For Couples – How To Increase Pleasure From Sex

 

 

 

 

 

Every now and then, your sex life may need a little spicing up to keep it exciting. If you have already tried the various sex positions, role-playing, have sex outside the bedroom, it is probably the time for you to try something else. How about sex toys? You may ask why you need to use sex toys. Adult toys are a great way to break the sexual rut. They make sexual efforts easy, while maximizing pleasure and creativity.

 

Toys can be used for masturbation or to enhance pleasure from intercourse. They can make foreplay or even post coital moments fantastic. For many women, vibrating sex toys are the easiest way to help them achieve orgasm. Couples that use sex toys tend to have a strong level of open communication, trust and unconditional love for each other.

 

There are so many ways people use toys to enhance their sexual pleasure. Because they are available in various shapes, sizes and functions for pleasuring various parts of the body, you and your partner can do many creative things with just any of them. But which toys are suitable to you and your partner? What is it like to really use these toys?

 

(1) Vibrators

 

They are designed to stimulate the nerves for a relaxing and pleasurable feeling. They can be used alone for self pleasure or intercourse. A vibrator will often bring a woman to orgasm in as little as a few minutes and is a great way to start off foreplay. There are various types of vibrators with each of them offering stimulation to a certain part of the body.

 

The clitoral vibrator is used to stimulate the clitoris. The penis-shaped vibrator is used to stimulate the g-spot or for anal penetration. The rabbit vibrator offers simultaneous stimulation to the clitoris and vagina. The vibrating cock ring which is attached to a cock ring provides clitoral stimulation during penetrative intercourse.

 

Men can also use vibrators to discover new ways to feel sexual pleasure. A man can use a vibrator to explore the various parts of his body to discover any new pleasure spots.

 

(2) Penis rings

 

These sex toys can help the penis to look bigger. A penis ring can also help an erection last longer. When a vibrator is attached to the penis ring, it can help to enhance clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse.

 

(3) Ben wa balls

 

These are a set of metal balls that are placed inside the vagina and vibrate when the two balls come into contact with one another. Ben wa balls can be used by women alone, or by couples together.

 

(4) Nipple toys

 

They range from anything from clamps, vibrators to pumpers and suckers. They can allow a woman to enjoy hands-free stimulation while engaging in sex with a partner or for self-stimulation.

 

(5) Novelty condoms

 

They are also known as French ticklers. These condoms can stimulate the inside of the vagina for better sensation during intercourse.

 

(6) Wedge

 

The liberator wedge is used for deeper penetration. It is placed under her pelvis region to hoist her hips up while you are in the missionary position so that you can hit her g-spot and go even deeper. When it is placed under her tummy, it can help to prop up her body for doggie position.

 

(7) Creams and oils

 

They come in different scents, flavors and textures. They can also be used as sensual aids. They can make the skin feel smooth and soft and flavor the skin for oral sex or body kissing. They may also be used as lubricants.

 

These are some of the commonly used toys which can definitely heat things up in the bedroom. Open your mind and try them and you may have a great experience. When you and your partner are ready to experiment them for a better sex life, you can click on Dirty Harry’s Secrets and/or Pleasure Kit.

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How To Make An Already Great Sex Exciting

 

 

 

 

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Are you looking for fun and erotic gift idea for your girl? There are many ways you can spice up your sex life and one of the ways is to offer her some or a set of sex toys. You may ask, “Why would I buy a sex toy for my girl?”

 

Well, sex toys are a great way to fire up a sexual relationship that has gotten stale. Sex toys add variety and fun to the sex life of you and your partner. They keep an already great sex life exciting because they offer new ways to bring pleasure to yourself and your partner. Sex toys can be used during intercourse, or foreplay, or both.

 

Sex toys make a great partner substitute at times when either of you are not with each other or for some reasons such as pregnancy or menstruation when she is not comfortable to have sex. Some guys are intimidated by their girlfriends’ sex toys feeling that they may replace the guys in certain ways sexually. The fact is the experience for a woman being alone in her bedroom with a sex toy is very different from being with a man. Your girlfriend may enjoy using sex toys when you are not around because it makes self-stimulation easier and more pleasurable. There is no way that sex toys can replace a partner. To be jealous of a sex toy would be as absurd as her being jealous of your fingers.

 

Sex toys offer prolonged stimulation that may otherwise be difficult to sustain such as when your hands are tired or your tongue or lips may need to take a short break to get some water. Sex toys can help a partner to reach spots that he/she may not be able to or do not want to. An example of this is anal toys.

 

Sex toys can also promote good health.  An orgasm releases stress and tension. It is a great way to start the day or act as “tranquilizer” helping a person to relax before sleeping. Sex toys can help in coping sexual frustration that will allow a person to deal with all other issues they have to face with.

 

How To Choose A Sex Toy

 

If you are new to sex toys and sex fantasy kits, you may be overwhelmed by the wide range of choices being offered through various websites or racks at a local adult store.

 

Each toy has its own function as each one is created to give a special, erotic sensation. If you are looking for a creative gift idea to create a magical night for your partner, you should first think of what you like to accomplish. From here, you can proceed to look for the right toys to help make such a magical night happen.

 

The other thing you have to ask yourself is who will be using the toy. Is the toy meant for him/her to use alone or you want to use it with your partner? You should also consider your partner’s personality traits as well as your own. You have to check whether your partner is familiar with adult toys or are they comfortable with experimenting. If you first talk with your partner about this idea, you may be able to narrow down the choices to those that both of you are willing to try.

 

You may also want to consider how the sex toys should look like. Do you want the vibrator or dildo to look real? Of course the most important thing is to determine how much you are going to spend. If you are unsure of a particular type of toy, you may want to try out with a lower price model to see if it suits you before getting an expensive option.

 

Vibrators, dildos, cock rings, anal plugs and various massagers can prove to be creative, stimulating gifts. If you are looking for a night of erotic sex, these items should be included into a great sex kit for you and your partner.

 

When choosing toys, open and honest communication is very important. Do some research and learn about the different products. You may do so at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and/or Pleasure Kit

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How Do I Get Confidence In Sex

 

 

 

 

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When the time comes to having sex, instead of getting aroused, you are completely overwhelmed with anxiety. Even worse is the girl is into you and wanted sex and instead of making her feel comfortable and sexy, you end up being ‘stuck’ in your head with racing thoughts, heart pounding and having a full-blown panic attack. You feel paralyzed in your attempt to make a ‘move’ on her.  This makes you feel down since you do not meet her expectations.

 

Does this sound familiar to you? If it hasn’t happened to you as yet, you are probably aware of a friend or acquaintance that experienced it. There is enough evidence to show that performance anxiety happens to most people, whether they are men or women. But it is definitely the men that suffer the horror of not being able to satisfy their partners sexually either due to not being able to have an erection or feeling that their penis size is not big enough to give women orgasms.

 

So, how do you cope if your main worry is about size? Here are the ways you can make her orgasm easier and more often, even if you are below the average size of 6 inches.

 

(1)   Focus on pleasuring her

 

As guys, we like to assume that a bigger penis will be able to reach more hot spots inside her and this is why women prefer a huge one. In reality, size does not matter a great deal as long as you know what you are doing. Being well endowed do not automatically make you a great lover if you do not know how to please a girl. The most sensitive nerves are on the outer part of the vagina and if you can learn sexual skills to dominate her, these will turn her on many times more than the largest penis could.

 

What you lack in size, you can make up for it by learning how to turn a girl on with masculine dominance. This will include things like –

 

(a)   Talking dirty to her

 

Girls love to hear their partner’s fantasies. It will turn her on to watch you get aroused by what you are describing. A great way to sound sexy and dirty is to describe out loud what is happening during sex, how wonderful it feels in your body; telling her something you are going to do and something you want your lover to do right now. Maintain eye contact as you talk because this can give her extra pleasure. Dirty talk is not just words and phrases, but also about how you say it, which is to use your voice and sounds such as moans, groans, sighs, whispers and screaming. You can sound commanding and harsh, submissive and uncertain and everywhere in between.

 

(b)   Taking the lead

 

You have to know what you are supposed to do, be confident in what you are doing, without asking for her permission. Confidence comes from knowledge which can be acquired in 2 ways. One way is to read widely about sexuality. Another way is to pay attention to your girl to know enough about what she likes and dislikes sexually. Once you are able to know how to please her, you can apply what you have learned wisely by making modifications and adjustments so that you customize or tailor-made your moves to meet her unique needs. During foreplay, you can do a few things to ‘man-handle’ her such as spanking her or lightly biting her neck.

 

(2)   Choose sex positions that can give her g-spot orgasm

 

Here are the 2 positions that can easily make a girl orgasm

 

(a)   Enter her from behind

 

You can penetrate her from behind when she is lying on her side or standing in front of you.

 

(b)   Enter her by standing or kneeling between her legs

 

She will lay on just about any edge big enough with her feet plant on the floor and you penetrate her either by standing or kneeling between her legs. For comfort, you can put pillow under your knees if you choose the kneeling position.

 

Use these 2 tips to overcome your performance anxiety. It may take a little bit of time and effort to purge out those negative thoughts you have accumulated in the past. But once you start the ball rolling, it will pick up speed and you will notice improvement in your partner’s pleasure as well as your own.

 

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How To Rekindle Her Interest In Sex

 

 

 

 

Are you looking for ways to spice things up and reignite the fires of passion in your relationship? Has sex begun to lose its sparkle and getting so monotonous that your bedroom life has almost come to a standstill?

 

It is natural to start getting bored of sex beyond a certain period of time in a relationship. The demands of everyday life, the novelty in the relationship no longer there; inevitably this act of intimacy can become a predictable routine. We all get into these ruts. But that is not an excuse to just sit passively and let your sex life continue in this mundane manner. Read these tips to bring passion and sensuousness back into the bedroom.

 

(1)   Give her good compliments

 

She probably has heard enough of those ‘nice eyes’ or ‘sexy lips’ compliments and even more crude comments like ‘nice bottoms’. Most women have heard too much of such compliments but quality ones are rather scarce.

 

Try acknowledging how intelligent your lady is, she will appreciate it. Compliment on the things she has achieved. Men tend to overlook the uniqueness in their women. Take some time to notice the little things she put into getting dressed. Saying she looks great in her jeans is not enough, but noticing how her earrings match her clothing and shoes is a much more effective compliment. It shows you recognize the effort she puts into creating an ensemble to go out with you.

 

Quite often, guys take for granted the things their ladies do for them to make them feel comfortable. Men can never fully understand how involved with a child a good mother has to be, but you can make sure your wife or girlfriend understands just how much you appreciate her as the mother of your child. Compliment her expert parenting. Make sure you acknowledge the things she has done for you by complimenting her, and then follow it up by spoiling her in some ways.

 

(2)   Give her tender loving touch

 

What women want in bed is for men to discover every part of her body. If you gently move your hands all over her body when both of you lock lips, it will definitely get her senses tingling for more. Remember that kissing signifies adoration and admiration and nothing can be better than being adored and admired while lying naked in bed. When you kiss her, you focus on the kiss itself and not the end result. Slow down and savor the softness of her lips and the sweetness of her breath. Enjoy her body and make sure you run your fingers all over her body. Notice how her skin feels and how she reacts.

 

(3)   Give her pleasant surprises

 

Do not under-estimate the element of surprise. It is thrilling and gratifying and the effort of arranging one will show her how much you care. Do something unexpected such as coming home with a special gift. Surprise dinner always works wonders. Restaurant reservations are an easy way to accommodate one. You make the reservations and then call her to meet you at a location near the restaurant. When she arrives, be there with a special gift or a bouquet of flowers and reservations in hand. If you have enough confidence in your cooking skills, make her a romantic dinner at home. The key is to do something unexpected and she is much more apt to be touched by your gestures.

 

(4)   Set the mood

 

It is important to create and set a light and romantic scene. Think about what is in your bedroom that reminds you of sex. It is often the small touches that make a difference. Warm vibrant colors like red, pink and orange enhance sensuality. Replace fluffy toys and old blankets with arousing aroma such as lavender and rose to stimulate the senses. Lay out clean bed sheets and pile your extra pillows on the bed.

 

Play her favorite songs, preferably the ones that can get both of you into the right mood. Light up a few scented candles. Reposition the mirror to get a more exciting view. It is really sensuous to make love while watching each other’s bodies in the mirror.

 

(5)   Try something new

 

Anything novel or exciting is likely to drive up the levels of her sex-related hormones in her body. You need to know about the sexual techniques to make sure you have all the required knowledge. You should take the time to read self-help books and watch great movies about sex. When you are using the best sexual techniques and are not afraid of doing a little extra work, you will have a better total experience. You will be able to keep both of your libidos where you want it to be.

 

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Sex Tips – How To Make Her Want You

 

 

 

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Do you want to have a good time in bed? Do you want your partner to need you so much that she becomes the one who is initiating sex most of the time?

 

How to have great sex? To certain people, great sex is about rehearsing some sex positions that they read from a self-help book. But it is more than that. You have to arouse your partner and yourself every time when you jump into the bed. You have to be comfortable with what you are doing, your partner has to be aroused by you and you also need to be turned on by your partner. In other words, great sex should be mutually satisfying.

 

Here are a few things you can do that can help her to reach orgasm easily and make your ego feel a lot better.

 

(1)   Sensual touch

 

Touching is very important and is also one of the easiest ways to please her. Women respond very strongly to touch. Make sure you combine every of your touch with eye contact. Keeping eye contact with her will add an amazing amount of emotional intensity to your touch.

 

Take the time to caress her ears, nape and hair will be fantastic in heating things up. You kiss her softly on her back, chests or breasts, down to her tummy and inner thighs. You treat every area of the body as an erogenous zone, even touching and kissing those off-neglected areas such as the neck, throat, inner arms and eyelids. During touching, you pay attention to how she reacts to your various ways of stroking and adjust according to her preferences. All these moves will definitely turn her on.

 

(2)   Setting the mood

 

Setting a comfortable environment is the key to preparing for sex and ensuring a satisfying experience. Ambiance is very important for the proper sexual mood. Accentuate your room by getting some candles. It will be better to use scented candles such as chamomile which can help to relax the body and make the atmosphere more conducive.

 

Make sure the room temperature is not as hot as a furnace or as freezing cold as a refrigerator. Playing some instrumental music (or depending on what arouses your partner) is good for keeping her in the mood. Make the room smell sweet, relaxing and enticing.

 

(3)   Oral stimulation

 

Oral sex is a great gate-way to intercourse. Lick her slowly all around. It is only when her clitoris is swollen and her breath is getting short and rapid that you start to lick on it firmly. You explore the entire area around the clitoris with your tongue and lips. As she gets more aroused, you can spend more time directly stimulating her clitoris.

 

Try alternating between slow and fast, up and down, side-to-side tongue flicks when you are on her clitoris. Use your hand to supplement your tongue action by caressing the insides of her thighs, rubbing her breasts and squeezing her nipples. When you sense she is getting close, from her physical and vocal responses, you maintain a rhythm that suits her, providing consistent pressure on her clitoris until she reaches orgasm.

 

(4)   Be creative

 

You get a self-help book which tells about the various lovemaking positions. You read this together with your partner. After this both of you can discuss and decide the new positions that will be more intimate in lovemaking. Both of you can also experiment with role-playing by dressing (or even cross-dressing) and acting as someone you always desire to be. You can also use adult toys to help you last longer when you are stimulating your partner. You can consider light bondage such as blind-folding and hand-cuffing to sharpen the sexual response when one of the senses is being blocked out.

 

Lovemaking should always be comfortable and done in a way that satisfies both of you. Learning how to have great sex is essential to keep the relationship with your partner stronger.

 

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