How To Get And Use Sex Toys For Beginners

 

 

 

If you have never used sex toys you may find them intimidating. This is especially so for people with little or no sexual experience. You can use sex toys to explore your body before choosing to become sexually active. What are the good sex toy choices for beginners or people who have little or no sexual experience?

 

Penis sleevePenis sleeve

Penis sleeve

This is a male sex toy. It is a tube made of cyber skin or other soft material that slides over the penis shaft and is supposed to mimic the feeling of a vagina or mouth. If you haven’t discovered how really great masturbating with a sex toy is, a penis sleeve is a good choice. Rub a little water-based lubricant on the shaft before you slip your penis through the sleeve and glide it up and down manually. You can get all kinds of sleeves to satisfy whatever desires you have. Some have textured lining for extra stimulation.

 

Penis ring

Penis ring

 

 

The ring works by constricting the flow of blood out of the penis to help the user achieves a firmer or harder and longer lasting erection. For beginners, it is advisable to use adjustable and simple rings. Some rings come with buckles and snaps. If you are using them, just be careful not to let your pubic hair get caught in the snaps.

 

If you are using an adjustable ring, open it up all the way, slip it over the penis and behind the scrotum and then tighten it. Once you have gotten the ring on, you can masturbate all the way to orgasm and ejaculation. If you feel any discomfort, remove the ring. Whichever type of penis ring you choose to use, do not leave it on for more than 20 minutes. Once you are comfortable with using the penis ring on your own, you can let your partner put the ring on you as part of the sex play.

 

Clitoral vibrator

Clitoral vibrator

 

This is the best option for a girl if she does not want to have any insertion at all or does not want to stretch her vagina too much. Women can reach orgasm most often through clitoral stimulation. This is because the clitoris which is packed with numerous sensitive nerve endings is responsible for most female orgasms. In fact, many women prefer clitoral vibrator than other kinds of sex toys because it can provide some of the best orgasms.

 

Small vibrator

Small vibrator

 

This is a good choice for women who are using a vibrator for the first time to insert into themselves. This kind of vibrator is even thinner than a tampon so that it does not hurt when a woman push it into herself. A good thing about small vibrator is that it can fit in the purse so that she can take it with her wherever she goes.

 

Bullet vibrator attaches to penis ring

A more versatile type of small vibrator is the bullet style vibrator which can be placed on the clitoris or in the vagina. Some bullet style vibrators can be attached on penis rings and used for couple’s pleasure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anal plug

Anal plug

 

This is a good choice if you are new to anal sex. Whether you are enjoying anal stimulation during sex or during masturbation, this toy can give you just enough stimulation without being painful. Make sure you apply water-based lubricant on this toy before inserting it into the anus.

 

 

Special toy cleaner

Toy maintenance

 

To keep your toys in proper condition, it is better to clean them with a mild soap or special sex toy cleaner before and after use. Avoid using strong detergents because they can breakdown the toy material. For battery-operated toys, take out the batteries after using them. Rinse water-proof toys with hot water. For those that are electrical or not water-proof, clean them with a soapy wet cloth. Dry them thoroughly after cleaning. Most germs cannot live on a dry surface.

 

Read this a few times before you make any decision about the usage of sex toys. When you are ready for action, you can take a look at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Naughty Jane’s Treasure.

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Which Is The Easiest Way For Female Orgasm To Happen

 

 

 

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When comes to sex, every woman is different. This is because there are several ways in which women can have orgasm. However the easiest way for a woman to reach orgasm is to stimulate the clitoris. Orgasm can occur with or without direct clitoral stimulation, but for many women direct stimulation with fingers, tongue or a vibrator is necessary.

 

The clitoris is not just an external sexual organ. There is more to the clitoris than meets the eye. Most people only think about the tip, but it actually extends deep into the body. It is actually a complex network of nerves that stretch throughout the vagina and up into the body. It is made up of several parts including a hood, shaft, crura (which are extension of the clitoral tissues along either side of the labia or vaginal lips but inside the body) and clitoral bulbs. There are more than 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoral tip. Actually, the much-hyped g-spot is likely to be clitoral nerves surrounding the erectile tissue or female prostate.

 

As a woman becomes more stimulated and turned on, the shaft and the crura of the clitoris becomes engorged with blood. When this happens, the shaft straightens out becomes erected like a penis. In the process, the tip of the clitoris becomes more buried under the clitoral hood. When a woman becomes aroused, she will prefer more direct stimulation on the clitoris. You can get better access to the clitoris by pulling back the clitoral hood.

 

No matter how great you are at stimulating her clitoris, clitoral stimulation works best if she is already aroused. This arousal may be mental or physical or both. Therefore before embarking on any clitoral stimulation, make sure she is already feeling sexy or sexual. She will not appreciate it if you go direct for her clitoris during the initial stage of lovemaking. She needs at least a little bit of warming up to get her blood flowing (to the lower part of her body) before she can get in the mood. Put some effort onto her other erogenous zones by way of touching and kissing. You can start with a sensual massage and gradually work your way down to her hot spots.

 

When you finally reach her clitoris, you should not go directly for it. Instead you start by stimulating the area around her clitoris by massaging the vulva, the area above the pubic bone and the pubic mound. You can begin with light touch or massage-like movements. You can gently massage the area between the vagina and the anus and even the anus. This area is pretty tightly packed with nerve endings and by starting from here; you can create a very pleasurable sense of anticipation of touch to come.

 

It is always best to ramp up the speed and pressure of clitoral stimulation from slow to fast, and from soft to firm. Rubbing the clitoris too fast or too hard can temporarily numb it. If this happens, the clitoris will become insensitive to other kinds of stimulation. You can start slowly and steadily using your fingertips, tongue or toes. As you increase the pressure and speed, you can explore with the different types of moves to see which one she prefers. You can use two fingers to draw circles over the top of her clitoris. Or, you can sandwich her clitoral hood in between your thumb and index finger and rub this area up and down at a consistent speed.

 

You will be interested to know that for some women, the 10 o’ clock or 2 o’ clock positions on the clitoris can be the most sensitive to stimulation. However for others, it makes not much difference in sensation whether you stimulate these two magic spots or other areas. It is therefore better to explore every millimeter of the clitoris to see which spots work best for her.

 

You can also use sex toys to stimulate the clitoris if you want to give your fingers and tongue a rest. Sex toys can be great fun because they can provide strong and consistent stimulation that no body part can.

 

Remember that everyone is different. Try many things to see which ones work best for her. If you need more ideas on how to approach this, you can click Hot Sex and for more help to improve your performance while maximizing her pleasure, you can visit Dirty Harry’s Secrets

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Tried and Tested: Top 4 Sex Toys

With sex toys fast rivalling smart phones in terms of sales, we give you the lowdown on the latest and greatest pleasure toys.

The UK sex toy industry is set to rise to £400 million making a sex toy a must-have accessory.  With celebrities talking candidly about their sex lives and books like 50 Shades of Grey dominating our bestseller lists, we are beginning to view sex as a less taboo subject and are embracing our sexual prowess.

With this in mind, a designer sex toy could be just the thing you need to reignite that flame in the bedroom.  There are also pieces designed with the solo user in mind.

Dildo

Dildo

Lelo is the fashionable Swedish sex toy design house famed for their exciting bedroom accessories and upmarket, pleasure objects with slick, ergonomic, polished designs.  The Lelo Ella Dildo is a smooth, seamless, high-quality bedroom aids.  Designed to provide precise g-spot performance with the sculpted end.  Meanwhile the other end is used to instigate more soothing, conventional stimulation.  Available in variety of vibrant colours, this piece has an exquisite, organic shape.

At only £29, this hotly anticipated sex toy is a great all-rounder.  Providing mind-blowing arousal at a knockdown price, the Lelo Ella Black is an excellent stocking filler this Christmas.

Vibrators

Vibrator

These are vibrating devices, designed to stimulate the body.  With so many exciting designs available on the market, there is something for everyone.  From big pieces to more understated numbers, to internal use or just for external pleasure, there are vibrators for all your needs and preferences.

Whether you are after a curved, straight, long, short, hand-held, battery operated or rechargeable number, there are vibrators to suit all manner of tastes.  Enhance your sexual experience with the new and exciting Fresh vibrator by Leaf.  Featuring a simple leaf structure and sculpted design this waterproof and eco-friendly number is the perfect, guilt-free treat.

Perfect for the amateur sex toy user through to the most demanding pleasure seeker.  The leaf collection includes a number of exciting pieces from Life, Bloom, Vitality, Touch, Fresh and Spirit.  The names of all these pieces are all suggestive of injecting a new lease of life into the user (literally).  Durable, long-lasting and waterproof, these pieces are brightly coloured in a vibrant lime green and are made from 100% silicone.  All Leaf products come in a sophisticated, recyclable cardboard box and a canvas tote bag for storage.  They also have a lithium rechargeable power supply to reduce your carbon footprint.

Fresh is a curved heart shape, which makes it the most charming sex toy I have seen to date.  This fun, fresh and modern piece has the latest technology.  Secreted beneath the surface is the PowerBullet core which is the piece de resistance of this brand.

For such a compact piece, the Fresh has an extensive range of power.  With high intensity vibrations, Fresh will satisfy your needs in a matter of minutes.  This piece is small with a beautiful, elaborate design which is formed to the woman’s body.  Grow your own fantasies with the sensual shape and contours of this stunning piece.

Rabbit

Rabbit


A Rabbit is the ultimate sex toy that every girl should own.  Originally made famous by the ladies of Sex and the City, this intricately designed piece comes in all shapes and sizes.  However the functions which penetrate (excuse the pun!) all the rabbit designs is the clitoral stimulator and shaft which is used to induce intense orgasms.
Whether you want a rechargeable rabbit, battery operated, waterproof or maybe a super-quiet one, there are designs to suit all tastes and preferences.

Vibe Therapy are a leading sex toy brand who specialise in producing exquisite pieces, made from the finest materials with unique, modern and tantalising designs.  They produce a number of rabbit style vibrators.  The Vibe Therapy Jubilation Rabbit Vibrator is a fierce piece of arousal-inducing apparatus.  As the name suggests, this piece is designed to stimulate exaltation and happiness in its user and this is no spurious hype, it actually does exactly what it says on the tin!

Made from medical grade silicone, this is one of the most hygienic and safe materials for internal use.  With 7 massage functions to induce clitoral stimulation, choose from a slow, soothing vibration to a more powerful, faster pulsing sensation.  This piece also has 3 rotation functions to provide heightened pleasure and is celebrated for its extremely precise stimulation.  The clitoral stimulator is designed to nuzzle, probe and massage your clitoris with acute accuracy.

This piece features an understated, polished and stylish design, this piece is visually, less intimidating than other rabbits and therefore may appeal to first-time buyers and is also lightweight, even when batteries are inserted.

Massager

Massager


The Lelo Lily provides intense pleasure at your fingertips.  With 5 sensational modes of stimulation and 10 different speeds, this small, neat design nestles into the user’s hand.  This intimate massager is great for couples.

Available in 3 sexy colours, this piece has a silky-smooth finish and is the ultimate pleasure-inducing massager.

This piece can be used for solo clitoral stimulation as well as for extra stimulation during intercourse with your partner.  The Lelo Lily is exceptionally light and comes with an in built rechargeable battery which will last up to seven hours after being fully charged.

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