How To Be Better In Bed

 

 

 

 

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You know of this hot girl and both of you have chemistry for each other. What can you do to please her when the lights are off? You are happily married but sex life of late is getting monotonous. What can you do to spice up sex? Here are some tips to be better in bed.

 

(1)   Be a passionate lover

 

Real good sex is not just about the sexual techniques. It is also about making a woman feel connected to you. Women love to feel special. Go on and make her feel this way. Hold her hand a lot, put your arm around her waist and kiss her passionately on her cheeks, forehead as you hug her or when having sex. This shows affection that women love.

 

Look deep in her eyes when you are about to reach climax. Behave in the way that makes her feel you are more excited to get into bed with her. As much as women love sex, they do not want to have this thinking that they are hunger for sex. If you can condition her into thinking that you desire her more, she will be able to let go off her inhibitions knowing that she is not being viewed as “slutty”.

 

(2)   Good foreplay

 

Every good sexual encounter should start with great foreplay. Do not be hasty to stick it in and climax, like the way you usually do when you masturbate. She is a person. She is not a sex object. Let her get comfortable with you first.

 

To be effective, foreplay should start outside the bedroom. There are two aspects of foreplay – the emotional foreplay and the physical foreplay. When outside the bedroom, emotional foreplay is more important and this requires you to do everything or anything to make her feel good. This should be sincere so as not to make her feel you are doing this for the sole purpose of getting her to bed. To be good in emotional foreplay requires you to be romantic.

 

Romance is something that has to be built and maintained. It cannot happen overnight. You have to find out what is particular romantic for your woman. You can often find out what a woman likes through normal conversation. Pay attention to details. Simple things often matter a lot to women. Romance often means paying attention to the things that a woman really wants and making an effort to provide these things for her. Doing these things unsolicited and often will get more appreciation from her and open her heart in ways that you can never imagine possible. If you are doing the emotional foreplay well, more than half of the “battle” will have already been won by the time you step into the bedroom.

 

When in the bedroom, you can still continue with the emotional foreplay but physical foreplay should start to play a more important role. Turn her on by teasing her. Slide your hand to any part of her body and make her think you are going to touch her specifically somewhere, like her breasts. Then when you are just only a few inches away and she is anticipating it, you pull your hand away.

 

When you are kissing her, you slowly move to her shoulders and slide her clothes back so that you can kiss her shoulder blades. You adjust her bra strap a bit so that you can reach the skin beneath it. Kiss her on areas like her face, ears and behind, back of the neck, collar bone, nape, inside her elbows, wrists, underarm, hips, back of the knees, ankle and  anywhere that is specifically sensitive to her, will make her go crazy.

 

(3)   Be unpredictable and dominant

 

The moment when you feel that things are going in your favor, you proceed into action. When you are confident enough of what you are doing, your woman will find it hard to resist your further move. Be confident but do not forget to make her feel comfortable. Showing her you have the power will make her desire you more. For a change, you can even tie her up and/or blindfold her. Demand her to give you a blowjob or be on top and straddle you. She will most certainly give in if you build up the desire properly.

 

If you want to impress and satisfy her, do not be lazy, just sticking to the same usual positions. Go for variety. Do things differently. Be unpredictable. Vary your speed. Go passionately slow and then pick up the pace. Thrust quickly and then slow down immediately. Switch from gentle to rough; soft to hard; and passionate to plain horny. This will drive her wild and gets her love juice flowing.

 

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How Do I Get Confidence In Sex

 

 

 

 

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When the time comes to having sex, instead of getting aroused, you are completely overwhelmed with anxiety. Even worse is the girl is into you and wanted sex and instead of making her feel comfortable and sexy, you end up being ‘stuck’ in your head with racing thoughts, heart pounding and having a full-blown panic attack. You feel paralyzed in your attempt to make a ‘move’ on her.  This makes you feel down since you do not meet her expectations.

 

Does this sound familiar to you? If it hasn’t happened to you as yet, you are probably aware of a friend or acquaintance that experienced it. There is enough evidence to show that performance anxiety happens to most people, whether they are men or women. But it is definitely the men that suffer the horror of not being able to satisfy their partners sexually either due to not being able to have an erection or feeling that their penis size is not big enough to give women orgasms.

 

So, how do you cope if your main worry is about size? Here are the ways you can make her orgasm easier and more often, even if you are below the average size of 6 inches.

 

(1)   Focus on pleasuring her

 

As guys, we like to assume that a bigger penis will be able to reach more hot spots inside her and this is why women prefer a huge one. In reality, size does not matter a great deal as long as you know what you are doing. Being well endowed do not automatically make you a great lover if you do not know how to please a girl. The most sensitive nerves are on the outer part of the vagina and if you can learn sexual skills to dominate her, these will turn her on many times more than the largest penis could.

 

What you lack in size, you can make up for it by learning how to turn a girl on with masculine dominance. This will include things like –

 

(a)   Talking dirty to her

 

Girls love to hear their partner’s fantasies. It will turn her on to watch you get aroused by what you are describing. A great way to sound sexy and dirty is to describe out loud what is happening during sex, how wonderful it feels in your body; telling her something you are going to do and something you want your lover to do right now. Maintain eye contact as you talk because this can give her extra pleasure. Dirty talk is not just words and phrases, but also about how you say it, which is to use your voice and sounds such as moans, groans, sighs, whispers and screaming. You can sound commanding and harsh, submissive and uncertain and everywhere in between.

 

(b)   Taking the lead

 

You have to know what you are supposed to do, be confident in what you are doing, without asking for her permission. Confidence comes from knowledge which can be acquired in 2 ways. One way is to read widely about sexuality. Another way is to pay attention to your girl to know enough about what she likes and dislikes sexually. Once you are able to know how to please her, you can apply what you have learned wisely by making modifications and adjustments so that you customize or tailor-made your moves to meet her unique needs. During foreplay, you can do a few things to ‘man-handle’ her such as spanking her or lightly biting her neck.

 

(2)   Choose sex positions that can give her g-spot orgasm

 

Here are the 2 positions that can easily make a girl orgasm

 

(a)   Enter her from behind

 

You can penetrate her from behind when she is lying on her side or standing in front of you.

 

(b)   Enter her by standing or kneeling between her legs

 

She will lay on just about any edge big enough with her feet plant on the floor and you penetrate her either by standing or kneeling between her legs. For comfort, you can put pillow under your knees if you choose the kneeling position.

 

Use these 2 tips to overcome your performance anxiety. It may take a little bit of time and effort to purge out those negative thoughts you have accumulated in the past. But once you start the ball rolling, it will pick up speed and you will notice improvement in your partner’s pleasure as well as your own.

 

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