How To Turn A Girl On With Erotic Massage

 

 

 

 

 

A sensual massage can create an erotic and relaxing experience for both the person giving the massage and the person receiving it. An erotic massage can relax a woman’s body, mind and spirit through intimate touch which serves to increase her libido. Knowing how to create a truly erotic experience using massage as foreplay will not only get her into the mood and make her orgasm easily, but pretty much guarantee that she will rock your world in return. Use these erotic massage tips to provide the best massage experience that can quickly and easily re-energize you and your partner’s love life.

 

(1)   Create a conducive atmosphere

 

Light some scented candles to set the mood with a soft light and switch off all other lights. Lighting candles can relax the spirit and state of mind. The scent from candles has therapeutic effect that reduces stress and anxiety. Scented candles can add to the effect you are trying to achieve especially if you burn scents like sandalwood, lavender and jasmine. Try playing some of her favorite music in the background. The air conditioner should be adjusted to a comfortable room temperature. It should not be too cold as to make your girl shiver nor too warm to make her sweat. Maintain a nice room temperature will allow your woman to feel comfortable even when she is naked.

 

(2)   Keep her comfortable

 

Make sure your girl is comfortable and the bed is suitable for you to work on. You can provide a soft pillow to have her head relax on it. Prepare for the encounter beforehand by making the bed with soft fabrics. Cover the bed with a large towel to prevent massage oil and lotions from staining the fabric beneath it.

 

(3)   Use some oils and lotions

 

A good sensual massage should involve all the senses, not just touch. Scented oils will include her sense of smell in the experience and enhance the overall massage process. Using massage oil can smooth the glide of your hand against her body and reduce any friction that may cause pain. Some common oils which you can use are sweet almond oil, sunflower oil, avocado oil and grape seed oil.

 

(4)   Start from the top

 

Apply a few drops of massage oil onto your hands and gently rub the neck from the base of the skull using your thumbs in circular motion. Slowly increase the pressure as you rub all the way out to the end of the shoulders. It should be firm, but not too much pressure that it hurts.

 

Then you firmly grip her shoulders right where they meet her neck on both sides. The trapezius muscle in the shoulder is usually affected first during stress. Therefore, this zone may be tenser than other areas of the body. Hence, applying more pressure to this area would be ideal. Press your thumbs onto her upper back. Squeeze her shoulders and release. She should immediately feel a slight release of tension. You continue squeezing and releasing her shoulders as well as applying pressure on her upper back with your thumbs a few times before you move to the upper arms.

 

Apply more oil and begin to softly massage each of her arms. Rub each arm in a circular motion as you gently squeeze the bicep muscles. Run your thumb down the center of the forearm, increasing pressure as you get closer to the wrist. Squeeze each finger and gently pull it outward to relax her finger joints. Apply firm pressure to the palms of her hands using your thumbs.

 

(5)   Work slowly down from her back

 

You can start with an up and down stroke then move on to a circular motion. Lock your elbow to straighten your arm and you lean your body forward as you press your palms on both sides of the backbone. After you press, you release and then you do this action up and down with your palms one to two times along both sides of her backbone.

 

Next you use larger circular strokes with your fingers near to the top of her back and switch to smaller circular strokes near the hip area. Knead on her buttocks using your fingertips. Make a switch to apply pressure using your knuckles up and down the buttocks.

 

When you move to the legs, you apply more oil and rub both legs one at a time. Firmly knead the calves in a circular motion. Then you use your elbow or forearm to press against the thigh as you move further down to the feet to squeeze the ankles.

 

Next you begin the foot massage by squeezing the sole. You use your thumb and index finger to squeeze on each toe. As you move to the tip of each toe, you gently pull on it outward to relax the toe joint. You do the same with the other foot.

 

You will know that you have performed a satisfactory job when your girl craves more of your massage in the future. Want to find some more ways to please her? Go to Foreplay Massager and Pleasure Kit

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8 ways To Rekindle Your Sex Life & Reignite the Magic in Your Relationship

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This article lists out 8 ways for couples to get back the “spark” in their relationship and sex life. The ways include both in the bedroom tips and out of the bedroom actions/gestures. Some of the suggestions need couples to better communicate with each other to understand their needs. It also requires the guys to be sincere in their approach to be effective.

 

Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? What do you do when your sex life takes a dive? You are not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable and as a result can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special. Should you go out and cheat or should you do some research on how to improve your sex life? If you truly value your relationship with your partner you would pick the 2nd choice.

 

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that flame of passion:

 

(1)   Become kids again.

If you and your partner are walking by the park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride.

 

(2)   Fun with water

On a hot day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach. Take them out and pass one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.

 

(3)   Give each other a massage

Take the time to give each other a massage. Try mixing some rose oil with almond oil to make cheap massage oil.

 

(4)   Bring back her fond childhood memories

Contact your partner’s family and ask if there was anything she always wanted as a kid. For example, if she always wanted a Barbie Doll, buy one for her next birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wants.

 

(5)   Do something romantic!

During your picnic at the beach, draw out the shape of a big heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you admire the setting sun. When the night comes, spread a mat on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the mat with your partner and watch the stars together.

 

(6)   Show your partner how much you appreciate her.

Leave a long-stem rose at a place where she could easily find it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”

 

(7)   Give her pleasant surprises

At times, do surprise her with some small gifts or some simple gestures that she will appreciate. This really requires you to be concerned enough to know what she wants. To be effective, you must do this out of sincerity or at the bottom of your heart. The problem with a lot of men is that they only give presents or treat their wives slightly better because they feel guilty over some matters. Needless to say, some wives will suspect their husbands may be cheating on them. Believe me, even if your wife is not as clever as you think, you can’t fool her. That’s why I want to emphasize that the act of giving her pleasant surprises must be done out of sincerity.

 

(8)   Look for ways to spice up your sex life. How?

 

(a)    Changing the place where you have sex.

This is the best way to add spice to your sex life with your partner. After making love at the same old place all the time, you will get bored as time goes on. How about making love at the bathroom, on the kitchen table or at any place where you can have some privacy?

 

(b)   Be a bit more adventurous and try some new sex positions.

It helps to take the time to learn more about the positions of the karma sutra.

 

(c)  Learn how to talk dirty.

Some women get turn on or love it when men talk down and dirty to them. You can find all kind of guides on how to talk dirty in books or you can “google”   for talk-dirty tips from the Internet.

 

(d) Perform oral sex.

Besides genital penetration, there are some other ways to satisfy a woman sexually. Oral sex is one of the ways that can give her great satisfaction. By incorporating oral sex (of course with the consent of your lover) during foreplay, you can “buy some time” to get her to reach orgasm. Men must have the patience and open mind to discuss about oral sex before trying it. They should know how the woman would like him to do it to her otherwise it is not going to help. When giving oral sex to a woman, the man has to understand this is only for the pleasure of the woman so her likes and dislikes are very important. Sometimes men don’t like the idea of giving oral sex to their women because of the smell of vagina, women should understand this and take shower and wash “her area” properly. Doing this properly with patience and mutual understanding can enhance sex life and build a strong relationship.

 

A man-woman relationship is like cultivating a plant. Both parties at times have to play the role of a gardener, regularly provide enough of water and fertilizer that suits the plant, so it will grow, flourish and/or bear fruits.

 

Read on more from Hot Sex and Turn The Heat On for more ideas to improve your sex life.

 

 

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