Oral Sex – How To Lick Pussy Properly

 

 

 

 

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Oral sex is in fact the greatest gift that a guy can give to a girl. This is because most women do not reach orgasm through intercourse. The easiest way for a girl to achieve orgasm is by way of stimulation of the clitoris. Due to this reason, most women love oral sex. But not everyone can do cunnilingus well. Here is how you can give your girl the best oral experience.

 

(1)   Be Enthusiastic

 

Most women want to be assured that you are totally comfortable with going down on her. Most important she must feel that you are enjoying it. A woman’s pleasure will be higher if she can see her man is enjoying it as well. Do compliment her about her genitalia. This will boost her sexual confidence. This will also help her to relax so that she can come more easily.

 

To be enthusiastic means you must have the patience to learn and observe in what ways your partner likes to be stimulated orally. Let her guide you. Every woman is different. What is good for other woman may not be so for your woman. Communication is the key here. You have to pay attention to your partner’s moans, movements as well as suggestions.

 

(2)   Be Gentle And Sensual

 

A lot of guys make the mistake of being too enthusiastic to the point of being too rough. You should not, because the clitoris is very sensitive and you cannot treat it the way you want your penis to be treated. At the beginning you have to be gentle and this can be the biggest turn on to a woman.

 

You also have to be patient and not to rush. This is because it normally takes a woman longer to come (or cum)  than a man, on average. It is only in porn movies that women can orgasm in one to two minutes, which is not a reflection of the reality. You have to understand that women need more time to get into the mood, to build the tension and finally to release that tension in the form of an orgasm.

 

(3)   Try Various Positions

 

Oral sex can get boring for a woman if she is always lying down to receive. You can actually spice things up with different oral sex positions. In fact, when you go down on your woman in different positions, the same moves and techniques can actually feel totally different to her.

 

You can have her sit on a counter top, a couch or chair and spread her legs as wide as she can. This will give you access to the whole genital area for you to pleasure her with your mouth and hands. This will also allow her to watch as you perform oral sex on her which can be quite arousing for her.

 

You can have your girl stand up either with her feet apart or one leg on a stool or chair. This position allows her to feel like she is dominating you as your mouth has to reach up to lick her.

 

You can also position your head in a perpendicular position to her body. You will kneel at one side of her body and give her oral in this position.

 

You can have her lie flat on the bed, lift her buttocks up, and bring her knees close to her chest. This will give you easy access to lick her.

 

You also can have her squat over your face. This can be incredibly erotic to a woman especially if she is into domination.

 

You can get your girl to lie on her side and lift up the leg that is not on the bed and hold it high either with your hand or some kind of restraint. You will rest your head and neck on the other leg and eat her out.

 

(4)   Try Various Techniques

 

There are few women in the world that can resist the temptation of a good oral sex. The stimulation is intense if done properly and will highly increase the chances of your girl coming back for more. You can put that magic on your tongue by trying out some of the following techniques.

 

You can suck a mint in your mouth (not too strong or weak flavor) for a few seconds and then you begin to lick/suck her clitoris. You can then do that to her nipples too. You can blow on those areas that you have licked on. This can produce a tingly effect on the clitoris and nipples.

 

You can give her hot and cold treatment. What you need for this technique is something cold such as a glass of ice water or some ice-cubes and something hot such as hot coffee. You make your mouth cold by taking in some ice water or ice-cubes and let it linger in your mouth for a while before you swallow it or let the ice melts in your mouth. Then you perform oral sex on her with your cold mouth. You can lick/suck for a minute or two before you do a switch by taking in hot coffee to make your mouth hot. You can then perform oral sex on her with your hot mouth. You can switch between hot and cold for a few times. These two different sensations will feel terrific to her.

 

You take a straw and blow light, concentrated air on her nipples, vaginal lips and clitoris after you wet these areas with your licking. The straw allows you to be very precise about where the air hits. It also condenses the air into a small space, thus giving you greater pressure with your precision. If you want an even better effect, then you can do the same technique with mint in your mouth. You get her real wet with your mint-flavored saliva and then lightly blow on her.

 

You can use one or two fingers of each hand to fence in her clitoris. In this way, her clitoris will be nested right in the middle of your fingers. This will allow you to lick on the clitoris without fail. This technique is especially applicable if you are giving her oral sex in the dark.

 

From these tips here, you can choose which is most comfortable to you to take your cunnilingus to the next level. You may not do it right for the first time. But it is okay because practice makes perfect.

 

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How To Make Her Orgasm Quickly And Orally

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Cunnilingus, the technical term for performing oral sex on a woman, is one of the most awesome ways to stimulate her clitoris. Because most women enjoy oral sex, the act of cunnilingus can make her orgasm faster. The following tips and techniques will help to make sure this happens.

 

 

 

(1)   Cleanliness first

 

 

 

If you shave regularly, be sure to do it before you give her oral sex. Nothing kills the mood more than it feels like sand-paper on her sensitive parts when you go down on her. Trim your fingernails too because sharp nails can hurt her delicate and sensitive parts.

 

 

 

(2)   Take a shower with her

 

 

 

This is a good way to start your foreplay on her. With steamy warm water raining down on her, you start to turn her on with your kissing and touching of her from head to toe as you rub soap on her body. Having a shower together can also help to get over your (or her) uneasiness over the taste/and or smell of her genitals.

 

 

 

(3)   Do not focus on the clitoris

 

 

 

There is no need to go down immediately on her. Women love it when a man shows patience in stimulating her. Use your hands and mouth all over her body to create the anticipation and tension on her.

 

 

 

You pay extra attention on her breasts, stomach and thighs. When you pinch or rub her nipples, you will also ‘wake up’ the sensitive nerves under them which are connected to the pleasure nerves in her clitoris and vagina.

 

 

 

As you move on to her other erogenous zones, she will get to the point of being so sexually aroused – her hips are thrusting towards you and her moans pretty regular – which is a signal for you to head south.

 

 

 

(4)   Work on the areas around her clitoris

 

 

 

You begin at the very base of her vulva and work your way up slowly with a long and wet lingering lick. While doing this, make sure you pay attention to her signals – her moans and responses – so that you will know which particular move can turn her on effectively. At this point in time, you just tease her and build up her tension by spending more time working on the areas around her clitoris

 

 

 

(5)   Direct stimulation

 

 

 

A lot of women have very sensitive clitoris. Therefore your initial contact with her clitoris should be very gentle licking and not to stay too long over it. It is only when you sense she is quite close to orgasm that you start focusing on her clitoris.

 

 

 

When she is ready to receive your direct clitoral stimulation you should see either or some of these signals – she moans, her breathing becomes more rapid, her thighs pressing against your head, her hips arching towards you and her hands tightening on your head or grabbing your hair. At this point, you can apply a bit more pressure as you stimulate her.

 

 

 

If she likes intense stimulation, you can pull back her clitoral hood with your index finger and use your tongue to apply short and repetitive up-and-down or diagonal licks on her clitoris. To arouse her even more, you can take the labia (vaginal lips) or even the clitoris in the mouth and gently create a sucking sensation. You maintain the pace and rhythm of your licking and do not stop unless she asks you to.

 

 

 

(6)   Use your fingers

 

 

 

At times, your tongue may get tired and you want to catch some breath and you can continue stimulating her clitoris with your fingers. You place 2 well-lubricated fingers over the top of her clitoris and rub it either in circular or up-and-down motion.

 

 

 

You can also insert 2 curled and lubricated fingers inside her with your palm facing and at the same time rest your thumb on her clitoris. These 2 fingers will rub on her g-spot while you use your thumb to draw circles on her clitoris – this combination of clitoral and g-spot stimulation will give her double pleasure and lead her to a very mind-blowing orgasm.

 

 

 

Once you know how to push her buttons, you can keep doing it until she lets you know she wants a change. To spice things up, you can throw in a new position, location, and technique or oral tool kit. If you want to know how you can do this, you can click on Hot Sex and Turn Her On.

 

 

 

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Oral Sex Tips For Men And Women

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There are lots of ways to pleasure a man or a woman. Oral sex (performing cunnilingus or fellatio) is one of them. Many couples engage in oral sex to increase the enjoyment of lovemaking and intimacy. If you are one of those who want to satisfy your partner through oral sex, read on to find how you can make his/her thighs quiver with pleasure.

 

Performing Cunnilingus

 

(1)   Brush up your knowledge of female sexual anatomy

 

It is always helpful if you know as much as you can her body parts. Most of the effort on oral sex is about stimulating her clitoris. However not every woman is the same. While some enjoy direct stimulation of the clitoris, others prefer indirect stimulation. There are other parts of her body near to the clitoris that can be equally sensitive to oral stimulation.

 

(2)   Take your time

 

Most women need time to warm up in order to prepare her body for sex. You kiss her all over from the neck down to her crotch. You spend time on her breasts, licking and sucking her nipples. The nerves in the nipples are connected to the nerves in her clitoris and vagina, so pinching or rubbing her nipples can drive her wild. You then move to her belly and kiss around her navel. Slowly you ease your way to her inner thighs. These can help to build up the sexual tension so that she can easily get into orgasm when you reach for her clitoris later.

 

(3)   Be consistent

 

Women like steady stimulation. Quick tongue flicks against the clitoris can be irritating. Get her to give you feedback while you experiment on the different kinds of tongue strokes. Does she like circular, side-to-side, or up and down movement of your tongue? Once you know her preference, continue doing it. You will see the signs when she is almost reaching orgasm – her moans, her thighs pressing against your head, her body arching, her hands tightening on your head. She will let you know when to stop the stimulation.

 

(4)   Go for her clitoris

 

The sensation that she gets when her clitoris is being stimulated can extend deep into her body. You use your tongue to make sweeping motions along the lips of her vagina. Once you feel that she is wet, you spread out her vaginal lips and take her clitoris in your mouth to gently suck on it.

 

(5)   Use your hands

 

When performing oral sex on her, you use your hands to caress her backside and thighs to intensify her sensation. You can also use your finger to rub on her clitoris.

 

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(6)   Get him to trim a bit

 

If your guys is too bushy down there, get him to trim a bit. This is to prevent some of his hair from getting into your mouth when you perform oral sex on him.

 

(7)   Do not bare your teeth

 

When you perform oral sex on a man, make sure your teeth remain behind your lips. You should either be sucking or licking his penis and not biting it. What you should do is to press your lips firmly against his penis shaft to mimic the movement of penetration.

 

(8)   You talk dirty

 

This is applicable to both sexes. When he gets erected, you can talk dirty to him saying how much you like the hardness and tastes of his “ice cream stick”.

 

(9)   You coordinate the movement of your mouth with your hand

 

A good blow job makes use of both hand and mouth. You use your thumb and index finger to form the shape of a ring around his penis shaft while you glide your lips along the top half of his male hood. You coordinate your movement in a way so that your fingers and mouth are going up and down in unison. This can prevent his penis from going too far in your mouth if you are not comfortable with deep throat.

 

(10)   Do not forget other parts of his body

 

The scrotum (pouch of skin enclosing the testicles) and testicles are particularly sensitive to stimulation. You can lick on his testicles or gently pull his scrotum. You can also apply pressure to his perineum (the spot between his anus and his penis) with one or two fingers, as this can feel good. You can lick on his anus which can be a very enjoyable experience to your guy.

 

There you have it – some of the basics of performing oral sex. The main thing here is to take your time and be observant as you experiment. To find out more about how you can please him/her sexually, you can click on Lick Pussy and Blow Job. To improve your performance, you can take a look at the oral kit to be used on Him and Her.

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Advanced Oral Sex Tips To Please Women Sexually

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If you have already mastered the basics of performing oral sex on women and are looking for some advanced tips to keep women sexually addicted to you, you may find new ideas below. You should not restrict yourself to just one technique in performing cunnilingus. In trying to bring a woman to orgasm, you should be adventurous, creative and be attentive to what your partner is telling you both verbally and non-verbally.

 

Here is how:

 

(1)   Writing ABCs with your tongue

 

To get her gradually into the orgasmic stage, you use your tongue to “write” from A to Z on your partner’s vulva and clitoris. While doing this, you need not follow strictly the sequence of the alphabets because your main objective here is getting both of you to enjoy the whole lovemaking process. This is a very creative way in using your tongue to drive her wild and in the process you will be able to find out which “alphabets” she prefers.

 

(2)   Maintain visual contact

 

While you are busily licking the area between her legs, once in a while, do make some eye contact with her. This gives you a sort of feedback loop for both of you to indicate how much you enjoy what is happening and to give her that naughty and lustful look that can turn her on.

 

(3)   Give her room for maneuver

 

It is important to allow her to adjust her body so that your tongue is on the right spot. Therefore you should not read too much on her occasional fidgeting as a sign of displeasure. It will be better if you can get her to tell you or show you what works and what does not work.

 

(4)   Get creative with your tongue

 

You can experiment with the way you use your tongue to see how she likes to be licked. A tongue that is curled up or rolled into a tube feels different from one which is wide and flat. The tip of your tongue feels different to her than the side edge or the middle flat part of the tongue.

 

(5)   Include other parts of your body to stimulate her

 

Besides using your tongue, you can use other parts of your body on your partner’s genitals as well. Your chin, your nose and cheeks create different sensations and pressures when each of these parts is rubbed against the vulva and clitoris.

 

(6)   Tongue penetration

 

Some women enjoy the sensation of her partner’s tongue going inside her. As always, every woman is different, therefore this tongue thrusting method may not be applicable to every woman. Even for women who like this, some like a fast in-out motion while others like slow penetration.

 

     (7) Make some noises

 

The noises or moaning that you make when you give her oral sex can let your partner feel you are enjoying and this can get her feel relaxed and progress into orgasm easily. In addition to this, the vibrations on your lips as well as your exhaling will serve to enrich her sensations and raise her arousal level.

 

(8)   Add in some sucking motion

 

You can intensify her enjoyment by taking her labia (lips) or even clitoris into your mouth and gently creating a sucking sensation. Some women prefer a powerful sucking while others may just be contented with a hint of it. You can add in some more stimulation by moving your tongue when part of her labia or clitoris is in your mouth.

 

(9)   Add in some ice cubes or sex toys

 

At some point when you give her oral sex, you can slip some ice cubes into your mouth to increase the sensation and sensitivity of your stimulation effort. Move the ice-cube(s) in your mouth so that sometimes it is in your cheek to provide the alternative hot and cold sensation. You can also either use a small vibrator for external stimulation or a dildo for penetration or even something to wear on your tongue to spice up your oral stimulation.

 

(10)  Use your fingers

 

When she is high and excited, apply some lubricants on your fingers and gently insert them into her vagina. Move them in and out using short but firm strokes while you are licking her clitoris. This may not be suitable for all women, but quite a lot of them enjoy the experience of clitoral stimulation and penetration.

 

Try these 10 oral sex tips tonight to give her an unforgettable orgasmic experience. The way to get her enjoy sex with you is to be observant and willing to try. If you want to be that great lover she can live without and if you are eager to explore further on how to achieve this, you can click on Eat Pussy and Oral Kit.

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6 Things You Do Not Know About Cunnilingus

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If you are able to give your girl oral sex properly, there are higher chances she will be able to orgasm easily. The main reason is a lot of girls out there love oral sex. It is often the only way for some women to orgasm even before actual sex. It therefore helps your sex life a lot if you can get the facts correct about cunnilingus.

 

(1)   Can women reach orgasm when giving her oral stimulation?

 

Indeed for many women, cunnilingus (oral stimulation of the female genitals) is the fastest route to orgasm. Most women can climax when they are being licked compared to penetration. This usually occurs as a result of stimulating the clitoris as well as the surrounding area. The sensation that a woman can feel from her clitoris is equivalent to just how sensitive the tip of the male sexual organ is, as the sole function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure.

 

(2)   Should you touch the clitoris when performing oral sex on her?

 

Yes, you can do that but you must be careful in how you touch her clitoris. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she does not like is an over-achiever who heads right to her clitoris with an overly aggressive tongue. Whether in using your hands or tongue you should not apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off.

 

When you use your hands to touch her clitoris, make sure you trim your finger nails and apply some lubricant on your hand. The proper way is to either use your hands or your tongue to stimulate the area around her clitoris until she gets used to the sensation before going for the “jack pot”.

 

(3)   Does giving her oral sex mean just using your mouth or tongue?

 

Just because it is called oral sex does not mean only using your lip and tongue to arouse her. There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi-talented and creative man. While you are French kissing her clitoris, you can use finger to rub gently on it at the same time. You can use other parts of your body on her genitals as well. Your nose, cheeks, chin and even the tip of your “little brother” can definitely create different kinds of sensations and pressures or pleasures when each of these body parts are brushed against the clitoris and the surrounding region.

 

At times, your mouth or tongue gets tired; you can replace the stroking with a small vibrator for external stimulation or a dildo that you can use inside her. To give her additional sensation, you can have an ice cube in your mouth and alternating between having it touches her while you are using your mouth and then hiding it in your cheek. So, you can see here that your “working tools” are not just limited to mouth and tongue.

 

(4)   Is it enough just to focus on the clitoris and the surrounding area?

 

One most important thing to remember is you should not go immediately for her clitoris. In order to prepare a woman to take in some of your oral loving, there should preferably be a lot of foreplay involved. You begin by gently nibbling her ear lobes and doing a lot of kissing on her face and neck.

 

You should pay particular attention to her breasts and nipples in order to prepare her for the main event down under. The super sensitive nerves in her nipples are linked to the pleasure nerves in her clitoris, so just by gently pinching or nibbling her nipples will drive her absolutely wild. To tease her, you can begin by stimulating her nipples with your mouth and stimulating her clitoris with your fingers. After she becomes immensely aroused, switch to stimulating her nipples with your hands and using your mouth where your hands used to be. She will certainly love the varieties of sensations on each of her body parts. If you can keep your balance, you can finger G-spot as you lick her clitoris and pinch her nipples. These multiple sensations will give her an unforgettable orgasmic experience.

 

Other areas that can enrich her sensual sensations are the perineum and anus. These two areas are very sensitive to tongue licking for both sexes especially so for the tongue penetration of the anus.

 

(5)   Do all women smell down there and how to cope if she smells?

 

Some women do smell down there and this may not be due to her low hygiene standards. Her diet and a lot of other factors affecting her chemical make-up are probably the main factors. However, most women do have a more pleasant smell down there especially if they have washed well before jumping into bed with you. But there is still certain odor that no soap or fragrance can masked. This is because most of the smell comes from the love juice that she releases as she gets progressively aroused. The best solution to cope with her smell is to take a shower with her.

 

(6)   Will you get HIV or STDs through oral sex?

 

There is a risk of STDs, including genital herpes and warts contracted through oral sex. During menstruation, there is an increased risk of transmitting HIV if the woman is HIV positive. If you do not know her well, you should protect yourself using a dental dam or square piece of latex when you perform oral sex on her.

 

There you have it – the 6 basic facts about giving her oral sex. This is not a definitive oral sex guide, but it is a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques you can try to please her sexually and you can find out more by clicking on Eat Pussy and Oral Kit.

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