Oral Sex – How To Lick Pussy Properly

 

 

 

 

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Oral sex is in fact the greatest gift that a guy can give to a girl. This is because most women do not reach orgasm through intercourse. The easiest way for a girl to achieve orgasm is by way of stimulation of the clitoris. Due to this reason, most women love oral sex. But not everyone can do cunnilingus well. Here is how you can give your girl the best oral experience.

 

(1)   Be Enthusiastic

 

Most women want to be assured that you are totally comfortable with going down on her. Most important she must feel that you are enjoying it. A woman’s pleasure will be higher if she can see her man is enjoying it as well. Do compliment her about her genitalia. This will boost her sexual confidence. This will also help her to relax so that she can come more easily.

 

To be enthusiastic means you must have the patience to learn and observe in what ways your partner likes to be stimulated orally. Let her guide you. Every woman is different. What is good for other woman may not be so for your woman. Communication is the key here. You have to pay attention to your partner’s moans, movements as well as suggestions.

 

(2)   Be Gentle And Sensual

 

A lot of guys make the mistake of being too enthusiastic to the point of being too rough. You should not, because the clitoris is very sensitive and you cannot treat it the way you want your penis to be treated. At the beginning you have to be gentle and this can be the biggest turn on to a woman.

 

You also have to be patient and not to rush. This is because it normally takes a woman longer to come (or cum)  than a man, on average. It is only in porn movies that women can orgasm in one to two minutes, which is not a reflection of the reality. You have to understand that women need more time to get into the mood, to build the tension and finally to release that tension in the form of an orgasm.

 

(3)   Try Various Positions

 

Oral sex can get boring for a woman if she is always lying down to receive. You can actually spice things up with different oral sex positions. In fact, when you go down on your woman in different positions, the same moves and techniques can actually feel totally different to her.

 

You can have her sit on a counter top, a couch or chair and spread her legs as wide as she can. This will give you access to the whole genital area for you to pleasure her with your mouth and hands. This will also allow her to watch as you perform oral sex on her which can be quite arousing for her.

 

You can have your girl stand up either with her feet apart or one leg on a stool or chair. This position allows her to feel like she is dominating you as your mouth has to reach up to lick her.

 

You can also position your head in a perpendicular position to her body. You will kneel at one side of her body and give her oral in this position.

 

You can have her lie flat on the bed, lift her buttocks up, and bring her knees close to her chest. This will give you easy access to lick her.

 

You also can have her squat over your face. This can be incredibly erotic to a woman especially if she is into domination.

 

You can get your girl to lie on her side and lift up the leg that is not on the bed and hold it high either with your hand or some kind of restraint. You will rest your head and neck on the other leg and eat her out.

 

(4)   Try Various Techniques

 

There are few women in the world that can resist the temptation of a good oral sex. The stimulation is intense if done properly and will highly increase the chances of your girl coming back for more. You can put that magic on your tongue by trying out some of the following techniques.

 

You can suck a mint in your mouth (not too strong or weak flavor) for a few seconds and then you begin to lick/suck her clitoris. You can then do that to her nipples too. You can blow on those areas that you have licked on. This can produce a tingly effect on the clitoris and nipples.

 

You can give her hot and cold treatment. What you need for this technique is something cold such as a glass of ice water or some ice-cubes and something hot such as hot coffee. You make your mouth cold by taking in some ice water or ice-cubes and let it linger in your mouth for a while before you swallow it or let the ice melts in your mouth. Then you perform oral sex on her with your cold mouth. You can lick/suck for a minute or two before you do a switch by taking in hot coffee to make your mouth hot. You can then perform oral sex on her with your hot mouth. You can switch between hot and cold for a few times. These two different sensations will feel terrific to her.

 

You take a straw and blow light, concentrated air on her nipples, vaginal lips and clitoris after you wet these areas with your licking. The straw allows you to be very precise about where the air hits. It also condenses the air into a small space, thus giving you greater pressure with your precision. If you want an even better effect, then you can do the same technique with mint in your mouth. You get her real wet with your mint-flavored saliva and then lightly blow on her.

 

You can use one or two fingers of each hand to fence in her clitoris. In this way, her clitoris will be nested right in the middle of your fingers. This will allow you to lick on the clitoris without fail. This technique is especially applicable if you are giving her oral sex in the dark.

 

From these tips here, you can choose which is most comfortable to you to take your cunnilingus to the next level. You may not do it right for the first time. But it is okay because practice makes perfect.

 

Do come and take a look at Dirty Harry’s Secrets and Endless Pleasure to get more inspiration and ideas to improve your oral sex performance.

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6 Things You Do Not Know About Cunnilingus

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If you are able to give your girl oral sex properly, there are higher chances she will be able to orgasm easily. The main reason is a lot of girls out there love oral sex. It is often the only way for some women to orgasm even before actual sex. It therefore helps your sex life a lot if you can get the facts correct about cunnilingus.

 

(1)   Can women reach orgasm when giving her oral stimulation?

 

Indeed for many women, cunnilingus (oral stimulation of the female genitals) is the fastest route to orgasm. Most women can climax when they are being licked compared to penetration. This usually occurs as a result of stimulating the clitoris as well as the surrounding area. The sensation that a woman can feel from her clitoris is equivalent to just how sensitive the tip of the male sexual organ is, as the sole function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure.

 

(2)   Should you touch the clitoris when performing oral sex on her?

 

Yes, you can do that but you must be careful in how you touch her clitoris. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she does not like is an over-achiever who heads right to her clitoris with an overly aggressive tongue. Whether in using your hands or tongue you should not apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off.

 

When you use your hands to touch her clitoris, make sure you trim your finger nails and apply some lubricant on your hand. The proper way is to either use your hands or your tongue to stimulate the area around her clitoris until she gets used to the sensation before going for the “jack pot”.

 

(3)   Does giving her oral sex mean just using your mouth or tongue?

 

Just because it is called oral sex does not mean only using your lip and tongue to arouse her. There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multi-talented and creative man. While you are French kissing her clitoris, you can use finger to rub gently on it at the same time. You can use other parts of your body on her genitals as well. Your nose, cheeks, chin and even the tip of your “little brother” can definitely create different kinds of sensations and pressures or pleasures when each of these body parts are brushed against the clitoris and the surrounding region.

 

At times, your mouth or tongue gets tired; you can replace the stroking with a small vibrator for external stimulation or a dildo that you can use inside her. To give her additional sensation, you can have an ice cube in your mouth and alternating between having it touches her while you are using your mouth and then hiding it in your cheek. So, you can see here that your “working tools” are not just limited to mouth and tongue.

 

(4)   Is it enough just to focus on the clitoris and the surrounding area?

 

One most important thing to remember is you should not go immediately for her clitoris. In order to prepare a woman to take in some of your oral loving, there should preferably be a lot of foreplay involved. You begin by gently nibbling her ear lobes and doing a lot of kissing on her face and neck.

 

You should pay particular attention to her breasts and nipples in order to prepare her for the main event down under. The super sensitive nerves in her nipples are linked to the pleasure nerves in her clitoris, so just by gently pinching or nibbling her nipples will drive her absolutely wild. To tease her, you can begin by stimulating her nipples with your mouth and stimulating her clitoris with your fingers. After she becomes immensely aroused, switch to stimulating her nipples with your hands and using your mouth where your hands used to be. She will certainly love the varieties of sensations on each of her body parts. If you can keep your balance, you can finger G-spot as you lick her clitoris and pinch her nipples. These multiple sensations will give her an unforgettable orgasmic experience.

 

Other areas that can enrich her sensual sensations are the perineum and anus. These two areas are very sensitive to tongue licking for both sexes especially so for the tongue penetration of the anus.

 

(5)   Do all women smell down there and how to cope if she smells?

 

Some women do smell down there and this may not be due to her low hygiene standards. Her diet and a lot of other factors affecting her chemical make-up are probably the main factors. However, most women do have a more pleasant smell down there especially if they have washed well before jumping into bed with you. But there is still certain odor that no soap or fragrance can masked. This is because most of the smell comes from the love juice that she releases as she gets progressively aroused. The best solution to cope with her smell is to take a shower with her.

 

(6)   Will you get HIV or STDs through oral sex?

 

There is a risk of STDs, including genital herpes and warts contracted through oral sex. During menstruation, there is an increased risk of transmitting HIV if the woman is HIV positive. If you do not know her well, you should protect yourself using a dental dam or square piece of latex when you perform oral sex on her.

 

There you have it – the 6 basic facts about giving her oral sex. This is not a definitive oral sex guide, but it is a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques you can try to please her sexually and you can find out more by clicking on Eat Pussy and Oral Kit.

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Oral Sex – How To Eat Pussy

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Lick Her Till She Begs You For More

 

Cunnilingus (or oral sex) which is oral stimulation of the vulva and/or clitoris is one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. She may be too shy to tell you how much she loves oral sex, but nowadays most women expect to be orally stimulated prior to sexual intercourse. Oral sex, when performed masterfully on a girl can make her feel loved, sexy and horny with greater chances of achieving screaming orgasm. The rare man who can perform cunnilingus superbly will always be greatly appreciated, considered an incredible lover and will be the most sought after man. Here is how to give your lover amazing oral sex and be the best she ever had.

 

(1)   Take Your Time

 

A huge mistake that men make during cunnilingus is to rush through it. You should gradually build up the stimulating pressure and pleasure and let her reach orgasm naturally, without feeling being rushed. This will ensure that when she orgasms, it will be so much more powerful that she will keep coming back for more.

 

(2)   Tease Her First

 

Women love to be teased emotionally, physically and sexually. The better you tease her, the more she will enjoy your oral stimulation. Kiss and lick on her inner thigh which is a very tender area on her body. As you are getting quite close to her vaginal opening, you move away just when she expects you to stick your tongue inside her.

 

Instead you gently lick the surrounding areas such as the crease where her leg meets the pubic region, the area around her vaginal opening, the perineum (the area between the vaginal opening and anus) and the anus itself. There are hundreds of sensitive nerve endings in these areas. A few moments of licking on these surrounding areas and she will be bucking up and begging to get more of your face closer to her.

 

Gently kiss on top of her vaginal opening and then kiss a little harder. Use your tongue to lick on her inner vaginal lips. Continue to lick from her perineum up to her clitoris following the outer edges of her vagina along both sides. Treat her vagina like a juicy Popsicle and let her hear your sucking and licking sounds down there to show her you are enjoying every inch of hers. This will make her melt in your mouth.

 

(3)   Tongue Fuck Her

 

Expose her clitoris by spreading her vaginal lips and lightly pulling back the clitoral hood. Take her exposed clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it, at the same time flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressive.

 

Get her to tell you what motion feels the best, what speed and what pressure can turn her on the most. Some women love an up-and-down licking motion; others like it to go from side to side like a windscreen wiper, and others may prefer a circular or pressing-down motion. Every woman is different and there is no one best way in doing this.

 

(4)   Finger Fuck Her

 

As you are licking and sucking her clitoris, insert your middle and index fingers about two inches inside her with the main aim to find and stimulate the g-spot. You will do this only when she is fully aroused because if she is very wet, her g-spot will be swollen which makes it easier for you to locate.

 

A woman can have an orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris alone, but you can give your partner an even more powerful orgasm by stimulating her g-spot with your fingers at the same time when you are giving her oral sex. This will either help her to have a g-spot orgasm or a combination of clitoral and g-spot orgasm at the same time.

 

(5)   Add In Some Props

 

Take a break if you need one, but avoid stopping suddenly because it can be very frustrating for the woman. You can use a vibrator to take over the job of stimulating the clitoris and g-spot. You can also use a variety of flavored gels, oils and lubricants which when rub on to her can offer extra stimulation. You can have a mint or cough drop in your mouth when performing cunnilingus to create a very tingling sensation for her to enhance your performance.

 

(6)   Hang In There When She Cums

 

When she starts to have an orgasm, continue licking on the clitoris, but gradually reduce the intensity of your stimulation. If your fingers are inside, do not pullout.

 

Remember that all things are subjective and the best way to please your woman is to read her body language to gauge her likes and dislikes. The real magic of oral pleasure is to do the unexpected and as you put these ideas to use, remember to be as creative as you can.

 

Read on more from Pussy Licking Joy and/or Oral Enhancement Kit for more tips to get a girl to enjoy sex with you.

 

 

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