist to this game, you can offer favors if you are being found in a certain time. Or better yet, the sooner you are found, the better will be the favors.

 

(6)   Rape fantasy play

 

Though rape is a serious subject, some women get completely turned on by the thought of being overpowered. This kinky foreplay technique will make your love life fantastic. You “break in” to the house and intrude into the bedroom, which can be both frightening and arousing to her at the same time. As you “threaten” her and she begs for mercy, she will be getting more and more aroused.

 

(7)   Lover’s lane

 

You and your partner will find a place around your town where you can park and not be bothered. One of you will pretend to be a virgin and have no idea on how to please the other. After you have parked, the supposedly ignorant one will be told and show in explicit details in how to please him/her. This can help couples that are struggling with their sex lives to know each other’s desires better.

 

(8)   Let her dominate you

 

She will tie you up with scarves, belts or a silk tie. This is a good chance for her to touch you the way you like. If she is not sure, this is a great time for her to figure out by herself. Through asking questions, listening and observing your response, she will get to have a better understanding of what arouses you a lot.

 

Another way is she will blindfold you and then tease you all over using a series of sexy objects such as caressing your penis with a silky thong, drizzling chocolate sauce over your chest and then lick it up, rolling a beaded necklace over your upper thighs. You will guess what she is stroking you with, and she will stick to a particular item until you give the right answer.

 

So, what are you waiting for? Switch off your phones and use these tips to give you a long lustful night of teasing and pleasing. For more ideas to have great sex, you can read on more from Fun Sexy Games and Turn Your Household Items Into Love Props.

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Naughty Games To Spice Up Sex

 

 

 

 

 

Are you feeling that your sex life is a bit boring? Are you looking for ideas to make a hot sex life even more scorching? It is therefore very important to add some variety to your everyday sex life to make it enjoyable and spicy. Adding sex games to your sexual repertoire can really turn the heat up in the bedroom. At the same women also like creative things to make life interesting.

 

The main aim of playing bedroom games is to keep sex fun and therefore winning is not the priority. Avoid setting very tough rules to spoil the mood. Both of you should make some common rules which are equally applicable to both partners to avoid either party being hurt physically or mentally.

 

Here are lists of the sex games ideas you can try tonight.

 

(1)   Strip dice

 

One of you will roll the dice to start the game. On each player’s turn, the one who is not rolling the dice will guess whether the roll of the dice will be higher or lower than the previous one. If the guess is incorrect, then the person will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(2)   Strip ping pong

 

Arrange six 16-ounce plastic cups in a triangle shape at either end of the table and grab some ping pong balls. You stand at one end of the table, with your partner at the other. Both of you will take turns to throw a ping pong ball into the cups at the opposite end of the table. The one who scores will get the right to demand the other to remove that cup and a piece of clothing. The first person to land a ball in all six cups gets to request a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

(3)   Taste, touch and guess

 

Get some honey, syrup, yogurt or other food items of similar textures. Put some of it on part of his/her body or you can use more than one kind on different parts. The other partner is blindfolded and he/she has to explore the body, to seek out the food and identify it only by taste and touch. The blindfolded party can do this with his/her hands or mouth or both.

 

(4)   Guessing game

 

Get naked, blindfold your partner and then play with his/her body. Start the touching from the shoulders, arms, legs, head and feet. Then go for the erogenous zones like chest, belly, neck, lips, back, buttocks, inner thighs and genital region. Give him/her all sorts of sensations to the skin and let him/her make a guess what items you are using to touch his/her body. You can use things like your lips, breath, tongue, hand, fingers, genitals, breasts, feather, silk scarf, ice cubes, and fruits and so on. If the guess is correct, he/she can demand certain sexual favor from the “touching” partner.

 

(5)   Bondage teasing

 

One of you will tie the other one to the bed or a chair and then take full control. You can liven up the atmosphere with some sexy background music. The one who is in control can keep some clothes on for a little while to start with, and perform a sexy striptease or lap dance for some extra fun. This will be followed by some teasing and playful touch on the submissive party, using some props such as a soft scarf, a vibrator, ice cubes, etc.

 

(6)   Kinky cards

 

Get a deck of cards and assign each suit a different sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs are manual stimulation and spades mean oral. Take turns picking cards from the stack and treat each to the sexy move being drawn. The numbers on the cards represent how long you have to perform each act. If you get the nine of diamonds, he/she has to give you a sensual massage for nine seconds. If your partner picks the five of the spades, you will have to give him/her a five-second oral pleasure.

 

(7)   Hands off

 

You can try this creative sex game immediately tonight because it is simple, fun and you do not need to get anything or use sex prop. Start with some foreplay, like giving each other oral sex and move on the real deal when you are hot, wet and ready. The trick to this sex game is that both of you can never use your hands on each other when performing any sexual acts – no hand job, no fingering her, no grasping of her hips while you enter her, etc. The first person to accidentally use his/her hands loses and the other person can demand a sexual favor of his/her choice.

 

If you really love your partner, then you should try to be creative in your sex life. Besides breathing new life into boring sex, playing sexy games can help to find a lot about your partner (even his/her darkest desires) without having to prod him/her for information. Therefore, use these sex games to bring you closer to your partner.

 

If you are keen for more ideas to spice up sex, you can read on further from Fun Games To Play In The Bedroom and Creative Plus Erotic.

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How To Keep It Hot In Bed

 

How to Keep It Hot In Bed
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Are you tired of doing the same old thing in bed? Are you getting bored with just having the normal sex and want to spice it up a bit? If you are looking for ways to reignite that spark in the bedroom, here are some tips you can consider.

(1)   Fantasize sex

 

It can be quite stressful to behave yourself in a way that everyone expects you for 365 days in a year. How about shedding your everyday self and be someone different, exciting, crazy or naughty? This is a way for you to add some excitement to any bedroom activity you undertake.

 

Role-playing or game-like fantasies are great tools to help couples to awake their creativity and imagination. The beauty of role-playing is that you can be anyone you want to be, or anyone your partner has always desired. Have a nurse and doctor story, a school girl and teacher story, or play out any fantasy you can think of. Start out with something simple and work your way into more complex role-playing as you and your partner become more comfortable.

 

As your comfort level increases, you can experiment with some light bondage or S&M (sadomasochism).It is a fantasy-based type of role-play in which leather and restraints are often used. The idea of leather, bondage and control can be erotic for many people. However, it is important to make sure both parties enjoy these type of sex games and that each person in the relationship is comfortable with bondage or S&M role-playing.

 

(2)   Do something different

 

There are many things you can explore in the bedroom. One of which is romantic body painting. Lay out some plastic sheets on the floor or bed and get a variety of colors of washable paints. Crayola makes the best washable paints. Then you treat each other’s body like a canvas.

 

Another way to stretch the body paint idea is to fill each cup with the flavors of the pudding both of you like. Then you use the pudding to finger-paint each other’s body. When both of you are finished with the painting, you take turns to lick off his/her artwork.

 

You can also play with some strip games or poker games. You get your partner to pick a number between one and ten. Just ask him or her to do it without any explanation. When he or she picks a number, you just tell him or her that he/she loses and orders him/her to take off the clothes. Another way is to play strip dice game. One of you will roll the dice to start the game. When comes to each player’s turn to roll the die, he or she will guess whether the outcome or score is higher or lower than the previous one. If he/she guesses wrongly, then he/she will have to remove one item of clothing. The die is then passed to the other player.

 

(3)   Add in some sex props

 

Variety is the spice of life. How about adding in some sex toys into your bedroom so that sex is no longer boring and mundane, but exciting and something you want more often? Toys are a great way to focus on your partner and prolong the foreplay time, which is something that may be missing in your bedroom time.

 

You can also improvise by using things you can find in your house. Stack up the pillows in a way to provide support as well as better access or entry. Another way to use a pillow or a specially-designed love cushion is to support her pelvis for rear entry positions. To enhance the sensation, you can use a vibrating pillow in this position which gives the added bonus of stimulating her clitoral area.

 

How about standing on a stair, a stool or a couch to get into the perfect position? Get creative with what you have! This kind of variety in your sex life is a healthy and fun way to keep things hot in your relationship.

 

So, if nothing interesting is happening any more in the bedroom, take matters in your hands. Rekindle the spark that first brought the two of you together by finding or exploring the things that both of you can try and do. Just be careful if the new activity may lead to injuries. Therefore you need to have a pre-agreed code word to stop any action when the receiving partner feels uncomfortable with it.

 

Communication with your partner is the sure way to make sex more exciting. You can find more ideas at Hot Sex and Eternal Flame 

Read – The Bedroom Role Play Sex Guide

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How To Get High In Bed For As Long As You Want

 

 

 

 

Are you having difficulties in trying to get an erection or to stay high? A limp erection can destroy a relationship or complicate it if it is a repetitive occurrence. Your girl friend may assume you have lost interest in her. This can leave you frustrated and both of you may start getting annoyed with each other for no particular reason.

 

But have no worries because this can happen once in a while to even normal and healthy guys. You are probably getting bored of the routine after a few years, even if you have a very attractive partner. Or, you may have performance anxiety issues and feeling very stressful in trying to give your girl a good time. The brain is your main sexual organ. Almost all the time, an erection is all in your head.

 

If you are not suffering from any medical conditions and still have difficulties in keeping it hard, the following ways can help you to keep it up and get you high all the time.

 

(1)   Indulge in your fantasies and talk about them

 

As the relationship matures, you need to come up with new ways to spice up sex. Indulge in something that gets your heart racing and your sex life will get super sexy. You can bring your wildest fantasies alive by talking about them with your partner and acting them together.

 

The way to do is to distract yourself from your little head and use your big head in bed. You can start by talking to her seductively and enticingly by inventing a fantasy in your mind or you can whisper dirty nothings into her ears. Indulging in dirty talk and fantasies can help reignite the pleasure of sex for both of you.

 

(2)   Think and get kinky

 

Sometimes, all you need to bring your little brother up is a whole new sexual experience. Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex when the relationship is starting to slow down in bed. You can talk about your secret fantasies and fetishes with each other and indulge in them.

 

You can have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed. You can take turns applying edible body paint on each other. This can make eating in bed so much more tasty. You can role-play with each other by dressing in character or as other person.

 

Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and light bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think. The world can get dark with blindfolds, but this will open up your sexy imaginative mind. You can mix it all up with some spanking and nibbling or even a handcuff which is a great turn on for bondage sex. Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right place and right time, even pain can be a huge turn on.

 

You can make out or have sex while someone may be around or watching, like on the rooftop or under the stars on a beach or in public places such as restroom, dark corner of a club, changing room in a clothing store, on a flight, a train or a bus that is making the last trip of the day. You can make out on someone else’s bed when you are attending a house party or when a wedding celebration is going on. You can finger her under a restaurant. But just make sure that the table-cloth is big enough to cover your indecent public act.

 

(3)   Do not get too focus on your little head

 

What you should do is to concentrate on satisfying and pleasuring your partner. When you spend too much time pondering over how erect you are, you can kill the fun which will in turn kill your erection. Talk with your partner to explore ways she likes best to please her. During foreplay when you touch her, observe closely her reactions and her body signals which can help you to identify her highly sensitive spots.

 

Take your time and do not rush. This is because foreplay always helps a guy to hold on longer. You may think there is no point in doing this but by spending 15 minutes on foreplay before penetration, your little brother will have more time to warm up for the act. Also do not masturbate too often. Though this can be good to control premature ejaculation, but this will not be good if you want to keep it hard for a long time.

 

These are the 3 tips to get you started. For further reading on sexuality matters, you can click How To Keep A Hard Erection . For more kinky sex ideas, you can visit Dirty Harry’s Secrets

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What You Ought To Know About Bondage Sex

 

 

 

 

Hitting a sexual low key? Do not worry. There is nothing wrong with you. Are you in the mood to try something different or abnormal tonight?

 

Before you get into some crazy fun, there are some things you should take note.

 

(1)   Discuss with your partner

 

It is best to talk about what you are going to do ahead of the time and be sure that it turns you both on. Discuss with your partner to try the different roles and the different kinds of kinky sex like silks, feathers, spanking, etc. You do not have to tell him or her exactly what you are planning. In fact, sometimes surprises are fun. Of course, you should not do anything your partner hates, either.

 

(2)   Plan ahead

 

For a start, try to keep things simple. You do not need to spend a lot of money. In the beginning, thick yarn is just as good as ropes or chains. Keep a scissors handy so that you can cut the yarn quickly instead of trying to undo stuck knots. Try out your equipment ahead of time. Make sure it can be easily located when in need. If you are trying on these handcuffs, make sure you know where the key is.

 

(3)   Play safe

 

Never cross the line into real pain or hurt. Be sure to agree on a code that mean ‘stop’. If your scene involves gagging your partner, establish another way that the person can say ‘enough’. One way to approach this is to get the gagged partner to hold on a bell or some other object, and drop it if things get to be too much. Never leave a bound or gagged person alone, and never block a person’s breathing passage.

 

(4)   Trust

 

You should not try anything weird with someone you don’t know, or just meet at the pub. This is because bondage sex involves some form of surrender which requires the submission partner to be in a very vulnerable state. Never indulge in sadomasochistic or bondage sex play when you are angry with each other or when your relationship is having other problems which could run over into your erotic games.

 

Here are some abnormal but sexy things you can try on.

 

(1)   Get some toys ready

 

You can easily get some spanking toys inexpensively from a large number of sources. Wooden spoons, paint stirrers and rubber or plastic ice scrapers of the kind you use to clear ice from a windshield all make excellent tools.

Next time when you visit a sex toy store, you can look for some remote-controlled vibrators and butt plugs. You can attach a remote-controlled toy on your partner and then you go out to dinner with friends. During the evening, your friends can swap control of the remote controller device, keeping your partner guessing who is playing with the remote controller.

 

You can get her to wear a dildo vaginally throughout the day even when she sleeps, or the receiving partner get to wear an anal plug as he or she does errands or housework. This makes it impossible for the receiving partner to ignore the penetration, whatever else he or she is doing. This in turn can keep the receiving partner to keep thinking about and consistently crave for sexual stimulation.

 

(2)   Erotic games

 

This can be by means of creating a punishment box. Inside this box is a set of cards, each of which has an erotic punishment written on it. If the receiving partner ‘misbehaves’, he or she has to draw out a punishment card at random from the box. Or, you can get your partner to create the ‘punishment’ cards on his/her own preferably when he/she is aroused because people who are aroused will think of devious things that they will not dream of in a normal state of mind.

 

Of course, the contents of the punishment box will depend on the person involved. Some basic punishments may include not allowing him/her to have an orgasm for the next 2 days, to get spanked or to wear clothespins on his or her nipples for half an hour.

 

(3)   Looking into fetish

 

People who have a particular sexual fixation fall under the category of a fetish enthusiast. The object of sexual fixation can be hands, feet, fingernails, lipstick, women’s lingerie, footwear, glasses, braids, ponytails, pigtails, her urine or pregnant women, etc. Put on a pair of ladies underwear or cross dress if you are a guy or get her to ‘shower’ you with her ‘wet love’ (she urinates on you) if you are game for it.

 

An area where most of us will never end up venturing is the armpit which is praised by fetish enthusiasts worldwide. It may sound weird to you, but some guys claimed that not only they love a woman’s armpit immensely they also prefer that she does not wash the area so as to inhale her natural odor.

 

These are only a few but there are tons of things you can try. The good thing is, when comes to sex, women love to try new things. If she is apprehensive, take the time to discuss her concerns and be willing to slow down. What is needed here is communication and patience. This is the path to good sex.

 

You can explore some more new ideas at Dirty Harry’s Secrets to give her the best sex she never dreams of but always want to have. If you are looking for tools to help you to spice up sex, click on Satin And Scented Bondage Kit.

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