Sexy Moves To Get A Man Hard

 

 

 

 

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Are you getting less than the amount of sex you want? Are you looking for ways to get your man in the mood? Want to know what a man wants?

 

At times, your guy may need a little more than a grope to get him into action. If he is turned on in the right way, his body will become more receptive and his orgasm more intense. Follow these tips and make your man crazy for you.

 

(1)   Give him visual stimulation

 

Men are visual creatures. A man’s brain chemistry changes when he is presented with a sexy image. Therefore flaunting your body will make his desire climb. Let him see you undress. Play up to his eyes with a slow, seductive striptease and watch him go weak at the knees. It will be best if you can torture him in a good way by letting him look and not allowing him to touch. To really titillate him, let him sneak a peek at the good stuff – your breasts, buttocks and inner thighs – and then cover up again. When you are down to the last piece of cloth, removes it painfully slow to build up the sexual tension.

 

(2)   Give him pleasant surprises

 

To turn a man on, everything is in his head. While physical attraction may be important, it also takes a few mind games to surprise and seduce your guy once in a while to keep the heat on in your relationship.

 

At times, when he returns from work, you surprise him in your sexiest undies or whatever he likes. When he is taking a shower, you unexpectedly join him and slowly soap up his entire body. It is pretty obvious to the both of you that at this moment getting clean is not the top priority. Your man will be so aroused that he can barely wait to get you into bed.

 

Once in a while, send him some playful, devilish phrases by way of texting or write them down on his date planner. These phrases can be like “Thinking of you makes me wet”, “I want sex tonight”, or “Sex @ 7pm”. The key is to make him feel like what you are doing is sexy and he will always get aroused by you.

 

(3)   Show him what works

 

Showing your man what turns you on can be just as arousing for him. If he misses the mark, guide his hands with your own to any part of your body you want him to be. Gently run your fingertips around your breasts as you two enjoy foreplay to let him catch sight of the way you like to be touched.

 

When he is on top, you put your hands firmly on his buttocks, to let him know how fast or slow you want him to move. When you are ready, you pull him deeply inside you. When you reach orgasm, you put your hand over his heart. If he can see the pleasure he is giving you, it will boost his confidence and help him to relax and get hard.

 

(4)   Bring him to the edge

 

Use the start and stop trick to tease your guy mercilessly and bringing him close to climax repeatedly in order to give him an intense orgasm. When you are jerking him off, alternate attention between the tip of the penis (which is extremely sensitive) to the base (which can take more stimulation). Read his body language to determine when he is close to exploding and you ease off. If you do not want him to climax yet, move your focus to another lusty location. This will keep him at a highly aroused stage but still allow him to hold back his climax. When you are ready to finish him off, his orgasm will be more powerful later.

 

Use these tips to get your man to appreciate your body, desire you and feel lucky to have you. Be sexually unpredictable and he will awe you. Gets his horny mind working and he will always get aroused by you.

 

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Couples Sex – How To Make It Fun

 

 

 

 

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Are you happy with your current love life? Do you usually feel too tired to have sex at the end of the day? Has the idea of being romantic with your partner losing its luster? Face it; sex will not be fun if there is not much substance to it. However, when you make some changes to your normal acts in the bedroom, everything just gets a lot more interesting and exciting. Use these tips from now on to heat up the temperature in your bedroom.

 

(1)   Take your time

 

The importance and key objective of foreplay is to build anticipation. Prolonging the undressing part can heighten the pleasure. As a woman, you can tease your man by letting him sneak a peek at your good stuff – breasts, buttocks, inner thighs – and then quickly cover up again.

 

When you finally get down to removing your panties, you do it painfully slow to keep his blood pressure rising. Once you are naked, you tease him by twisting your body over him in different directions, arching your back, letting your breasts brush against his face and chest. He will be yearning for your touch when you finally press your body against his.

 

For a guy, you should avoid the tendency to go straight for the genitals and breasts. Take things slowly. Concentrate on giving your woman the best kiss she ever had. Start kissing her everywhere (forehead, nose, cheeks, and eyes) but the mouth. This will drive your woman crazy and keep her in anticipation.

 

Hug her tightly without suffocating her. Start with slow open mouth kiss and tongue-contact. Between kisses, you move your head to the other side of her face. Changing direction keeps the kissing fun. Move your hands around and explore her whole body while kissing.

 

(2)   Pamper each other’s body

 

You get your man to lie down on his back and you rub his body with oil and cream. Be careful not to push down too hard on his stomach and delay touching his genitals until the anticipating is excruciating. You mix up your sexual touches with hard massage, long nail strokes and surprise pinches all over his body to pique his pleasure.

 

From the bottom of the rib cage to the hips is a nerve which is said to link to the genital area. When you touch this area, it can reflexively cause the muscles around the genital area to contract in both men and women, which is very arousing. Apply a firmer touch on this area, since it is more ticklish than other spots. Start on one side at just underneath the rib cage and either stroke the area with your hand or alternate between light and heavy kissing down to the hipbone. You take turns on doing this to each other.

 

For a guy, you should treat every area of her body as an erogenous zone. Make sure you touch and kiss those usually neglected area such as the neck, throat, inner arms, stomach and eyelids before moving on to the breasts and thighs.

 

There is another area which can spark more goose pimples for both sexes. It is the little indentation where the neck connects with the collarbone. The skin is thinner there which makes this area very sensitive to touch.

 

(3)   Bring him/her to climax

 

When you move down to your guy’s lower body, you draw a circle around his genital region with your lips. The whole area from his upper thigh to lower belly is sensitive and the teasing from your mouth will excite him but still allow him to hold back his climax.

 

Read his body language to determine when he is close to climax and then ease off. When his body tenses up, you know he is quite close. If you do not want him to climax, you can switch your focus to another erotic location. When you are ready to finish him off, you can go directly on his genitals and blow-job him to orgasm. You can then switch over to let your guy stimulate you.

 

For the guy, you touch and kiss the inner thighs and slowly moving to her pubic region before moving to the clitoris. You watch her body language to determine when she is close to orgasm. When her breathing gets more rapid, her body tenses up, her hand pressing your head close to her body or her body aches closer to you, and if you see one or more of these signs, this will indicate she is quite close. When this happens, you can go directly to her clitoris, steadily increasing the pressure and pace of clitoral stimulation until she orgasms.

 

There is no set formula to great sex but these above-mentioned tips will give you a good head start to a better sex life. You can read on more from Hot Sex and Eternal Flame

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Sex Tips – How To Be Confident

 

 

 

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How to make a woman enjoy sex with you so that she will beg for more of you? Do you want her to love sex as much as you do? How to make her addicted to you sexually? How to be the special and rare guy who will give her the best sexual experience she ever had? Read below to get answers to these questions.

 

(1)   Be confident in sex

 

Women desire a man who always project dominant manly traits. Men who show sexual confidence are big turn on for women. Women desire a guy who knows what he is doing, how to please them enough to light the fire deep inside them. During sex, she wants you to lead the situation, to manhandle her, press your body against her and not to be afraid to take the upper hand.

 

The foundation of confidence is knowledge. This means requiring you to learn about sexuality and master it such as how to give oral sex, how to perform good foreplay, how to touch her sensually, understand a woman’s erogenous zones, how to kiss and where to kiss. So, when you are free, do make an effort to do some reading about sexuality matters.

 

This alone is not enough because when comes to sex, every woman is different and has her own likes and dislikes. Therefore, you need to pay attention, to find out what she wants by observation and through daily conversation. This is to avoid you from blindly applying everything that you read on her, without taking into consideration her unique needs. By paying attention, you will be able to tailor-made or customize your actions specifically for her.

 

(2)   Good foreplay

 

Women desire more foreplay. They are complex creatures, so one minute of kissing is not going to satisfy them. A woman wants you to touch her, grab her and play with her until she begs you. For many women, it is good to make sure she has an orgasm before intercourse, from either manual stimulation or oral sex. This is because after she has already climaxed, she will be aroused and able to enjoy sex more fully.

 

Foreplay should not be limited to the physical aspect. For women, sex is not just physical. It also includes the emotional aspect as well. For this reason, foreplay should start long before the act of intercourse. You need to learn her likes and dislikes, be attentive, notice and remember even the small little details that turn her on, learn most if not all of her erogenous areas and the things that put a twinkle in her eyes such as sweet smelling oil and an erotic massage.

 

To avoid sex from becoming boring, you need to be inventive and creative to give her something new to make her realize you enjoy and want to fulfill her needs and desires. Good foreplay is about knowing how and when to push the right emotional buttons to start the physical aspect of lovemaking. You need to pay attention to every part of her body as well as knowing how long to spend in one place, because not enough time equals frustration and too much time can cause soreness or numbness.

 

(3)   Choose those sex positions that women favor

 

(a)   Woman-on-top

 

She straddles your body on her knees (or squats over you), facing away from you. The advantage for her is deeper penetration as well as better control. This position also gives her better chances of reaching her g-spot. The benefit for you is that she can caress your thighs and scrotum and you can caress her buttocks and back. To take the pressure off your pelvis, she can lean forward on your thighs or backward on your chest.

 

(b)   Modified missionary

 

You enter her as you would in the standard missionary position. Instead of spreading her legs, you lift her knees to her chests and hook her ankles over your shoulders. You support your weight on your hands. This will give you deeper penetration and stimulation of the back wall of her vagina. If her legs are tired, she can rest them on the bed. To lift up her lower body so that it is easier for your penis to reach her g-spot, you can put one or two pillows or a specially-designed love cushion underneath her pelvis region.

 

To do something different, you can switch to enter her in the normal way, but lie across her pelvis, while still supporting your weight on your elbows. She will enjoy it because it stimulates the side of her vaginal wall, something she does not experience before.

 

(c) Modified rear entry

 

While you sit on a chair or edge of bed, she lowers her body to your penis. She controls the movement and penetration which can be pleasurable for both of you. You get to caress her breasts and clitoris to offer additional stimulation. This position is also good for g-spot stimulation.

 

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Sex Tips – What She Wants

 

 

 

 

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As guys, we always like to assume that we know everything about our women that have been sharing the same bed with us for many years. You believe you know what she is thinking by the way she looks at you, just like the way she seems to always know what you want before you do. However, there are things like hidden fantasies, unshared longings, fetishes and other matters that she may be too shy to talk about.

 

Here is a list of some of women’s secret wishes based on the feedback from over 700 women.

 

(1)   A caring partner is more sexy

 

Women appreciate a guy who is supportive and sensitive especially when they are upset. Putting your arm around her, handing her a tissue and listening to her – these are small but powerful ways to connect to her and help a lot in deepening the relationship. At times, when a woman is distracted by certain libido-killing matters (such as stressful work or lack of sleep) it will be a big turn-on if you can be as supportive as you can in some ways such as running some small house-related errands, helping in the dish-washing.

 

(2)   She expects you to be a good lover

 

Women like a man who knows what he is doing, who can take charge and who will make an effort to find out what she likes and dislikes. A lot of women lose interest in sex because their husbands are, or become lousy lovers soon after marriage.  Women read sex advice, but men seldom. If you want to please a woman, it helps a lot if you can do some reading on your own about sexuality-related matters. Better still, if you can read this together with her so that you can at the same time share with each other the things both of you will like to do to spice up sex. These readings can give both of you ideas and get you physically and mentally excited before you enter the bedroom.

 

(3)   She does not like to be hurried

 

Unless she is already highly aroused, most women prefer their lovers to be a bit more patient with them in bed. Women want to feel connected, understood and to be romanced before they can get turned on. This means spending time talking and touching her long before you reach the bedroom. Women like to be told they look nice and they like a man who notices this without being told. If she is looking particularly attractive in a sexy new dress, or in a new haircut, do let her hear about it before she mentions it. Most women also appreciate some simple romantic gestures (intimate dinner, pampering her with erotic massages, taking a bath together) and will often reciprocate these after the lights are off.

 

(4)   Simpler can be better

 

I am all for experimenting with sex positions which can be fun and in the process you discover what works for her. When you read about some of the sex guides, they may introduce you to some sex positions that seem more fitting on a gym class field day than for you. There is no need to be overly fancy during sex. Whatever position you choose, make it a point to adopt those that offer lots of opportunities to stimulate the clitoris by using your fingers or hers, with sex toys, or by pressing herself against your body. In almost all cultures and throughout time, there are 3 basic sex positions that have ruled and probably highly underrated.

 

(a)   Missionary

 

This will be a simple modification of the normal missionary position which is merely in-and-out thrusting. You place two or three pillows under her buttocks to lift her lower body off the bed at an angle. This position will allow you to rub against her clitoris and at the same time hit her g-spot when thrusting.

 

Another way is when you penetrate her, you keep as much of the base of your penis in contact with her outer vaginal lips as possible and have her grind against you in circles.

 

This modified missionary position is also quite good for her too. When she is lying on her back, you pull her knees up to her shoulders, lifting her pelvis so that her vagina points up almost to the ceiling. This position allows deeper penetration and chances to contact the g-spot.

 

(b)   Woman-on-top

 

You place two fingers so that each finger will rest on either side of your penis. When she rides on you, the area between the two knuckles will be in direct contact with her clitoris. This position will offer stimulation to her clitoris and inner vaginal lips.

 

(c) Guy-behind-girl

 

When you enter her from behind, you can use your fingers or a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. This position will also give you higher chances of hitting her g-spot.

 

The lists here are by no means exhaustive. You can read the rest of them from Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm if you want to lead her to easier orgasm, higher arousal and better lubrication

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How To Make A Girl Orgasm Over And Over Again

 

 

 

 

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According to several major surveys, only 25% of women have orgasm during intercourse. Why is it so difficult for a woman to reach orgasm during sex? Do you want to learn how to please a woman so that she can achieve orgasm as often as she wants? If you are looking for ways to satisfy and impress her, here are some tips you can use immediately.

 

(1)   Be romantic

 

First of all, you have got to know a woman’s orgasm begins in her mind. This means she will need to be seduced both mentally and physically in order for her to climax. If you are dating a new woman, you get her heart beat faster (and her mind in the mood for orgasm) with thoughtful gestures and pleasant surprises. If you are in a long term relationship with the woman in your life, you treat her like it is your first date.

 

You get her in the mood for passionate lovemaking by showing how much you care for her and how much you want to please her. Surprise her with a home cooked meal or some small gift, or a romantic gesture, then flirt outrageously with her.

 

Set the stage for a passionate encounter with soft lighting and sensual music. Prepare her for the inevitable climax by building up flirtatious touches and sexy strokes on her body everywhere. A woman will feel orgasmic when you are taking charge and knowing what you are doing. Stare straight into your woman’s eyes, pin her down, kiss and stroke her neck, wrists, inner thighs and other erogenous zones until she reaches orgasm. If you want to give your woman the best sex she ever had, you can talk dirty to her at the same time.

 

If you have built the sexual tension correctly, you can give your woman an orgasm easily. To be romantic means putting your woman’s emotional and sexual needs first and using your hands, tongue to make her orgasm before you reach climax. If you can give her the best orgasm, you are also more likely to get them in return.

 

(2)   Stimulate her clitoris

 

This is the key to female sexual arousal because most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration. The clitoris is what gives women the most pleasure and the most pain during sex. Therefore the most important thing to remember when stimulating her clitoris is to adopt a balanced approach. Too much stimulation will make her clitoris so sensitive that she will feel uncomfortable. Too little stimulation will never make her orgasm.

 

For most women, it is better to focus attention on the clitoral hood first before direct contact with the clitoris. Once you have stimulated a woman’s clitoris sufficiently, orgasm is sure to ensue. Because every woman is different on what pleasures her the most, it is better to experiment with your partner and find out if she likes her clitoris to be stimulated directly or indirectly.

 

Be sure to mix up your actions by varying not only what part of your hands you use, but also the pressure and speed. Pay close attention to her breathing and body language. Feel free to ask her specific questions such as does she like it faster or slower. If your hands are tired, you can get the help of a vibrator. This will show her that you are willing to go the extra mile to please her.

 

(3)   Give her oral stimulation

 

Use your tongue and lips to bring pleasure to your partner. Many women love the feeling of cunnilingus and adore partners who pay homage to their clitoris in this intimate way. Encourage her to relax and focus on the sensations by blindfolding her and making yummy moans and groans while you go down on her. Instead of going straight for her clitoris, you spend plenty of time on her outer and inner vaginal lips.

 

If you build the proper anticipation she will be pressing your head closer to her body to show you that she is ready for more direct stimulation of her clitoris. Feel free to experiment with the different kind of licks, varying the pleasure and speed, but when you find one movement that sets her off, stick with it and you will be pleasantly rewarded.

 

(4)   Adopt clitoris-friendly positions

 

Women’s clitoris usually does not get much direct stimulation from intercourse but ingenious choosing of sexual positions remedy this. Allow your women to ride on top of you. Make a V with your 2 fingers and place them in such a way that each of your fingers is on either side of your penis as she rides on you. This will stimulate her clitoris and vaginal lips.

 

You can penetrate her from behind and at the same time play with her clitoris using your fingers. You can also use a small vibrator for extra intensity. When you are in the normal missionary position, you can put on a cock ring that vibrates against her clitoris during penetrative sex.

 

If you want your woman to have an orgasm easily, you have to start before the lights go out. Your woman’s orgasm begins right at the moment you tune into her mind and make her feel like a sexiest woman. For more information on how to make this happen, click Hot Sex and Make Her Orgasm

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