Problem-Solving Sex Positions For Couples

 

 

 

 

Want to have a baby? How to build confidence in bed for her? How to increase pleasure for her? How to last long? What to do if she complains of pain during intercourse? Is it due to your big size penis? If it is so, how do you overcome this? Or, if you feel you are small down there, how to make it feel big for you and her? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Sex Positions To Get Pregnant

 

(a)    The man-on-top position works well in getting her pregnant. During intercourse, deep penetration will help to minimize the amount of ejaculate leaking out. After withdrawing the penis, press her vaginal lips together to prevent further leakage. She should remain lying on her back for an additional 20 to 30 minutes preferably with her lower back supported by a small pillow so her pelvis is tilted slightly upwards. This will allow the sperms enough time to easily swim up through the cervix.

 

(b)   Lying side-by-side is a more relaxed position and is easier for a partner who is overweight or has a back problem. You can do this either face-to-face or in the spoon position with you entering her from behind.

 

(c)    Doggie position (entering her from behind) will allow you to enter with deeper thrusts and deposit the sperms close to the cervix.

 

(d)   On edge position is when she positions herself at the edge of the bed or couch and you enter her from either a standing or kneeling position.

 

(2)   Sex Position To Build Confidence For Her

 

If she is lacking confidence in bed, the best way to overcome this is to let her take control. This will mean allowing her to be on top of you. This can be done by kneeling, squatting, facing you or her back facing you.

 

(3)   Sex Positions To Increase Pleasure For Her

 

(a)    She will be squatting on top of you with her hands on your body for support. Instead of her rocking backward and forward, she will slide herself up and down with the penis inside her. This position lets her vary the pace and depth of thrusts which helps put her in control of her orgasm. Squatting will help her to feel the entire length of your shaft as she encircles it, and the muscle tension created by holding herself above you can add to the intensity of her pleasure. The friction from this up-and-down movement will give her amazing sensations all along the edge of her vaginal opening when she pumps shallow and on her g-spot when she pumps deep. If she chooses to lean backward and rest her hands on your thigh and knees the sensation will even spread to her clitoris.

 

(b)   In this lying on the side face-to-face position, she will raise her leg and allow you to slide inside her, and then drape her leg over yours. Try to arrange it in such a way that her feet are braced against a wall or footboard. In this way, she can use the strength in her legs to give her the action she wants. This side-by-side position allows her to have a firm, full-body contraction in order to reach the next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm. She can choose the type and level of stimulation she wants by resting her thigh on you or lifting her thigh. She will enjoy greater stimulation on the inner walls of her entire vagina by resting her thigh on you. If she lifts her leg and opens up, she allows you a bigger range of motion, which can help her to get intense clitoral stimulation while on her way to orgasm.

 

(c)    She will lie down on the table with buttocks near the edge. You will enter her while standing between her legs, holding on to her hips for leverage. She can either rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of table. This position allows you to stimulate her clitoris easily. To increase the chances of her getting an orgasm, get her to lift up her buttocks or slip a pillow or a love cushion which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to her genitals.

 

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(4)   Sex Positions To Last Longer

 

(a)    Penetration in standing position can help you to last longer. This is because by standing up you are drawing blood away from the genitals and into your legs which makes lasting longer easier.

 

(b)   If you let her get on top of you, you can last longer. This is because when she is on top, you can fully relax all your muscles, which can help to delay your orgasm. Put your hands on her hips to guide her in how she moves to prevent her from giving you too much sexual excitement.

 

(c)    Missionary with her ankles on your shoulders. In this position, you will be on your knees and after you enter her, you spread your knees as wide apart as possible until you can feel the groin muscles stretching. This will put pressure on your groins which will cause energy and blood to flow there and away from your genitals, making lasting longer much easier.

 

(5)   Sex Positions To Avoid Painful Intercourse For Her

 

(a)    The woman-on-top position allows a woman to control the depth of penetration if deep penetration hurts. This position allows you to add more pleasure to intercourse by caressing her breasts or clitoris

 

(b)   Another good position for her to avoid painful intercourse is for both of you to lie on your sides, either with you behind her (spooning), or face-to-face

 

(6)   Sex Positions For Small Penis

 

(a)    She will sit on top of you, grinding herself forward and backward instead of up-and-down, to prevent your penis from slipping out.

 

(b)   Missionary with her ankles crossing behind your neck. This position will tighten her vaginal canal which is a great way to squeeze you and making you feel big inside her

 

(c)     She will lie face down with legs stretched out and open slightly. Her buttocks will be raised a little allowing you to enter her from behind. You can prop yourself up with your arms for more range of motion.

 

(7)   Sex Positions For Big Penis

 

(a)    When she is on top of you, she will move her hips in circular motions as she glides up and down, only going as deep as she can handle. Or, you can sit on a chair without arms and just let her straddle on your laps either facing you or away from you, using your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.

 

(b)   She will lie on her back, lifting her legs so that they are pointing at the ceiling. You will kneel in front of her with your back straight, wrapping your arms around her thighs as you enter her. This is a shallow penetration position giving a lot of chance for the tip of the penis to rub against the area around the vaginal opening. This means your most sensitive part (penis tip) will be in contact with her highly sensitive area near the vaginal entrance which has a lot of nerve endings there.

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Is Circumcision Good For Sex

 

 

 

 

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What are the effects of circumcision on your sex life? Does foreskin matter when it comes to sex?

 

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The function of foreskin

 

To answer the above questions, first, we need to know what role the foreskin plays in your sex life.

 

The foreskin acts as a shield for the sensitive glans (head) of the penis. It keeps the glans moist and prevents it from brushing against your underwear. Frequent rubbing of the glans against fabrics can gradually cut down the sensitivity of the glans. This can also cause the skin over the glans to get thicker and drier and less sensitive.

 

The foreskin is an area rich with nerve endings and is very responsive to stimulation. Inner foreskin and frenulum (an elastic band of tissue under the glans that connects to the foreskin) are the most sensitive areas of the foreskin.

 

During intercourse and masturbation, the foreskin slides along the head of the penis. This sliding motion stimulates both the foreskin and the head of the penis. Also the existence of natural lubricants on the foreskin means there is no need to use any lubricants for sexual intercourse and masturbation. Actually, this can cut down the possibility of painful intercourse for the female partner.

 

It is widely believed that painful intercourse is due to the lack of lubrication from the female partner. But it can also be due to the lack of natural lubrication as a result of the removal of the foreskin. To compensate for the decreased sensitivity, there is a tendency to thrust vigorously, which is another reason for dyspareunia (painful intercourse).

 

The foreskin cuts down the friction between the penis head and vaginal wall. Without the foreskin, there will be a lot of constant direct rubbing of the head against the mucous membrane on the vaginal wall. This also explains the pain and the tendency towards dryness that some women experience when having sex with a circumcised male.

 

How to have greater mutual sexual pleasure for a circumcised male

 

(1)   Choose the best sex positions that are mutually pleasuring

 

(a)    The woman-on-top position is a good choice because it allows a woman to adjust the speed and depth of penetration. To make this position more pleasurable, she can move her lower body up and down instead of the normal back and forward motion. She can alternate between deep and shallow thrust to both stimulate the clitoris and the g-spot. When she leans backward and rests her hands on your legs, the sensation will spread to her clitoris and at the same time her lower part of the body will be opened up for you to fondle.

 

(b)   Another position to consider is the side-to-side position. Both of you will face with each other, with the female partner raising one of her legs up to facilitate penetration. This position will prevent vigorous thrusting. The female partner can choose to rest her leg over your body to offer greater stimulation of the inner vaginal walls. She can also choose to keep her leg raised to offer you a bigger range of motion which can help her to get intense clitoral stimulation.

 

(c)    The modified doggie position with the female partner resting her arms flat on the bed with a pillow under her belly. She can arch her back upper or lower to control the depth of penetration. This is the perfect position to hit her g-spot. You can use a circular motion to offer more stimulation to the highly sensitive parts near to the vaginal opening.

 

(d)   The modified missionary with support where she positions her buttocks near to the edge of the bed. You will put one or two pillows or a wedge under her pelvis region. After you enter her in a standing position, you bring her legs together to create this tightness feeling on the penis for greater sexual pleasure. This position offers both stimulation to the clitoris (during shallow thrust) and the g-spot (during deep thrust). This position is also great for guys with premature ejaculation problems. When you stand, part of the blood flow to the penis will be diverted to your legs which will prevent extra sensitivity.

 

(e)    The penetration in kneeling position is quite similar to the above position with only two differences. Her buttocks will not be near to the edge of the bed and you will enter her in a kneeling position. You will still put one or two pillow or a wedge under her pelvic region and hold her legs together.

 

(2)   Use lubricants

 

The best is to use water-based lubricant which can be applicable to all situations. Oil- and petroleum-based lubricants are not suitable if you use condom. Before you enter her, apply some lubricant on your palm and rub your hands together to warm it up. Then spread it over the tip of the penis and down to the shaft before you enter her.

 

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How Do I make A Girl Orgasm

 

 

 

 

How To Let Her Have The Strongest Orgasm

 

According to some studies, 15% of women never experience an orgasm and 50% to 75% of women do not reach orgasm during intercourse. Therefore the chances of you being able to make a girl orgasm are quite low. Do you want to increase the chances of women reaching orgasms when they have sex with you? Here are some ideas that you can help a woman to get there.

 

(1)   She has to be comfortable first

 

All our desires originate from our minds. Therefore a woman has to be completely relaxed in order to have an orgasm. If she is stressful, very concerned about how her body looks in front of the mirror and wondering if she is abnormal because she seldom or can’t orgasm, for sure she will not be able to orgasm.

 

To keep her mind at ease so that she can get in the mood, reassure her that she is adorable and praising the positive aspects of her at every opportunity. When the moment arrives, you can start by taking a shower together which will give you lots of chances to touch each other. After this, you can pamper her with an erotic massage. This should be a perfect foreplay to start with.

 

(2)   Give her lip service

 

Almost every woman loves oral sex. Most women can easily reach orgasms through clitoral stimulation rather than during sexual intercourse. You can tease her clitoris by using your tongue to draw circles around it. When she is getting more aroused, you can mix up your tongue movements with left-to-right and up-and-down.

 

During the process, she can give you feedback about her preference by verbal or non-verbal means such as squeezing your hand twice if she is uncomfortable. To give her extra pleasure, you can pucker your lips around her clitoral tip and gently apply suction. This can increase blood flow to the clitoris and make it even more sensitive.

 

(3)   Use your fingers

 

You can enhance the effects of oral sex by using your fingers to rub on her g-spot. This should only be done when she is highly aroused. This is because under normal condition,  it can be quite difficult to reach for her g-spot, which is located about 2 inches deep from her vaginal opening. Make sure you trim your fingernails and preferably you lubricate your fingers for easier entry.

 

When you finger your girl, find a position you feel comfortable with. You may like to position either by facing her, perpendicular to her or side-by-side with her. Whatever position you choose, when your fingers are inside her, they should be pressing against her belly. While fingering her, you should continue with clitoral stimulation either using your tongue or your thumb to rub on the clitoris. This combined action if done properly will give your girl not only one orgasm but multiple orgasms. When she orgasms, her vaginal muscles will contract and squeeze against your fingers and you should only pull out your fingers after her muscles relax.

 

(4)   Get into position

 

At this stage, it will be best to get into those positions that will continue to stimulate either the clitoris or the g-spot.

 

(a)   Penetration with support

 

She is lying on her back. You can either place a pillow or a wedge under her buttocks to elevate her hips so that they are almost at right angle to the bed. To keep the position stable, press her knees against her chest as you penetrate her. This position allows you to reach her g-spot easily.

 

(b)   Legs on shoulder

 

She will place her ankles on your shoulders. You will push her knees towards her chest in order to raise up her hips. You will penetrate her in this position. The advantage of this position is that it allows double stimulation. Your penis will stimulate her g-spot. You can use your fingers to rub her clitoris.

 

(c)    Enter from behind

 

This is the doggie position that many women like because it also offers easy stimulation of the g-spot during penetration. Same as the above position, you can also use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris.

 

These tips here should increase the chances of your girl at least having an orgasm. Most important, just be patient and do not pressure her. She may or may not orgasm sometimes ( not your fault or hers). But be patient. Practise these tips will definitely make her orgasm most of the time.

 

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Sex Positions That Please A Woman And Make Her Orgasm At Least Once

 

 

 

 

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Do you ever wonder why she is less interested in sex? Or, when you initiate sex, she says she has a headache. Perhaps it is time for you to make some changes in your bedroom routine and get creative by experimenting with some sex positions you never try before.

 

If you want to please a woman and make her orgasm whenever you are in bed with her, you will not achieve much unless you know the differences between the sex positions. These differences may have something to do with the way the position increases the chances of providing more or prolonged stimulation to the clitoris and g-spot as well as helping you to last longer. You may have one or two favorite sex positions. However, if you want to continue to have intimate moments with your girl, you have to learn more about other sex positions that you can try during lovemaking to keep things going hot.

 

(1)   Woman-on-top positions

 

This position puts a woman in total control of the movement and allows deep penetration

 

(a)    Instead of the usual kneeling, she can choose to squat. The usual forward to backward movement can be switched to upward and downward.

 

(b)   In the usual woman-on-top position, you bend your knees so that she can rest her back on your knees. This position allows her to adjust herself in a way that increases the chances of rubbing her g-spot. You can also take the chance to use your hand to stimulate the clitoris.

 

(c)    You sit on a rocking chair. She will either sit facing you or her back towards you on your lap as she positions herself to let you enter her.

 

(d)   While on top of you, she faces your feet. This is the perfect position to rub her g-spot. You can bend your knees to allow her to rest against your knees. Some women feel that they enjoy sexual fantasies more when they face away from their partners.

 

(e)    You sit on the floor with your legs straighten out. She will sit on your lap wrapping her legs around your waist as she adjusts her lower body to allow penetration. This position allows both of you to touch and hug each other. It is very intimate and the pelvic rocking gives a wonderful sensation to her.

 

(2)   Standing positions

 

(a)    She stands facing the wall and bending forward. You hold her by the hips and enter her from behind. She can either allow you to completely dominate her in this position, or she can use the wall to push back against you as you thrust. This is one of those positions that will open her up for deep penetration and will increase the chances of stimulating her g-spot.

 

(b)   In this more advanced standing sex position, she will slightly separate her legs and bend over to grab her knees. You will enter her from behind. Heights issues can be overcome either by you bending slightly at your knees or she stands on a stool or stair step.

 

(c)    This position will require you to stand at the edge of the bed. She will lay on her back with buttocks on the edge of the bed. She will rest her feet on your shoulders while you lift her buttocks to penetrate her. She can also rest her legs on your arms or wrap her legs around you as you thrust her.

 

(d)   This is a reverse of the position just mentioned. She will stand adjusting her body for penetration while you will sit at the edge of the bed.

 

(3)   Rear entry positions

 

(a)    She lies on her stomach with her hips slightly raised while you enter her from behind. She can put a pillow under her upper body to adjust the angle of penetration. As you enter her, you will push together and separate her buttock cheeks. Every time you do this, it will change the sensation just a bit, making the tension tighter and then loose.

 

(b)   She will squat in a position like a frog. This will mean her hands and feet are on the bed with her knees up. She should put the majority of her weight on her legs and hands as she leans slightly forward. You will then penetrate her from behind. She can bounce up and down a little on you to enjoy herself in this position.

 

By now, she should be moaning in pleasure as you try one of the positions listed above. If these do not work, do not blame yourself and do not give up. You can try other methods of stimulation from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm.

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Pleasuring Women Tips – The Sex Positions That Guarantee G-Spot Orgasm

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are you the one who usually initiate sex? Have you ever wondered why your woman does not enjoy sex as much as you do? According to the Durex Global Sex Survey, only 17% of women are likely to have an orgasm during sex. So, why aren’t women enjoying sex? If you want more sex from your women, you have got to learn how to please her, so that she can have orgasms. Now, relax, take a deep breathe and let these tips help you to explore the ways to turn her on.

 

(1)   It starts with a kiss

 

Unless she is already highly aroused, there is no way you can just plunge right into sex without kissing her. Kissing is one of the most sensual acts and every woman loves to be kissed. It is central to pleasuring women. Without kissing, sex is just sex.

 

You start by taking her upper lip in between both of your lips and gently suck and squeeze it. You can give her a playful and passionate kiss by pressing your lips against hers or against her cheek and then breath in and out quickly through your nose.

 

You can also give her a neck kiss. To make this kiss perfect, you go light on the tongue and wetness, keeping the movements slow but try not to stay in the same place for too long. Light sucking can also be used and you could try going further down. Have you ever tried kissing her earlobes? You put her earlobe in between your lips and softly tug and pull on it. You may use a little tongue flicking or nibbling on her earlobe if you want to go a step further.

 

(2)   Appreciate the whole body of your partner

 

You have to be sensual with every inch of her body which is covered in sensitive nerve endings. This will arouse her more since this is what a woman wants. Women need to be touched all over first. Do not go for the sexual parts of her body first because there is a good chance that she will get turned off by it. Sexual parts also include breasts. Many women feel quite vulnerable when it comes to their breasts, so you should give your lover some time to settle into the sense of arousal in her body first.

 

Before going to her hot spots, you can go to those often neglected erogenous zones. The beauty of targeting these regularly avoided areas is that it can feel amazing to a woman when these areas suddenly get some attention. Tenderly kissing and licking the wrist and stopping for a gentle nibble on the meaty part between her wrist and thumb will be a sensation she is unlikely to have encountered. Other areas to target are the underside of her arm where the forearm meets the upper arm and the sensitive skin on the underside of the arm, just down from her armpit.

 

You can use the heel of your hand to press underneath her belly button. This is a good way to externally target her g-spot as you thrust inside her. You trace your fingers from the top of her butt along the line where the small of the back curves into the buttocks (known as the sacral crease) and follow up your movement with kisses. The buttocks themselves are a strong erogenous zone. You give this area a mixture of light and firm kisses or can even finish the kissing of each buttock cheek with a naughty bite. You start with a light stroking or caressing massage and save the hard stuff, like firm squeezing or light spanking only when she is fully aroused.

 

The skin behind the knees is thin and soft. Therefore, it is very responsive to touch because the nerves are close to the surface. So, lightly kissing and licking in this area can be very highly sensual for her.

 

The inner thighs are incredibly erogenous zones because of the psychological tease of anticipating where you may head next. Since they are quite highly sensitive area, just the lightest touch will have her aroused. Besides using your hands, you can lick up and down the inner thighs. You can also use a small vibrating sex toy on this area to entice a different sensation.

 

(3)   Get into some women-friendly sex positions

 

(a)    Get your girl to slowly lower her body onto your pelvis, sliding your penis inside her as she goes. Rather than sitting in a straddle position, she will raise herself up in a squatting position and resting her hands on your thighs, stomach, or upper chest for support. Rather than going forward and backward like the usual woman-on-top position, she will slide herself up and down your member by lifting her lower body up and down. This position can both provide enough stimulation to her clitoris and g-spot.

 

(b)   Both of you will face each other on your sides. She will raise one of her legs to let you slide inside her, after which she will drape her leg over yours and tightly around it. Some women require a form of strong muscular contraction to get to that next level of stimulation that leads to orgasm. This side-by-side position allows her to have that firm, full-body contraction while staying in motion. When she presses her leg against yours, this can help to stimulate the inner walls of her vagina and by relaxing her legs and opening them somewhat; this can offer you a bigger range of motion which can help her to get intense clitoral titillation on the way to orgasm.

 

(c)    You get her into a doggie position. But instead of staying on her hands and knees, ask her to tilt her shoulders downwards with her forearms flat on the bed. Put a pillow under her pelvis. Then you enter her from behind. This position will allow deeper and more intense thrusting and can easily hit her g-spot.

 

(d)   You get into the normal missionary position with her legs apart. Once inside her, ask her to bring her legs close together. You hook your ankles around her calves and raise yourself up slightly on your hands with a small arch in your back. By closing her legs, this will get you feel tight and big as well as giving her sustained clitoral stimulation.

 

(e)    You put one or two pillows or a specially-designed love cushion under her pelvis so that her lower back and buttocks are raised off the bed at a 20 to 30 degrees angle. You enter her at this angle which will allow you to hit her g-spot easily.

 

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