Oral Sex Tips For Men To Get Women Wanting For More

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Cunnilingus, the technical term for performing oral sex on women, can be quite a daunting task for an inexperienced guy. To be an expert on it, you have to be an observant person paying close attention to her body signals (her breathing, her movement, the changes in the color/temperature of her skin, her moaning), willing to experiment, going through trial and error to see what works as well as listen carefully to what she may be telling you. Whatever you do is for your partner in that moment and not based on what you saw in porn, or previous oral sex experiences. If you are looking for the fastest way to get her orgasm, it is through oral sex and not by way of penetration.

 

Here are 8 things to take note when you give her oral sex:

 

(1)   Keep yourself clean

 

You have to wash your hands and cut your nails to reduce the risk of infection on her. Unless she likes the feel of your moustache brushing against her skin, you should shave regularly too.

 

(2)   Coping with her smell

 

Some guys probably cannot bring themselves to face their partners’ genitals because of the smell down there. This can be due to her diet and other factors affecting her chemical makeup. If you are anxious about this, it will be good to have a shower together before you go down on her.

 

(3)   Get yourself familiarize with her body parts

 

Female genitals consist of the external genitals (which are the portion that are easier to see and touch) and the internal sexual and reproductive organs (which you may or may not be able to reach). The most visible part of the external genitals is collectively known as the vulva which includes the mons pubis, the outer and inner labia or lips, the clitoral hood and the vaginal opening.

 

The mons pubis is the area where most of the pubic hair is grown. The outer and inner labia or lips are the 2 “rings” of skin around the opening. The labia will meet at the top of her opening into a little hood that covers the clitoris.

 

The part of the clitoris which can be seen or felt is actually the tip of the clitoris which extends into the body and down in 2 roots to either side of the vagina. When she is fully aroused, the clitoris will look a bit like an erected male organ.

 

(4)   Proceed slowly

 

Most women do not like to be rushed because they need some warming up before they can get into the mood. Though this is all about performing oral sex on her, this does not mean going immediately for her clitoris. You start by kissing her lips, ears, neck and slowly move down to her breasts, licking and sucking her nipples to prepare her for the ultimate stimulation. You will next move to the belly, kissing around her navel before brushing your lips against her inner thighs.

 

(5)   Both of you should be physically comfortable

 

Besides using pillows, you choose an oral sex position that keep both of you comfortable and relaxed allowing you to move around easily. Depending on your preference you can go on your knees to stimulate her with her either standing in front of you, or sitting at the edge of bed or chair.

 

Or, you can get her knees bend or her legs rest on your shoulders. Another way is to position your head at right angle to her genitals so that you will be licking her side-to-side instead of the usual up-and-down motion when you use other oral sex positions. Other option is to get her adopt a squatting position so that the whole area between her legs will be just above your mouth. At all times it is perfectly alright to adjust and switch positions until you feel comfortable.

 

(6)   Do not neglect other parts of her body

 

As the clitoris (the biological equivalent of male sexual organ) is a highly sensitive area, you should not spend too much time licking directly on it. You move your tongue to explore the outer and inner labia. You can glide your tongue further down to the perineum (the area between the anus and vaginal opening) before you return to her clitoris.

 

(7)   Try with different kinds of strokes

 

Most women prefer repetitive motion of the tongue with firm pressure. Quick tongue flicks against the clitoris may irritate some women. It is best to ask about her preference whether she likes your tongue to lick in a circular motion or up-and-down or side-to-side.

 

An alternative good way to gauge her preference is to observe how she masturbates, where she touches, how much pressure she uses on each area and how fast she moves her fingers. You can ask her to place her hand on top of your hand to show you how she likes to be stroked. This should give you plenty of ideas in how you can drive her wild with your tongue and hands.

 

(8)   Maintain a steady space

 

Do not stop half way. If you are tired, switch to using your hand or a sex toy to stimulate her. Some women may need a little bit extra time to get sexually excited and in this case you just have to be patient and not to make her feel pressurized which can dampen her mood.

 

By now, you should have a rough idea about the basics of giving her oral sex. What you need to remember here is to choose a position that is comfortable to both of you, take your time and most important to check with her how she likes you to stroke and lick her. For more fun ideas to spice up your sex life, you can click on Lick Pussy and Oral Kit.

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4 Things Every Man Must Know About Clitoris

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For men, the sexually sensitive zone is quite concentrated on the area below his waist and above his thighs. For women, there is a very broad area which can be considered her pleasure zones. Her breasts, thighs, waist, back of her neck, vagina and even the curves of her body can provide her lots of sexual pleasure when stimulated.

 

However, if you want to be skilful in your bedroom techniques, there are 2 vital areas of her sexual organ that you need to be aware off: the clitoris and the G-spot. By aiming at these 2 pleasure zones, she will have higher chances of enjoying multiple orgasms. Of these 2 erogenous zones, the clitoris is the easiest to locate and stimulate to get her aroused.

 

Here are the 4 things every guy needs to know about the clitoris:

 

(1)   The clitoris is solely devoted for physical pleasure and is the physiological equivalent of the head of the male sexual organ. It is a small protrusion located at just above the opening of the vagina. It is very sensitive to touch because of the rich nerve endings surrounding it. Most women can easily get orgasm by just stimulating the clitoris even without penetration.

 

(2)   As this area is hypersensitive it is better not to apply too much direct pressure when you start to stimulate it. Focusing too much effort on the clitoris can be quite uncomfortable for some women, so you should aim at just below or just above her clitoris. You can start with a light touch on the clitoris and then move to the surrounding area.

 

(3)   Sexual stimulation is largely a mental exercise for women and turning her on requires you to stimulate her brain and not just her body. Whispering sweet things in her ear and talking dirty to her, telling her what you plan to do to her and letting her know how turned on you are can be very sexually stimulating to her. Of course, not to skip foreplay. The more she gets aroused, the easier it is for her to reach orgasm.

 

(4)   There are 4 ways for you to stimulate her clitoris:

 

(a)    Fingers

 

First cut your nails. You start by stroking her thighs and caressing the areas around her clitoris before you rub softly in circular motion on her clitoris.

 

(b)   Oral

 

Create a little bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she is about to reach orgasm and gently blowing on it to increase her sensation. You can also use your tongue to lightly lick on the clitoris just like you are licking the cone of the ice-cream.

 

(c) Sexual organ

 

You can rub the tip of your ‘little brother’ against her clitoris to get her high. Another way is to get her lay on her back with legs tightly clamp close to her stomach and you slide your ‘small brother’ between her legs right where they meet with her pelvis. When you move back and forth in this position, your ‘little brother’ will brush against the vaginal outer lips as well as her clitoris.

 

(d)   Vibrator

 

Besides using a battery-powered vibrator, you can wear some kind of stretch rings around your ‘little brother’ which can offer effective stimulation on her clitoris with each thrust.

 

Now you have the basic ideas to try straight away tonight. It is always desirable if you can be as knowledgeable as possible in pleasuring her. When you are ready to find out more, you can check this out at Hot Sex and All That She Wants

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