How To Please A Girl With Sensual Massage




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Knowing how to give an erotic massage can make you the hero to some of the women in your life. The proper hand movements and basic technique will draw in women from all around. They can’t wait to let you lay your hands on them. Or, maybe they even allow your hands to explore deeper at other areas on their bodies, if you are lucky. Here is bow to give your girl a full body sensual massage.


(1)   Start with her face


Trim your fingernails and wash your hands thoroughly. You don’t want to accidentally scratch her face with your sharp nails. Make sure her face is washed clean before the massage. When you massage her face, make sure you give each spot at least 5 to 10 strokes to relieve any stress on her face muscles.


Position your two thumbs in the middle of her forehead with the rest of your fingers lying flat on each side of the face. Massage the center of the head with slow circular motion using the thumbs. Use your next 3 fingers beside the thumb to massage the temples of the face.


Next you use your index fingers to massage along the sides of the nose and nostrils. Using your thumbs on the chin as a support, you use the next 3 fingers to massage the cheek bones and the area under the eyes in circular motion. Later on, with the thumbs still under the chin, you use the next 3 fingers to massage along the jaw line starting from the ears to the chin.


(2)   Move on to the neck and shoulders


If she has long hair, you want to make sure that it is arranged in some type of clip. Gently rub the neck from the base of the skull and down to the shoulders with your thumbs in small circular motion. You can slowly increase the pressure. However it will be better to ask her if the pressure is okay. If you have a neck massager, you can rub it up and down the neck or in circles.


Apply some oil on your palms before you firmly grip on her shoulders with your thumbs press on her upper back. Squeeze on her shoulders and release. You do this about 5 to 10 times along the length of her shoulder to release the tension on the shoulder muscles as you move towards her upper arms. You massage each arm in a circular motion as you gently squeeze the bicep muscle. You run your thumb down the center of the forearm, gradually increasing the pressure as you get closer to the wrist. Then you squeeze each of her finger using your thumb and index finger. To relax her finger joints, you gently pull each finger towards you. You repeat the same procedure on her other hand


(3)   Work on her back


Unhook her bra so as not to allow the strap to break the flow of your hand movement as your hands glide towards the lower part of her body. With your hands straight and elbow lock, you start at the lower back and use palms to sweep up and down along both sides of her backbone about 5 times. You switch to using circular strokes to rub sideways starting from the middle of her back to the side as you work your way down to her buttocks.


(4)   Do not leave out the buttocks


This is a part of the body that tends to be overlooked making it a prime massage zone. Since the buttocks are quite fleshy, you can apply greater pressure to this area by pressing your knuckles against it in up and down motion. As you make your way down to her feet, you use your forearms or elbows to press on the thighs repeatedly before you squeeze on the ankles.


(5)   Give her a foot massage


Rub lotion on your hands so they can glide easily across the foot. Rub with your thumbs in a circular motion from the ankles all the way down to the toes. Gently rotate her ankles to relax the muscles there. Squeeze on each toe using your thumb and index finger and then pull each toe towards you to relax the joints there. Holding the foot with one hand, you press the knuckles using the other free hand to apply firm pressure against the sole. You repeat the same with the other foot.


(6)   Massage her breasts


Before you go for her breasts, get her non-piercing nipple clamps to give her both pressure and pleasure. This should be done while you are massaging other parts of her body. This can get her more aroused when you start to grope and fondle her breasts later, as she is more ready to be touched. Besides using your hands, you can suck and lick on her breasts in different directions and patterns, or you can even brush your penis against her breasts.


(7)   You can excite her more


One of the ways is to blindfold (not too tight) her as this will heighten her other senses. This will make her wonder what is coming next and how you are going to surprise her. This can really turn her on a lot as you work your hands over her body. Besides using your hands, you can create different sensation with accessories such as a single feather or any other items you can think of, or even sex toys like a vibrator.


If you are doing the above steps correctly, she should be very hot at this stage and maybe grabbing the area between your legs. The rest is up to you now. Do you want your future bedroom sessions to be 100 times hotter? Click on Pleasure Of Massage and Foreplay Massager

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8 Simple Ways To Turn A Girl On

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There are certain things that women wish men could take note before trying to arouse them. Some women want very much to tell their men what they want but they are afraid that their frankness may hurt their guys’ ego. For many men who wonder why their partners are not so enthusiastic about sex, the followings are essentials you need to pay attention if you want to pleasure your woman sexually.


(1)  Keep it wet


When you and your girl get very aroused and you feel like sliding your naughty little fingers into her “love canal”, always make sure your fingers are not dry. This is because though getting a bit turn on by you, women normally take a slightly longer time to lubricate and your premature action can cause discomfort to her.


(2)  Her neck and ears are very sensitive to your stimulation


You need to be careful and not to look too desperate by immediately grabbing her breasts or sliding your fingers under her panties. It is better to tease her and build up the sexual tension first before reaching for her normal erotic hot spots. She enjoys the feeling of being kissed, nuzzled or licked on her neck. Just be gentle to her when you press your lips or tongue against her neck and you will soon hear her moaning right into your ear. The front of her neck is the most sensitive, but the whole region of the neck is equally great.


Ears are also a highly erogenous area and you can drive her crazy with some breathing, nibbling and licking. The trick is not to focus too long on one particular area. Instead, go from mouth to neck to ear to neck to breast, and so on.


(3)  No need to thank her for sex or after she gives you oral


This will make her feel like you are treating her as a call girl. You can show your appreciation in any other way you like such as: “You gave an excellent lick” or “I enjoy your licking very much.” Instead of going to sleep right away after sex, you cuddle her for a while to make her feel she is not just wanted for sex.


(4)  Delay your own orgasm


A woman expects her man to be patient and make an effort to stimulate her enough before he finishes his job. If you have this problem of ejaculating too soon before she gets wet enough, try to sort it out – go to see a medical practitioner, specialist or sex therapist. You can learn to control your ejaculation by practicing the start-and-stop masturbation technique. You stimulate yourself until you feel you are about to let go, you then stop for a few minutes to cool yourself down, before you resume the next round of self-gratification. You practice this patiently until you can do this alternate start and stop action for up to 6 times within each session.


(5)  Not too long inside her


A woman only wants her man to let go after she reaches orgasm for the first, second or third time. Beyond that she will start to feel discomfort, as the prolonged friction can cause her to get dry again.


(6)  Do not neglect the whole breasts


Most men mistakenly focus on the nipples and neglect the surrounding area. They ignore the fact that the entire breast is an erogenous zone. You can create this sensuous tension and slowly work your way towards the center with your tongue or finger. Circling brings the attention to the nipple, so that when you finally touch it, it will be a great turn-on for her.


(7)  It is better to trim your pubic hair


If you enjoy receiving oral sex, it is advisable to get your pubic hair trimmed. If you are too hairy down there, chances that some of your hair can get into her mouth are higher and this is a big deterrent for her in trying to please you orally.


(8)  She will do anything if you tailor your approach to her preferences


When you suggest something out of the blue or experiment some extraordinary acts on her before you understand her sexuality, you are more likely to turn her off. Where you touch her, how you touch her and how much pressure you use on touching her – for all these, you have to observe carefully her response before you continue with what you are doing. You can ask her questions like:”Do you want me to touch here a bit longer?” or “Do you like the way I touch you?” Once you show her you are taking into full consideration her needs, the chances are higher you can push her sexual experimentation threshold way beyond both of your imagination.


Here are the 8 things women like you to be cleared about and started with before entering the bedroom. It is always better to equip yourself with more than these and you can find out more from Hot Sex and Her Best Lover.

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How To Turn A Girl On – 4 Sex Secrets Every Man Should Know

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Women aren’t always “up front” and honest. In fact, what she is “saying” and what she is saying are often two entirely different things. Sometimes, it can be hard to tell what is going on with your girl: Is she enjoying herself? Are you doing it right? Is she satisfied? Women can be hard to read, especially when comes to sex. So, in this article, I have listed out 4 little known facts about women’s sexual desires.


If you are looking to give your woman explosive orgasm, you should know that female orgasm comes from her mind and not her body. You will say you want to rock her world in bed, not just to make her have an orgasm, but also make her moan and scream that you are the best she ever had. Well, there is a problem here. She could be lying. She could be acting and exaggerating to protect your ego.


How about I share with you 4 little-known facts about what women crave during sex? By using these facts, the woman you are with won’t be able to moan, gasp or fake orgasm. Because she will be too busy trying to catch her breath and begging for more.


Sounds great? Let’s begin.




Sex isn’t a race. For a woman, foreplay is important.


Here are 6 steps to Great Foreplay:


(1)   Kiss her passionately


Cup her ace in your hands, look in her eyes for two seconds and then kiss her. While you are kissing her, don’t shove your tongue down her throat at any time. Periodically lick her lips and massage her tongue with your own. Slowly move your hands to the back of her hair and grab onto it firmly from the roots. Keep kissing her and slowly move your hands around her body in order to let her experience different sensations simultaneously. But don’t touch her breasts or vagina just yet.


(2)   Remove her top slowly


Taking off her clothes is a turn-on for both of you. But when you undress your woman, don’t rip off her clothes – save that savage behavior for another day. Tonight, you are going to slowly unbutton her clothing, but leave her bra on. Work your mouth around the outskirts of her bra and kiss her breast from the top and the sides. As well, lightly run your finger tips over her rib cage and waist. When you are ready to take off her bra, let your mouth glide over her nipples, but don’t suck or lick them yet. Your objective is to tease her and this is just the beginning.


(3)   Massage her gently


After you have removed her shirt and bra, kiss her as you did before, but this time, work your hands behind her back. Use your hands to massage her back from the bottom to the top and back down again. Then work your hands up her sides and make your way down to her butt.


(4)   Sex her dryly


Leaving your pants on (and hers too), put her down and slowly place your body over hers. Next, begin mimicking the motions you do as if you are penetrating her. This is to get her imagination and juices flowing. Again, kiss her gently, place your hands under her shoulders and hold onto them as you thrust like you are making your way inside her. If you are erect, it will be even better. She will feel your solid member and imagine what is coming next.


(5)   Undress her quietly


Now is the time to take everything off. Every time you remove an item off her clothing, kiss and lick that body part. Don’t rush through the undressing process; take your time and make sure to show her that you appreciate her body. When you are done, undress yourself slowly and lie next to her.


(6)   Rub her teasingly


Let only the head of your penis slide in “accidentally”  and continue rubbing her labia and clitoris. When she finally begins to beg you to get inside, the foreplay ends and the finale begins.




This applies to sex, just as well as it does to dating. The key to remember is that she wants to feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. Deep down, she has the desire to be wanted by you. So when you are together with a woman, alone and naked, the most important thing you need to remember is to FOCUS.


Enjoy every feeling, touching and sensation you can and get yourself totally immense in the moment. In order to really turn her on, and make her go wild, start paying attention to the following 5 little details.


(1) Observe her breathing


When a woman is turned on, her breath comes in urgent puffs and probably has some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breath change, you are on the right track. If you feel her heart thumping, you are well on your way. This is her sexual body language giving you signals that she is aroused. However, if she is breathing normally after having her “big orgasm”, perhaps she is a big faker.


If your girl is curling her toes and rolling her body against you, chances are she is probably enjoying herself. Her rubbing and pushing against you means that she is really getting into it. If she is lying there limp, then things probably aren’t happening for her. Trying changing positions, or stop entering her and warm her up with your mouth or hands and see how her sexual body language progresses from there.


(3) Thrusting hips


When she meets your thrusts, you are doing something right. It is pretty safe to say that she is matching your body movements and is in time with you, she is getting something out of it. Good sex is often synchronized. If she is not meeting your thrusts then her sexual body language is telling you that she wants something else, so change positions and sees how she responds.


(4) Arms splay out


If she is comfortable, she shouldn’t be worried about covering herself up or where her arms are. If her arms are stretched wide, either held out to the side or splayed out on the bed sheets, you can bet her sexual body language is telling you that you are right.


(5) Vaginal muscle movement


With each movement inside of her, you can feel the walls of her vagina, the muscles and flesh. The vagina wall is an incredibly strong muscle and she will probably use this to some extent for her pleasure during sex. You may also feel the contracting and relaxing during orgasm – her vagina spasms and this will clench you to some degree – but not always, so don’t use that as a benchmark. If you don’t feel any clenching, don’t panic. You may know already by the feel of her vagina when she is not far away from orgasm – she may let you enter further, or the overall sensation may be “just right” for you both. Only you can tell, so pay careful attention to her sexual body language and what is going on inside her.




A woman’s orgasm is 90% in her mind and only 10% in her body. A recent psychological sex survey says up to 99% of all women’s orgasms start in her mind and not her body. Therefore if you want to rock her world in bed, you have to rock her world out of bed first! The most effective way to do is to have tons of sexual tension in your conversation with her. You can “force” her to imagine you two in bed together, while you are having a casual conversation over dinner. Because sexual tension is powerful, it over-rides her logical brain, and triggers her raw, lust-driven animal desires. So she can’t help herself around you. You can also start “warming” her up by touching some sensitive parts of her body (but not breasts or vagina) which I have mentioned in my previous article Where To Locate Her Sexually Sensitive Points.




The final sex secret you should know is Dirty Talking.


Here are 2 central “themes” of dirty talk, you can use to drive her wild.


(1)   Possession


A possession theme is basically talking dirty to her, but always using the word “My” as if she belonged to you.


An example: My body is so beautiful when she comes.


The 2nd theme for dirty talk is:


(2)   Dominance


Being in control is the most important in a relationship with women. Be the man in charge. If you want her to do something for you, let her know and ask her to do it. If you want to change positions, toss her around and change them. Doing a little rough-housing and man-handling her in bed will make her go wild. Dirty talk that lags out in detail what you are doing to her will drive her wild.


So, there you have it. The 4 sex secrets you should know. Do you want to know some more. Come and take a look at Hot Sex and Her Secrets.



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Sex Tips – Breast Stimulation Techniques To Turn A Girl On

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Want To Touch Her In Ways That Can Make Her Orgasm Fast?

You have touched her boobs before but she does not seem to enjoy it that much. You know she likes it but it is just the way you do it that does not appeal her much.  What are some good ways to touch her so that she likes it more? Read below.


Compliment Her Assets


According to a UCLA study, women unhappy with their breast size are 16 times more likely to hide their breasts during sex. Compliment her on how her breasts feel early in foreplay will heighten her responsiveness to stimulation.


To maximize your arousal, have her stretch during missionary-position sex, by straightening her arms above her head. Anything that makes her appear long and lithe will flatten her breasts and stroke your primal urges.


Start Slowly And Gently


Women love a man with a slow hand.  Do not be in a rush while fondling breasts. When fondling her breasts, do not be rough. Start with a soft and gentle touch. The breasts are usually very sensitive and strong or forceful squeezing may be painful or a big turn-off for a woman.


Handle them as if they were fragile at first and then increase the pressure as the fondling continues. Take your fingertips and gently run them all around her boobs. Start out slowly as if you are trying to tickle her boobs but with the force of making her giggle.


Cup And Caress


Touching her breasts is obviously a go-to move in the sack, but you have to make sure you are doing it right. Do not go straight for the nipples. This is especially so if she has just given birth. Her nipples will be tender, so focus on the breasts’ undersides, which are frequently neglected.


Gently cup and support her breasts in the palm of your hand from underneath. Apply slight pressure in an upward motion, feeling the weight of the breast in your hand. Very lightly squeeze the sides with your fingers.


Indirect Approach Works Best


The best way to fondle her nipples is to stimulate her entire breasts and work your way down to the nipples. The trick is to tease her until she cannot take it anymore. It will heighten the feeling you give her when you finally do decide to fondle her nipples.


Do you know that the areola—the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple—is actually more sensitive than the nipple itself?  So, focus especially on the upper quadrant of her breast, between 10 and 2 o’clock. It is the most sensitive part of the bull’s-eye.


Adjust Your Touch According To The Breast Size


Generally, large breasts are harder to stimulate. According to a research done by the University of Vienna, large breasts are about 24% less than sensitive than small ones. This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched. Stimulate the outer sides of her breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips. Make flipping motions with your tongue and even experiment with light nibbling. 


On the other hand, small breasts are easier to stimulate. This is because they are so small and the nipple is not far away from the boob. Gently place her boob in your hand and squeeze and rub up and down in a circular motion.


Use Nipple Clamps


To better prepare her for nipple stimulation, you can have her wear those non-piercing nipple clamps for hours before you fondle her breasts. This can make her more aroused when you first start groping and fondling, as she is more ready to be touched. This can definitely enhance animal pleasure and excitement for both of you.


Handle Her Nipples With Care


This is especially so if her nipples are big. Because big nipples have more nerve endings, they tend to be quite hypersensitive. Therefore do not be too aggressive when applying pressure. Use your index finger and your middle finger to make the nipple hard. Place the nipple between the two fingers and gently but softly pull forward stretching the nipple. This will help the nipple to become stimulated and become hard for you to suck on.  


Start Sucking


Let your lips and tongue go to work on her nipples. Pull on them with your lips. Wrap your tongue around them. Target the left boob first because generally speaking the left side of the body is less sensitive than the right. This applies to right-handed people. With left-handed women target the right side first.


While sucking on one nipple, you can use your hand to gently squeeze the other one. Pay attention to her responses and act accordingly. Ask her what she likes. If she likes her boobs sucked a certain way or find it a turn on by the specific way you touch them, and then follow what she says.


Do not forget to show your girl how much you are enjoying fondling her. Look at her sensually and let out little pleasure moans as you fondle her breasts with your hands, lips and tongue. Just knowing that you are enjoying yourself will get her even more aroused.


For more ideas and tips to arouse her and make sex fun and exciting for the both of you, click on Great Sex Guide.



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Sex Tips – How To Turn A Man On Enough For Him To Get Hard

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How to turn a guy on? What are the things that are hot and sexy to him? What can really get him excited about you? If you want him to get hard down there and become the best he has ever had, then put the following tips into practice.


(1)   Sexy Dressing


Guys get turned on by a girl who wears matching clothing that can accentuate her body curve. Just watching a girl’s breasts take shape in her perfectly fitting tight top is a definitely turn on for any guy.


The art of seduction is not about revealing all, but knowing how to cover it all and yet make a man feel like he has seen it all.  Guys love it when a girl wears sheer clothes that are so thin and flimsy that all they need is a light source on the other side to see every curve on her body through the light.


You can turn up the heat by adding some sexy lingerie. Pick up some really sexy lingerie in bold colors, like red or black. Bold lacy or satiny lingerie is an instant turn on for any man, just as long as you know how to bend when he is watching you.


(2)   Play The Teasing Game


Guys are surprisingly touchy between the sheets, and teasing a man makes every touch sensational. Begin by telling him that he cannot touch you, but that you can touch him. Instead of heading straight for his package, mix up your sexual touches such as hard massage, long nail strokes, surprise pinches, all over his body to pique his pleasure.

Slowly head downtown with playful licks that start at his chest and move down his stomach. Trace your fingers up and down his torso as you kiss in circles around his groin and inner thighs but do not touch his penis. To make this even more arousing, you can use the locks of your hair to stroke and tickle his hot body. He will soon be begging you to take him into your mouth.


You can take this one step further by wearing some clothing that is revealing, but that covers up some of your best bits. As things get going, leave on one item of clothing. Pulling your thong aside for him to enter you torments him because he cannot see every last inch of your body. It also creates the kind of have-to-get-you-now urgency that is just so hot.


(3)   Arouse Him Seductively

You wake him up in the morning by brushing your bare boobs against his back. Once in a while, you join him in the shower wearing a white tee and nothing else. Once you get soaked, he will get a front-row seat to a hot wet T-shirt contest.  


While you’re both at work, text him a picture of how hot your bare legs can look in your new heels, or you send him a text that says, “I want you in my bed when I get home”. 


When you are watching TV together, drape your body across his lap with your stomach facing the sky. Then, arch your back so that your boobs stick out. He won’t be able to keep his eyes away.  


When the TV show is over, you can sit on his lap. Try it. As long as you sit in the right place, you will feel something hard forcing its way up in less than a minute, even if the guy is trying hard to concentrate on losing the erection.


Cook dinner in a tight pencil skirt, heels, and a see-through blouse with a sexy black bra underneath. Do not let him touch you until after you eat. 


(4)   Surprise Him Sexually


Sometimes your man may feel like he wants sex more than you, so why not make him feel wanted by surprising him? Surprise your man with a few sexy tricks up your sleeve and he will love you for it.


Give him a good reason to get up in the morning. Wake him up with your mouth. No guy will turn down a morning blow job. When you and your guy are just relaxing in a sofa watching TV, surprise him by unexpectedly stripping and masturbating while he watches.


You can give him some unexpected cool treatment down there. You pop a simple pair of silky panties in the freezer a day before you are ready for action. Then loosely wrap the icy fabric around his package and gently slide it up and down. The coolness combined with the satiny smooth texture provides a surprising sensation.


But you have to act fast when you do this because the heat coming off from your man’s below-the-belt region can cause the panties to return to normal temperature soon. So once the panties hit room temperature, go the opposite route and really warm things up. Then use it to rub his member in an up-and-down motion. Not only is the warming sensation soothing, but it also brings the blood flow to his groin area, increasing his arousal.


When you give him oral sex, you slide a finger into your mouth and tickle his penis at the same time you are stimulating him with your lips and tongue. It is an unexpected new sensation for him.


(5)   Be Sexually Confident


A sexually confident girl is a huge turn on for any guy. Getting the opportunity to date a girl who can take control and dominate him in bed is a fantasy that all men dream of.


You do not need to do it all the time, but an occasional romp where you play the mistress can work wonders in turning him on. Hold him by his hair and push him down, spank him, and command him to do your bidding.


Take the lead in bed and show him your moves. Missionary is cozy and loving, but having other positions and tricks up your sleeve will only turn him on more and desire you more.


Gone are the taboos of having a vibrator in your bedroom arsenal. You can bring in some sex toys to spice things up. Many stores sell sex toys that you can see and buy in person. If you still are a little shy, thousands of online stores have these toys for you to browse and buy online with complete privacy. Whether you shop in person or online, there is literally an endless amount of products to choose from.


You can try one or all of these tips at the same time. The point is for you to choose what you like and what makes your love life better. Just by showing you care by going the extra mile will excite your partner. For more tips and ideas to turn a man on, you can click on Drive Him Wild In Bed




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