Can Circumcision Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

 

 

 

You want your girl to have the best sex. You want her to experience intense orgasm. You can last long with hand job but when it comes to actual intercourse, you ejaculate under a minute. You find this so frustrating and embarrassing. You want to consider circumcision because you think the problem is due to your too sensitive foreskin which prevents you from lasting longer in bed? Is it true that circumcision can reduce or cure premature ejaculation?

 

It is true that an uncut penis is often more sensitive than that of a circumcised penis. The main reason is that as the glans, or the head of a circumcised penis gets used to constant rubbing against the fabrics, without the protection of the foreskin, it will become less sensitive to sexual stimulation. Due to this reason, a circumcised male is likely to take a longer time to ejaculate. To a certain extent, this happens to accidentally cure premature ejaculation.

 

However, there is still no convincing evidence to suggest that circumcision can make a significant difference to the time it takes for a man to ejaculate. A research done by the Journal of Sexual Medicine indicates that rates of premature ejaculation in the US (where over 70% of the males are circumcised) are similar to other parts of the world where circumcision rates are significantly lower. Though circumcision can to a certain extent reduce sensitivity (because a lot of nerve endings are removed with the foreskin), however it does not necessarily increase the time a guy takes to ejaculate.

 

How To Reduce Or Cure Premature Ejaculation?

 

(1)   Choose sex positions to help you last longer

 

(a)   The woman-on-top position

 

You will lie down on the bed and she will sit on top of you. She can either face you or her back towards you. When she is on top, you can ask her to slow down to avoid stimulating you too much.

 

Instead of lying on your back, you can sit face-to-face with your partner sitting on your laps. She will adjust her lower body to facilitate penetration. This position improves intimacy with your partner because you can kiss her, rub her back and suck or fondle her breasts.

 

For a change, you can also sit with her back facing you so that you can fondle her breasts while you penetrate her.

 

(b)   The side-by-side position

 

Both of you will lie on your side facing each other. She will lift up her leg to facilitate penetration. In this position, penetration will tend to be shallower, increasing the likelihood of better clitoral stimulation. With shallower thrusting, the sensation will not become too overwhelming for you.

 

(2)   Focus on her pleasure

 

In my opinion, the best way to cope with premature ejaculation is not to think about how long you should last inside her. Instead you divert your attention to her. You focus on pleasuring her. You make sure she orgasms first before you ejaculate. For most women, the easiest and most effective way to make her orgasm is to stimulate her clitoris.

 

You can do this by using your hands to masturbate her. Since most women love oral sex, you can use your tongue to lick her clitoris. If your hand or tongue gets tired before she orgasms, you can continue to stimulate her by using a vibrator plus other fun aids.

 

These are just two of the many ways you can do to delay your ejaculation. For more ways to control premature ejaculation, read on more from Long Sex and/or Prolonged Pleasure.

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Female Orgasm – How To Arouse A Woman In Romantic Ways

 

 

 

 

 

How to arouse a woman? How to make her wet? How to get women horny? What are the ways and things you can make a woman sexually aroused? Read below for answers to these questions.

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In order to arouse a woman, you have to make an effort in your foreplay for her. What I mean foreplay here is not just the things you should do in the bedroom before sex. In facts, there are lots of things or preparations you should do. In my definition, foreplay has two aspects. One is the emotional part and the other is the physical aspect.

 

What is emotional foreplay? It is a series of things outside the bedroom that you have to do as a great lover or partner in making her feel totally comfortable with you. It plays an important role in building up sexual intimacy. To be good in your emotional foreplay, you will have to make her feel loved and appreciated.

 

You will treat her as a person you are deeply in love and not just an object or outlet to vent your sex needs. You have to be romantic by giving her pleasant surprises which can be some small gifts (which she has always wants) or in the form of gestures. When you are not with her, you can romance her with sms text messaging.

 

Communication and emotional connection are both very important foundation for a strong relationship. You need to be patient and listen to her without interruptions her needs, wishes, concerns and problems.

 

You must first resolve any underlying issues outside the bedroom if you want to have a great sex life. If she is not so keen in sex, you have to find out the reasons. Sometimes, she may be troubled by certain conditions such as vaginismus (painful intercourse) or excessive and colored vaginal discharge. Besides getting her to seek medical treatment, you can search online for some self-help guides on vaginismus cure and how to treat yeast infection.

 

Once you have taken care of the emotional aspect of the foreplay, you can now work on physical aspect of the foreplay. In order to be effective in pleasing and teasing your woman, you will have to take things slowly. The longer you build anticipation, the more pleasure she feels when you reach her hot spots. You do this by deliberately leaving out her most obvious erogenous zones (nipples, clitoris) initially and instead spending more time on her less obvious ones which can be more sensitive to stimulation during the early stage of foreplay.

 

To make it sensationally intense for her, you can practice some light bondage by way of blindfolding her. As she is not going to know where you will be touching her next, this can be very arousing to her. In touching her, you can impress her with your creativity. There are many things in your house that can be used as sex tools. For example, you can use lightly stroke her with light feather that can be very ticklish and arousing. While touching her, you can either sweet talk or dirty talk to her.

 

At this point, your main aim is to give her pleasure and make it mutually enjoyable. Though it is best to give her an orgasm, you should not make having an orgasm the main goal for every intercourse session. This will put undue pressure on your woman, making it difficult for her to achieve orgasm.

 

There is no one-size-fit-all way in arousing a woman. You have to customize or make special adjustments to the sexual techniques you master, in order to be effective in helping her to have the best orgasm she ever gets. You have to pay attention and observe how her body reacts to your move and touch.

 

Does she put her arms around you or caress you when you touch or penetrate her? If this happens, this means you are doing the right thing. Does she push you back or cover herself up? If this is so, you will have to make changes in your moves. Does she synchronize her movement with yours such as moving her hips in time with your thrust? If this is so, this means she is enjoying what you are doing to her. Does her breathing get more rapid? This is often a sign of she is quite close to orgasm.

 

How do you know if she is aroused enough? When she is wet down there, does this mean you can stop your foreplay? Many guys have this wrong assumption that when a woman is wet, this means she is ready for sex. Well, this is not so. When she is lubricated, it means her mind is starting to get sexual but still far away from the stage when she is about to orgasm. A clear sign of her been highly-aroused is when you see her vagina swollen or bulging due to increased blood flow to this region. You will see her clitoral hood covering her clitoris in contrast to the beginning when the clitoris is partially-exposed.

 

Though every woman is different, but for most women, the most effective way to arousing them is by way of clit stimulation, which is the easiest and best way to female orgasm. You can stimulate her clitoris by your hands, your mouth and tongue, your sex organ and sex toys. The best way is to let her have her first orgasm through clitoral stimulation before you enter her. She will then be very sensitive to your subsequent moves and will be able to achieve multiple orgasms.

 

What I suggest is 60% of your effort will be what you should do to please her when outside the bedroom. Once you do this well, you can be very sure, she will be very receptive to what you are going to do her in bed.  This is 60% emotional (laying the foundation) and 40% physical action in the bedroom.

 

For more ideas to make a woman want you, read on more to discover the Secrets of Female Orgasm and to find out What She Wants.

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Guide For Couples – Best Way To Female Orgasm

 

 

 

 

 

How to turn a woman on in bed? How to please her sexually? How to get an orgasm for your woman in the most effective way? How to increase her chances of having an orgasm? Read on further for answers to these questions.

 

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(1)   Encourage her to do Kegel exercise (to make vagina tighter)

 

Kegel exercise, also known as pelvic floor muscles training, is done to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which support the uterus, bladder, small intestine and rectum. Kegel exercise is helpful for women who want a tighter vagina. The exercise is widely used as a standard technique to help women who have orgasm difficulty.

 

First she has to identify the right muscles to squeeze and let go. Ask her to slip one or two fingers inside her vagina. Get her to squeeze the vaginal wall muscles against her fingers. If she feels her fingers been squeezed, she is exercising the right muscles for the Kegel exercise. She has to do this squeeze and release exercises a few times a day. This exercise is very convenient because she can do this at any place and any time she wants.

 

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To help her in doing kegel exercises, you can get her some tools such as kegel exerciser, vaginal tightening cream, Ben Wa Balls or a dildo. You can also go online to get her a self-help book on vagina tightening.

 

(2)   Train yourself to last longer in bed

 

The reason you need to do this as a guy is because women tend to take a longer than men to reach orgasm. Here are a few ways you can go about in getting you to last longer than your woman in order to make sure she orgasms before you.

 

You can also do Kegel exercise which is good for your sexual health. This exercise is very helpful for men who men who experience premature ejaculation. Besides helping men to last longer in sex, this exercise is been used to achieve a stronger erection.

 

To do Kegel exercise, you will contract the muscles below the bladder that control urination. You do this for a slow count of five. Then you release the muscles to a slow count of five. You repeat this for ten times in each session. Each day you do three sessions, one each on the morning, afternoon and evening.

 

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Another way is to master the start-and-stop masturbation technique. You stroke yourself until you are quite close to ejaculation and then stop to cool it off. After another minute, you repeat this start-and-stop action. You do this for six times on a daily basis. You should start to see results after four to six weeks.

 

You can try the penis-grip method by squeezing the penis head with your thumb and forefinger. This will push blood out of the penis and momentarily reduces sexual tension and slows down the ejaculatory response.

 

You can also get a fleshlight (male masturbator sleeve) which is shaped like a flashlight, with its long handle and a wide base at the other end. To use a fleshlight, you insert your penis into the opening and simply stroke up and down. Because the fleshlight is designed to emulate a real vagina as much as possible, repeated usage can help to lessen the sensitivity of the penis tip. This will help you to delay ejaculation.

 

When you are quite close to ejaculation during intercourse, you can apply pressure on the perineum (the mid-point between scrotum and anus). This will stop ejaculation because this spot reaches through to the prostate gland which expands and contracts to force out seminal fluid.

 

Other ways are gently pulling down on your scrotum and doing shallow penetration (not more than three inches inside) during intercourse.

 

(3)   Clitoral stimulation

 

Most women do not reach orgasm through vaginal penetration. This is because the normal missionary position does not offer much opportunity for clit stimulation. The following are a few ways to stimulate the clitoris.

 

(a)   Manual stimulation

 

First, you get some lubricant to apply over your fingertips and clitoris. You place your index and middle fingers close together over the top of her clitoris and rub her in circular motion.

 

You can also squeeze the clitoral hood with your index and middle fingers and gently rub it up and down at a consistent speed.

 

You can also place a thumb over the clitoral hood. To secure this position, you insert tow fingers inside her. You massage her clitoris using your thumb in a circular motion.

 

(b)   Oral stimulation

 

For the start, you will spend more time licking and kissing her inner thighs, the lining along the vaginal lips and the area surrounding her clit. When she is quite highly aroused, you will concentrate more on licking her clitoris. You can also add a little more pressure by placing her clitoral hood between your lips and sucking on it. If she is able to take in more, you can lift up her clitoral hood to directly lick and suck on the clit. You can vary your touch according to her preference. Some prefer a light touch while others require a firm but gentle touch.

 

( c) Sex toys

 

You can also include the use of dildos, vibrators and butt plugs. Some sex toys are designed with clitoral stimulation in mind. These include the rabbit vibrator which has flap that can knead the clitoral region during penetration. The clitoral massager is also an ideal tool for offering the pleasure she needs for toe-curling orgasms. Other fun aids to use for oral sex are edible panties, tie and cuff set, flavored gels and role-playing.

 

For more ideas to get your woman the best orgasm, read on more from Hot Sex and Give Her Mind-Blowing Orgasms.

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