Female Orgasm – How To Arouse A Woman In Romantic Ways

 

 

 

 

 

How to arouse a woman? How to make her wet? How to get women horny? What are the ways and things you can make a woman sexually aroused? Read below for answers to these questions.

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In order to arouse a woman, you have to make an effort in your foreplay for her. What I mean foreplay here is not just the things you should do in the bedroom before sex. In facts, there are lots of things or preparations you should do. In my definition, foreplay has two aspects. One is the emotional part and the other is the physical aspect.

 

What is emotional foreplay? It is a series of things outside the bedroom that you have to do as a great lover or partner in making her feel totally comfortable with you. It plays an important role in building up sexual intimacy. To be good in your emotional foreplay, you will have to make her feel loved and appreciated.

 

You will treat her as a person you are deeply in love and not just an object or outlet to vent your sex needs. You have to be romantic by giving her pleasant surprises which can be some small gifts (which she has always wants) or in the form of gestures. When you are not with her, you can romance her with sms text messaging.

 

Communication and emotional connection are both very important foundation for a strong relationship. You need to be patient and listen to her without interruptions her needs, wishes, concerns and problems.

 

You must first resolve any underlying issues outside the bedroom if you want to have a great sex life. If she is not so keen in sex, you have to find out the reasons. Sometimes, she may be troubled by certain conditions such as vaginismus (painful intercourse) or excessive and colored vaginal discharge. Besides getting her to seek medical treatment, you can search online for some self-help guides on vaginismus cure and how to treat yeast infection.

 

Once you have taken care of the emotional aspect of the foreplay, you can now work on physical aspect of the foreplay. In order to be effective in pleasing and teasing your woman, you will have to take things slowly. The longer you build anticipation, the more pleasure she feels when you reach her hot spots. You do this by deliberately leaving out her most obvious erogenous zones (nipples, clitoris) initially and instead spending more time on her less obvious ones which can be more sensitive to stimulation during the early stage of foreplay.

 

To make it sensationally intense for her, you can practice some light bondage by way of blindfolding her. As she is not going to know where you will be touching her next, this can be very arousing to her. In touching her, you can impress her with your creativity. There are many things in your house that can be used as sex tools. For example, you can use lightly stroke her with light feather that can be very ticklish and arousing. While touching her, you can either sweet talk or dirty talk to her.

 

At this point, your main aim is to give her pleasure and make it mutually enjoyable. Though it is best to give her an orgasm, you should not make having an orgasm the main goal for every intercourse session. This will put undue pressure on your woman, making it difficult for her to achieve orgasm.

 

There is no one-size-fit-all way in arousing a woman. You have to customize or make special adjustments to the sexual techniques you master, in order to be effective in helping her to have the best orgasm she ever gets. You have to pay attention and observe how her body reacts to your move and touch.

 

Does she put her arms around you or caress you when you touch or penetrate her? If this happens, this means you are doing the right thing. Does she push you back or cover herself up? If this is so, you will have to make changes in your moves. Does she synchronize her movement with yours such as moving her hips in time with your thrust? If this is so, this means she is enjoying what you are doing to her. Does her breathing get more rapid? This is often a sign of she is quite close to orgasm.

 

How do you know if she is aroused enough? When she is wet down there, does this mean you can stop your foreplay? Many guys have this wrong assumption that when a woman is wet, this means she is ready for sex. Well, this is not so. When she is lubricated, it means her mind is starting to get sexual but still far away from the stage when she is about to orgasm. A clear sign of her been highly-aroused is when you see her vagina swollen or bulging due to increased blood flow to this region. You will see her clitoral hood covering her clitoris in contrast to the beginning when the clitoris is partially-exposed.

 

Though every woman is different, but for most women, the most effective way to arousing them is by way of clit stimulation, which is the easiest and best way to female orgasm. You can stimulate her clitoris by your hands, your mouth and tongue, your sex organ and sex toys. The best way is to let her have her first orgasm through clitoral stimulation before you enter her. She will then be very sensitive to your subsequent moves and will be able to achieve multiple orgasms.

 

What I suggest is 60% of your effort will be what you should do to please her when outside the bedroom. Once you do this well, you can be very sure, she will be very receptive to what you are going to do her in bed.  This is 60% emotional (laying the foundation) and 40% physical action in the bedroom.

 

For more ideas to make a woman want you, read on more to discover the Secrets of Female Orgasm and to find out What She Wants.

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How To Turn A Girl On – Give Her Pussy-Vibrating Orgasms

 

 

 

 

 

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What can you do if your sex life has turned somewhat dull and dreary? Have no worries! There are plenty of ways you can do to spice things up by making her melt under your tender loving care and giving her the best sex ever. Here are some ideas you can use to turn the heat up in the bedroom.

 

(1)   Warm her up first

 

To a woman, sex is more than just penetration. Men can get hard on very fast if they come into contact with sexy women. For a woman, emotions play a greater part in turning her on. A woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ. It is the starting point for female orgasm. This means you should never grope her right down there. Make your woman feel wanted and appreciated and make sure you connect with her at an emotional level.

 

A good way to get her into the mood is to explore and act out her fantasies. So, why not, and have some dirty talk with her? If she is too shy to open up, you can tickle her fantasy by reading to her some pages from those erotic adult literature. Or, you can watch an erotic film together. Some of the scenes in the suggestive videos can give both of you a few fantasy ideas to start with.

 

(2)   Seduce her

 

If you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do, focus sometime on foreplay to make sure she is adequately aroused first. This will actually intensify her orgasms later. Ambience plays a great deal in making sex awesome. Play some romantic, sensual music to get her in the mood.

 

For a start, do not undress her completely. You let the rough texture of her clothes work a little magic on her bare skin. There are thousands of tiny nerve endings on her soft, sweet lips. You will be pleasantly surprised by how she can get so easily turned on by just kissing her. The trick is to start with slow and gentle kisses and tease her playfully. When you kiss her, do look into her eyes as you run your fingers down the back of her spine. At this stage, you refrain from heading straight for her genitals. You use your tongue to work its magic on her erogenous zones, from her ears, her neck, her navel and move down to her inner thighs and toes. When she expects you to go for her breasts and clitoris, purposely avoid them. This will escalate her sexual tension so that when you finally decide to reach those erotic zones, her chances of achieving a powerful and squirting orgasm will increase tenfold.

 

When she is sufficiently aroused and stimulated, you can move on to her clitoris and start gently. Experiment with different tongue movements and intensity and see what gives her the most pleasure. If you are not sure what works best for her, you can observe how she stimulates herself by way of masturbation – the motions, the angles and the intensity she uses on herself. Then you replicate these movements on her.

 

(3)   Get naughty

 

Nothing gets a woman more aroused than the risk of getting caught in the act. After she enters into the fitting room of a retail store to try on some dresses, you slip in unnoticed, watch her undress, caress her and get in the act, in the midst of other shoppers in the background. You can have some wild sex in the balcony, on the hood of your car in a deserted gravel road, in a quiet park, or on the beach. Have intercourse in a standing position near to the window.

 

Sometimes you may need a little help to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along a sex toy? Sex toys are great ways to learn about a woman’s body and what turns her on the most. If she has a vibrator, ask her to show you how to use it.

 

Use these tips for a start to spice up sex and give your wife or lover the best sex that will blow her mind. If you need more ideas to please her, check out Hot Sex and/or Make Her Cum.

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How To Get High In Bed For As Long As You Want

 

 

 

 

Are you having difficulties in trying to get an erection or to stay high? A limp erection can destroy a relationship or complicate it if it is a repetitive occurrence. Your girl friend may assume you have lost interest in her. This can leave you frustrated and both of you may start getting annoyed with each other for no particular reason.

 

But have no worries because this can happen once in a while to even normal and healthy guys. You are probably getting bored of the routine after a few years, even if you have a very attractive partner. Or, you may have performance anxiety issues and feeling very stressful in trying to give your girl a good time. The brain is your main sexual organ. Almost all the time, an erection is all in your head.

 

If you are not suffering from any medical conditions and still have difficulties in keeping it hard, the following ways can help you to keep it up and get you high all the time.

 

(1)   Indulge in your fantasies and talk about them

 

As the relationship matures, you need to come up with new ways to spice up sex. Indulge in something that gets your heart racing and your sex life will get super sexy. You can bring your wildest fantasies alive by talking about them with your partner and acting them together.

 

The way to do is to distract yourself from your little head and use your big head in bed. You can start by talking to her seductively and enticingly by inventing a fantasy in your mind or you can whisper dirty nothings into her ears. Indulging in dirty talk and fantasies can help reignite the pleasure of sex for both of you.

 

(2)   Think and get kinky

 

Sometimes, all you need to bring your little brother up is a whole new sexual experience. Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex when the relationship is starting to slow down in bed. You can talk about your secret fantasies and fetishes with each other and indulge in them.

 

You can have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed. You can take turns applying edible body paint on each other. This can make eating in bed so much more tasty. You can role-play with each other by dressing in character or as other person.

 

Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and light bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think. The world can get dark with blindfolds, but this will open up your sexy imaginative mind. You can mix it all up with some spanking and nibbling or even a handcuff which is a great turn on for bondage sex. Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right place and right time, even pain can be a huge turn on.

 

You can make out or have sex while someone may be around or watching, like on the rooftop or under the stars on a beach or in public places such as restroom, dark corner of a club, changing room in a clothing store, on a flight, a train or a bus that is making the last trip of the day. You can make out on someone else’s bed when you are attending a house party or when a wedding celebration is going on. You can finger her under a restaurant. But just make sure that the table-cloth is big enough to cover your indecent public act.

 

(3)   Do not get too focus on your little head

 

What you should do is to concentrate on satisfying and pleasuring your partner. When you spend too much time pondering over how erect you are, you can kill the fun which will in turn kill your erection. Talk with your partner to explore ways she likes best to please her. During foreplay when you touch her, observe closely her reactions and her body signals which can help you to identify her highly sensitive spots.

 

Take your time and do not rush. This is because foreplay always helps a guy to hold on longer. You may think there is no point in doing this but by spending 15 minutes on foreplay before penetration, your little brother will have more time to warm up for the act. Also do not masturbate too often. Though this can be good to control premature ejaculation, but this will not be good if you want to keep it hard for a long time.

 

These are the 3 tips to get you started. For further reading on sexuality matters, you can click How To Keep A Hard Erection . For more kinky sex ideas, you can visit Dirty Harry’s Secrets

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How To Arouse A Woman In Bed

 

 

 

 

In order to please a woman and make her want you more, getting her turned on is the single most important aspect of every sexual encounter. Luckily, there are many ways to go about achieving this. Following are just a few of those various techniques that can ensure your woman gets in the mood as often as you wish.

 

(1)   Make her feel good

 

A woman’s main sexual organ is her brain. The best and most effective way to turn her on is to make her feel good, relaxed and sexy. No matter how busy you can be, this step is not to be skipped. Going straight for the lower part of her body when her brain or mind is not yet ready can only turn her off.

 

For many women, getting in the mood requires being both emotionally and physically ready. Do not rush. Instead, you take the time to stroke her hair, rub her shoulders and basically just hold and touch her. When you are out in public, you hold her hand. Make sure you tell her that you find her to be beautiful and sexy.

 

Also do take the time to kiss her neck. Just press the tip of your tongue against her skin and kiss her softly. Kissing any part of the neck will get a woman in the mood. Do not miss her ear lobes, the back of her ears. Lightly nibble and kiss on these areas can also arouse her a lot.

 

(2)   Seduce her with dirty talking

 

This is another good way to seduce her brain and make a woman turned on. Do not be creepy about it and try not to be too vulgar unless you know that it gets her in the mood. Lean in close and whisper into her ear all of the things that you have thought about doing to her. For example, if you and your partner both enjoy it when you perform oral sex on her, try describing it from your point of view. Talk about how much you love touching her body and how it feels like to touch her with your tongue. The more descriptive you can get, the better dirty talk will be.

 

Once your partner is aroused, you can start complimenting her body. For the best dirty talk, do not say general things. Instead, you focus on one particular area of her body and describe it in detail, including what you like about it. For example, you can sit between her legs and talk about how you like to watch her open and close them.

 

Another dirty talk technique you can use is simply telling your partner all those naughty sexual thoughts you have, such as watching her perform oral sex on another woman. Because this is pure fantasy, you know this is something that is unlikely to happen in real life and neither do you want it to happen. Encourage your partner to share her sexual fantasies. The more open you are, the easier it will be for her to let loose. Lightly kiss her on the ear from time to time while telling her all these. Do not spoil the mood by sticking your tongue in her ear in a rough way.

 

(3)   Tease her with aphrodisiacs

 

Confucius once said over 5,000 years ago, “Food and sex are part of human nature.” Therefore when it comes to making a woman horny, one of the most effective ways is to play around with aphrodisiac. Obviously, the most common is chocolate; however, there are numerous others less obvious options to choose from that can help bring out that dormant sexual desire that you are looking to release from your partner. Incorporate these aphrodisiacs into snacks, deserts and meals.

 

(4)   Pamper her with a seductive massage

 

No woman in her right mind is going to turn down a massage. As such, you offer your woman a massage; just incorporate some seemingly innocent and subtle actions into the massage that can get her attention and/or raise her desire to have sex. Whether you let your hands ‘do the walking’ on her body or you gently put the print of your lips on her neck as you rub the tension out of her shoulders, adding a seductive element to a massage is a sure bet to get her love juices flowing.

 

The above 4 ways to turn a girl on can be done inside and/or outside of the bedroom, with clothes or without clothes. But if you take the time to practice on her properly, for sure, it will be very hard for you to stay fully clothed because she will not allow you to and more than that she may start grabbing the lower part of your body. If you want to find out more ways to arouse a girl, you can click on Hot Sex and Best Lover

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How To Get A Woman To Act Wild

 

 

 

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Does your woman behave like a cold fish in bed? Have you ever wished she could have been a little naughtier like talking dirty or saying things like ‘fuck me hard’, ‘I want to fuck you right now’, or you like her to grab your dick out of the blue when out somewhere or just anywhere? If you do, here are some ways you can bring out her hidden wild side and mold her into the lower scale nymph which you want her to be.

 

(1)   Tell her it is okay to be dirty, naughty and bad

 

All girls have a naughty side to them, especially the good girls who have been suppressed throughout their life. They are the ones that usually want very much to release their bad girl side if given the chance, even though they are the most innocent on the outside. Women are conditioned to fulfill the role of ‘good girl’. Therefore you have to give your woman the permission to break out of that mold, to change from being daddy’s and mummy’s good daughter to being your ‘hot girlfriend’.

 

(2)   Overcome her fear of rejection

 

One of the reasons she may wants to pretend to be a good girl is because of her fear of rejection. The best way to overcome her fear of rejection is to give her the power to pleasure you and herself. If she jokes about being blindfolded, or making out in the wilderness, do something like that. Let her overcome her fears and you will see how uninhibited she will be when both of you are in it.

 

Another way to overcome her fear of rejection is to show her you are up for it by sending out subtle signals. This can be as simple as lounging around in a bathrobe after a shower, or dimming the lights and playing her favorite sexy music. This will create a relaxed but suggestive atmosphere where she is pretty sure she will not be rejected.

 

(3)   Make her feel sexy

 

Compliment the way she looks when both of you go out. Tell her how much she turns you on. Place your hand on her lower back, and tell her how badly you want to run your hands all over her. Plant a long kiss on her in the morning and tell her you cannot wait to ravage her later. Make her feel seductive when she is out and she will reciprocate in bed.

 

(4)   Boost her confidence

 

If she does not like to reveal flesh, hiding her body under sheets and pillows when you are with her, it is probably because she is not comfortable showing it off to you. To keep her at peace with her body, go for general compliments like – ‘Your body is incredible’. The reason is women can be weird in certain ways; if you say something nice about her breasts, she will wonder why you do not like her buttocks.

 

If she is squeamish about giving you oral sex, you guide her. When she starts giving you mouth-to-south resuscitation, you take her hands off your thighs and hold them with yours. Then you guide her hands to your penis so they form a tube around it. As her mouth goes up and down, you rotate her hands clockwise and anti-clockwise. This smooth sailing will boost her confidence with her hands acting as a comfortable bumper between the 3 inches of her mouth and the 5 inches or more of your penis.

 

(5)   Encourage her to act out her fantasies

 

The truth is that every woman has a hidden fantasy. Encouraging her to talk about it is the first most important step. If you give her permission, gain her trust, soon she will open up and tell you her real feelings, which you should respect and never joke about. Once she has your confidence she will reveal to you a very different character – you never knew existed.

 

The next step is to encourage her to act out her fantasies. The first fantasy many women have is to believe that they are having sex with a virgin. Let’s assume you are a virgin and that she is Miss Gaga. This turns out to be something like a power game for her, a sort of forbidden activity she is indulging in. Ask her to dress like a secretary for you with a close fitting mid length skirts and a shirt that is unbuttoned to reveal a sexy push up bra. Just asking her this will get the fun goes on.

 

Throughout the process, you let her take the initiative and you cheer her on. When it comes to the undressing part, do so reluctantly and take it along very slowly which can add to the enjoyment. Many women like to have a lot of foreplay before the main act, just oblige her.

 

So, go on prepare for a night of wild passion, which you have always dreamed of. At the same time, you can give her a squeaky-clean source of dirty ideas and ‘cheese cake recipes’ by referring her to Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

 

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